JOHN CARL P.

ARBONIDA
BSET 1A

"Autobiography"

Year 2001 on the 22nd day of November at Poblacion Siocon

Zamboanga del Norte, there was a woman having discomfort caused by

a childbirth labor, On that particular day a couple whose name are

Anastacio Arbonida and Marcela Arbonida recieved a precious blessing

from heaven, An adorable, cute, and lovely baby that brought joy to the

family.

I'm John Carl Arbonida my story began Siocon Zamboanga del Norte

in the early 2001, I grew up in a very close family, with my three brothers

and three Sisters, my memories of childhood are good ones, seems like I

have no problem, even though my parents are separated, and Yes we're

very affected of what happened to my parents separations, but it doesn't

mean we lose our hope to be happy as a family despite of their

separation,

When I started studying I have a lot of "Kalukuhan" that I made like

when I was in Grade 1 instead of going to school I'll will always wanted to

cutting classes with my Friends, Because before I didn't understand Why

I needed to study and then my teacher that time is so "Maldita" I don't

know why she always Mad at me, So I decided not to attend her class 😂,

we always bathe in the river with my friends because our school near in

the river,

When I was in High School that tim I have a lot of friends That we

treated like a siblings, and The teacher you can treat them like a friends,

High School would probably be the best time of our lives, for the past six

years Which I became a High School student, I didn't expect the

unexpected, it's not easy of having bigger responsibilities, more

complicated projects, difficult homework and so on, I've experienced a

lot of time-sacrificing brain drying Activities, and yet we, as a section

survived all these stuffs, High School is way too different that

elementary, and I know who's currently reading these would probably

agree with me, I have a lot of "Kalukuhan" that I made just like I skipped

some subjects because I get bored in class, I just wanted down on

benches with my friends, The way I sang loudly at hallway with my idiot

friends the way we dared each other to do some crazy stuffs like begging

some money from other people😂 as if like we are beggars,

The unforgettable moment that happened in my high school life when

we were practicing our dance step for our J.S promenade, the butterflies

bugging in my stomach when my partner and I dancing, the way she

dance as if like she was my princess, the time slowed down and I cared

nothing but her in the dance, I told my self to indulge every second of it
because as other people say "It's once in a life time" (kaya sinulit ko

talaga😂) and it was all worth it despite my aching toes because of the

tiktak shoes, finally when the J.S prom happened I met the girl who's get

my attention she's so damn beautiful and I asked a favor of her friends

(baka naman pa reto jan) and they really did, when I first talked to her I

feel nervous (pinagpawisan ang kamay😅) I thought it might be

"Suplada" but I was wrong she's so nice, and I asked her if we could

dance, she said "cge ba" while we dance we enjoyed our topic and until I

asked her that " Can I court you" and she said (depende) and I'm not

satisfied of her answer so I find a better way so that I can make sure that

she allow me to court her (gumawa talaga ako ng mga banat at pick up

lines para Lang pumayag siya inshort pang bobola) and Finally she said

"galingan ko daw😂" and that time I feel "Kilig" not because of her

answer, but because of her smile, I wanna kiss her and suddenly my

friend tease me (Dahan Dahan lang boy) and didn't happened 😅, after

that night we started chatting and phone call, and until the time come

and I get her "matamis na Oo" she is my first love and until we still

together.

When I was a Teenager I had a problem of my body changes, and I

didn't grow tall my height is only 5,2 and I have a lot of pimples to my

face , sometimes it can be irritating since it is something new for me.

There have been instances where I feel because of these changes in my

body. I believe that it is during this stage of one's life when a person is

most insecure of his/her physical appearance, sometimes I don't feel

satisfied with my body weight or the way my face look. Teenagers are

make a big deal out of how they dress up, It is very important to me to

look good every time I go out.

Now I'm in College, I don't think if studying in college is fun maybe

just because of our situation that we can't have face to face classes and

it's hard to answer our module, that's why we can say boring, as of now I

don't have yet experience of how College life beautiful is.

My first work experience is a Car wash boy I was thirteen years old

that time I realized that life is not easy, at a young age I need to work

hard so that I can earn money for my studies, we are not wealthy family,

Instead of playing I decided to find a part-time job, when I started

working in a carwash is not easy because there's a lot of rules that I

should to follow.

The most important people in my life my family they are

the only that I have, they are the first source of love that I receive in my

life,they teaches the meaning of love which I carry on forever in my

heart, family is the best friend of all,they will never betrayed and we can

see the loyalty with them, and I'm thankful with them, they do
everything for me,they're very adorable and caring, they one of the

people I respect and love the most. For me my family is the best family in

the world.

I have a lot of challenges that I've faced today, one of these our daily

need like Household expenses and my online studying but we can handle

it. Because I learned that giving up is not an option in life, Instead I

should put more effort towards achieving my goals. Throughout my

educational, I've experience various challenges, the financial constraint

was the major challenge because my father would struggle to pay my

fees, The experience changed my personality into an introvert I ensure

that deal with my problem bofore I tell them, otherwise,I go silent trying

to figure out the most appropriate solution to apply, I see my life,and I

remember some of my experiences that I had,my current life is the end

result of such experiences, besides the challenges I had in life made me

persistent, therefore I ensure that I'm focused to achieve my set goal

despite the challenges that I undergo.