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Religious Affiliations and Masculine Power in Jordanian Wedding Invitation Genre
Religious Affiliations and Masculine Power in Jordanian Wedding Invitation Genre
A B S T R A C T . The
present study examines through a genre and critical
discourse analysis a total of 200 Arabic written wedding invitations in terms
of their component patterns, and the role played by the broader socio-cultural
norms and values in shaping this genre. It draws on two analytic frameworks
from discourse: genre analysis, and critical discourse analysis (CDA). CDA has
exposed at least two interrelated aspects of culture – religion and masculine
authority – that have a fundamental effect on the organizational details of this
communicative event, and a detailed genre analysis has identified eight generic
components that are ritually drawn upon in the process of wedding invitation
production. CDA results have shown how religious affiliation and masculine
kinship authority not only construct and shape text component selection but
also color the lexical choices and naming practices. I hope that the results of
this study will be of help in further understanding the socio-cultural aspects
that constrain the communicative behavior of the target language speakers,
and in providing cross-cultural contrast in intercultural communication.
1. Introduction
Invitation, irrespective of form, is a commemorative social action having the
function of informing and requesting the presence or participation of a person(s)
kindly and courteously to some place, gathering, entertainment, etc., or to do
something. Invitations in general occur in written or spoken forms. Printed forms
of invitation, in particular, share certain generic features that set them apart
from other text types. They are instances of a traditional text type, in which
socio-cultural conventions play a major role. Having the function of informing
potential recipients about something, they belong to a group of texts Miller
(1984) calls ‘homely discourses’, which include ceremony announcement texts
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of everyday life, such as weddings, birth, obituaries and the like. A wedding
invitation is an easily recognizable ‘homely’ genre, a category that is well known
to readers throughout the world. Its content tends to be predicable in terms of the
mention of ‘wedding’, the name of the bride and groom, and the time and the
place of the ceremony; and the phrasal form in which each of these components
appears is also conventionalized (Johns, 1997: 39).
Studies in Arabic on linguistic routines and formulaic patterns of the homely
genres of Arab societies are not numerous. Following from Wolfson’s (1981)
general descriptive analysis of American English oral invitations, Salih (1996)
attempted a sociopragmatic analysis of oral invitation formulae and responses to
show the similarities and dissimilarities between American English (AmE) and
Jordanian Arabic (JA). Salih found that due to religious references in JA, and
certain socio-cultural norms in AmE and JA, inviters might use particular
formulae or linguistic elements in their invitations that do not have any
corresponding equivalents in the other language.
The researcher has used a comparative approach based on exemplary speech
acts in isolation cited from a variety of speech situations and highlighted the
differences between them. This kind of approach can be criticized for its lack of
an analytical framework that focuses on the different types of invitations and it
also lacks the necessary sensitivity to the versatility of genre description, in the
sense that it allows invitations to be viewed as a single genre at a high level of
generalization. In reality, invitations represent a grouping of closely related sub-
genres, such as invitations for feasts, invitations for weddings, invitations for
tribal reconciliation, or for meetings, etc., serving broadly similar communicative
purposes although each has its specific communicative function and is different
from others in a number of aspects, such as context of use, domain, participant
relationships, medium of discourse and other constraints. Each of these vari-
ables affects the sequential organization of each communicative event and the
kind of component moves used to articulate its specific purpose. The alternative
approach is to explore and describe each individual communicative event.
Al-Ali (2005) identified an unusual type of wedding announcement termed
‘martyr’s wedding’. This was recognized as one of two types of death
announcements in Jordanian newspapers: one communicates a normal death
while the other celebrates an unusual death, called ‘martyr’s wedding’. Despite
observed similarities between the two types of ceremonies in terms of the
component moves employed to organize each type, the so called ‘martyr’s
wedding’ embodies indications of motivational, promotional, and persuasive
input to the perceived audience, as well as a feeling of pride and honor on the
part of the announcer. Al-Ali (2005) makes clear that these functions corres-
pond closely to the ideology of the participants and reflect their socio-cultural
norms and conventions.
Except, perhaps, for the unusual type of wedding (i.e. the martyr’s wedding)
identified by Al-Ali, no published studies appear to have focused specifically on
Arabic wedding invitation genre in terms of its sequential component
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organizational patterns, and the impact of the broader social norms and values
on the articulation of these patterns, and the present article represents an
attempt to fill those lacunae. Thus, the following questions provided the basic
framework for the study:
1. What typical discourse generic component patterns can be identified in the
wedding invitation genre?
