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Fears That Stop Your Progress Finding The Theme of Your Memoir
Fears That Stop Your Progress Finding The Theme of Your Memoir
THE ME OF Y OUR
ME MOIR F EAR S THAT
S T OP Y OUR
PR OGRE SS
COMMON
MIS TAKE S IN
ME MOIRS
H OW TO
OVE RCOME
F EAR S AND
PU BLISH YOUR
WORK
WRITING
Your Memoir
Many bestselling memoirs are written by the already-famous: Actors, business
every year are written by people who are not famous, perhaps not even well-
They were buying the promise of overcoming poverty and finding success.
Because you, the memoirist, are not famous, the majority of your readers
will not be “buying” you. They are buying the story you have to tell—in other
All good memoirs center around a specific theme, a promise to the reader: “I
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The problems of failure are
hard.
— Neil Gaiman
FEARS MISTAKES
WHAT YOU ARE AFRAID OF HOW IT AFFECTS YOUR WRITING
Fear of judgment from loved ones Leaving out the truth to paint yourself in a more positive
light
Fear of strangers’ or colleagues’ opinions Sanitizing your opinions and state of mind that led you to
your choices
Fear of leaving someone out Treating your memoir like an autobiography and including
endless minutae
The overriding fear of all new author, regardless of genre, is “Am I Good Enough?” The benefit of writing a memoir is that
the story has already been written, leaving only the pruning process. However, if left unchecked, your fears can infect your
writing to the point that your story—your message—goes unheeded by your reader.
Make yourself appear too saintly and you minimize your accomplishments and the strength of overcoming your
struggles. Gloss over your trauma and you degrade your readers who are or have gone through a similar situation. In trying
to mitigate the anger of others, you end up alienating the people who need your story the most—your core audience!
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Let Go of Fear
Now it’s time to start writing.
it is what brings the reader into your world, allowing them to walk
in your shoes.
the scene you most want to write. The one that is most pivotal.
Write that scene completely as you remember it. The dialogue, your
feelings, what the other people in the room were doing and what
Then ask others for their memories of that event. How did they
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