Overcoming The Resistance of Life - Energy Vampires

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OVERCOMING
THE
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OF LIFE
WA L K I N G T H R O U G H T H E S T R E E T S O F
AFRICA AS I SEDUCE WOMEN PERSUADE
M E N A N D O V E R C O M E T H E R E S I S TA N C E O F
LIFE.
M O N D A Y, N O V E M B E R 1 9 , 2 0 0 7 MOI
Energy Vampires
by Stephane Hemon
The main problem that people have when it comes to getting
their love life together is that they GIVE AWAY THEIR POWER.
Most people give away their power to a certain extent,
and this article contains the blueprint that you’ll need
to become aware of WHOM you’re giving your power away to
and HOW you’re giving it away.
Awareness is the key, because until you become aware of

something, you are on auto-pilot.

well the inner me atleast.
So what is an Energy Vampire?
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Well, they don’t usually suck your blood; what they do is

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they suck your ENERGY.
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Chances are high that your life is filled with these types
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of people. My guess is that you’ll see your parents in these
descriptions, you’ll see some of your friends, lovers, Things go own

and perhaps even yourself.
I am the poster child for what not to
do.
Actually, MOST humans are “energy vamps”, it’s just a
Kim Kardashian is my ideal woman
matter of degree. And with all “personal problems”,
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AWARENESS is the only cure.

“Listen to me, if you can become good
with women, ...
When dealing with an Energy Vampire, you can feel it
Energy Vampires
instantly.
Friday night at Black diamond Nairobi
You will get a feeling in the Solar-Plexus Chakra (in

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the “upper-belly” region), which is linked to our emotional
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body and central nervous system.
(Otherwise known as a “gut feeling” or an intuition.)
MEET YOUR MAN
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There are 5 main types of Energy Vampires that I am
N A I R O B I , K E N YA
presently aware of -
I am a graduate of commerce, a practitioner

- The POOR ME
of logic, martial arts, Seduction and
- The Aloof
B.D.S.M.
- The Interrogator
VIEW MY COMPLETE PROFILE

- The Intimidator
- The Boaster and Bragger
These people usually leave us feeling tired; they drain our
energy and self-esteem. And worse, we cannot get them out of
our heads afterwards! We tend to re-play the conversation in
our head, telling ourselves that we should have said “this”
or “that” instead…
Energy Vampire #1 - The “POOR ME”
These people drain your energy by complaining, and sometimes
implying that you are somehow responsible for their troubles.
When in the presence of this person, you will find yourself
feeling guilty, even though deep down you know that their life
challenges aren’t your fault. You’ll feel as though you need
to defend against the idea that you’re not giving or doing enough
for this person.
Many people use their misfortunes in life to gain sympathy.
They want to talk about the suffering they’ve endured, or about
the mistreatment of their parents, or about their illness, or
some other deprivation or failure.
These people see the world as UNFAIR, and avoid taking

