“YES – NO – MAYBE” CHECKLIST

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GIVING/ RECEIVING/
ACTIVITY YES NO MAYBE
TOPPING BOTTOMING
ANAL
Anal Beads ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Anal Sex ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Ass Worship ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Butt Plug ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Dildos/Toys ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Enemas ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Fingering ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Fisting ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Multiple Penetration ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Pegging ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Prostate Massage ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Scat Play ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐

GIVING/ RECEIVING/
ACTIVITY YES NO MAYBE
TOPPING BOTTOMING
ORAL
69 ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Anilingus ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Autofellatio ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Biting ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Cunnilingus ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Deepthroating ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Fellatio ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
French Kissing ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Kissing ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Licking ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Nibbling Ears ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Semen Swallowing ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Tossed Salad ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐

GIVING/ RECEIVING/
ACTIVITY YES NO MAYBE
TOPPING BOTTOMING
VAGINAL
Ben Wa Balls ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Chastity Belt ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Clip Clamp ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐

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 Clit Pump ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Dildos/Toys ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Female Ejaculation ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Fingering ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Fisting ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Injections ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Multiple Penetration ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Vulva Pump ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐

GIVING/ RECEIVING/
ACTIVITY YES NO MAYBE
TOPPING BOTTOMING
PENILE/TESTICULAR
Ball Stretching ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
CBT ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Chastity Belt/Cage ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Cock Rings ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Cock Worship ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Docking ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Hand Job ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Injections/Saline ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Muffing ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Penis Pump ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Sleeves/Toys ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐

GIVING/ RECEIVING/
ACTIVITY YES NO MAYBE
TOPPING BOTTOMING
URETHRAL
Catheters/Injections ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Urethral Intercourse/Fingering ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Golden Showers ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Sounding ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Urine Drinking ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐

GIVING/ RECEIVING/
ACTIVITY YES NO MAYBE
TOPPING BOTTOMING
BDSM
Bondage ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Discipline ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Domination ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Submission ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Sadism ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Masochism ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐

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 GIVING/ RECEIVING/
ACTIVITY YES NO MAYBE
TOPPING BOTTOMING
IMPACT PLAY
Beating with Hands/Pads ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Bruises ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Caning ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Face Slapping ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Flogging ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Paddling ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Pinching ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Punching ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Riding Crops ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Spanking ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Whipping ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Wrestling ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐

GIVING/ RECEIVING/
ACTIVITY YES NO MAYBE
TOPPING BOTTOMING
KINKS/FETISHES
Age Play ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Barebacking ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Blindfolds ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Blood Play ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Body Modification ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Body Paint ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Breast Sex ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Bukkake ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Cages/Entrapment ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Camming ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Car Sex ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Catherine Wheel ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Chains ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Clothespins ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Con Non-Con ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Corsets ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Cosplay ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Crossdressing ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Cuckolding ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Cuddling ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Cuffs (Leather/Metal) ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Cyber Sex ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Dirty Talk ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Dry Humping ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
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 Edge-Play ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Edging ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Electrostimulation ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Erotic Asphyxiation ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Exhibitionism ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Eye Contact ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Face Sitting ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Fantasizing ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Feathers ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Flirting ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Fondling ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Food Play ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Foot Play ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Foot Worship ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Furries ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Gags ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Gangbang ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Gender Play ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Gloryhole ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Groping ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Group Sex/Orgies ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Hair Pulling ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Heat Play/Fire ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Humiliation ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Hypnosis ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Ice Play ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Lap Dance ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Leash/Collar ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Leather ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Leaving Marks/Hickies ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Lingerie ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Loud Sex ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Manacles & Irons ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Manicures ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Massage ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Medical Play ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Mirrors ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Mud ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Music ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Mutual Masturbation ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Needles/Pins ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Nipple Clamps ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐

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 Nipple Play ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Nipple Pump ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Nudism ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Object Insertion ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Oils & Lotions ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Orgasm Denial ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Outdoor Sex ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Paying for Sex ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Pet Play ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Phone Sex ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Photography ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Piercings ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Power Exchange ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Public Sex ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Punishment ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Quickie ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Reading Erotica ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Restraints ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Role Playing ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Rope Bondage ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Rough Sex ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Rubber/Latex ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Saran Wrapping ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Scissoring ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Sensory Deprivation ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Sex Dolls ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Sex Furniture ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Sex Machines ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Sex Magic ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Sex Swing ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Sex Toys ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Sexting ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Shaving ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Shower/Pool Sex ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Skinny-Dipping ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Spreader Bars ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
St. Andrews’ Cross ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Stimulants/Arousals ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Strap-on Sex ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Stripping ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Suspension ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Swinging ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐

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 Sybian ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Tattooing ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Teledildonics ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Threesome ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Tickling ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Vibrators ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Video Taping ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Vore ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Voyeurism ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Wartenberg Pinwheel ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Watching Porn ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Wax Play ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Woken up with Sex ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐
Wooden Horse ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐ ☐

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