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Both O and L struggle with emotional regulation and over the last few years, we've tried
many different strategies. The one that they both keep going back to, is calming
breathing techniques.
Calming breathing techniques have to be one of the best tools that we can equip our
children with to use when they need to manage their own emotions. Both O and L have a
sensory tool kit that generally goes everywhere with them. But at times, it just isn't
possible to send the tool kit. Their breath on the other hand, they will always have that.
Teaching children different calming breathing techniques gives them a simple yet very
effective strategy for slowing down, physically, emotionally and mentally. Calming
breathing techniques can assist children to take notice of how they are emotionally and
physically feeling and can also help them to relax and calm when they feel overwhelmed.
I've used calming breathing techniques for my own two little superheroes as well as with
other children that have been in my care. A few years ago I found a book titled "Little
Monkey Calms Down," which I used to introduce calming breathing techniques to O and
L. I then went onto use the book in an early learning setting to explain mindfulness to
children as young as two years of age. And you what? It actually worked.
I've found that if I model to a child how to use calming breathing techniques when they
are experiencing BIG emotions, they are more likely to want to start using the breathing
techniques themselves.
Now there are many, many sites on which you can find different breathing techniques
and visuals, but unfortunately we've never been able to find visuals that both O and L
liked. So over this past week, I sat down with O and L and they helped to make visuals
using images that they liked.
We will print these out, laminate them and put them onto a small key ring so that they're
handy for when O and L need to use them.
Dragon Breathing
Snake Breathing
O ... Snake breathing is something that I like to do when I am sad because it's a sad
sounding noise.
L ... This one too hard for me.
O ... It's okay L, we just need to practise it more, we can practise together. To do snake
breathing, you take a deep breath in through your nose. Then when you breathe out
through your mouth, you hiss very quietly like a sad snake. It sounds like a long sssss
sound.
L ... Oh okay.
O ... I really like this one when I'm sad because it helps me to control my breathing too.
Me ... Thank you for helping to explain all of these breathing techniques.
O ... You're welcome Mummy.
L ... You welcome Mummy.