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Abstract: The suicide literature tends to lump all suicidal ideation together,
thereby implying that it is all functionally equivalent. However obvious the
claim that suicidal ideation is usually a prelude to suicidal action, some sui-
cidal daydreaming tends to inhibit suicidal action. How are we to distinguish
between those daydreams that augur an impending attempt from those that
help patients calm down?
John T. Maltsberger, M.D., Elsa Ronningstam, Ph.D., Igor Weinberg, Ph.D., and Mark
J. Goldblatt, M.D., Harvard Medical School and McLean Hospital, Belmont, MA. Mark
Schechter, M.D., North Shore Medical Center, Salem, MA.
Journal of The American Academy of Psychoanalysis and Dynamic Psychiatry, 38(4) 611–624, 2010
© 2010 The American Academy of Psychoanalysis and Dynamic Psychiatry
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Recurring suicidal reveries can quiet patients down and stabilize tee-
tering self-cohesion. We may call them “sustaining suicidal fantasies”;
they are organizing and comforting in effect. They serve the structural
function of fortifying weakening narcissistic integrity.
Zelin, Bernstein, Heijn, and their colleagues (1983) identified and
studied 134 different sustaining reveries helpful in coping with painful
feeling states. They sorted these fantasies into ten groups. The items in
one group reflected efforts to remember or anticipate sensual pleasure;
in another, they represented coming closer into protection or fusion with
an idealized object (e.g., God). Other sustaining daydreams were om-
nipotent in nature, sadistic sometimes, occasionally murderous. Others
yet involved reveries of admiration and acclaim. There were others of
withdrawal to a safe place proof against hurt. One set involved fantasies
of being loved; another, conscious thoughts of sadness, suffering, and
deprivation. Men especially liked to daydream about winning compe-
titions, athletic or otherwise. Another set imagined making restitution
for harm done to others. Some relied on reveries of self-improvement.
Most of the fantasies described were reveries agreeable to the pa-
tients entertaining them, but only 12 of the 134 imaginings reported
seemed to have the potential for translation into immediate action. For
example, “the thought of being popular and well-liked” might not be
too easily achieved by immediate action. But of the nine dying and ill-
ness items, eight were notions capable of being put into immediate ex-
ecution, and most of those involved suicide.
Many persons, falling into comparatively mild states of loneliness,
unhappiness, or other distress are able to regulate themselves, that is,
to calm themselves down, and even feel better, by daydreaming. Some
quiet themselves with reveries of suicide. “The thought of suicide is a
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They all think I’m going to commit suicide. What a joke. The truth of course
is the exact opposite: suicide is the only thing that keeps me alive. When-
ever everything else fails, all I have to do is consider suicide and in two
seconds I’m as cheerful as a nitwit. But if I could not kill myself—ah then,
I would. I can do without Nembutal or murder mysteries but not without
suicide. (Percy, 1961, pp. 194-195)
1. For all cases presented in this article, names have been changed and personal clinical
material disguised in order to preserve patient confidentiality.
614 MALTSBERGER ET AL.
ment, his depression improved, and he took a job. His self-esteem rose as
he began to make a few friends. Gradually he gave up suicidal daydream-
ing as a means for boosting his self-esteem; he no longer needed it.
2. Seneca (62–65 A.D.) wrote that when the soul is trapped in the body, as one might be
in prison, the key for escaping is in the hand of the prisoner: suicide is always a way out.
See the Letters, especially numbers 58 and 70.
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After several years of therapy she announced that she was “ready to give
up suicide,” and that she could rely on other ways to soothe herself. Her
suicidal thoughts and fantasies did in fact diminish, and while she came
back to them from time to time, they no longer felt compelling or neces-
sary.
necessary. The therapist has this challenge: to bear the anxiety hearing
such fantasies may engender, trying over time to understand what they
mean, and what purposes they serve.
Most of the time, a true suicide crisis is marked by intolerable emo-
tional suffering of desperate proportions (Hendin, Maltsberger, &
Szanto, 2007). What are the characteristics of a suicide crisis? Typically
something of significance will have taken place to trigger a crescendo
of pain (a precipitating event). Behavioral indicators of crisis will ap-
pear (suicide threats may be made; patients may do things portraying
or hinting at an impending attempt, or they may lose emotional control
with outbursts, perhaps of rage or intense anxiety). These behavioral
indicators are signals that self-cohesion is being stretched beyond the
capacity for affective self-containment. Increasing recourse to alcohol
or drugs may occur, and deterioration of work or social functioning is
seen (Hendin, Maltsberger, Lipschitz, Haas, & Kyle, 2001). On the other
hand, those who are revisiting their sustaining suicide fantasies are not
“going to pieces.” Our point is this: the psychological meaning of a sui-
cidal fantasy cannot be inferred from the fantasy alone when it is taken
out of context. Who can say what a flame considered in isolation signi-
fies? Some fire is helpful, as when under a furnace. Other fire marks
imminent catastrophe, as when burning unconstrained in the walls of
a house. The following example reflects the experience of a patient in a
true suicide crisis.
An Iraq war veteran with posttraumatic stress disorder and major de-
pression suffered from flashbacks of combat experiences. He was a binge
drinker and had poor control over his temper. He had occasional suicidal
ideas but had made no attempts. After several months of verbal abuse, he
struck his wife when in a rage, and, announcing that was the limit, she left
him. In a final therapy session, he attributed his escalating suicidal ideas
and heightening mental anguish to the loss of his wife. He began to drink
more heavily, increasingly provoked quarrels with others, and shot him-
self in the head a few days later. (Maltsberger, Hendin, Haas, & Lipschitz,
2003)
The inner and the outer worlds threaten to become one, reality test-
ing fails, and overwhelming affect cripples the mind. Such crises are,
subjectively, apocalyptic experiences.
Reality testing fails as the self breaks up. Functionally, at least, sui-
cidal patients are often deluded. Moved by the conviction of false be-
liefs, and propelled by mental pain, they swing into action, convinced
that others would be better off without them, or that others want them
dead. Some are convinced that in killing themselves they will live on in
a better afterlife (Maltsberger & Buie, 1980).
Finally, true suicide crises are usually marked by pathological de-
fensive postures. Many patients split off their feelings from conscious
awareness, that is, they dissociate. Combinations of projection, distor-
tion, and denial in the face of failed reality testing render many of these
patients functionally psychotic (Laufer & Laufer, 1989).
A 22-year-old law student quarreled with his girl friend and threatened
to kill himself. She told him she was sick of his threats and as far as she
was concerned he should go ahead and do it. He had been anxious and
depressed for several days, but now he became much worse. He decided
to kill himself. As soon as his decision was made, his mind became calm.
For the first time in weeks, he felt competent and collected. Very coolly he
drove to a high bridge and jumped off, feeling detached from himself, ob-
serving what was happening with the admiration of an onlooker. As soon
as he began to fall, the dissociation broke, and he began to scream in terror.
(Maltsberger, 2004, p. 656)
CONCLUSION
He pictured himself lying sick unto death and his aunt bending over him
beseeching one little forgiving word, but he would turn his face to the wall,
and die with that word unsaid. Ah, how would she feel then? And he pic-
tured himself brought home from the river, dead, with his curls all wet, and
his poor hands still forever, and his sore heart at rest. How she would throw
herself upon him, and how her tears would fall like rain, and her lips pray
God to give her back her boy and she would never never abuse him any
more! But he would be there cold and white and make no sign—a poor little
sufferer whose griefs were at an end. . . . (Clemens, 1876, pp, 25-26)
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