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The Sunday Times Style - December 26, 2021
The Sunday Times Style - December 26, 2021
SKINNY BROWS!
IT BOBS!
COUTURE SKIWEAR!
RAVE CAVES!
What’s in
and out
for 2022
YOUR ULTIMATE GUIDE TO THE TRENDS TO KNOW NOW
The big 2022
Barometer
It-girl bobs, wonky beauty, vineyard staycations and the return
of – gulp – the skinny brow. Yes, we’ve gazed into our crystal ball
and these are the trends set to define your year ahead
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Blast off!
It’s the
rise of
EETS
spacecore
TR
IS
The UK is on track
@ M A
to enter the space
race next year, with
our first satellites
and rockets due to
be launched from
spaceports on home
soil in Cornwall and
Scotland. You’ll be
relieved to hear that
fashion is already at
hand for out-of-this-
world inspiration: see
the tinfoil dresses at
Balenciaga, Loewe’s
metallic-breastplate
Words: Jane McFarland, Henrik Lischke, Verity Clark, Victoria Brzezinski,
mesh catsuits,
inspired by Jane
Fonda’s 41st-century
astronaut Barbarella.
JUNYA WATANABE
emblazoned folding
chairs and coffee mugs
as well as clothing.
SPORTMAX
for fashionkind …
HUI
ON THE COVER IDA HEINER AT SCOOP PHOTOGRAPH CARLIJN JACOBS STYLING FANNY OUREVITCH HAIR MICHAL BIELECKI MAKE-UP MARIANNE AGBADOUMA. JACKET, £4,850, AND SKI MASK, £840, LOUIS VUITTON
EDITOR LAURA ATKINSON DEPUTY EDITOR CHARLOTTE WILLIAMSON ART DIRECTOR ANDREW BARLOW FASHION DIRECTOR JANE MCFARLAND BEAUTY DIRECTOR SARAH JOSSEL FEATURES EDITOR LOUISA MCGILLICUDDY
ENTERTAINMENT EDITOR SCARLETT RUSSELL ACTING ENTERTAINMENT EDITOR OLIVER GRADY JEWELLERY DIRECTOR JESSICA DIAMOND ASSOCIATE FASHION DIRECTOR VERITY PARKER FASHION AND MERCHANDISE EDITOR FLOSSIE SAUNDERS
BOOKINGS DIRECTOR AND CREATIVE PRODUCER LEILA HARTLEY PICTURE EDITOR CATHERINE PYKETT-COMBES ACTING PICTURE EDITOR LORI LEFTEROVA SENIOR DESIGNER ANDY TAYLOR JUNIOR FASHION EDITOR HENRIK LISCHKE
STAFF WRITER AND EDITORIAL ASSISTANT ROISIN KELLY CONTRIBUTING BEAUTY EDITOR LAURA KENNEDY CONTRIBUTING EDITOR ALICE KEMP-HABIB CHIEF SUB-EDITOR SOPHIE FAVELL SENIOR SUB-EDITOR JANE MCDONALD
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The brag-worthy
destination: Transylvania
Instagrammable landscapes, delicious wines, off-the-beaten-track
privacy — more and more of the rich and famous are directing
their private jets to Transylvania. The luxury hotel site Mr & Mrs
Smith has two properties there on its books: the eco-friendly
Copsamare Guesthouses and the historic Bethlen Estates (right
and below), the latter a stylishly renovated sprawl of 300-year-old
residences that will be opening luxury barn accommodation in
March. Expect elevated spins on traditional local fare while you’re
staying there, such as wild river trout tartare. Prince Charles owns
several properties in the region, including in the village of
Malancrav, and the half-Romanian Emma Raducanu recently
played in the Transylvania Open. The country is a bit of a tennis
hotspot, in fact: Romania has eight players in the women’s top
150, double that of the UK. Make sure to visit the charming
Transylvanian Saxon village of Biertan, a Unesco world heritage
site, and of course take a trip to Bran Castle — yes, Dracula’s
castle — which even has its own restaurant.
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Getty Images, Disney+, Philip Vile, Netflix
5 Weights, but
ANNABELLE DEXTER-JONES
Phoebe Philo at
the Celine spring/
summer 2016 show
6 The #Philophiles return!
Phoebe Philo has been rumoured to be taking over every
high-profile fashion gig of the past few years, and it’s now
official — the British designer is finally back in the biz. Celine’s
former creative director, 48, has a devoted following for her
MIRTHE DIJK
MERLIJNE SCHORREN
ELISA NIJMAN
Ski goes
high fashion
Sure, skiwear isn’t new, but — in good news for
the sports-averse — this year it is coming off the
slopes and into your wardrobes. Alpine
adventures and the co-ordinating retro
wardrobe have officially captured the heart
of the fashion set. Isabel Marant recently
launched a capsule skiwear collection with
MyTheresa, Dior dropped a leopard-print
snowsuit, and a big street-style trend at Paris
fashion week was influencers in knitted
balaclavas. Plus, Louis Vuitton has launched
its debut skiwear collection, featuring a
monogrammed high-vis ski mask and
high-tech ski boots, as well as limited-edition
“high-end artisanal skis”, naturally. And in
further proof that skiwear is firmly in fashion
territory, the much Instagrammed label Perfect
Moment — its flared Aurora ski pants are Chloé’s
bestsellers season after season — will be collaboration
floating on the stock market next year. On your with French
mood board? Princess Grace of Monaco circa brand Fusalp
1962 sledging around Gstaad in an Aran knit
sweater. Schwoop schwoop! Jacket, £1,542,
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Chloé x Fusalp; mytheresa.com. Ski pants,
£685, Chloé x Fusalp; net-a-porter.com
Louis Vuitton’s
debut skiwear
collection
The DiorAlps
capsule Plus!