2. How is the invitation genre text structured? Whose interests are fore-
grounded by this organization and whose interests are not served?
3. Which elements of the socio-cultural context are relevant in the wedding
ceremonies and which elements have more influence and power?
4. How does the concept of power (i.e. domination and authority) technically
work and how is it conveyed in the wedding invitation genre?
This study matters because, as the review of the literature has revealed, there
seems to have been virtually no systematic investigation of the written wedding
invitation genre in Arabic. Therefore, this research is the first of its type to throw
some light on this common widespread socialization process from which one
learns ‘the rules and practices of social groups’ (Worsley, 1970: 153). ‘Learning
foreign languages is learning how to behave linguistically in cultures other than
one’s own’ (Ventola, 1987: 6); thus, this study is deemed necessary for those who
are interested in becoming familiar with and participating in the social life of
members from another culture. Further, such studies would provide interesting
contrasts, necessary for cross-cultural communication. ‘Studies of patterns of
speech behaviour in a variety of languages would provide a solid basis for badly
needed cross linguistic analysis; research which would greatly aid in efforts
toward intercultural communication’ (Wolfson, 1981: 21).
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texts which are constructed in those situations’ (Kress, 1989: 19). Saville-Troike
(1997: 126) has expressed this view:
In understanding an ethnography of communication in a particular locale, the first
task is to define at least tentatively the speech community to be studied, attempt to
gain some understanding of its social organization and other salient aspects of the
culture, and formulate possible hypotheses concerning the diverse ways the socio-
cultural phenomena might relate to patterns of communication.
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ceremony, usually for this occasion the immediate family and close friends are
invited to the prospective bride’s house. Sometimes, relatives from the asheerah
(sub-tribe) as well as a large gathering of friends attend the engagement cere-
mony (Harries, 1958). The wedding ceremony, on the other hand, is not likely to
be a simple affair; it is preceded by laborious preparations of the bride, groom and
their families. After a day is chosen by the bride and the groom for the wedding,
the two families of the couple send out written invitation cards to their relatives,
friends, colleagues, and neighbors to notify them of the forthcoming celebration.
In Jordanian society, a wedding celebration is an occasion for communal joy,
which has a rich cultural heritage in this regard. Weddings in Jordan are usually
preceded by one to three evenings of joyful proceedings and dancing as a signal
that the festival has begun. The dance continues till midnight; both men and
women dance separately, though the separation is not complete as they hear
each other’s voices. On the joyful evenings which precede the wedding, grooms
of well-to-do parents bring in singing bands to stimulate the spirits of the guests;
they dance and stamp and clap in semi-circles to the trilling and singing of the
band.
Among the villagers and those who live in town the wedding ceremony is
likely not to be restricted to the wedding celebration. Before the wedding cele-
bration takes place the wedding guests, sometimes more than 1000 altogether,
are often invited to a huge reception, called a ‘wedding feast’. Relatives of the
groom usually slaughter the animals for the feast – goats and sheep – and cook
the rice and meat and serve the wedding meal to the guests. Compared with the
late 1960s and early 1970s, weddings are becoming extremely expensive affairs
so that many grooms and their families cannot actually afford this, and they have
to go into debt to pay for the wedding feast. Thus, more grooms nowadays prefer
to give up these costly feasts altogether due to the recent economic recession in
Jordan. At least half of the couples currently choose the western style of wedding
celebration and the cake-cutting ceremony is imitated in the recently popular
weddings. Observes Goldstein-Gidoni (2001: 33): ‘This kind of West and the
spirit of cosmopolitanism it conveys are also embodied in the overseas weddings
that have recently gained popularity’. On the wedding day there is the
ceremonial participation in the main wedding celebration, which usually takes
place in a public place. The bridal pair goes to a wedding hall where the wedding
guests have gathered to celebrate the occasion. The ceremony usually lasts for
two hours. As soon as they finish the wedding ceremony, the bride and the groom
leave the hall accompanied by a caravan of the invited guests’ cars which
proceed to the groom’s house.
