Always make him repeat the
Let him sing for a while.
Make him say "Sorry."
Promptly stop and punish
him with a graded response
(i.e. acting angrier depending
on the injury or intention)
Do it by force, only if the
issue is safety and urgency
Be patient rst and ask nicely.
Reward him for good behavior
Tolerate his RIGHT TO SAY NO
as much as you could
Never spank him out of anger,
embarrassment, and disrespect
Be patient and try to explain
why he shouldn't be afraid
right word with the right
When he's nished, pronunciation then practice him
sing correctly with him
Laughing or smiling will only Introduce new words/phrases
reinforce the behavior by making by interacting, reading, singing or playing
him feel ente aining Right words but
wrong pronunciation?
Wrong words or
Does he sing with Avoid tolerating or ignoring
no response at all?
incomprehensible words his wrong way of speaking
Stop him immediately because it will be harder to
and say "No!" rectify in the long term
Does he still Overusage of words/phrases
Make him say baby talk? and lack of vocabulary
"Thank you!"
Do the WAITING/EYE EXERCISE: Tell him
Did he receive to focus on your eyes, then count from 1 to 10.
something from you? Speech Delay Count slowly and make him follow your
(Expressive) pace, not the other way around
Does he lose focus
Did he hu or did something or eye contact?
wrong to someone?
Be creative and patient
Does he fail to respond to get his a ention
correctly due to playing
Is he not sharing his toys or or daydreaming?
giveback something, not his?
Discipline and If he is being playful, play with him
Ina ention
Social conduct Does he fail to behave rst and try to gain his trust
and Hyperactivity or sit down?
Does he not
follow commands? Do the CHAIR EXERCISE:
Make him sit on a chair and never
Is he having a tantrum or let him go until he calms down
an uncontrollable,
Did he do something
THE OMPIN APPROACH excessive crying?
embarrassing or disappointing?
Do not use excessive force
while trying to restrain him.
Is he restless and compulsive
But be rm and avoid being inconsistent
to do other things instead of
Promptly react and eating, sleeping, etc?
strongly discourage the Anxiety, obsession and
wrongful act manipulation Remove the object triggering him
even if he cries loudly and causes a scene
Does he overreacts from fear
and hides under a table or chair?
Do not do the eye/waiting exercise
in this situation because he needs to
Take away the object of Does he hu Does he have an obsession learn how to completely LET GO
fear and calm him down people or himself? and does he asks for it o en?
Does he forcefully cry Do not grant his request
Promptly stop and punish to get what he wants? without establishing control
him with a graded response (i.e. watching tv without limit)
(i.e. acting angrier depending
on the injury or intention) Present a di erent diversion
Ignore the crying
activity and give reward
Try to DESENSITIZE him, by then try to explain why
for good behavior
exposing him, li le by li le he cannot have it
NEVER IGNORE the
to the object of fear
behavior because it will
become a habit Do the CHAIR EXERCISE:
Make him sit on a chair and never
let him go until he stops crying
NEVER HURT HIM back out of
anger and embarrassment