collection The three ski
by Dior
hotspots to book now
For celeb-spotting
UTAH, USA
Bring your binoculars — in recent years Kim
and Kourtney Kardashian, Gwen Stefani,
Jane Fonda and the like have hit the slopes at
the ski haven of Deer Valley (above), east of
Salt Lake City, and Justin Bieber and Taylor
Swift have rented the same holiday lodge
near by. Now Club Med has announced that
it will open a five-star resort a little further
north at Snowbasin in 2024. Start saving.
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Build a rave cave
A private
basement rave
cave by interior
designer
Natalia Miyar
Yes, a rave cave should be on your home renovation wish list for
2022. Forget the “kitchen disco” (sorry, Sophie Ellis-Bextor) — the
at-home club is “cooler and more louche”, says Paul Middlemiss,
founder of the Hampshire-based interiors emporium Merchant &
This picture Found. He specialises in sourcing vintage pieces for his clients’
Courtney Love central London homes and country bolt holes. “Since the
last year. Below pandemic, our clients are increasingly looking for their homes to
With Kurt Cobain be a one-stop shop. Home clubs, rave dens and bars are definitely
and daughter, on the rise and I think this will continue into 2022.” Over the past
Frances Bean, 1993 18 months he has kitted out six rave dens in 100 per cent vintage
pieces taken from old nightclubs and bars. “We sourced huge disco
balls, a beautiful original French bar and illuminated carnival signs.”
Charu Gandhi, founder of the Kensington design studio Elicyon,
has noticed demand soar too. She’s designing a “pleasure palace”
in one client’s Lake District home “to host parties, events and
family activities”. Bedecked in emerald green and black veneer, the
basement includes a nightclub, bar, bowling alley and casino, not
forgetting a bespoke “oversized gorilla sculpture wearing a party
hat”. It’s a shoes-off affair, though, with a carpeted dance zone
beside a bronze mesh and backlit onyx bar. The French glass-maker
Lalique reports an increase in commissions for high-spec home
Getty Images
Photographs
Bella Howard
Styling
Clementine Brown
Blonde
She might divide opinion, but Gemma Collins is one of the
biggest – and most bankable – reality TV stars of our times, selling
everything from collagen to condoms. Next up? A nationwide tour.
Polly Vernon meets the real GC at home in Essex
I arrive at Gemma Collins’s big converted-barn home, dedicated fans and equally dedicated trolls — has
in a corner of rural Essex, on a spectacular autumn day. entered her social conscience phase.
Burnished leaves drift, conkers conk, gentle sunlight “Massively! I mean, at the end of the day I’ve been
bounces off the glitter ball dangling from the mouth of very fortunate, but I’ve been fortunate because I have
a white stallion sculpture that stands full-sized and worked really hard — and I’ve been enjoying it. But you
haughty in her vast garden, just to the left of the can’t live your life every day shopping up the West End.
sequin-encrusted pool. You have to stay normal. When I moved in here [to the
I am greeted by Collins’s manager, Mark, who ushers £1.35 million barn conversion] there was no plants, it
me into a vast kitchen (showy kitchen island, check, was just a house with the field. So now I’m really into
Smeg toaster, which, Collins will say, she only uses for gardening. Obviously we’ve got to save the bees.”
sourdough — “I’m not putting your average white sliced Conservation is your thing?
in” — check), where I find her mother, Joan, and a lithe- “Yes! I have sustainability. It’s all about nature, isn’t
hipped, shiny-haired assistant called Ed, who offer me it? I can’t bear food waste. Can’t stand it.”
all manner of drinks and tell me what a lovely day it is. This might strike you as an unlikely segue for the
“Got a load of bras to take to the bra bank!” Gemma woman who, over the past decade — ever since she
Collins declares as she descends a staircase, body was cast on Towie in 2011, then aged 30 — has come
wrapped in a fluffy white towel, hair tied back off her to define the contemporary idea of Essex girl. Blonde,
big, cartoon-pretty face. Demeanour: grand, verging loud, glamorous, dripping in things, Collins is a ramp-
on regal. ant consumer, unapologetically money-driven. It was
Hello, I say. What’s a bra bank? Collins disappears, the pursuit of money as much as fame that urged
then reappears in a black sundress, her hair unleashed. Collins towards Towie in the first instance. She tells
She ushers me back out into the sunlit garden, on to me that from the moment she was cast (and despite
expensive-looking garden furniture padded with fake her businessman father, Alan, telling her to turn it
Prada cushions. (“Fifteen quid from the market. I get down: “You’re an absolute mug, Gemma. It’s £50 a
great pleasure looking at them.”) day!”) she understood how to “market the f *** out of
“With all what’s going on at the minute in Afghanistan it! Absolutely! Give ’em what they want, leave them
and poorer countries, women don’t have bras! Couldn’t wanting more.”