3. Theoretical background
This study draws on two analytical paradigms: genre analysis employed by
Swales (1990) and Foley (1997), and critical discourse analysis (CDA) used by
Fairclough (1995), Van Dijk (1993, 1996) and Wodak (1997). In general,
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cultural and ideological influence. In other words, the present research employs
two somewhat overlapping but complementary approaches: genre analysis and
critical discourse analysis. The first approach is utilized to investigate what
component building block moves discourse participants use to construct
wedding invitations as a conventionalized socio-cultural practice. It also
attempts to show how discourse writers use genre as a powerful instrument of
social control (Sarangi and Slembrouck, 1994), ‘and why they write the genre
the way they do’ (Bhatia, 2004: 10). The second approach will focus on the role
of broader social factors such as power and ideology, and social structures that
contribute to the construction and interpretation of this discourse genre (Bhatia
2004: 10). This in turn gives rise to important issues of power and ideological
effects; it can help produce and reproduce unequal power relations between, for
instance, social classes, and women and men that are often unclear to people
through the ways of using language (Wodak, 1997: 173–4). Following Wodak
(1997), who regards the concept of power as ‘a product of and process by which
organization members engaged in organizing activity’ . . . and manifests itself in
hierarchies, in the access to certain discourses and information’ (1997: 174), the
concept of power lends itself very well for our analysis.
As mentioned earlier, the two interacting views of discourse are essentially
complementary to each other. It is possible to use the proposed genre framework,
firstly, by looking deeply into the rhetorical components that are used to
structure this genre and the linguistic and discoursal resources that are used to
realize these components, then working toward socio-cultural context to study
the role relationship between the participants, and the power hierarchy as
interpretation and explanation for textual organization.
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information I desired about the effect of socio-cultural rules and norms in the
wedding invitations. When it is a question of understanding the discursive
practices characteristic of culture, we are obliged to seek explanations of their
socio-cultural norms through the eyes of those who know the people thoroughly
or else incorrect judgments and justification will easily occur. By participating in
and observing wedding rituals from the inside at work, ‘the intricacy of all these
many discourses become apparent’ (Wodak, 1997: 175). For Bhatia (2004:
113–14), in order for anyone to claim sufficient experience in genre analysis, one
needs to have some understanding of the context of text-external aspects of the
genre in terms of the broader context in which the genre is to be constructed,
interpreted and practiced in real-life situations.
Following Ventola (1987), Swales (1990) and Bhatia’s (2004) move
structure analysis of texts which is built on the framework that a genre consists
of a sequence of functional component moves articulating its main
communicative purpose, the wedding invitations were analyzed for their
component moves to determine how the inviters accomplished the overall
purpose of their wedding invitations as socio-cultural activities. This involved
scanning the texts to identify text units expressing particular functions.
Following Al-Ali (1999, 2004, 2005), assigning a function to each text unit was
guided by the proposition that each individual unit communicates a particular
rhetorical function which is different from that of the following contiguous text
unit. Each of these text component portions has a particular function in relation
to the overall communicative purpose of the wedding invitation genre (Ventola,
1987). Through recursive passes through the corpus texts, checking all cases, I
developed eight functional categories to include all text units in the corpus. To
validate my analysis of the component moves the inviters used, I asked a second
rater, who worked as a research assistant, to code independently half of the text
corpus (100 wedding invitations). On a check for inter-coder reliability, there was
an 85 percent agreement. The analysis of the wedding invitation corpus revealed
that there were eight component moves by means of which inviters structured
their invitation texts as shown in the following section.
The next two sections present a genre analysis of the corpus at hand in terms
of the surface level generic cognitive features, complemented with a CDA
analysis of implicit socio-cultural norms teasing the ideology in each generic
component of the ritualized wedding invitation. Used together, these two
approaches are capable of yielding a clear description, interpretation and
explanation of discourse.
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5.1 OPENING
This component is usually set apart on its own. It contains either a direct
quotation from the Holy Qur’an (40%) or extracts of Prophet Mohammed’s
invocations to bless the bride and the groom (35%); while 25% of the openings
featured stanzas from Arabic poetry. The Qur’anic quotations include ritualistic
and formulaic verses promoting marriage. Either of the following Qur’anic verses
exemplifies the kind of realization available in the corpus of the ‘wedding
invitations’:
1. wa min ?aayaatihii ?an khalaqa lakum min ?anfusikum ?azwaajan litaskunuu ?ilayhaa
wa-ja’ala baynakum mawaddatan wa-raHmah. ?inn fii thaalika la-?aayaatin liqawmin
yatafakkaruun.
(And among His Signs is this, that he created for you mates from among yourselves,
that ye may dwell in tranquility with them. And he has put love and mercy between
your (hearts): verily in that are signs for those who reflect.)
