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Concern For Lesbian, Gay, and Bisexual Kids
Concern For Lesbian, Gay, and Bisexual Kids
Schneider, Owens
AND / LESBIAN,
URBAN SOCIETY
GAY, AND
/ May
BISEXUAL
2000 KIDS
CONCERN FOR LESBIAN,
GAY, AND BISEXUAL KIDS
The Benefits for All Children
MONICA E. SCHNEIDER
ROBERT E. OWENS
State University of New York at Geneseo
AUTHORS’ NOTE: Requests for reprints should be addressed to Monica E. Schneider, Sturges
35B, Department of Psychology, 1 College Circle, SUNY Geneseo, Geneseo, NY 14454; e-mail:
schneid@geneseo.edu.
not heterosexual. We also believe that it can potentially have negative ramifi-
cations for the community and society at large.
To address these important issues, we have divided this article into three
parts. The first section deals with the impact of heterosexism on all children.
We make the case that heterosexism is part of the infrastructure of the educa-
tional community and discuss the negative impact that heterosexism has on
children, schools, and the community. The second section provides educators
and administrators with information about the developmental nature of sex-
ual identity. We strongly believe that an understanding of the issues surround-
ing sexual identity development is an important first step to identifying chil-
dren who may be in need of additional support as they go through this
process. In the last section, we provide some preliminary recommendations
of how educational institutions can begin developing a more open commu-
nity that celebrates diversity in all of its forms.
selves to be gay, lesbian, or bisexual. They also suggest that this is happening
at younger ages than previously imagined. Given that most children begin
exploring their sexual identification in fifth grade and middle school regard-
less of sexual orientation, the denial that sexuality is an issue for such chil-
dren seems counterproductive. Moreover, the denial that children may not
adhere to strict traditional sexual identities denies the legitimacy of gay, les-
bian, bisexual, and questioning youth. Nevertheless, these youth continue to
be an invisible, largely silent minority who are overlooked, ignored, denied,
and abused (Savin-Williams & Lenhart, 1990).
Unfortunately, the educational environment is symptomatic of a broader
culture where heterosexism is the rule (Herek, 1991). At the individual level,
heterosexism has negative ramifications for children who are questioning
their sexual identity. In terms of identity formation, these children face the
developmental task of understanding and coming to terms with their sexual
identity in an environment that denies and devalues that aspect of them. The
devaluation of that aspect of their identity can negatively affect their social
and psychological functioning (Simoni, 1996). For example, gay and lesbian
youth are more likely to display depressive symptoms (D’Augelli & Hersh-
berger, 1993; Gonsiorek, 1991) and are two to three times more likely to
attempt suicide than are their heterosexual peers (D’Augelli & Hershberger,
1993). In addition, they are also more likely to report disproportionately higher
levels of alcohol and other substance abuse (Rotheram-Borus, Rosario, Van
Rossem, Reid, & Gillis, 1995; Troiden, 1988). Under certain conditions, they
are more likely to engage in dangerous sexual behavior (Rotheram-Borus
et al., 1994; Savin-Williams, 1990). Moreover, these youth are more likely to
engage in problematic behavior and delinquent acts that often place them in
contact with the judicial system (Remafedi, 1987a), disrupting both the edu-
cational system and the community.
At the interpersonal level, heterosexism often results in antigay violence
directed at individuals who are suspected of being gay or lesbian (Herek,
1989). Antigay violence includes verbal insults, threats of physical violence,
and actual physical violence. These attacks occur on school property as well
as in the community, where the targets are young children as well as adoles-
cents and adults. Unfortunately, most go unreported for fear of retribution
from attackers who are often their classmates or neighbors.
When these children do report harassment at school, their plea for help is
often ignored or minimized. For example, Gina, a young lesbian who went to
the school administration after incessant verbal abuse, was not supported and
told that the school could not get involved in such issues (Owens, 1998).
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No one ever promised that being a kid or teen would be easy, but some
youth face the additional daunting task of coming to terms with their sexual
orientation in a hostile, often abusive environment. In an atmosphere where
even the wrong brand of sneakers can single out a child for derision, some
youth must make decisions about accepting their sexual orientation that can
result in assault or even death. These lesbian, gay, and bisexual youth face a
unique set of stressful and potentially harmful experiences unlike any faced
by heterosexuals. What is difficult for these youth is that “their difference
stems from their status as members of one of the most hated and despised
minority groups in the country” (Martin, 1988, p. 59). Among these young
people, “the experience of being gay or bisexual in our society overwhelms
any potential differences in social categories involving age, ethnicity, race,
social class or geographical region of the country” (Rosario, Hunter, &
Rotheram-Borus, 1992, p. 17).