believe it! I said, ‘That’s terrible that people haven’t got So she began: stealing her every Towie scene, then
bras!’ I know what mine are like when I haven’t got a bra parlaying those moments into other opportunities.
on, right down to my ankles.” She gestures for clarifica- A brief appearance on 2014’s I’m a Celebrity … (she left
tion. “My PA came the other day — ‘My daughters at after three days: “I know this sounds really bad, but
school are collecting for the bra bank …’” I can remember saying to Bob — he sets the tasks up —
So, bring out your bras! ‘Bob, can I have a Diet Coke? I’m f ***ing gasping here!’
“Bring out the bras, Ed! Bring out the bras! There’s And he was, like, ‘I can’t’”), longer stints on Celebrity
about a hundred of them. They can go in Mark’s car.” Big Brother and Dancing on Ice, a dedicated Piers
“I’ll leave with a hundred bras,” says Mark resignedly. Morgan’s Life Stories episode, all of which gave her more
He is sitting in on our interview, quietly and amenably and more material to market the f *** out of, more and
and without a hope in hell of reining his client in. more screen time with which to do it.
It appears that Gemma Collins — the breakout star Lately her public persona has evolved. As with
of The Only Way Is Essex (Towie), entrepreneur, head Pamela Anderson and Céline Dion before her,
of a mighty branding operation that incorporates Collins’s super-commercial mainstream primetime
clothing ranges and beauty products (GemmaCollagen, quality has been appropriated by the upper echelons
anyone?), current estimated net worth £2.7 million, of the fashion set. She has a close relationship with
TV ’n’ tabloid catnip, a woman with a legion of Valentino (she wore the label from head to toe in a
She isn’t without vulnerability. Her relationship with suicide … Is there something about reality TV that
Argent caused her great pain because of his cocaine attracts people with demons?
addiction, which he started undergoing treatment for “One of the producers, once … I said, ‘Why did you all
in 2020. The couple got together and split up repeat- pick us?’ And he said, ‘Because you’re all flawed in some
edly over several years, until Collins definitively ended way or another.’ It’s a deal with the devil, million per cent.
things last year. But the devil ain’t gonna beat me, honey.”
What gave you the strength to walk away finally? And there is so much more! Portentous vision boards; a
“I saved him from death three times, never got a cautionary tale about heavy denier tights on new wooden
thank you.” floors; her love for Boris Johnson; her loathing of the
You saved him from overdosing? Taliban (“How is the Taliban still existing?”). A charity
“Loads of times. I was filming Dancing on Ice and I’d event to save the elephants, during which Collins realised
had a phone call, and they said no one had been able to she might be rich but she isn’t big-elephant rich (“I can
get hold of him. I just knew instinctively to ring an only really probably get a little elephant that’s costing six
ambulance. I’d had a lovely day, all of a sudden the grand”); cancellation (“I’ve got to have a billion in the
stomach’s churning … I arrive at Whipps Cross bank first, then I can afford to get cancelled out”); and
Hospital, see him in a state. In that room, looking at the barn’s “Depop room”, which is another way Collins
him, thinking, I’ve got to go and film again tomorrow, makes money, even on a (rare) slow day. “If I make 20 quid
this is too much! The next day he’d discharged himself. on the Depop, I’m buzzing.”
Thought he doesn’t want the help.” She sighs. “You I know there would be more too: endless flickering
can’t go out with an addict.” insights into whatever it is that makes Gemma Collins one
Collins herself started self-harming as a teenager and of the most compelling, contentious, potent cultural
was still cutting herself behind the scenes of Towie. propositions of our time, but my cab has arrived, come to
She has stopped now; she shows me tiny slivers of scars whisk me off to Chelmsford station, plus there are bras to
on her wrist, tells me she’s proud of them. “It was a be loaded into the back of Mark’s car, so we say our good-
coping mechanism.” byes. Collins waves me off, having shoved a mega pack of
Your self-harm. James Argent’s addiction. Joey Essex, GemmaCollagen into my arms at the very last minute. ■
another Towie alumnus, a gilded, hilarious, spoilt-
seeming young man — who earlier this year made a Gemma Collins: The GC’s Big Night Out, April 5-13;
deeply moving BBC documentary about his mother’s myticket.co.uk or ticketmaster.co.uk
Now watch on YouTube Gemma Collins gives Sarah Jossel a GC makeover and reveals
her make-up bag essentials at youtube.com/TheSTStyle
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15ml sugar syrup (1:1)
85ml Scavi & Ray non-
A PERFECT alcoholic sparkling wine
SOBER Shake the gin, lemon juice
COCKTAIL and syrup with ice, strain
into a coupe or flute and
– and the top with the wine. Garnish
right canapés with a lemon twist.