Surah Al Rum, verse 21
2. wallathiina yaquuluuna rabbanaa hab lanaa min ?azwaajinaa wa thurriyyaatinaa
qurrata ?a’yunin wa-j’alnaa lilmuttaqiina ?imaamaa
(And those who pray ‘Our Lord! Grant unto us wives and offspring who will be the
comfort of our eyes, and give us (the grace) to lead the righteous’.)
Surah Al Furqan, verse 74
This formulaic invocation has its roots in Prophet Mohammed’s sayings which
asked Allah’s blessing, unity, harmony and love for the newly married couple. As
narrated by Abu Huraira, when the Prophet congratulated a man on his
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marriage, he would say, ‘Allah bless you, grant you blessing, and prosper your
union’ (Al-Asqalani, n.d.: 343).
A third variety of openings found to be common is in the form of poetry. A
typical poetic form reads like this:
SubHaan man jama’a alquuba bifaDlihi wa-‘alaa riHaabi?ilwardi ‘ammara daarihaa
(Praise be to God whose generosity joined the hearts and Who established homes full
of fondness.)
5.2 HEADING
This move is an optional slot, which often appears in second position. It has a low
frequency of occurrence in the sample (28%). The heading may be mentioned in
the invitation for some special reason, e.g. it enables the invitees to recognize the
particular place of the wedding ceremony whenever there is more than one
wedding taking place in the same building at the same time.
The heading is expressed by a simple noun phrase – ?afraaH (Weddings) –
followed by the groom’s tribe or sub-tribe’s name and that of the bride’s. It is
stressed by being printed in bold as a separate line, and using a different size font,
as illustrated in the following example:
?afraaH ‘asheerat X wa ‘asheerat Y
(Weddings of Tribe X and Tribe Y)
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who work are free and like to participate in the occasion. In wedding invitations,
the day of the week is often accompanied by a further specification, such as
masa?an (evening) or ba‘d Salaat ?aljum?ah (after Friday prayers). About 43
percent of the weddings occurred on Fridays. Although there is a difference of
opinion about the time of wedding feasts, a traditional day to get married,
according to Islamic traditions, is Friday afternoon or evening, as this is primarily
a holiday for Moslems and the day of assembly when they share in common
public worship. The name of the month and the year is added to the day of the
week.
It should be pointed out that 45 percent of the wedding invitations in the
sample featured the occurrence of the formulaic phrase bi-mashii?ati-allah (if God
permits). Considered as a discourse marker (see Schiffrin, 1987), this expression
usually appears in the first position immediately before the date. Farghal (1993:
49) calls it ‘discourse conditional’ (i.e. ‘conditional clauses that are frequently
begged [?] to segments of Arabic discourse in order to mortgage the realization of
the speech act in question, e.g., a promise, to the will of Allah’). According to
Muslim belief, this expression and other similar ones are mentioned ‘when one is
making plans for the future, as Allah is the ultimate agent who can will the
occurrence of future events’ (Farghal, 1995: 255).
An illustrative example of this component is the following:
Wa-thaalika bi-mashii?ati-allah fii tamaam?asaa‘ah?athaaniyah min ba‘di Sallati
?aljum‘ah ?almuwafiq 15/5/ 2003 fii manzil waalid ?al‘ariis fii shaari‘ ?ajaam‘ah
fiimadiinati irbid
This [will take place] if Allah wills at two o’clock after Friday prayers 15/5/2003 at
the residence of the groom’s father, University Street, Irbid City.
5.7 CLOSING
The wedding invitations were rounded off by stock formulaic phrases in which
the inviter either wishes happiness to the invitees, appeals for the invitees’
presence and participation, or calls upon Allah to bless them. The most frequent
favored formulaic instances are:
1. daamat ?al?afraaH Haliifatu diyaarikum ?al‘aamirah
(May your inhabited homes be always full of happiness!)
2. biHuDuurifum tazeedu sa‘aadatunaa wa taktamilu farHatunaa
(Your presence will increase our happiness and complete our joy.)
3. ?al‘aaqibah ‘indakum fii ?almasaraat
(May we visit you in similar subsequent happy occasions.)
4. dumtum mash‘alan lil?afraaH
(May you be always torchbearers of happiness.)
