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Pinda Straat #3
Oranjestad, Aruba
5947095
E-Mail: newerbalancecounselingcenter@gmail.com
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Participant, Jake Deyes voluntarily came to Newer Balance Counseling Center due to
various concerns he has as regards to his aggressive and brutal behavior towards his
partner and family. Jake Deyes is aware of his aggressive behavior and is seeking
guidance to improve the quality of his life
Jake explains that he has this uncontrollable anger inside of him and that even the
minor things will upset for example if his children leave the door of the fridge open
behavior has gotten to a certain point where he hit his partner Naomi Geerman three
weeks ago causing them to separate from each other. Jake mentions that there is not a
day that goes by that he does not feel stressed or in a bad mood. Jake is well aware
that what he has done to his partner Naomi was unacceptable and has come to realize
that something is wrong with him and that he needs and wants guidance. Jake wants
to be able to control his anger and fears that his behavior would get worse. Jake wants
to be a better father for his children and wants to be good and loving towards his
partner Naomi. He wants to be together as a family again with his partner Naomi
Geerman and daughter Amahlia Deyes. Most importantly, he wants to be able to have
inner peace, balance, he wants to feel happy and understand what makes him feel the
4. Family History
Participant, Jake Deyes currently lives with his Mother, Zoella Croes, sister Jessica
Deyes, stepfather Giovanni Croes and his parental grandfather Richard Deyes.
Richard Deyes owns the house that they are currently living in. Jake’s father Alex
Deyes rents the apartment in the backyard of the house where he lives with his wife,
Rosalba Deyes and daughter Alexandra Deyes (step sister of Jake and Jessica). Jake is
the first child to father Alex Deyes and mother Zoella Croes the second child is
Jessica Deyes whom is currently 18 years old. When Alex Deyes got remarried to
Rosalba Deyes, Alexandra Deyes was born now 12 years old. The relationship
between Jake and his Mother is a good one he loves his mother but due to his
The relationship between Jake and his father is good but they do not share a
close bond with each other. Jake is very distant with his stepfather and stepmother he
does not share a relationship with them. Jake has a close bond with his sister but just
like his mother his temperament brings uneasiness to their relationship and Jake is not
very close to his stepsister. Jakes explains that every house member is usually busy
minding his or her own business. Participant Jake Deyes has two children. Jared
Deyes who is currently six years was born when Jake Deyes was Together with ex
girlfriend Cindy Tromp. The relationship between Cindy Tromp and Jake Deyes was
a toxic due to Jake’s behavior and Cindy decided to end it. The relationship did not
end well. Cindy Tromp tried to take the custody of Jared away from Jake, because
The result of this situation ended well because both Cindy and Jake agreed
that it would be best for their child Jake to have a close bond with both of his parents
even though they are not together. Jake’s second child with Naomi Geerman is
Ahmalia Deyes and she is currently three years old. Jake shares a close bond with
both of his children. He is the one in charge to pick up Jared everyday from school
and take him to his after school activities. Jake has the custody of Jared every
weekend and he spends quality time with him for example they go the beach, the
movies and they usually build lego’s together. Three-year-old Amahlia has lived since
her birth with both Jake Deyes and mother Naomi Geerman. It wasn’t until three
weeks ago that Naomi separated from Jake Deyes due to the accident. Jake mentions
that he loves his daughter a lot and wants to reunite with her. Naomi takes Amahlia to
see his father two times a week, but according to Jake she does not want to move back
5. Educational History
Participant, Jake Deyes has never had an issue with or at school up until he finished
his MAVO. Jake first went to Jacinta Kleuter School kindergarten, later he went to
Pius X School Elementary and then he graduated Mon Plaisir College Mavo (2007).
Jake appears to be intelligent very high intelligence. He always received high grades
and never failed a class. His favorite subjects at school were Math, Chemistry,
Physics and Biology. Jake is a fast learner and was never suspended from school.
After graduating from MAVO Jake went to AVOND HAVO Colegio (High School).
After failing year 1 of Avond Havo three times he decided to drop out and started to
work at a Law Firm. Jake mentioned that he did not fail because he found high school
to be difficult he just got demotivated and did not wanted to attend high school
anymore. During his years at the Avond Havo Jake started experimenting with drugs
(Marijuana), skipping school or just went to school to hang outside and play dominoes
Participant, Jake Deyes started working when he was 18 years old at the Law Firm
Lopez Law as a secretary. Lopez Law employed him for eight years. He just recently
landed a position as a collector at Deurwaarde Roos (Debt collector) and has been
Participant Jake Deyes was a premature baby. Right after he was born he had to stay
two weeks at the hospital under observations. However, after that he never
experienced any serious illnesses and was never hospitalized again. Jake is in good
physical health.
Participant Jake Deyes has never experienced domestic violence in his family and was
never abused. However, he did mention that his father was always working and
almost never home while he was growing up, and that most of his days he would
spend at his maternal grandmother. Jake also mentioned that his father was always
strict with him and never really showed emotions or embraced him. His father taught
him to never cry because ‘’ boys don’t cry’’ and that he needs to be bold, strong and
do everything manly.
The first experience with loss/ separation that participant Jake Deyes had was the
divorce of his biological parents when he was 9 years old. It was devastating news for
him that his father was cheating on his mother with a sex worker from San Nicolas
and then to later find out that his father was getting married to that same women
whom is (Rosalba Deyes). This situation made him really angry and sad and it did not
go away for years. Jake can still remember that his biggest wish while growing up
was for his parents to get back together. Participant Jake Deyes second experience
with loss was when his maternal grandmother died. Jake was 21 years old. This loss
really took a toll on Jake. Jake explains that the loss of his grandmother was really
hard for him to manage because his grandmother was like a second mother to him.
