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Calling is defined as fulfilling a specific life role for the greater good--calling to parenthood and
child rearing.
Intrinsic Motivation
o refers to the pursuit of some activity for its own sake. Intrinsically motivated activities
are rewarding and satisfying in their own right.
Extrinsic Motivation
o refers to the pursuit of some activity for some external reward such as approval/praise,
monetary incentives, and recognition or honor. Extrinsically motivated activities are a
means to an end.
Approach Motivation
o primarily motivated to achieve some positive goals and outcomes.
Avoidance Motivation
o primarily motivated to avoid some negative outcomes, such as failure and stress.
NOTE: Going through life with an avoidance orientation tends to create more stress and anxiety and less
life satisfaction.
Meaning Orientation
o is more likely linked to intrinsic motivation and approach motivation
Happiness Orientation
o is more likely linked to extrinsic motivation.
NOTE: These two types of life orientations tend to result in different kinds of life goals.
Different Vocations
1. Single Blessedness
3. Married Life
Single Blessedness
Roles:
Priesthood
Roles:
a. Popes
b. Bishops
c. Deacons
d. Priests
Religious
a. Dedication to God
b. Prayer
c. Holiness
Roles:
c. anyone who is religious/ has a religion and follows the practices of that religion by dedicating
themselves to God as well as prayer.
Married Life
a. Loyalty
b. Trust
c. Honesty
3. Remove Distractions
Being Called
Patriarchal-Genealogical Emphasis
o Men were considered the "authority"
o Women were discriminated and treated as "2nd class"
o Women's worth was measured in terms of their procreative abilities and capacities
NOTE: in God's original plan - Woman, then, is man's equal in dignity and the one closest to his heart
Old Testament
Genesis 1: 27-28
Marriage in the OT was a reflection of the brokeness brought about by the original sin.
Modern Problems
S - eduction
A - cts of Lasciviousness
R - ape
A - bortion
"Christians are new creations in Christ, healed of sin and its effects. Marriage is also recreated
and made new in Christ"
Matthew 19:6-11 "Jesus tells us that in the Kingdom of God the permanent union of husband and
wife that God originally intended can once more be realized.
"By the grace of the Holy Spirit, husbands and wives can now truly love and honor one another."
St Paul
o marriage bears witness to the indissoluble love of Christ for his Church
Ephesians 5:25-26
Catholics see marriage as a Sacrament
Lesson 3: Human Sexuality
Human Sexuality
Nature
o to be loved by another
Isolation is the cruelest of punishments
At the heart of mankind's existence is the desire to be intimate and to be loved by another
Marriage is designed to meet the need for intimacy and love
Emotional Tank
Falling In Love
And then…
Love is…
The object of love is not getting something you want but doing something for the well-being of
the one you love
Love grows and develops.
It is a PROCESS more than a product.
First Truth
Third Truth
Listen to your partner's criticisms for a clue about their love language
1. Words of Affirmation
verbal compliments
words of appreciation
affirmations
2. Quality Time
3. Receiving Gifts
4. Acts of Service
2. service can be done out of love, or it can be done out of fear and guilt
5. Physical Touch
words may mean little, but tender touches will be remembered long after the crisis has past.
failure to touch may never be forgotten
Opposite of love...
Ulitarianism
o maximizing pleasure and minimizing pain
using makes someone a means to an end (person becomes an object)
emphasis on usefulness (gives pleasure and eliminates pain)
modern culture has adopted this philosophy (not always done intentionally)
lust is an example of this kind of philosophy
Love…
1. Love as an Attraction
2. Love as Desire
3. Love as Goodwill
Chastity
virtue that directs our sexual desires and attitudes toward the truth of love
Virtue: a habit of doing good
integration of sexuality within the person
perfect expression of love
exercise of the will - a choice to express love properly