Professional Documents
Culture Documents
Interpersonal at work
8 If you are disturbed by someone smoking near you, can you say so? 0 1 2 3 4
10 When you meet a stranger, are you the first to introduce yourself 0 1 2 3 4
and begin a conversation?
0 = no or never 3 = usually or a good deal
1= somewhat or sometimes 4= practically always or entirely
2 = average
Where do you start?
Situations
Attitudes
Obstacles
Behavior skills
Words
Body language
Tone of voice
Clarify
Be congruent
No apologies or guilt
Broken record
Time out
© 2012 Sperling Brown Associates
Assertive strategies
Time out
© 2012 Sperling Brown Associates
Fogging
Negative language
bu and
t
© 2012 Sperling Brown Associates
Wimp talk
I wonder if
Maybe I guess
you could
Would you
Don’t you
mind very I can’t
think?
much?
How can we
I need Let’s
resolve this?
Manager
Co-
workers You Clients
Direct
reports
Facilitate
Negotiate Tell
Joint Sell
problem
solve
Delegation
Task – SMART?
Why you?
Your abilities
Results
Resources
Deadlines
Communication
How can I be more assertive?
Know your boundaries
Listen