Nevertheless, more adolescents are coming out or disclosing their sexual
orientation at an earlier age (Coleman, 1982a; Remafedi, 1987a; Troiden &
Goode, 1980). Like many older lesbians and gay men, teens seem less con-
strained by stereotypic roles, more independent, and more celebratory than
teens in previous generations. Increasingly, there is a brash in-your-face
assertiveness among some sexual-minority teens. A sense of pride of self
exists that was often absent in past generations. These teens are struggling to
establish group identity and a strong self-concept, not unlike that experienced
by women and other minorities seeking emancipation from negative stereo-
types and forms of identification.
However, establishing a group identity around sexual orientation is funda-
mentally different from doing so around other group identities in some
important ways. First, gay, lesbian, and bisexual youth do not necessarily
share this group membership with any family group members. Consequently,
these youth need to inform their families and other loved ones of this group
membership (Elliot, 1993). It is no surprise that the decision of when and how
to do this is a critical part of the sexual identity development process. What
makes this step especially problematic for these youth is that family members
as well as the community members often hold extremely negative stereotypes
of lesbians, gays, and bisexuals. These youth then face the fear of being
rejected and ostracized by the people they love and depend on most (Pope,
1995).
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TERMINOLOGY
Moreover, some lesbian, gay, and bisexual youth are virgins who have had no
sexual experiences, as are some heterosexual youth.
When professionals understand that sexual identity development is
broader than sexual behavior or experiences, then it becomes possible for
them to understand that the process begins in middle childhood and early
adolescence. Consequently, the importance for educators to understand sex-
ual identity development becomes even more crucial.
the impact of teasing being more severe for boys than for girls (Savin-Wil-
liams & Lenhart, 1990). At this stage, both the child and the family tend to
recognize that differences exist between the child and his or her peers even if
they cannot articulate exactly what those differences are (Coleman, 1982b).
What often follows an initial stage of feeling different is the gradual
awareness and realization that those different feelings are sexual in nature.
Sexual awareness usually begins in early adolescence, although for some it
begins later than this. Awareness is not a sudden event but a gradual sensitiv-
ity and consciousness, a growing realization that “I might be homosexual or
bisexual.” Labeling of these feelings potentially becomes a frightening pro-
cess as the individual comes to realize what these feelings signify (Sanders,
1980). On average, the mean age for same-sex awareness and attractions is
10.9 to 13.2 years, with a reported range of 10 to 18 years (Coleman, 1982b;
MacDonald, 1983; Rector, 1982; Rodriguez, 1988, Sanders, 1980; Spada,
1979; Troiden, 1979). Moreover, as a group, boys report being aware before
girls (Remafedi, 1987b).
The vague same-sex attractions of childhood become eroticized in adoles-
cence. The mean age for same-sex erotic fantasies among males is reported to
be 13.9 years; for females, this tends to occur later (Sears, 1991). For gay
male youth, the attraction tends to be first experienced as an obsession to be
near masculinity, whereas for some lesbians, the attraction tends to be
directed toward women in authority positions (Chandler, 1995; Savin-Wil-
liams, 1996b). The reverse of the typical heterosexual pattern may occur in
which a lesbian or gay teen is drawn to members of the other sex as friends but
sexually attracted to members of the same sex (Sears, 1991). However, it is
important to point out that an erotically aroused teen may or may not have
engaged in same-sex sexual behavior. In fact, same-sex feelings and attrac-
tions almost always precede same-sex behavior (Boxer, 1988).
Intense anxiety and an identity crisis may accompany the realization that
one may not be heterosexual. “I was frightened,” explains Linda. “Although
I’d become somewhat comfortable with my label as ‘the weird one,’ lesbian-
ism was too weird” (Heal, 1994, p. 10). “It was a total shock,” confides a
16-year-old Chinese American from Texas. “All the confidence I had in me
disappeared” (“Starting Over,” 1996, p. 6).