responsibility. And, they want YOU to hear all about it! They focus
on negative energy in order to STEAL energy (attention, sympathy,
pity, etc.).
When something traumatic happens, it’s okay to obtain support.
With time, you heal and learn the lessons that are involved
(assuming that you can take responsibility).
But when people use their life’s suffering as a way to gain
pity and attention (YOUR energy), you need to learn how to shield
from that.
When dealing with a “poor me”, the best way to help them is
to see if they can help themselves. Are they willing to look
at the role that THEY have played in creating their own reality?
Can they take response-ability?
If they can’t handle the truth, if they are too stuck in their
heads to view themselves objectively and without getting defensive, I
have learned to simply tell them that I am BUSY.
Because the truth is that we ARE too busy to have our energy
drained by people with the victim mentality.
Energy Vampire #2 - The “Aloof”
These people act emotionally distant, usually in response to
having had overbearing or controlling parents.
They are withdrawn, and see the world as overwhelming and
threatening. They are often distrustful and suspicious of others
motives, and people describe them as being “shy” or even “snobby”.
Someone who is aloof is PRETENDING that they don’t care what
others think. It is a FAKE social mask, designed to give them
the “upper hand”.
On a more global scale, they are the “innocent” or apathetic
bystanders who take little or no responsibility in shaping our
world.
You know you’re in the presence of an Aloof person when you
find yourself doing all the talking, and asking question after
question, trying to get them to come out of their shell.
They will contribute very little to the conversation. This is
exactly where they want you, because it gives them a feeling of
control.
This is how they get attention, validation, and your energy.
You’ll probably feel inadequate or “less than”, as if something
is inherently wrong with you. Again, you’ll feel discomfort
in the Solar-Plexus Chakra (upper belly).
If you complain, they will often just give you the SILENT TREATMENT.
MOST of today’s so-called “attractive women” are aloof, and
knowing how to spot them, and training them to open up, is crucial.
A lot of guys ask me, “Where do you draw the line between working on
your “game” versus just walking away from somebody who is no good for
you? How do you know for certain that it wasn’t your “game” (or lack
thereof)?”
Most of the time when they ask me this, I know that they’re
dealing with a woman who is quite aloof.
Personally, I draw the line when a woman makes me feel insignificant
or un-worthy of her time.
Do you have high self-esteem?
Good! You may now say the words, “It’s not ME, it’s HER.”
Energy Vampire #3 - The “Interrogator”
Interrogators used to be my personal “pet peeve” when I didn’t
know how to handle them.
It is because they ask questions that aren’t sincere - they
really DO NOT want to hear your views, but instead, they use
questions to BREAK DOWN your views and try to make you doubt
yourself.
Interrogators are (initially) difficult to detect, because they
are perfectionists; These people see the life as a competitive
GAME and they are quite masterful when it comes to manipulating
others.
Their philosophy? “Life is just a game - You either play by
the rules, or you’re a loser.” They see the world as Win/Lose
instead of Win/Win.
It’s been said that the greatest illusion of “Satan” lied in
his ability to make people believe he didn’t exist.
That’s a great metaphor for explaining what Interrogators do to
people, because when you spot an Interrogator and try to gently point
out what he or she is doing, they too will pretend that they are
innocent and that this heavily ingrained and entirely OBVIOUS pattern
of behavior does not exist.
Then they will turn around and casually remark that there is
something wrong with YOU. They’ll go, “Why would you say that?
Why are you so PARANOID, huh?” (Notice they are not really asking a
question, but rather, making a statement about you.)
Or they will accuse you of being “too sensitive”…
as if *sensitivity* was a bad thing!
Interrogators undermine other people’s reality, usually by making
insincere comments (such as a “neg” or subtle put-down) or by
asking lots of rhetorical questions, and trying to find the
weak points in what people are saying and doing.
MANY of the top “seduction community guru’s” are simply
INTERROGATORS. This is why they “play the game” and have
all sorts of complicated “chess moves” and strategies for
interacting with women. They have a HIDDEN AGENDA.
(There is nothing wrong with having “game” insofar as you aren’t
actively lying to people IMO.)
Crooked sales people, lawyers, politicians, and other business
criminals are often Interrogators as well. They are very clever
people, but “clever” doesn’t impress me. SINCERITY does; now THAT
takes real courage and Heart.
Interestingly, they probably had ALOOF PARENTS. Aloof parents often
“create” interrogator children. It’s the child’s way of
getting the parent to pay attention to them.
Interrogators also offer a lot of “unsolicited advice”. They
want to tell you what you “should” and “shouldn’t” do, be, think,
and feel, even though you didn’t ask for any advice. So they can be
quite arrogant!
They ask a lot of rhetorical questions, and often play “Devil’s
advocate”. But, the questions they ask are not questions at all!
It is their attempt to break down your reality in the form of
negative presuppositions about you.
Do you know what a “pointed question” is? Here is an example -
“Why would you do/say/think/be/choose that?!”
That’s NOT an actual question. It is a comment about your
inferiority.
If they were honest people, they would say,
“Why would you do/say/think/be/choose that YOU STUPID IDIOT?!”
Again, you will know when you’re being interrogated when you
get that uncomfortable feeling at the midline (Solar-Plexus
Chakra).
This is what happens when people try to manipulate us, and I don’t
know about you guys, but I certainly trust my own gut instincts a lot
more than I’ll ever trust another human bieng… I trust ME FIRST!
Again - you will sense that they are asking you questions, but NOT
out of a sincere desire to understand your point of view, but out of
a desire to tear down your reality to suit their needs.
“Why would you say that?!”
“Why would you take that class in college?!”
“What’s the matter with you?!”
