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Every Christmas families gather together to enjoy a meal together, to catch up, share memories and
give each other gifts. Where does this tradition of giving gifts come from?
Christmas Spirit
We should give gifts not because we want to one-up others, or show off the fancy and expensive items
we give ad receive. We give gifts to express our love and appreciation of others. Love seeks the highest
good of the beloved. Most of the time the highest good is not met with expensive gifts, but with simple
things of every day use or value. Those socks and underwear our parents bought us, while they could
never excite us as much as the latest video game system, were the deeper expression of their love for
us, manifest as provision. To help your family maintain the proper perspective on Christmas it is
helpful to have a weekly family study time on the topics of love, charity, thankfulness and grace
throughout the Advent season. It need not be a long, drawn out Bible study, but a simple ten minute
discussion connecting each of these characteristics to the birth of our Lord. It might help to use an
Advent calendar as well. One with all the chocolate everyone loves so much. Just be certain to have
enough extras for everyone. Another thing you might consider is setting up a manger scene in your
home, and praying together each evening, thanking your Heavenly Father for the birth of Christ, as
well as all the blessings you have received throughout the year. Do not just give a general thanks, but
be specific. Thank Him for the new tires on the car, the raise you got at work, your good grades in
school, and other things that you might take for granted the rest of the year. (Ephesians 5:20; Psalm
100:4) And most of all, thank Him for the gift of salvation given to you even though you did nothing to
deserve it. Get involved with your church's Christmas programs. Volunteer to help out in whatever way
needed, and do so as a family. Trust me, pastors are always more than happy to see more people
involved, so never think to yourself, 'Nah, they have enough people helping out. They don't need me.
I'd just be in the way.' There is always some way you can help, even if it is something as humble as
cleaning up after choir practice. Remember, your time and energy are gifts you give freely to Christ
through His church, so it is one way you give back to the Lord. Finally, be sure to attend church
throughout the Advent season, since the readings from Sacred Scripture and the sermons will all help to
focus your heart and mind on the true spirit of the season. Take in the beauty of Christmas as if it were
the first time in your life that you had ever experienced the celebration of the birth of Jesus Christ.
Rekindle the wonder and awe of the beautifully decorated trees, the carols, and the hymns, and take
time to remind yourself of what is most important in life. Sure, enjoy the eggnog, the cinnamon
pastries, and the gifts, but do not lose sight of the greatest gift of all-your Savior who humbled Himself
to become a little child in a cave in an insignificant place called Bethlehem.
J. Davila-Ashcraft is an Anglican priest, Theologian, and Apologist, and holds a B.A. in Biblical
Studies and Theology from God’s Bible College in Cincinnati, Ohio. He is a recognized authority on
the topic of exorcism, and in that capacity has contributed to and/or appeared on programming for The
National Geographic Channel, Discovery Channel, and CNN. He is the host of Expedition Truth, a
one-hour apologetics radio talk show.