Professional Documents
Culture Documents
Dominant Activity
Submissive
Ye Negoti No Ye Negoti No
s able s able
Willing Willing
to to
learn learn
Dishes
Sweep
floors
Mop floors
Clean
carpets
Cooking
Serve
meals
Serve
Drinks
Food
Shopping
Laundry
Clothes to
cleaner
Closet
upkeep
Chauffer
Car care
Trash out
Plant care
Dust/clean
house
Yard
Maintenanc
e
Pool
Maintenanc
e
Boot care
Care for
Leathers
Care for
Toys
Dungeon
Upkeep
Bathing
Dominant
Grooming
Dom.
Massage
Serve in
Public
Sexual
Service
Supervise
other
submissive
s
Pet care
Household
Repairs
Scheduling
Appointme
nts
Make
Travel
Plans
Serve as
furniture
Childcare
Secretarial
Svc.
Party
planning
Bartending
Schedule
Events/acti
vities
Medical
Care
Order for
(in
restaurants
)
15. Do you have any medical issues/concerns to share with
your D/s partner? (Bad knees, bad back, chronic illness)
16. Do you have any psychological concerns/diagnosis to
share with your D/s partner? (Depression, social anxiety,
seasonal effective disorder, PTSD)
17. Are you currently taking any medication? ________ If so,
what? What are the side effects of these medications?
18. If your D/s needs, are not met in this relationship, how
will you express that?
19. If the problem persists, what will you do next?
20. Is there a trusted person that you can suggest for your
D/s partner to talk to if they need to process their thoughts
with someone other than you, (this should be someone who
will not take sides, gossip or attempt to lure your partner out
o this relationship)
21. What forum is provided for each member of the
relationship to express dissatisfaction without concern for
retribution or punishment? How often will this opportunity
take place?
22. What behaviors are "deal breakers" for you in a D/s
relationship?
23. If this is a live in relationship in which the dominant
controls the finances of the submissive, what provision will
be made that insure financial independence for the
submissive should the relationship end (i.e. a savings
account with enough money for a security deposit, rent for a
couple of months, furniture and groceries)?