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platforms, especially on the rising social media app called “tiktok”. I have encountered
many contents talking about such genders like how and what they should act. Some are
openly talking about their own opinions but also at the same time criticizing one’s act.
In this platform social media, majority of the criticisms are toxic. So in this paper, I
will be pointing out some articles on how Filipino societies fosters toxic masculinity
toxic or otherwise, we should begin with a few key ideas about gender. Researchers
have shown that there is very little difference between the brains of men and women.
While gender identity is a deeply held feeling of being male, female or another gender,
characteristics but because of rigid societal norms created around femininity and
masculinity. The phrase is derived from studies that focus on violent behavior
but a form of gendered behavior that results when expectations of “what it means to be
violence, sex, status and aggression. It’s the cultural ideal of manliness, where strength
is everything while emotions are a weakness; where sex and brutality are yardsticks by
which men are measured, while supposedly “feminine” traits—which can range from
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In that statement, I thinks that is the reason why men these days are scared to
open up or be vocal on what they feel. Men who talk about or express their emotion
and feelings are automatically regarded as “sadboy”, and even crying could make you
less manly. Men also have feelings, and the societal norm that has been set is, it is as if
men don’t have feelings, or don’t get hurt. When we talk about toxic masculinity, we
do so not to insult or to injure. If we can talk with students as they are forming their
ideas about gender, we can perhaps spare them from thinking that there is only one
way to be a man—or any other gendered identity, for that matter—and give them the
space to express their gender in ways that feel authentic and safe for themselves. When
we talk about toxic masculinity, we are doing so out of love for the boys and men in all
of our lives.
The term “toxic femininity” refers to the gender expectations that keep women
forms of masculinity and subservient forms of femininity, they do so along the single
axis of gender. Considering the toxic politics of certain approaches to femininity via
intersections with class, race, sexuality, and more, complicates simple notions of
gender hierarchy.
San Mig Light called “Detox Masculinity: Mahaba-habang usapan on how to beat
shattering gender norms and stereotypes. According to the director of the UP Center
for Women’s and Gender Studies, it is important not to box people based on their
genders. She said that there are good characteristics in both being masculine and
their emotions. Teach them to be good people.” Verceles said that “to be less toxic,
you have to be more feminine.” She said that one reason why toxic masculinity is
harmful is that it completely throws away anything that has to do with femininity, like
norms such as the demonstration of power and control, and strength... It is so easy to
crossover to the dark side of toxic masculinity.” Another panelist, poet, and rapper
Meta Sarmiento is an example that toxic masculinity is something learned and is not
innate in men.
Toxic masculinity is not only harmful to society but also men themselves. And
aside from their own homes. It also noted that younger men are more empathetic and
sensitive than men who came from the boomer generation. She said she sees so much
hope in this.
We hear a considerable amount about toxic masculinity but far less about toxic
femininity, and some doubt that it exists. First, a definition: Women expressing
physical needs to sustain those around them. Toxic femininity is when one works to
the benefit of others but to the detriment of themselves. It can appear as forms of
depression, exhaustion, or wildly illogical solutions to complex problems.” (By “to the
benefit of others,” writers nearly always mean “to the benefit of men.”)
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Far less media or academic attention has been devoted to toxic femininity than
Anthony raised the question, “Is toxic femininity a thing?" She proposed that there is
no simple answer because in our society, femininity is not highly prized and is thus
keep our value, which the patriarchy has told us is conditional upon our ability to bear
violent domination. Toxic masculinity also makes women feel locked into a
independence, sexual agency, anger, volume, messiness, ugliness, and being a tough
bird to swallow." If women display toxic feminine traits then these are tactics women
A woman won’t let herself eat anything but a salad while on a date.
Every sweater in a woman’s closet is thinner and frailer than any in a man’s
possession.
When a parent insists on piercing the ears of a moments-old girl baby to ensure
If buying a gift for a woman, they reach for something soft, sweet, and
nonthreatening.
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Sexism says that a woman is too frail or docile to play a contact sport; toxic
femininity says that you don’t want to play football anyway, sweetie; you would look
horrible and sweaty in the helmet and pads. Sexism is focused on robbing women of
status and rights; toxic femininity is about defining womanhood so shallowly that a
woman feels de-gendered by basic human acts or neutral preferences. Both factors lead
uncommon, with claims that such behavior is injurious to the individual and her
above.
socially desirable and unattractive features in Filipino gender studies. Frequently, the
whereas physical strength is regarded as a positive trait among Filipino males, physical
The more women are coming to terms with their rights, the more they are
recognizing, the harmful behaviors and expression of traditional male gender norms.
on Monday, male students and youth advocates from all over the Philippines learned
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about toxic masculinity, its effects to women and what they can do to avoid leaning
towards it. Harold David, Information Officer of Commission on Population and Mr.
Ariel Frago, Project Manager of Plan International Philippines gave a talk on the topic.
are stronger than women," for instance — actually result to men becoming violent
towards women. Why would they become more violent towards women? To prove that
they are indeed the stronger gender. David told young Filipino male students changing
this kind of thinking is one way of stopping Violence Against Women. He said men
should also stop thinking that resolving conflict should involve violence whether to
violence than men. Frago said that even though gender-based violence can apply to
both men and women, women are at higher risk and are the primary target of gender-
based violence because of toxic masculinity. He encouraged men to become the start
Toxicity in masculinity and femininity limits men and women from doing what
they want. Toxic masculinity is men thinking there are things only men can do and
things only women can do. It's a very outdated way of thinking because it limits both
men and women from doing things they might excel at, and expressing things they
might be feeling. This also leads to unequal opportunities that may hinder them from
growing and becoming the best versions of themselves. PCW issued a very strong
reminder: A person shouldn't be measured based on gender, but on what they can do as
individuals.
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performed by, women and men. A gender stereotype is harmful when it limits
women’s and men’s capacity to develop their personal abilities, pursue their
professional careers and/or make choices about their lives. Whether overtly hostile
women as care givers means that child care responsibilities often fall exclusively on
as women from minority or indigenous groups, women with disabilities, women from
lower caste groups or with lower economic status, migrant women, etc. Gender
The Filipino femininity subscale included positive traits such as being caring
and supportive and negative traits such as being timid or keeping things to one’s self.
The Filipino masculinity subscale included positive traits such as being principled and
having affinity with others and negative traits such as being boastful and impetuous.
Criterion validity was assessed by using structural equation modelling (SEM), which
indicated that while the Filipino inventory had similarities with an established measure
of gender, there were distinct differences in how they operationalized and measured
References:
https://www.learningforjustice.org/magazine/what-we-mean-when-we-say-toxic-
masculinity
https://www.cnnphilippines.com/lifestyle/2021/1/22/why-shattering-gender-
stereotypes-can-be-the-downfall-of-toxic-masculinity.html
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/sex-sexuality-and-romance/201908/toxic-
femininity
https://www.theatlantic.com/health/archive/2019/02/toxic-masculinity-history/583411/
https://minerva-access.unimelb.edu.au/bitstream/handle/11343/254288/Final%20Toxic
%20Femininity%20Submission.pdf
https://www.gmanetwork.com/news/lifestyle/healthandwellness/716796/toxic-
masculinity-leads-to-gender-based-violence-and-more-important-reasons-it-needs-to-
end/story/
https://www.ohchr.org/en/issues/women/wrgs/pages/genderstereotypes.aspx
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