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Google the phrase “biology of love” and you’ll get answers that run the
gamut of accuracy. Needless to say, the scientific basis of love is often
sensationalized, and as with most science, we don’t know enough to
draw firm conclusions about every piece of the puzzle. What we do
know, however, is that much of love can be explained by chemistry.
So, if there’s really a “formula” for love, what is it, and what does it
mean?
The hypothalamus of the brain plays a big role in this, stimulating the
production of the sex hormones testosterone and estrogen from the
testes and ovaries (Figure 1). While these chemicals are often
stereotyped as being “male” and “female,” respectively, both play a role
in men and women. As it turns out, testosterone increases libido in just
about everyone. The effects are less pronounced with estrogen, but
some women report being more sexually motivated around the time
they ovulate, when estrogen levels are highest.
Figure 1: A: The testes and ovaries secrete the sex hormones testosterone and estrogen, driving
sexual desire. B and C: Dopamine, oxytocin, and vasopressin are all made in the hypothalamus, a
region of the brain that controls many vital functions as well as emotion. D: Several of the
regions of the brain that affect love. Lust and attraction shut off the prefrontal cortex of the brain,
which includes rational behavior.
Love Hurts
This all paints quite the rosy picture of love: hormones are released,
making us feel good, rewarded, and close to our romantic partners. But
that can’t be the whole story: love is often accompanied by jealousy,
erratic behavior, and irrationality, along with a host of other less-than-
positive emotions and moods. It seems that our friendly cohort of
hormones is also responsible for the downsides of love.
So, in short, there is sort of a “formula” for love. However, it’s a work in
progress, and there are many questions left unanswered. And, as we’ve
realized by now, it’s not just the hormone side of the equation that’s
complicated. Love can be both the best and worst thing for you – it
can be the thing that gets us up in the morning, or what makes us
never want to wake up again. I’m not sure I could define “love” for you
if I kept you here for another ten thousand pages.
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