MARCH
MAY
essentially buying clothes that could be worn
in the actual office or at the kitchen table/in
the home office (spare room). Lyst reported
wide-leg trousers were in high demand from
July, increasing by 87 per cent compared with
the previous year, while sales of oversized
suits jumped 109 per cent in August. Like the
JULY true fashion victim I am, I went full
ceremonial: belted blazers, patent ankle boots
and entirely useless miniature bags were
retrieved from their vacuum-packed storage
sacks for my sashay back to the office. Once
the initial buzz wore off (three commutes
later), I settled on my faithful suits but this
time worn with T-shirts and retro trainers.
I have hardly ironed a shirt since 2019.
How was the rest of your summer? For
most people, after weeks spent navigating
amber, green and eventually amber-plus
zones (thank you, Boris) and the price of
testing the whole family (thank you, Randox),
it meant yet another self-catered staycation.
Still, a fortnight of predicted rain didn’t stop
British women buying themselves a new
holiday wardrobe, including a designer basket
bag — a hit with fashion snobs and out-of-
towners alike — as well as a too-cold-for-
Britain summer dress that got worn … once.
Wiggy Kit smock dresses, La Double J ruffled
skirts and Ghost’s fun floral prints were
spotted from Somerset to St Ives, Jeremy
Clarkson became an unlikely muse among
the Chipping Norton set, and SUP (that’s
stand-up paddleboarding to you and me)
vests usurped the ubiquitous Dryrobe as the
extracurricular outfit of choice. Those who
managed to get abroad were quickly muted
on social media — one overpriced kaftan
A fortnight
of predicted
rain didn’t
stop British
women
buying a
holiday
wardrobe,
including a
designer
basket bag
AUGUST
SEPTEMBER
Imagine
being told
in January
that we
would be
considering
a bodycon
NOVEMBER
minidress
come
November
and a pair of aviator sunglasses won’t make
you JLo, honey.
September is often referred to as the
January of fashion and 2021 was no
exception — the return of catwalk shows,
the red carpet and what felt thrillingly like
normal life brought with it some serious
out-out peacocking. All manner of thongs
strutted down the catwalks at Paris fashion
week, a sell-out sexigan (the oxymoronic
“sexy cardigan”) by Jacquemus was worn by
the likes of Megan Fox and Hailey Bieber,
and Nensi Dojaka — purveyor of this year’s
viral bra-free “naked dress” — scooped the
LVMH prize. Imagine being told in January
that we would be considering a bodycon
minidress and stockpiling shapewear, and
that Kim Kardashian would (sort of ) be our
style inspiration? This was revenge dressing
at its finest, even if the getting-ready part
still trumped the actual event itself.
Meanwhile fugly footwear evolved from
comfy Crocs and designer clogs into
something more aesthetically pleasing: the
stonking disco platform.
And just like that … it’s December again.
My party dress is still hoping for another
outing before New Year’s Eve, but the cocoon
coat is front and centre once more in my DECEMBER
wardrobe. I’m getting my fashion thrills again
via the small screen, thanks to the reboot of
Sex and the City and the return of Emily in
Paris. And if I’m honest, I’ve never looked
forward more to those sartorial nothingness
days between Christmas and New Year. Bring
on the leggings … ■ @jane_mcfarland
Hi ho silver!
Ditch the gold bling –
silver jewellery is having
a moment again.
The look? Bigger and
bolder than ever
Edit Flossie Saunders
ALIGHIERI
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Rings 1
1 Deia domed ring, £85;
monicavinader.com.
2 Silver star signet ring,
£225, Shaun Leane;
libertylondon.com.
3 Sunburst signet ring, 2
£59, Estée Lalonde x Daisy;
daisyjewellery.com. 4 Oval
signet ring, £125, Tom
Wood; farfetch.com
Necklaces
1 Silver necklace, £355; gucci.com. 2 The Wasteland
RUNWAY CREDIT
LOMBARDI
3
LAURA
5
4 Bracelets
1 Chunky chain-link bracelet,
£200, Isabel Marant;
matchesfashion.com. 2 XL 1
Link metal bracelet, £310,
Paco Rabanne; matches
fashion.com. 3 Silver bangle,
£185, Bonny Powell; toa.st.
4 Crystal bracelet, £240,
Saint Laurent; net-a-porter.
com. 5 Slink silver bracelet,
£260; annikainez.com
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Earrings 2
1 Disc silver hoops, £560; bottegaveneta.com.
2 Interstellar diamond huggies, £595;
astleyclarke.com. 3 Tiny silver twist hoops, £49;
otiumberg.com. 4 Dio recycled silver earrings, £95;
lovenesslee.com. 5 Circles silver earrings, £119;
thomassabo.com. 6 Siren large silver hoops, £125,
Monica Vinader; selfridges.com
ANNIKA INEZ
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LOCATION,
DO A DIY BODY MASSAGE you can choose whether to treat dry eyes
The Therabody Theragun Prime (1 £275) (heat unblocks tiny glands to reduce
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may look like it could do damage to a wall, redness and itchiness), massage puffy
but it works wonders on aching muscles. peepers or rejuvenate a tired face
Float the vibrating device over tired joints with the red-light function.
