When life doesn't succeed in breaking you today, it will try again tomorrow.

But each time pick yourself up, dust yourself off, put on those dark shades, and walk away with your
back facing the explosion ....

If you made it this far, you WILL make it that far

Strength is

1. knowing where you don't belong,

2. knowing what you want,

3. not getting attached,

4. not caring about what people might think, and

5. accepting urself despite all reasons not to

 THE SURVIVALIST MANUAL

(chpt 1: LIFE LESSONS)

1. You never know how lonely you are until you get to need people to be there for you.

2. You never really know people until you say no to them.

3. The moment you tell someone how important they are to you, is the moment you lose them.

4. People will hurt you just for the fun of it

5. Never prevent anybody the opportunity to not learn from their own mistakes --you'll either be a
nuisance if you do, or an expert if you don't

6. Sometimes you need to show some people just the kind of person they're messing with

7. Moments fade. People change. Be ready to show them the door if they want to walk out on you.

8. Never be too available to the point where you start losing your value

#Never_Get_Attached
 THE SURVIVALIST MANUAL

(chapt 2: DUE DILIGENCE)

1. Sometimes giving people second chances is just another means of opening yourself up for multiple
offenses. You've got to identify the leopards at first sight.

2. Every action as its repercussions, don't think those consequences ceases because it got to your turn.
Ignoring you when you need them is teaching you to ignore them when they need you.

3. Everyone is flawed. But flaws aren't deliberate. If it's deliberate, see it as intentional. Cry deep. Cry
long. But when you're done, make sure you never cry for the same reasons again.

4. Respect is golden. Never permit being taken emotionally for granted. How to know? When what you
think, or how you feel about a thing, no longer matters to neither acquaintances, colleagues, friends, nor
family.

5. Retain your goodness but discard those who don't value it. Never let another dictate your realities nor
interpret it for you. Die remembering you're not anybody's bullsh*t dumping ground.

6. People will mess you up and then act like you're the one with the problem --now is not the time to
prove how good or understanding you can be, if they don't admit fault then don't attempt to be
considerate.

7. Quit playing by the rules when the referee hasn't showed up.
There's no one stronger than a person in love with their own company; contented with their status; and
at peace with their own flaws.

Such a person can bring down empires within months. But greed causes self doubt.

The greatest battle we encounter is about owning our own minds. Once your mind is snatched from the
clutches of itself and from society, the world is then yours.

Before you conclude anybody to be a fool, look closely to determine if you're not the one being fooled.

Alliances break; friendship ends; love fades: in life count on nothing other than yourself.

#1commonFACT

There are certain friends you have now that'll only be friends by the true definition several years to
come, but for the meantime would be nothing more than acquaintances, so don't get too attached to
either making them friends now or their intolerable habit of ignoring your advances.

Don't get attached to people because half the depressing stresses you have now are either borne out
out of disappointments, or betrayals, and these are people related. So don't try to accommodate or
keep giving chances to those who really don't want it.

DAILY GOALS

Be very careful guys and gals, kindness and niceties have now been weaponized. People with good
hearts often have those hearts broken. Be mindful of this: you are not what they rejected. Oftentimes
those turning you down aren't as put together as they seem.
 WISDOM QUOTES:

Its a new year, but the same old u. So u need to learn or accept the things ur darkness taught u and stop
falling for the same misery over and over again

1. Those luckiest the most often turn out to be those who complain bitterly. Perspective is the difference
between a blessing and a curse.

2. Nobody turns their back on family, they only gravitate to the ones who makes them feel most
welcomed.

3. Nothing hurts more than seeing those who should understand ur plight, tell u that ur being
unreasonable, and telling u its not ok to speak out.

4. The saddest thing is having those who think u ought to live ur life according to their principles never
follow that same principles when they're in ur shoes

5. Its ur life, not their life. Allow urself the privilege of living it, because behind that whole chastening,
are the same pretentious folks who do worse off than u ever did urself.

6. Never go for advice to those who rarely encourage you.

7. Everybody has theirs and its their good, do not let anyone tell u that its wrong to want urs too.

8. When u sin God will tell u ur errors but not through a sinner who's worse off than u.

9. The one who loves you will make out time for you, the one who doesn't will make out excuses. Be
careful of those self centered ones, no matter how much you try to prove yourself to them, you'll end up
 always trying to prove yourself to them, Don't let nobody make you feel inferior for craving the basic
things.

10. Anybody can change

SOLOMON DIDN'T GET WISE THROUGH HAPPY DAYS, BUT BY WALKING THROUGH EARLY FIRES DID GOD
GRANT HIM IMMEASURABLE WISDOM

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1. Oftentimes, the real culprits are never the ones hated, but those who try to prove they are not the
same as them. The ones who committed the actual offense are continued to be loved in fact, while the
ones who did no wrong suffer the vengeance. Don't be surprised if ur lover cherishes their wicked ex
over u

2. Oftentimes we judge ourselves by others stupidities 4getting that it is theirs to regret of, not ours to
define us with.