His grandmother was the person that brought him up, most of his days he would
spend with his grandmother. He says that there is nobody in this world that can take
his grandmother’s place and there is not a single day that goes by that he does not
think about his grandmother. Participant Jake Deyes also experienced a brief
loss/separation at 23 years old. His ex girlfriend Cindy Tromp went to study abroad in
The Netherlands and went with his son who was then three years old, this separation
broke Jake’s heart but after 7/8 months the mother and Jared came back to Aruba and
Participant Jake Deyes is a white Aruban male. He grew up in Aruba and has lived all
his life in Aruba. Jake explains that he never experienced discrimination in any form.
He only had his ups and downs with religion. Jake was brought up in a Roman
Catholic house, but religion was not of importance. When his parents got divorced, he
together with his mom started to attend a Christian Church in Dakota. As the months
went by they started to attend the church less. Afterwards they stopped attending the
church because his mother did not feel like going to the church anymore. He mentions
that right now he is trying to restore his faith in God and that he believes in God.
14. Strengths, Resilience and Resources
has good communication skills and is not shy to open up. Jake is an athletic person he
won a lot of championships playing paintball and bowling. He has scuba diving
Resources: Participant Jake Deyes owns a car, he owns a room and bathroom in
their house, he has a three year old daughter and a six year old son, he has friends,
family members that supports him and has a good job which means he has a steady
Resilience: Despite all the challenges that Participant Jake has experienced through
out his life, he was always able to get through them. He dropped out of high school
but managed to land good jobs and preforms well at them. The divorce of his parents
was a tough for him but he did not lose complete contact with his parents and wants to
better the relationship between them. After breaking up with her ex- girlfriend Cindy
he kept a good relationship with her for the sake of their son. When his son went to
the Netherlands he tried to face time and call him everyday in order to cope with the
situation and maintain a strong bond with his son. Losing his grandmother was hard
but he finds comfort knowing that his grandmother is with God and is looking after
him.
Summary)
Assessing participant Jake Deyes Psychosocial Assessment I can conclude that the
root of his aggressive behavior is the many challenges he faced while growing up
mainly the divorce of his biological parents he experienced when he was 9 years old.
His parents never had a conversation with him explaining him why they were getting
divorced. It was never addressed to him. The anger and sadness he felt while growing
up never truly went away he kept it bottled up inside and this can be because he was
taught by his father to not show emotions to be ‘’ Manly’ ‘and that ‘’boys don’t cry’’.
Participant Jake Deyes was brought up with the ‘’Macho mentality’’ which in terms
hampered him in showing his concerns and feelings towards the divorce of his
parents. Jake never had the chance to express his feelings towards this situation and
never experienced closure towards this chapter of his life, which in terms affected him
in the long term in the form of behavioral problem: stress, anger, uneasiness and
depression. It can also be the cause why Jake dropped out of high school and started
to experiment with drugs in order to confront his feelings. This was his coping
mechanism in his teens. This also explains the troublesome relationships he has with
his family members. The death of his grandmother who he loved dearly could be the
cause why his behavioral problems are getting worse, because he has nobody else to
run to whom he truly can trust and can truly understand him. However, participant
Jake Deyes is ready and willing for guidance and he recognizes that he has behavioral
would be essential to use the Family Systems Therapy because this theory views the
family as an emotional unit and using systems thinking I would be able to describe the
complex interactions in this unit causing his behavioral problems because in the case
of Jake we are talking about an emotional cut off due to unresolved emotional issues
experienced by the divorce. I will also use the Strengths based approaches in order to
empower Jake for further positive development and growth. We will explore his
his negative reactions and learn new, positive emotional and behavioral response to
challenging situations.
1.Using the Family Systems Theory, I will construct a Genogram with Jake in order to
get insight on the impact of his family relationships (maternal grandmother and
divorce of his parents) may be responsible for his emotions and behaviors and
unresolved anger.
2. Using mindfulness practices to guide him towards becoming self-aware and using
3.Have Jake to complete a strengths Test to acknowledge his strengths, resilience and
4. A private counseling session with Jake’s Father Alex Deyes and Jake so he can
express himself and bring closure towards the divorce. In order to better their
relationship.
5. A private counseling session with Jake and his mother Zoella Croes so he can
express himself and bring closure towards the divorce. In order to better their
relationship.
6. A counseling session with both Jake’s biological parents and Jake to determine how
Conclusion/ Reflection
Writing this psychosocial assessment for participant Jake Deyes has broaden my
participants and how to write an effective report. It has also helped me to discover my
has given me a deeper insight in to how I can integrate theories such as the ‘’
childhood experiences with divorce. This assignment also gave me the opportunity to
acquire different Core Competencies. CC1: Critically engage assess, intervene and
levels (level 2) sat at the core of this assignment. Indicator 2.1: collect, organize and
interpret participant’s data. I was able to acquire this indicator by learning how to
intervention plans with goals, objectives and desired outcomes with participant
populations. I have adhere this indicator by identifying Jake’s concerns and goals that
he wanted to achieve, and facilitating him with the most effective counseling and
background and assisting him in to telling his story of his life I was able to identify
his challenge in order to apply an appropriate intervention plan and was able to collect
all the information necessary to conduct an effective intake interview. Indicator 2.6:
approaching Jake with a positive, supportive and non-judgemental attitude I was able
to build the trust between us in order to seek and identify the root of the challenges he
is facing. Furthermore, this psychosocial assessment will guide me with the making of
participant Jake Deyes. The challenges he is currently facing, the root and cause of the
challenges and what he would want to achieve with the counseling sessions. It also
facilitates me with the information that I would need to make the most effective
intervention plan for my participant Jake Deyes. Making this assessment was a
stepping-stone in to how I can further better my intake interviews for year three and