and let it rest on any areas that are
particularly tense to ease out that REFRESH YOUR FACE 2
build-up of Christmas stress. The six settings of the Cloud 9 Revibe
Rejuvenating 6 in 1 Anti-Ageing Device
RELEASE FOOT TENSION (4 £449) include electric muscle
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Devotees of the Bed of Nails Bon stimulation to lift facial muscles and
Acupressure Mat (2 £70) love it for its red-light therapy to help your skin cells
quick tension-relieving benefits. It can be renew themselves after all those festivities.
used on a bed, chair or floor, but we’ve been 4
using it as a quick reflexology boost for HIT A MIGRAINE ON THE HEAD
tired party feet. Standing on the mat after A face-to-face appointment with A-list 5
a night in high heels sends muscle-relaxing acupuncturist Ross J Barr will set you back
shivers up the legs — bliss. £100, but his pain-relieving Calm Patches
(5 £15 for ten), formulated with ingredients
WAKE UP TIRED EYES used in traditional Chinese medicine, are
The Peep Club Heated Eye Wand (3 £60) a snip. Applied directly to the area of pain,
was launched this year and has quickly they not only help to ease headaches and
become a cult eye tool. With three migraines but also work wonders for
settings — heat, massage and red LED — soothing frustration.
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Bathtime zen
STOP SIPPING BUBBLES, START SOAKING IN THEM INSTEAD
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From Princess Margaret’s daily morning stuff at the back of the cabinet, but not these.
bath to Julia Roberts’s splashy bubbles in Individually wrapped in pretty gauze, each
Pretty Woman, nothing says “I’m relaxed” pouch contains calcium and magnesium
quite like a daytime soak. Carve out an hour salts for chilling out exhausted muscles and
and light a candle. The Bothy candle by is perfumed with a fragrance made with real
Wildsmith (1 £65) has notes of sage and rose petals, because, well, why not?
rosemary (said to clear negative energy and Senteurs d’Orient Rose of Damascus Bath
4 help you tune into your intuition), while the Salts (4 £35 for nine pouches)
Miller Harris Santal candle (2 £50)
harnesses the scent of sandalwood, much THE POSH BATH BOMBS
used in aromatherapy to manage anxiety. The candy-coloured fizzing tablets
5 For an indulgent soak session, try Susanne that were a staple in your childhood
Amberly Valentine/blaublut-edition.com
Kaufmann Mallow Blossom Bubble Bath stocking have had a grown-up, CBD-
(3 £47). Mallow softens the skin and the infused upgrade. Kloris Relax
lavender scent helps calm a racing mind. CBD Bath Block & Melt (5 £15)
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Bedroom bliss ultra-relaxing mat creates a pulsed
electromagnetic field to help promote
recovery and also warms your body with
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According to a survey by Mela, infrared heat to relieve pain and ease
which makes weighted blankets, you into a state of utter relaxation.
only 10 per cent of us find getting to
sleep easy. “Sleep has a huge impact THE STRESS-BUSTER
on our stress levels,” says Dr Alia Ahmed, Starting at 5.5kg, Mela Weighted Blankets
a psychodermatologist. “Being able 4
(6 from £120) work by applying gentle
to switch off starts in the bedroom. pressure across your whole body, which has
To encourage better sleep, start by been shown to have the same feelgood
creating a positive and welcoming benefits as a hug, increasing serotonin and
bedroom environment.” oxytocin levels. Devotees keep them on
their beds night after night, but they work
THE BEDDING just as well for snuggling under on the sofa.
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Rest your head on the Slip Queen Silk
Pillowcase (1 £85). Made of mulberry silk, 6 THE MOOD LIGHTING
these luxurious pillowcases keep you cool Banish circadian-rhythm-disrupting
throughout the night, cause less creasing to blue light from the bedroom (so that’s no
your skin and minimise friction on your phones or tablets) and plug in a red light to
hair. Good morning, sleeping beauty. stimulate the sleep hormone melatonin. Try
the Target Light Combo (£95) for 15 to 20
THE PILLOW MIST minutes before you switch the lights out.
Lavender may be the traditional sleepy THE POWER-NAP ENABLER
scent, but the calming blend of vetivert, Spacemasks’ self-heating lavender-scented AND . . . THE PRESLEEP TREAT
camomile and sandalwood in Aromatherapy eye masks (4 £15 for five) are relaxation at The at-home spa service Ruuby, which has
Associates Deep Relax Sleep Mist (2 £28) its deepest — best used as the perfect extended its services to Manchester,
is a recipe for a good night’s sleep. antidote to stress-filled days. Pop on and recommends booking in for one of its new
lie back for 15 minutes. CBD-infused aromatherapy massages if
THE SWEET SLUMBER your sleep is suffering. “There are many
Therapie Roques O’Neil Sleep Drops THE BEFORE-BED BODY RELAXER physical benefits to CBD treatments,” says
(3 £48) are a mix of 14 sleep-inducing For those who want to channel their inner Rebecca Maguire, Ruuby’s head of beauty.
essential oils, including jasmine sambac. Gwynnie, the crystal-infused Higherdose In addition to aiding tight, aching muscles
Add to a flannel and pat over the face, Infrared PEMF Mat (5 £890) will send you a CBD massage can help to relax the mind,
inhaling deeply. into a stupor. Yes, it’s extortionate, but this making it a great evening treatment.
