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IMPROVE WHAT YOU CAN CHANGE, LEARN TO ACCEPT WHAT YOU CAN’T
(CAN’T THINK WORTHLESS WHEN BUILDING SELF ESTEEM)
The system makes the difference, not the goal. the goal remains the same. only the system needs changing
Sleep
It must be dark, no light at all. then your core temperature needs to drop by about 1-degree Celsius or 2-3
degrees Fahrenheit just to initiate sleep. easier to sleep in cold room rather than hot room. drop in body
temperature is due from the temperature dropping at night.
Alcohol is not a sleep aid. it harms your sleep. It fragments your sleep by waking up all night that it's not
remembered when we wake up. blocks dream sleep = rem sleep.
The identity that we hold drives the actions we take and the results that we get.
Positive identity – positive actions – lose 10 pounds – so the goal is outermost layer/the result we’re looking
for
In order to lose 10 lbs, we must move into the actions that we take like diet/exercise.
But most people stop there. the identity might be I want to be the person who doesn’t miss workouts.
Focus just on the identity of becoming the type of person who does not miss workouts – if you become the
person who exercises
Shift in mindset = shift in daily choices – shifts then to the desired result
Environment design = influences behavior. restructure physical or digital environment like the stuff on
counters or desks. stuff we can see that’s very visible – cant miss stuff. restructure creates an environment
that will more llikely enable you to stick with better habits. too much tv is because its in the living room. so
you can change the furniture or unplug the tv or stay out of the room. this is an example of curtailing or
stopping a negative habit. then an example of promoting good habits is the apple scenario.
Did your brain change at all duribng this day..of course not. think same do same makes no change in life. no
change in external environment. thinking equal and same life.
Start thinking greater than my external environment. cant see it but it can believe its alive in your mind. start
living your life as if its already happened. personality create personal creates your personal reality
Personality is made up of how I think, react, and feel. present perssonality at this moment has been created
the present personal reality in my life. new personal reality requires changing the thoughts im thinking. and
behaviors and habits im demonstrating and the emotions ive memorized that’s become part of my identity.
people try to create a new personal reality with the same personality. don’t work. become somebody else.
same makes only same. nerve cells wired together fire together. so repeating the same states of mind and
body over and over again – your brain fires the same everything. mind is brain in action. Remind your brain –
make the brain work diffderently. by knowledge in information because you learning . everytime you learn
something new, you make a new connection in your brain. learning is forging new connections. remembering
is maintaining or sustaining those connections.
Every thought comes with a chemical. any time you have a great thoughts or unlimited thought or joyful
thought = you turn on a set of circuits in your brain that fires in a very specific sequence, patten, and
combination that produces a level of mind that turns on nother part of the brain that makes a chemical for
you to begin to feel exactly the way you were just THINKING. bam... and vice versa equating to all negative.
so the moment you begin to feel the way you think – because the brain is in constant communication with
your body – you begin to think the way you feel and the way you think which makes more chemicals to feel
the way I think then you think the way you feel and feel the way you think etc. too many people do this for
like 20 or 30 or 40 years. redundancy over time creates what is called a state of being . this is when mind
aand body work together and thoughts and feelings are aligned to a concept.
Thoughts are the language of the brain. feelings are the language of the body. mind and body opposition is
when the person wants to think positively but feeling negatively. you want to create dream board but you
don’t feel worthy.
The body must be reconditioned to a new mind. we must move into anew state of being. state of being is the
combo of how im feeling and how im thinking. most people wait for traumas and loss so significant that the
ego is brought to such a low level that they cant go on as business as usual any longer in order or before
wanting real change. this is when most of us start thinking about themselves as a whole – thinking, actng, or
attitude or emotions they’ve been living by. why wait. we can learn to change in the state of pain and
suffering which tends to be the human model. or we can learn and change in a state of joy and inspiration.
oom. drop in body temperature is due from the temperature dropping at night.
Alcohol is not a sleep aid. it harms your sleep. It fragments your sleep by waking up all night that it's not
remembered when we wake up. blocks dream sleep = rem sleep.