As was noted, these closing phrases can be considered obligatory since they
occurred in one form or another in 95 percent of our sample. Since the type of
formulaic phrases used were very limited in number (i.e. five), this supports
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Nwoye’s (1992) view that the use of these closings argues against ‘individual
composition or authorship, and suggests the existence of a standardized format
into which would-be announcers fit the relevant information’ (p. 26).
With regard to the appeals, it appeared that 25 percent of the cards contained
covert or overt appeals to the invitees calling upon them not to bring their
children to the wedding party. Explicit examples are:
?Arajaa ‘adam iSTiHaab ?alaTfaal
(Please do not bring children.)
?idaarat ?aSaalah laa tasmaH bi iSTiHaab ?alaTfaal
(The staff of the wedding hall do not permit accompanying children.)
Some people in the Arab world tend to express their happiness by shooting into
the sky. To avoid this, the inviters often include an appeal to the participants not
to practice this habit, as in the following example:
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Heading ?afraaH ‘asheerat [Name of groom’s Tribe] wa ‘asheerat [Name of bride’s Tribe]
(Weddings of [Name of groom’s Tribe] and [Name of bride’s Tribe)
cards, were family and religion. A discursive look at the visual organization and
verbal presentation as well as lexical choice practices in the wedding texts
displays many features of the influences and control exercised by Islamic
religious beliefs and Jordanian Arab socio-cultural units, such as kinship, and
family structure. To uncover the influence of discoursal practices as manifested
by paternal power, kinship, and gender discrimination, and reproduced in the
wedding invitation texts, first, we consider carefully the verbal organization of
the following wedding invitation text, including both visual and verbal
presentations, their juxtapositioning, their sequencing, and their layout
vertically (top-down) and horizontally (right-left) (Janks, 1997). Then, we need
to consider the linguistic options and selections to give a fully-fledged
interpretation of the wedding invitation card.
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A close look at the wedding text above enables the analyst to recognize that,
besides the other optional components, the text is divided into seven components.
The top component contains verses from the Holy Qur’an dominating all the
following components on the horizontal axis. Each of the second, third, and fifth
components is in turn divided into two with spacing between them on the
vertical axis. The second horizontal component includes the name of the
groom’s tribe on the right side followed by that of the bride’s on the left.2
Immediately following this on the third horizontal axis is the name of the
groom’s father followed by his mother’s name (if mentioned). Below, on the fifth
horizontal axis, is the groom’s name placed on the right side of the vertical
column while the bride’s name (if mentioned) occupies the left side column. The
force of this juxtapositioning and layout directs the reader’s eye to the column of
linguistic text on the right. This pull to the right column of print is due to the fact
that from an Arabic right-left orientation one would be more likely to start
reading with the right-hand column as a habit of Arabic literacy.
The composition of the second, third, and fifth components of the text
together, vertically, has also interesting features on the top-down axis. Each of
these components is divided into two: one on the right and another on the left
with spacing between them. On the top of these two columns, the first opening
component, which contains verses from the Holy Qur’an, dominates. On the first
line on the vertical top-down axis of the right-sided column, the groom’s tribe
name dominates the father’s name on the following line below, which in turn
dominates the groom’s name immediately below, as it occupies a third rank.
Similarly, the left-sided column is occupied by the bride’s tribe name, with her
father’s name on the second line, which in turn dominates the bride’s name
below.
As can be seen, religion occupies the first position in the wedding invitation
followed by the tribal power. Following this is the paternal authority, which in
turn dominates that of the young couples. The patterns of gender and age are
also not distributed equally among the participants (i.e. the fathers, the mothers,
the grooms and the brides). In the texts analyzed, elderly males (fathers or elder
male guardians) espouse a higher form of authority than that of females
(mothers) since males’ names appear before those of females. Similarly, the
groom’s names are placed before the bride’s. At the same time the groom and
bride’s names are placed below their parents’ names. So far, our analysis has
revealed that the structure of the Jordanian family is intertwined in such a way
that the paternal masculine authority and the dependence of the individual on
his/her family operate in such a way that the Jordanian culture could be termed
a ‘kinship culture’.
