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The time leading up to your child’s departure for Atlantic College is very
exciting and busy, there is so much to prepare for and so many
arrangements to make. There are many practical issues to tackle and
not everyone may know quite what to expect of the two years ahead.
Many parents worry that talking about home sickness will cause the
problem to occur. There is strong evidence to the contrary and indeed if
you and your child can talk openly about home sickness before they
leave it may give them the reassurance that they need to help them cope
if they experience it during their time at college.
Although many students will have lived away from home, or spent
periods of time away, home sickness can hit them unexpectedly. Home
sickness is rarely about simply missing home, it often comes from our
instinctive need for security, love and protection. A student may simply
miss what is normal and what is routine. Anything from the difference
in food, culture, climate or environment can result in feelings of sadness,
anxiety and nervousness. Both children and adults whether male or
female can be overcome by waves of homesickness at the most
unexpected times.
Many students feel lucky to have the opportunity to come to the college
and are very aware of the sacrifices that parents or donors are making
in order to give them the chance, because of this they may feel guilty or
embarrassed about feeling homesick. These feelings are incredibly
common and many other students have felt or will be feeling the same.
These feelings may fade as they find a routine in attending lessons or
they may persist. Handled positively and constructively, however, most
cases of homesickness pass within two or three weeks. Either way
there is support and understanding at the college both for the student
and their parents or anyone else who may be affected.
Encourage your child to talk to you about their daily plans and
give them a sense of security and confidence about getting
involved in their new surroundings.
When your child does begin to feel less homesick they may worry
that you will think that they have moved on, they may feel guilty
about not missing you, at this point it is just as important to give
them permission to enjoy themselves and not to worry about you
feeling left behind.