Note that those aren’t “questions” at all. If you look closer,
they are coming right out and telling you that you’re STUPID.
You see, they aren’t interested in other people’s wisdom, although
they’re good at ACTING as though they are!
You’ll often hear them say, “I’m just trying to help you.” But
helping you is usually the last thing on their minds. They are
attempting to dominate and control you, but DISGUISING it as
“help.”
They do this out of a need to feel important, superior, and
stronger because deep down, they’re really afraid that they
are inferior. That’s what “machismo” really is - it is fear-based
fake confidence.
They want to be seen as “alpha”, or ABOVE other people. This
is why the ’seduction community’ often talks about having “Higher
Value”. Psychiatrists label them with “Narcissistic Personality
Disorder” and joke among themselves that there are none because they
never come to therapy.
“Higher Value” doesn’t exist, except on a material level. We all have
the same “value”, we’re all equals - the only difference between us is
what we do with the 24 hours that “Creator” gives us. Interrogators do
not understand what the word Honor means because they’re identified
purely with Ego.
Evergy Vampire #4 - The “Intimidator”
While Interrogators see life as a GAME, INTIMIDATORS see life
as a WAR. As such, Intimidators are easy to spot.
These are the macho’s, the control freaks, the bullies, the
paranoids, the authoritarians, the “alpha males”, the rage-aholics
- you name it.
The reason they act this way, just like with all of the energy
vampire types, is out of FEAR. They are afraid that others are trying
to take their power away from them and that they won’t be loved or get
what they want. Very often they are still playing out
an old unresolved childhood sexual abuse drama.
(ALL abuse is sexual abuse, simply because we are sexual beings. If
your mother held you in her arms and secretly wished that you had not
been born, THAT is sexual abuse!)
They intimidate others into giving them money, love, attention,
etc. by being judgmental, smart-alecky, cocky, sarcastic, aggressive,
dominant, loud, angry, violent, self-centered, etc.
When in the presence of other Intimidators, the interaction
can often escalate to arguments and violence.
An interesting thing happens with Intimidators. When they notice
that they aren’t able to control or bully you into submission,
they will often SWITCH into a “Poor Me”. Instead of using threats,
they might try to use guilt instead.
Poor Me’s will also “switch” from time to time and become aggressive
when they are not getting the pity they are craving. Perhaps you can
remember a time when your “sweet” ex-girlfriend or boyfriend went
from crying and begging to RAGE and YELLING.
As such, an Aloof will often turn into an Interrogator, and an
Interrogator will often turn into an Aloof when they realize they
can’t control you.
Poor Me’s and Intimidators usually “evolve” into Aloof’s and
Interrogators when you think about it. As they become more educated
and clever, they leave behind the old “Jerry Springer Show” mentality
and start manipulating people in more clever, suave, and subtle ways.
Energy Vampire #5 - The Boaster and Bragger
“Look at how cool, clever, and lovable I am!” is the unspoken
message that they want you to hear, as they go on and on and
on about their past accomplishments. More often than not, they
are LYING, or at least exaggerating.
Boasters and Braggers have deep-seated abandonment issues manifesting
itself as an addiction to approval and praise. You will find that
they usually had a mother or father who left them when
they were very young. If the parents didn’t actually physically
leave them, they most certainly weren’t very loving and emotionally
available.
By the way, in my opinion THIS is what the seduction community
really means when they teach their students to have a “routine-based
game”. They encourage men to tell “canned stories”. They want you
to lie, exaggerate, and brag about your accomplishments so you can
demonstrate your supposed “higher value”.
And while there is nothing wrong with making yourself more
interesting by telling entertaining stories and jokes, I highly
recommend that you use your *OWN* stories and jokes. There is no need
to lie.
In fact, if you want to repel women and send them running, start
bragging.
How To Handle An Energy Vampire:
The same way we handle ALL of our relationships! “Unconditional Love
MINUS Putting Up With Crap (manipulation) = HAPPY!”
I personally advocate a Zero-Tolerance Approach to Dating and
Relationships. But, since most humans fall into one or more of the
above categories, I designed a tell-it-like-it-is relationship
program that I call “The Girlfriend Training Program”.
> You can check it out right here -
http://www.ideagasms.net/ideagasms/index.php?option=content&task=view&id=83
As usual, before deciding to *ever* confront anyone under any
circumstances, I recommend letting go of Anger (which is an
unconscious state) and replacing it with Compassion (which is a
conscious, fully-awakened state of being).
If you have “The Girlfriend Training Program”, you better be using
the 5D Compassion Formula BEFORE ever confronting or “training”
someone… I’ve been doing a lot of Phone Coaching recently, and I am
finding out that some of you never bothered to use it - lazy
dumbasses, you know who you are ;)
Reading is NOT enough - *EXPERIENCE* is the only way to attain true
wisdom.
If anyone is interested in Phone Coaching, click here for info -
http://www.ideagasms.net/index.php?option=content&task=view&id=111
Again, with all of the above Energy Vampires, it is perfectly
okay to tell them that you are BUSY. Because you ARE too busy
to listen to garbage.
No need to JUDGE them, just send them lots of LOVE!
More than anything, Energy Vampires need love.
And by “love” I don’t mean you should allow yourself to be
manipulated by them. But judging them doesn’t help anyone either -
perhaps if they had more people who loved them in the first place,
they wouldn’t be acting the way they are.
These psychological and energetic “blueprints” are based in
low self-esteem. If you have any of these energies within yourself
(you do, it’s just a matter of degree), the cure is to LOVE
AND HONOR YOURSELF.
THE most challenging and “crazy” thing you will ever do is to love
yourself.
P O S T E D B Y
A F R I C A N TA L L E Y R A N D
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The main problem that people have when it comes to getting

