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Retreat Reflection
Thinking back to brainstorming for a group project this past fall quarter, I believe I
facilitated a conversation well by asking a lot of questions. In particular, one group member
had a tendency to talk a lot—they had great ideas, but this initially appeared to make some
quieter members in the group less comfortable speaking up, prompting them to just go with
the flow. When I would ask general questions, not just about what to do next but also
evaluating ideas that had been said to improve them (as in, “What do you guys think about
this?”), they voiced their opinions more, which ultimately led to better work from our group.
A strategy that stood out to me had to do with not prescribing an answer, something I
would like to make sure I incorporate in my own teaching. I’ve had many teachers where they
ask a question and people give perfectly reasonable, correct responses—and yet, the teacher
says, “sure, but I’m thinking of something else.” I’ve found this guessing game frustrating
before, not only because there’ no true way to know what a teacher is thinking, but also
because just because the teacher is thinking of one particular answer doesn’t mean the
others are any less valid. Accordingly, I want to make sure that I avoid this behavior by
listening with respect. Rather than each contribution being a stop on the way to a destination,
they can each be worth exploring. It makes me think of something I’ve heard about having
regular, day-to-day conversations. Sometimes one won’t fully listen to the person they’re
talking to because they’re too busy thinking about what they want to say next. Instead, it’s
important to be fully present and hear the other person properly, then see where that takes
the discussion.
Another strategy I would like to incorporate is summarizing. Sometimes when I’m
feeling tired in class it can be difficult to keep track of the main takeaways of what a
discussion is covering, and just in general, hearing someone’s idea of a summary can be
useful. It can help to either contextualize everyone’s thoughts and string them together, or to
learn that something needs to be better clarified because it wasn’t understood as intended.
Additionally, being open and asking for class input on what the main point is or where the
discussion should go next could also be valuable to incorporate.