As these examples illustrate, conflict can occur between a teen’s positive
self-esteem and her or his own internalized homophobia. The youth may
incorporate familial and societal beliefs of homosexuals as sick, wrong, and
undesirable. Moreover, that youth will have to struggle with the fact he or she
is a member of a stigmatized and despised minority group (Altman, 1971).
The myths and stereotypes of lesbians, gays, and bisexuals adopted by our
heterosexist society are often a source of much of the confusion.
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Consequently, a young lesbian, gay, or bisexual may try to fulfill the stereo-
type or be repelled by it.
The extreme loneliness of this period, as described by lesbian, gay, and
bisexual adults, may be even more acute for younger adolescents who do not
have the maturity to explore these complex feelings. A queer kid can become
the loneliest person in school (Norton, 1976). Vulnerable and afraid of being
revealed, a sexual-minority teen may be incapable of withstanding peer pres-
sure to conform to heterosexual standards that he or she does not fit.
Antihomosexual jokes or ridicule that often accompany these heterosexual
standards become especially painful.
Youths may learn to hide their desires, believing that they will change or
decrease over time. They may hate themselves for feeling a certain way, but
the sexual feelings continue to come. Consequently, many of these youth may
engage in the self-destructive behaviors previously described. Even those
youth who are very open about their sexual orientation may also experience
isolation (D’Augelli & Hershberger, 1993). “I don’t think people really
appreciate how lonely it is,” concludes John, a 16-year-old gay high school
student (Due, 1995, p. 69).
The three most common coping strategies for defending one’s self against
internalized and externalized homophobia, from least to most satisfactory for
psychological adjustment, are repression of desires, suppression of homo-
sexual impulses, and acceptance and disclosure to others (Bell et al., 1981;
Cass, 1979; Lee, 1977; Malyon, 1981; Martin, 1982; Plummer, 1981; Sanders,
1980; Troiden, 1979). Passing or learning to hide as a heterosexual is the most
common adjustment (Bell et al., 1981; Cass, 1979; Lee, 1977; Martin, 1982;
Reiche & Dannecker, 1977; Sanders, 1980; Weinberg & Williams, 1974). A
youth may try to control any mannerisms or dress that might be perceived as
gender inappropriate by peers. Some teens attempt to cultivate a heterosexual
role. Responding to peer and societal pressure, a teen may use heterosexual
dating as an attempt to fit in or to change her or his sexual orientation. Hetero-
sexual girlfriends and boyfriends become a screen for hiding the true self,
thereby creating a wall between the youth and self-awareness. Likewise,
some teens engage in antigay jokes and teasing. By teasing others suspected
of similar feelings, a youth hopes to deflect suspicion from him- or herself
(Rigg, 1982). The best defense is a good offense. For example, Vince was
muscular, played football, made fag jokes, had a regular girlfriend, attended a
fundamentalist church, and sang in an evangelical choir. The outward signs
were a perfect cover. He tried to be “the Best Heterosexual of the Year”
(Owens, 1998, p. 27).
The overall result of this charade is psychological tension, which may lead
to depression, shame, fear of disclosure, and anxiety (Weinberg & Williams,
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1974). Consistent with this, covert gay college men have been found to expe-
rience more psychological tension, social problems, and isolation than
openly gay men (Braaten & Darling, 1965). Those in hiding have little oppor-
tunity to date or to develop same-sex relationships in a socially sanctioned
context similar to that of heterosexual youth. Consequently, those in hiding
“have the most concern over self-esteem, self-acceptance, and status and feel
the most social isolation, powerlessness, normlessness, and personal incom-
petence” (Myrick, 1974, p. 234).
On the other hand, those who self-identify and then begin the process of
coming out are on the road to self-acceptance and identity resolution.
Although there is significant individual variation, self-identification usually
occurs in late adolescence between the ages of 16 and 21 (Rodriguez, 1988;
Savin-Williams & Lenhart, 1990). Several researchers have reported a mean
age for self-identification of 16.2 years, although some self-identification
occurred as early as age 14 (Remafedi, 1987b; Rodriguez, 1988). Moreover,
as segments of society become more open, self-identification is occurring even
earlier (Offer & Boxer, 1991; Rector, 1982), especially in large urban areas.
Self-identification can be viewed as a two-step process in which a youth
first accepts his or her sexual identity and then integrates that identity with his
or her personality and self-concept. The conscious recognition of sexuality
marks the beginning of self-acceptance (Isay, 1991). In this process, initial
feelings gradually evolve into a sense of relief, well-being, and “rightness.”