CLEANSE
Starting with a face oil or an oil-based
cleanser, apply pressure and let your
fingers glide around every contour of
your face for a few minutes.
TRY
Chanel Sublimage Gel-to-Oil
Cleanser (1 £90). Rinse off any oily
residue and then follow with a cream or
foam cleanser such as Shiseido Deep
Cleansing Foam (2 £38).
EXFOLIATE
Sloughing off the top layer of dead cells
allows the skin to better absorb the
nourishing products that follow. If you like
chemical exfoliants try the Inkey List PHA
Toner (3 £10), which is gentle enough for
sensitive skin. If physical scrubs are more
your thing, Crown recommends Fresh the thin blood vessels to contract around face to the edge. Repeat each movement
Sugar Face Polish (4 £22) as it’s not as the eye socket, giving a powerful 12 to 15 times in each area.
abrasive as most physical exfoliators. eye-awakening effect.
TREAT
MASK UP MASSAGE Double up on active serums. Mix a
Revive dull-looking skin with a brightening Using a few drops of a luxurious face oil hyaluronic acid-based treatment such as
red-light mask. Try the No 7 Laboratories such as Summer Fridays Heavenly Sixteen Scientia Ceramide Skin Rescue (7 £28) with
Age-Defying LED Mask (5 £150) to enhance All-in-One Face Oil (6 £50), start with something targeted at your skin concerns.
your skin’s ability to heal and repair. the neck and move upwards to the jawline For a radiance boost, try Drunk Elephant
and then cheeks. Flick the skin upwards C-Firma Fresh Day Serum (8 £66); for
DE-PUFF vigorously a few times with two fingers dullness and fine lines, Skin Republic
Glide over the eyes with an eye gel, an eye while supporting skin underneath with Retinoid Complex 1% + Squalane 15% Serum
tool or two teaspoons that have been left your other hand. To drain a puffy face, slide (9 £15); and to plump and firm, Beauty Pie
in the fridge to cool. The coldness leads fingers (or knuckles) from the middle of the Japanfusion Genius Lift Elixir (10 £40). ■
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Three words. We. Made. 1 Next, two new brands that came on to my radar this
It. We navigated our year. First is Rose Inc, spearheaded by the model Rosie
way through another Huntington-Whiteley. She has given me the concealer
rollercoaster year — so of my dreams: Softlight Luminous Hydrating
much uncertainty, so Concealer (4 £23). The chubby doe-foot wand delivers
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many reservations. As full-on, bouncy coverage. It’s moreishly satisfying
I look back at my beauty watching under-eye darkness disappear with a few
columns from the past swipes, and this is now a handbag staple for touch-ups
12 months, I can see that day and night. The second is Californian brand Tower
we’ve weaved our way 28, which is all about easy-breezy, laid-back beauty
through highs and lows vibes. I had zero expectations and each product has
and constant changes. High heels off. No, high 3 overdelivered in every way. My pick is ShineOn Milky
heels on! Bubble baths! Uplifting essential oils! No, Lip Jelly (5 £13), a balm oil hybrid with a coloured tint.
scrap that. Party perfumes! Out-out make-up! The shade Coconut is a milky mauve-pink — I use it to
Through all the false starts and confusion, it has revive tired lipstick or condition dry lips.
been a brilliant year for skincare and make-up. We’ve When I started making my list, I realised I had three
been treated to blockbuster beauty launches. Face 4 SPFs on there. Three! It’s testament to how much the
creams that knocked old favourites off my bathroom category has had a glow-up. Offerings used to look
shelves. New mascaras that turned staples into chalky on dark and black skin, and we all had the same
has-beens overnight. So brutal! So harsh! Herewith complaints: “SPF isn’t for every day. It gives me spots,
my hit list of beauty products that launched in 2021. it makes me greasy, it ruins my make-up, it clogs my
Anastasia Beverly Hills Brow Freeze (1 £23) is a 5 pores.” Now, though? All change. Supergoop! Glow
clear, malleable wax that makes my brows look fuller Screen SPF 30 (6 £32) — sure, the SPF is important,
and fluffier. Until this wonder pot, it was a lottery but this doubles up as a glowing primer. Anyone with
whether my brow hairs would point north or south lacklustre skin should start with it for a hydrated, dewy
(or east or west), but now I brush this through and it base. Next is La Roche-Posay Anthelios Age Correct
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behaves like a hairspray — or brow-spray — without SPF 50 (7 £25), which has become my daily saviour.
