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By Gebhardt Berndt
www.hccnorth.co.za
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Hindrances To Relationships
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In Need Of A Father
Divorce
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of operation and you will be able to
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results.
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broken lives.
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18:12-14).
great rejoicing.
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pure.
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od became outdated.
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returned home.
controlling spirit.
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family.
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believers.
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(John 1:12-13).
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(Galatians 3:26-29).
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(John 13:34-35).
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truths to you.
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Prayer:
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Hindrances To
Relationships
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change:
1. Stubbornness: A hardening of
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foolishness.
to be submissive, or to be recep-
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laws (7,10).
(7,22).
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correction (19).
(8,36,57).
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Himself!
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tiny.
because of pride.
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Prayer:
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sians 5:25-26).
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their wives.
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declares.
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order.
11:3).
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ject to governments.
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standard of headship.
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children to wrath.
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Deuteronomy. 6:5-9).
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mom.
Prayer:
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ing qualities:
• Kindness
• Patience
• Love
• Tenderness
• Compassion
• Slow to anger
speech
• Slow to judge
• Quick to discipline
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• Slow to condemn
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think.
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peace.
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in the House”.
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nities.
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women specifically.
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others.
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Blessed Sacrament.”
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challenge:
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the home.
tus 2:5.).
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others.
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31:15, 20)
for others.
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31:16, 24)
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hard worker.
vation.
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othy 3:7).
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kind.
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look at children.
Prayer:
Amen.
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What Does God Say
About Children?
children.
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127:3,5).
their parents?"
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2:51).
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(Ephesians 6:2).
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(Proverbs 23:22).
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thy 3:3).
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(Philippians 2:4).
convenience to my parents? Is my
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(1 Timothy 5:4).
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to be.
My responsibility as a parent:
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6:6-7)
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Proverbs:
do it in a suitable manner. We
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worthwhile.
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from them.
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others.
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friends?
will do too.
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ing!
God’s Design”).
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to you.
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hope.
Prayer:
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Things To Leave Out
Of The Marriage
A sharp tongue
lifetime.
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(Proverbs 18:21).
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nity.
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Timothy 2:22).
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10:11b).
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their meaning.
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(Proverbs 15:1).
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us!
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future.
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our lives.
(Charles Spurgeon)
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it.
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(1 Corinthians 10:31).
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becomes easier.
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the flesh.
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• Be thoughtful.
• Be patient.
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and be ready.
Prayer:
pray. Amen.
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Further Enemies Of
Marriage
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soul captive.
4:23).
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(Matthew 5:28).
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God.”
3:19).
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with you.”
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Jesus Christ”.
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of armour.
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in the Scripture:
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the devil.
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in our homes.
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Word.
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Word.
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(Romans 10:17).
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Word.
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sus Christ.
a believer's life:
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my own salvation.
thereof is amazing.
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Christ.
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devil.
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important.
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Him.
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God.
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Glory be to God!
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lies.
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Prayer:
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Divorce
in this book.
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versus separating.
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and child.
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on you.
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is not a mini-adult!
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bilities.
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this to happen.
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business transaction!
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Alienation Syndrome.
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child.
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sad.
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relationships.”
be as “robust” as predicted.
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children.
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I remarry?
else.
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(Matthew 19:4-6).
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5:31, 32).
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Testaments.
marriage.
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to herself.
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(Luke 16:18).
applies to wives.
(Mark 10:12).
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marriage.
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faithfulness in marriage.
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and-remarriage situations.
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won to Christ.
6:14).
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case:
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Corinthians 7:12-13).
divorce.
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Corinthians 7:15).
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sibility.
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in their lives.
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Prayer:
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Plan For Your Life
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your life:
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of God.
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Prayer:
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About The Author
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a Master of Arts Degree in Organi-
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partment, and Area Shepherding
Pastor.
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Leader (T.C.N. Young People Net-
work).
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taught to the Church in its entirety
victory in Christ.
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to change”, “Where have all the
Sure Foundation”.
Mickaele.
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