“My soul feels more comfortable,” explains Shannon, age 17. “It feels right”
(Schneider, 1989, p. 128). Through acceptance, an adolescent begins to view
the notion of lesbianness, gayness, or bisexuality in a positive way. Conse-
quently, a youth may make an initial disclosure about his or her sexual orien-
tation to a very trusted friend or family member.
Acceptance is followed by integration, in which a young person identifies
as lesbian or gay and is proud of that aspect of her or his identity. Integration
and pride are often accompanied by a public self-disclosure known as coming
out of the closet or simply as coming out. Coming out facilitates an alignment
between the real (or internal) and the social (or presented) self and, as such, is
a necessary process for healthy personality integration. Furthermore, this
type of disclosure is an important part of self-identification as lesbian or gay,
which plays an important role in overall identity formation (Malyon, 1981).
When compared to those who are still in sexual-identity turmoil, the
well-integrated lesbian or gay may have higher self-esteem and greater well-
being. They may be more likely to have a greater capacity for love both in sex-
ual relationships and in friendships. Last, the energy spent in trying to hide
their sexual identity can be redirected to living an open life, resulting in an
overall increase in productivity (Isay, 1991).
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Unfortunately, not everyone can accept his or her own lesbian, gay, or bi-
sexual identity. Those individuals who cannot will continue to struggle with
feelings they cannot help but cannot admit. The road to a well-integrated,
healthy, positive, and cohesive identity is strewn with the wreckage of those
who cannot really accept themselves and who continue to use all manner of
subterfuge to hide their true identity.
FOSTERING A COMMUNITY
THAT WELCOMES DIVERSITY
The institutional level. One of the most important ingredients for develop-
ing a community that embraces diversity at the institutional level is providing
support from the top. Specifically, leaders of primary and secondary institu-
tions need to communicate to administrators, teachers, parents, students, and
the community the value it places on providing a safe, nurturing environment
for all children. An institution’s missions and goals statements should reflect
its commitment to developing a sense of community and respect for one
another as well as developing individuals who are academically and psycho-
logically prepared to engage in productive work and contribute positively to
society. This includes learning to interact with people from diverse back-
grounds and orientations.
An institution’s policies on acceptable and unacceptable behavior should
likewise reflect the kind of community an institution strives to be. There
should be zero tolerance for verbal and physical aggression both in and out of
the classroom, with explicit guidelines on how to deal with children who vio-
late this policy. Furthermore, this policy should be communicated formally to
students with an age-appropriate discussion about the rationale for such a
policy. Negative consequences for violators of this policy should be used in
conjunction with reinforcements for children who are positively contributing
to a sense of community. Only in this way can schools be safe places for all
children.
Last, educational institutions need to provide mandatory training and edu-
cation for administrators, teachers, and staff regarding issues of identity
development that are revisited, maintained, and sustained over time.
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transgender students can go for help and support. However, teachers and
counselors also need to be aware of the confidentiality of gay, lesbian, bisex-
ual, and transgender students and of the stigma attached to their sexual orien-
tations by the larger society. It may be counterproductive to designate a
solely gay-friendly space. The fear of being stigmatized will keep many stu-
dents from using this space to talk with a faculty member or counselor.
Instead, students need to feel that several classrooms and offices are welcom-
ing. In addition, educators and counselors should be trained in working with
these teens. The National Youth Advocacy Coalition offers training guides
and safe space stickers.
Administrators and staff as well as educators need to inform themselves
about overall identity development as well as specific identity developmental
processes to recognize signs that students are struggling with these issues. By
understanding all types of identity development, educators, staff, and admin-
istrators can become equipped to intervene when students display psycholog-
ical and behavioral adjustment problems. This information would not only
prepare all members of the educational community to help lesbian, gay,
bisexual, transgender, and questioning youth, it could potentially benefit all
children.
In summary, it is the obligation of educational institutions to provide all
students with a safe environment where children can learn to become fully
realized participants in our democratic society. If our children are exposed to
an environment where aggression toward others is tolerated and differences
are something to fear, then the surrounding community as well as the whole
society stands to lose. However, if primary and secondary educational com-
munities foster a safe, supportive environment that does not tolerate aggres-
sion toward others and welcomes diversity in all its forms, then we all stand
to gain.
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