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Attitudes You react with anger or fear, then you quickly rationalize
● These are thoughts and feelings we have about your behavior so it makes sense. You may lose trust in the
ourselves and other people, influenced by our person or situation. You may lose courage or react in a way
positive or negative programs. that could hurt your relationships in the future.
Life is difficult. It is a great truth because once we truly see Unwise people attempt to avoid problems by pretending they
this truth, we transcend it. Once we truly understand and don’t exist, procrastinating, and turning to drugs. It is
accept it, then it is no longer difficult. necessary to face problems directly and experience the pain
involved.
Life is a series of problems. It is the process of confronting
and solving problems that is a painful one.
Discipline ● Intellectualization – feelings are concealed from
oneself by analyzing situations in a logical and
The focus of this module is on discipline which means intellectual way
learning what to do, when to do it, and in what manner it ● Repression – person rejects from consciousness
should be done. It is the basic tool required to solve life’s thoughts that provoke anxiety
problems. According to Brian Tracy (2010), discipline is ● Suppression – not allowing a thought that has been
something one must have to resist the lure of excuses. It entertained to flow and be expressed in one’s
enables you to “vote yourself off the island.” It is the key to a behavior
great life and, without it, no lasting success is possible. It is ● Denial – not admitting to self the existence of
the ability to do what you should do when you should do it, painful facts, refusal to admit the truth
whether you feel like it or not. ● Displacement – person vents anger on safe objects
that come readily at hand instead of attacking the
Four Tools of Discipline immediate cause of difficulty or source of frustration
● Projection – seeing in others’ motive what one is
The tools of discipline are techniques of dealing with life’s unconsciously afraid he possesses
suffering in a way that we work through problems and solve
them successfully – growing and learning in the process. Types of Responsibility Disorder
● Neurosis disorder – assumes too much
1. Delaying of Gratification responsibility and blames one-self
● This is a process of scheduling the pain and ● Character disorder – gives the responsibility to
pleasure of life in such a way as to enhance others and blames the world if it fails.
the pleasure by meeting and experiencing ● Character-neurosis disorder – assumes the
the pain first and getting it over with. It is a responsibility / give the responsibility to others.
process of scheduling life’s activities
thereby difficult tasks are translated as We must accept responsibility for a problem before we can
challenges and act on first so as to enhance solve it.
the reward.
2. Acceptance of Responsibility We cannot solve a problem by saying “It’s not my problem.”
● Responsibility is owning the situation and
being aware that one has the power to We cannot solve a problem by hoping that someone else will
change the present situation into something solve it for us.
better.
3. Dedication to Reality We can solve a problem only when we say “This is my
● This is a technique of dealing with negative problem and it’s up to me to solve it”.
attitudes in perceiving reality and
developing the real/true person in handling But so many seek to avoid the pain of their problems by
problems. A life of total dedication to the saying to themselves: “This problem was caused by other
truth means a life of continuous and people, or by social circumstances beyond my control, and
never-ending self-examination and a life of therefore it is up to other people or society to solve this
contemplation; a life of willingness to be problem for me. It is not really my personal problem.”
personally challenged, openness to
criticisms, and a life of total honesty. Types of Lying
4. Balancing ● White lies – statement that is not in itself false but
● This is the discipline that gives us flexibility. leaves out a significant part of the truth
It is the giving up of the old self (old ways of ● Black lies – a statement we make that we know is
thinking, perceiving and responding to the false
world, the way things used to be) for a
better acceptable way so as to find the most Rules for Dedication to Truth
ecstatic, lasting, and solid joy of life. ● Never speak falsehood
● Bear in mind that the act of withholding the truth is
Life can be difficult and defense mechanisms may be used always potentially a lie, and that in each instance in
as means of coping. Among which are the following: which the truth is withheld, a significant moral
decision is required.
● Rationalization – the process of finding good ● The decision to withhold the truth should never be
reasons to replace real reasons based on personal needs like power, popularity, etc.
● The decision to withhold the truth must always be good about the decision and feel committed to the
based entirely upon the needs of the person/people action plan," Covey wrote. "One person's success is
from whom the truth is being withheld. not achieved at the expense or exclusion of the
● The assessment of another’s need is an act of success of others." If you have integrity and
responsibility that is so complex that it can only be maturity, there's no reason win/win situations can't
executed wisely when one operates with genuine happen all the time.
love for the other. 5. Seek First To Understand, Then To Be
● The primary factor in the assessment of another’s Understood - If you're a good listener and you take
need is the assessment of that person’s capacity to the time to understand a concept, it will help you
utilize the truth for his/her own spiritual growth. convey your opinions, plans and goals to others. It
● In assessing the capacity of another to utilize the starts with communication and strong listening skills,
truth for personal spiritual growth, it should be borne followed by diagnosing the situation and then
in mind that our tendency is generally to communicating your solution to others.
underestimate rather than overestimate this 6. Synergize - Synergistic communication, according
capacity. to Covey, is "opening your mind and heart to new
possibilities, new alternatives, new options." This
Balancing - The essence of giving up is you must have applies to the classroom, the business world, and
something in order to give it up. This process of giving up wherever you could apply openness and
the self for significant growth is called ‘bracketing’. communication. It's all about building cooperation
Bracketing is essentially the act of balancing the need for and trust
stability and assertion of the self with their need for new 7. Sharpen The Saw - Sometimes you're working so
knowledge and greater understanding by temporarily giving hard on the other six habits that you forget about
up one’s self – putting one’s self aside to make room for the re-energizing and renewing yourself to sharpen
incorporation of new material into the self. yourself for the tasks in front of you. Some
sharpening techniques include exercise and
7 Habits of Highly Effective People nutrition, reading, planning and writing, service and
1. Be Proactive - As human beings, we are empathy and commitment, study and meditation
responsible for our own lives. We have the
independent will to make our own choices and
decisions, and the responsibility ("the ability to
respond") to make the right choices. You have the
freedom to choose your own fate and path, so
having the independent will, imagination, and
self-awareness to make the right move makes you a
proactive and not a reactive, person.
2. Begin With The End In Mind - Mental visualization
is extremely important. Covey says that all things
are created twice: first, the mental conceptualization
and visualization, and a second physical, actual
creation. Becoming your own creator means
planning and visualizing what you're going to do and
what you're setting out to accomplish and then
going out and creating it. Identifying your personal
statement and your principles will help.
3. Put First Things First - With your power of
independent will, you can create the ending you
want to have. Part of that comes with effective time
management, starting with matters of importance.
Then tasks should be completed based on urgency
after you deal with all the important matters. If you
deal with crises, pressing problems, and
deadline-driven projects first, your life will be a lot
easier.
4. Think Win/Win - If you believe in a better way to
accomplish goals that's mutually beneficial to all
sides, that's a win/win situation. "All parties feel