any crunchiness. It helps to open up the eyes and lift It’s non-greasy yet ultra-moisturising, sits seamlessly
the face, plus one swipe and you’re done for the day: under foundation and I don’t leave the house without
top-ups are seldom required. it. And finally, Ultra Violette, a sunscreen brand that
Next, I have realised over time that taste in mascara swanned in from Australia. I wouldn’t dream of going
is similar to taste in wine: subjective and everyone on holiday without it — the cream is invisible in
looks for something a bit different. Fruity? Full- 7
seconds, with no tackiness. The brand also has a Sheen
bodied? Dry? Sharp? Or lengthening? Separating? Screen Hydrating Lip Balm SPF 50 (8 £16), which
Fanned out, flirty or dolly? If these words speak to protects lips whatever the weather.
you, with Lancôme Lash Idôle (2 £23.50) your lashes I’ll squeeze in two glow-giving foundations that
are in for a treat. Zero clumping and so much lift. scored all the goals this year. Sisley Phyto-Teint Nude
Over the past few months magazine pages have (9 £68). More mature skins lapped this up for its
been filled with glowing reviews of make-up no-make-up make-up ability. The oil-free sheer formula
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maverick Bobbi Brown’s new business, Jones Road. blurs imperfections rather than masks. Dreamy for
For me, it’s the humble blush stick, Jones Road Lip every day. Next, L’Oréal Paris True Match Nude
and Cheek Stick (3 £30.50), that takes gold. You can Plumping Tinted Serum (10 £14) is a skincare-packed
whack it directly on to cheeks and lips, but I like to skin tint that people raved about for delivering a
use a brush. I swipe my Smashbox Stippling Founda- 9 healthy dose of fresh-faced skin every time.
tion Brush (£25) over the blush and then dab and And finally Sculpted by Aimee Connolly. The Irish
buff it on to my cheekbones and eyelids. Hold on, make-up artist probably thinks I have a crush on her
though. Why is this one better than the zillion other because I’ve raved about her so much. This year gave us
blush sticks on the market? My shade, English Rose, 10 her Complete Cover Up Concealer (11 £15), aka the
for starters: it’s an ethereal, unclowny, complexion- wonder that seamlessly Photoshops out redness,
warming colour. Then there’s the texture — instead pigmentation and marks. But her Cream Luxe collec-
of being too oily or chalky it has a creamy (but not tion of bronzers, blushes and highlighters (from £16)
watery) finish that melts into my cheeks and makes are equally brilliant. Every make-up artist I interview
my skin look healthy rather than heavily made-up. these days has a Sculpted by Aimee Connolly favourite
And there’s also how it lasts: it doesn’t travel or turn 11 — a brand to watch for real women’s make-up.
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patchy or disappear. It sits pretty and immaculately It’s exciting to think what 2022 has in store for us.
perks up cheeks for all occasions. Happy new year, everyone! ■ @sarahjossel
comically old-school, but you can’t stick sentimentally meaningful things into iCal, or do a quick
sketch, or jot down a recipe, meaning you can’t have a properly meaningful record of the year.
Choosing Keeping’s diaries have covers made from vintage decorative papers, and the sewn and
without being
properly bound paper inside is lovely too. From £20; choosingkeeping.com too much
They say that women forget the pain of childbirth, pelvic bone while doing so. Thus my body actually belies
otherwise they would never have a second. In reality my true age but not in the good way. And requiring a
I’m aware there’s a mixed bag of responses to this double hip replacement is not conducive to the type of
suggestion, but it is actually recognised as a thing, buoyant, bouncy, fun parenting I’d love to offer my imagi-
called the halo effect, whereby the hormone surges you nary second child.
experience when you hold your baby for the first time I’m also scared of what another person will do to our
basically skew the entire experience to a decidedly little triumvirate. M is my little buddy, my forever
more positive overall impression. plus-one. I take her with me wherever possible. One
So my question is, does that work for surrogacy? My hand for child, one hand for coffee. Or phone. Or what-
labour obviously wasn’t the same physically, in that ever connects me to my “other” part of life. What
I didn’t have one at all, but it was a labour of sorts and, happens when there’s a child in each hand? Where do
woah, it was way longer than the traditional allotted time I put my coffee, figuratively speaking?
for childbirth (by about four years). If you swap “physi- And then I’m frightened by the thought of not doing
cally” for “mentally” then: exhausting? Yes. Painful? Expo- it. Of my beautiful M possibly left alone one day without
nentially. Requiring reparative surgery and a doughnut this little sibling I’m painfully procrastinating over,
cushion for six weeks? OK no, but there have to be some picking her up when they most need each other. I’m one
benefits to cancer-induced infertility. of two and so is Mr B. It feels right for us and our future
So has the experience of M allowed me to colour over that way. Our future! It is impossible to imagine at this
the pain? Have I “forgotten” so as to be able to do it twice? stage of parenthood. I’m very much in the flow of taking
In a word, no. And that, I think, is why it has taken me this each crazy day as it comes because so much comes with
long, until my 42nd birthday, to give it another push. each day, so I can barely imagine Christmas, let alone my
I am frightened. Everything about having to take this sixties. Or seventies. But when I do, when I conjure up
round-two decision frightens me. Can I really, volun- the idea of my later years as I used to imagine the ghost
tarily, step back into the ring, when what I experienced of our future child, it’s always gently arguing over the
the first time was pretty brutal by most people’s stand- dinner table — four chairs. Or on holiday en masse, also
ards? I know it wasn’t typical but it is my only frame probably arguing, but that’s because there are four opin-
of reference, so there is nothing in my back catalogue ions to contend with. I need to get over the pain of my
to reassure me that history will not repeat itself. Bad immediate past to really invest in my future — in our
luck is my bedfellow. Isn’t it? Is it? I’m not sure any more. future, all not-yet-in-existence four of us.
