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SUMMARY
If things go extremely well in relationships, you may begin to see peo-
ple emulate your Versatility. Even without knowing anything specific
about Social Styles, the important people in your life may begin to re-
spond to your efforts to be more collaborative by increasing their own
willingness to do the same. It’s called reciprocity.
There’s no guarantee that being versatile with others will make
them versatile with you, but everything we’ve described so far is an
outline for what it takes to make it possible for that to happen. When
it does – when people recognize your honest efforts to respond to their
needs and expectations – a special thing happens. Other people start
making an effort to make you comfortable, too.
The energy and productivity that can come out of these kinds of sit-
uations is astounding. Somehow your common ground becomes big-
ger and you begin to focus your efforts on shared goals and outcomes.
You have commitments to mutually beneficial causes.
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