Most people give away their power to a certain extent,

and this article contains the blueprint that you’ll need

to become aware of WHOM you’re giving your power away to

and HOW you’re giving it away.

Awareness is the key, because until you become aware of

something, you are on auto-pilot.

So what is an Energy Vampire?

Well, they don’t usually suck your blood; what they do is

The next steps

descriptions, you’ll see some of your friends, lovers, Things go own

B.D.S.M and power

AWARENESS is the only cure.

Friday night at Black diamond Nairobi

You will get a feeling in the Solar-Plexus Chakra (in

(Otherwise known as a “gut feeling” or an intuition.)

MEET YOUR MAN

I am a graduate of commerce, a practitioner

VIEW MY COMPLETE PROFILE

- The Boaster and Bragger

These people usually leave us feeling tired; they drain our

energy and self-esteem. And worse, we cannot get them out of

our heads afterwards! We tend to re-play the conversation in

our head, telling ourselves that we should have said “this”

Energy Vampire #1 - The “POOR ME”

These people drain your energy by complaining, and sometimes

implying that you are somehow responsible for their troubles.

When in the presence of this person, you will find yourself

challenges aren’t your fault. You’ll feel as though you need

for this person.

Many people use their misfortunes in life to gain sympathy.

They want to talk about the suffering they’ve endured, or about

the mistreatment of their parents, or about their illness, or

some other deprivation or failure.

These people see the world as UNFAIR, and avoid taking

on negative energy in order to STEAL energy (attention, sympathy,

When something traumatic happens, it’s okay to obtain support.

(assuming that you can take responsibility).

But when people use their life’s suffering as a way to gain

to see if they can help themselves. Are they willing to look

Can they take response-ability?

heads to view themselves objectively and without getting defensive, I

have learned to simply tell them that I am BUSY.

drained by people with the victim mentality.

Energy Vampire #2 - The “Aloof”

These people act emotionally distant, usually in response to

having had overbearing or controlling parents.

They are withdrawn, and see the world as overwhelming and

threatening. They are often distrustful and suspicious of others

motives, and people describe them as being “shy” or even “snobby”.

Someone who is aloof is PRETENDING that they don’t care what

others think. It is a FAKE social mask, designed to give them

the “upper hand”.

On a more global scale, they are the “innocent” or apathetic

bystanders who take little or no responsibility in shaping our

You know you’re in the presence of an Aloof person when you

question, trying to get them to come out of their shell.

They will contribute very little to the conversation. This is

exactly where they want you, because it gives them a feeling of

This is how they get attention, validation, and your energy.

You’ll probably feel inadequate or “less than”, as if something

is inherently wrong with you. Again, you’ll feel discomfort

as if sensitivity was a bad thing!