And I’m scared of not doing it, of It takes some doing, but I don’t know,
procrastinating until I’m too late. I am something clicked recently. Maybe
only 42, yes, but we haven’t yet started
the search for a surrogate. Realistically,
I am frightened. it’s the wisdom that comes with older
age. Maybe it’s watching M throw her
with the protracted timeline that surro- Everything terrible two tantrums around way too
gacy affords us I could be 45 by the time early, reminding me she’s not a baby any
a sibling arrives, and while no one would
about having to more. Maybe it is literally the click of my
consider 45 “past it” to be a parent these take this round- hips. But I see it now. Nothing worth
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days, they haven’t met my hip surgeon. having comes easy, right? I’m not going
I have one of those because I need a two surrogacy to benefit from the halo effect but I’m
double hip replacement. Another unfor-
tunate outcome of the chemo that kept
decision forgiving what I can’t forget. So here we
are, I guess, bandaged up and ready.
me alive but killed the blood supply to my frightens me Ding-ding, round two. ■
Last week a friend of a friend messaged me to tell me that she had found my boyfriend
on a dating app. She screen-grabbed his profile, and my heart dropped when I saw a
photo I had taken of him. I asked him about it and he said he was embarrassed (damn
right) and upset. He said it was a “blip” and thinks he did it for validation. I asked to see
the app and scrolled through messages — he hadn’t answered any of them, which
somehow makes it better but it’s still so not OK! We have been together for a little more
than two years and live together. Do I give him another chance or do I leave?
I’ve seen these men out and about over these are excuses for setting up a dating
my years on dating apps. The faces that profile, but I’m just trying to understand
look familiar and only on closer inspec- what he thinks his moment of crisis was.
tion do I recognise as the boyfriend of Maybe it really was as simple as a need
someone I know or an old colleague who for validation. I do think the fact he
is meant to be married. Like your friend’s didn’t engage in conversations with his
friend (what a nice woman she sounds matches is an important detail. Dating
like — keep her in your corner), I usually apps were designed to feel like a game
assume it’s an old profile. But I’ve also and that’s exactly how a lot of people use
heard lots of stories exactly like your own. them. They acquire matches with other
I was on a dating app that has a “I’m just here for friends” humans like Mario collecting coins in Kart — the
function that displays on your profile, which I like to call higher the acquisition, the closer they get to winning.
the “I don’t want my wife’s mates to tell her I’m on here” Winning what? Not a partner but the reassurance that
function. I’m always staggered that they think they’ll get they are desirable. If your boyfriend really is this unsure
away with it. Be warned: if friends of your girlfriend see of himself and can’t find his sense of security and confi-
you (and they will — every person who is single is on a dence within a loving relationship, I feel very sorry for
dating app now), there is no woman more loyal than the him. And whether you want to support him through
friend of a woman scorned. those insecurities is up to you.
Before I give you my thoughts, I want to make some- What I will say is: if this is true, it’s very early on in a
thing perfectly clear: the only person who can decide if relationship for him to feel so destabilised. You haven’t
this is acceptable is you. I used to be highly judgmental mentioned that you two have faced any difficulties, so I
about what couples allow or don’t allow within their rela- worry that the relationship in a state of calm still caused
tionship, but increasingly I understand that every person him to “need validation” elsewhere. What happens if
has their individual limits. Your fuse is its own length, you start a family and your attention is diverted off him
decided by your own experiences and personality. It’s and on to a baby for a while? What happens if he lost his
totally up to you whether you forgive him or not, and you job and you got a promotion? What happens when any
shouldn’t let other people’s judgments be the things that of life’s stresses and misfortunes are thrown at you indi-
dictate your choice. You know him better than your vidually or together in the future — will he return to
friends, and if you believe his reasons and you feel like it “needing validation” in those moments of uncertainty?
won’t happen again and you really want to stay with him, And the other thing to ask yourself beyond the ethics
then you should follow that instinct. of his behaviour is the attractiveness of it. Personally
When I first read your letter I wondered what the there’s nothing I find less hot than a shady fella.
cause of your boyfriend’s self-proclaimed “blip” might I have known (and put up with) a lot of them. These
be. Is he very young and unsure whether he’s ready for days my dream man is a man who wants to commit —
a serious relationship? Are you his first girlfriend? Is he it is the muscle tone I find sexiest. I want a man who
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in his mid-thirties and at that stage so many men get doesn’t hide his phone or have a secret online life
to where they become terrified of life’s next stage of or have one foot out the door of the relationship.
commitments? Have you had a recent experience that I don’t think that’s a particularly lofty dream. And
made him feel unimportant or emasculated? None of I don’t think it’s a lot to expect of your boyfriend. ■
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