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Lesson 3 Small Talk Guidelines
Lesson 3 Small Talk Guidelines
Below are some typical small talk phrases you can use next time you bump into someone
you know, where perhaps you haven’t seen each other for a while.
If you feel uncomfortable with small talk, next time try to stay longer in the interaction.
Stay one minute longer than you would normally. Do it regularly and you’ll be more
relaxed in these situations.
Phrases like ‘how are you going?’ are often shortened in spoken English to ‘How you
going?’ or phonetically you’ll even hear something like ‘how-ya going?’
‘Fancy meeting you here!’ is used especially in the UK and Australia to show you’re
surprised to meet them at this place.
(The) last time I saw you, you were looking for a new job. How did that go?
I think it’s been a year now. Did you end up getting that job/promotion?
Use ‘that’ to refer to things both already know about, in this case ‘that job’ refers to ‘that
job I remember you applied for’
I remember you were planning to head off to Japan. How did it go?
Did you hear about Susan and Jim? They’re getting a divorce!
That’s great!
That’s wonderful!
It’s been great to see you again but I’d better be off.
Sorry, I’ve got to go – I’ve got a meeting at 11am.
Listen, we should do this again sometime [and then swap numbers if you don’t have their
details]
Look, let’s catch up again – what about next week? [if you’re confident you both want
to catch up]
It was great talking with you, but I’ve got to go. Good luck with the new job!
I’d better let you go. This is a polite way to show you are respecting their time, but you
want to go too
At the office
At a social event
Waiting somewhere