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Theories of gender on which public policy and therapeutic interventions are based have not kept up with the family transi-
tion from preindustrial to modern times. The functionalist view of sex roles continues to emphasize separate spheres for
women and men, a view which also has been adopted by some feminists. Yet working mothers have dual roles and suffer from
overload as shown by research in a traditional society such as China and in an industrialized society such as the United
States. Alpha bias, the exaggeration of gender opposition, is characteristic of psychodynamic and sex role theories. Beta bias,
the denial of gender differences, is evident in systems theories. The dual roles of women and their dual socialization call for a
new model of gender differences which recognizes this asymmetry in women's and men's roles and responsibilities.
T he family is the primary bene- gender as a micro issue is isomorphic keeping its knowledge and skills secret
ficiary and focus of women's to and recapitulates the devalued from others. This has persisted in
labor in both traditional and mod- status of women in the family and modern societies where women have
ern societies as well as the source of society (Hare-Mustin,1987). been virtually excluded from the cor-
women's most fundamental identity; porate board room and halls of govern-
that of mother. The family meets socie- The Changing Nature ment and men from the kitchen and
ty's needs by shaping people for the of the Family nursery.
roles of society. The differences between
The main function of the family in Gender is the primarycategory by husbands and wives in traditional
traditional societies has been raising which the social world is organized. A societies are supported by both sex
children, but this function may be re- constructivist analysis of gender draws and age (Caldwell & Caldwell, 1987;
ceding in importance with the increas- attention to the fact that the meanings Hare-Mustin, 1987). The emotional
ing concern about world population attached to gender are shaped by closeness of spouses would threaten
growth. In response to women's labor human history and culture (Watzlawick, family loyalty in the extended family.
force participation in industrialized 1984). The fact that the social context The distance between spouses is sup-
societies, governments are now being is gendered means that the family, ported by wives occupying an in-
asked to develop public policy con- work, and the space women and men termediate position between genera-
cerning women's childbearing, popula- occupy are also gendered. tions; wives often come from a younger
tion planning, health services, and birth cohort than their husbands. This
child care.
TraditionalFamilies practice is similar to that in some sec-
In traditional societies, family ond marriages in the United States
Family therapists and educators, structure has been hierarchical and the where, after the divorce of the first
as well as those involved in family family male-oriented. The family is the wife, the husband chooses a second
policy, have assumed that in industrial production unit in such societies with wife from a much younger cohort.
societies egalitarian patterns have work directed and rewarded by
replaced the male-centered patterns of relatives. Women are valued for their In Western Europe, unlike other
agrarian societies. Sex role theory has ability to bear and care for children, parts of the world, the nuclear family
promoted the idea of men and women while children are valued primarilyfor has been the modal family since the
having equal and complementary roles their contributions to family produc- 11th century. The nuclear family allows
in work and family. However, a close tion and for the care they can give aged stronger marital ties between spouses
examination of contemporary family parents (Bulatao & Fawcett, 1983). and a child-centered focus which in
patterns suggests that sex role theory Family organization is based on turn has led to universal education and
is no longer adequate to account for the segmentation of work by age and individualism. In past times, young
women's dual roles and responsibil- gender, a segmentation which reaches people in Northwest Europe sought
ities. New approaches are needed in an extraordinary level (Caldwell & domestic or agricultural service before
family therapy and family policy to re- Caldwell, 1987). The segmentation of
spond to changes in the family and tasks makes it difficult to compare
society. them and supports the belief that dif- 'This paper was preparedduring the author's term as
Leaders in family theory and prac- ferent family members are inherently Research Fellow at the Population Institute of the East-
tice have often treated gender as a suited for work of different kinds. West Center, Honolulu, Hawaii.
**Rachel T. Hare-Mustinis a Professor of Counseling
micro issue, peripheral to the macro Adults hate doing "children's jobs" and HumanRelations at VillanovaUniversity,Villanova,PA
issues of social change, economic and men hate doing "women's jobs." 19085,and a clinical psychologist in independentpractice.
development, political stability, and The status differences between female
even quality of life. In contrast, and male, young and old, are revealed Key Words: family change, family therapy, gender,
by the fact that the dislike of certain motherhood, sex roles, traditionalfamilies.
feminist theory suggests that gender
relations are the prototype of all power jobs is not reciprocal. However, each
relations in society. The treating of group preserves its uniqueness by (Family Relations, 1988, 37, 36-41.)