The religious affiliation, paternal masculine power and gender discrimination
are confirmed not only by the arrangement of the text but also by lexical choices
reflecting beliefs, and naming practices foregrounding masculine authority and
disguising feminism. One may argue that what has given rise to such expressive
ritualistic religious coloring of the wedding invitation is the overwhelming
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emphasis on initiating this genre with direct quotations from the Holy Qur’an, or
invocations from Prophet Mohammed’s sayings in the opening move. As can be
concluded from the rendering of the second Qur’anic verse in the opening
component of this genre (Section 5.1), Muslims believe that their wives and
descendents are real sources of comfort and fulfillment of their spiritual
longings. They think that through their wives or through themselves, they may,
by Allah’s grace, be able to move toward truth and righteousness. Likewise, the
first exemplar opening verse in Section 5.1 embodies a belief that man’s loyalty
to the opposite sex is God-given, which in turn results in rest and tranquility
found in the normal marriage of a father and mother dwelling together and
bringing up a family.
The examined data also revealed that religious affiliation is confirmed by the
considerable frequency of lexical choices of religious language, particularly in
situating the wedding ceremony move. For example, the commonly quoted
phrase bi-mashii?ati-allah, meaning ‘by Allah’s Will’, symbolizes Muslims’
attitudes towards their religious beliefs. This formulaic expression is meant to
acknowledge the will of Allah and not to rely upon one’s own resourses so much
as to forget Allah. This phrase comes from what is stated explicitly in the Holy
Qur’an:
(23) Wa laa taquulanna lishay ?in ?innii faa‘ilun thaalika Gaddaa (24)?illaa ?any- yashaa
?allah.
‘And never say of anything, “I shall do such and such thing tomorrow.” Except (with
the saying), “If Allah will!”
(Surha Al-Kahf, v. 23–24)
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The wedding invitation cards also demonstrated the dominance of the masculine
authority in Jordanian society, in the sense that the roles of men and women are
not distributed equally between them, as men remained the guardians of women
before and after marriage. Marriage in this sense appeared a masculine ritual
through which the masculine power (e.g. father, elder brother) over the bride
before marriage is passed into another masculine domain, in this case, her
husband. However, man’s authority over woman and over other household
affairs does not imply autocratic rights, but duties of care and protection due to
the biological endowment related to the former. Such social values (i.e. duties of
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care and protection) are enjoined upon Moslems by the Qur’anic teaching. The
following commonly quoted Qur’anic verse symbolizes this matter:
?arrijaalu qawwaamuuna ‘ala ?anisaa?i bimaa faDDala ?alaahu ba‘Dahum ‘alaa ba‘Din
wabimaa ?anfaquu min ?amwaalihim
‘Men are the protectors and maintainers of women, because Allah has given the one
more strength than the other, and because they support them from their means.’
Al-Nisa, verse 34
Considered in this light, the wedding invitation genre is shaped by the socio-
cultural beliefs and values, which have a fundamental effect on the organi-
zational details of this communicative event; and an understanding of the
component moves organizing this event, according to Hua et al. (2000), requires
an understanding of the broader social values of the culture in question. Thus,
in order to attempt to understand in some detail how participants construct and
exploit a wedding invitation genre, it is necessary to have knowledge of the social
interactional activities (Foley, 1997) related to this genre. In the case of activities
related to a wedding, we can identify a number of closely related instances of
invitation ceremonies that precede the actual wedding day. Some of the
interesting ones worth considering are Hafl al-khutbah (the engagement party),
during which the groom places a wedding ring on his bride’s finger, and for
which a few relatives and friends are invited; munaasabat katb al-kitab (the signing
of the marriage contract ceremony), which is attended by members of the bride
and groom’s tribes, as well as a large gathering of friends; and Hafl al-wadaa‘ (the
farewell party) which is usually held on the evening before the wedding day itself
by the bride to mark her last day of being single. The relationship between the
marriage ceremony ritual and the related rituals remains unexplored. For
example, the comparison between related invitations such as da‘wit Hafl al-
khutbah (the engagement party invitation), da‘wit katb al-kitab (the signing of the
marriage contract ceremony) and da‘wit Hafl al-wadaa‘ (the farewell party
invitation) are needed. All these will have a number of shared features and may
have a great deal of common ground. The relationship between these related
rituals remains unexplored. Although it is not possible within the scope of this
article to consider these instances of related rituals in detail, it would be
worthwhile for cultural studies to compare similar invitation rituals, not only
intra-culturally, but also cross-culturally. This would add depth to what is known
and may broaden the field of genre analysis research, in that it might uncover to
what extent these related activities could be put together as one genre or could be
regarded as sub-categories of the same genre (Bhatia, 1993). Further research of
ritual patterns in a particular language will manifest how ‘a society chooses and
codifies the acts that correspond most closely to its ideology’ (Todorov’s, 1990:
19); however, in a variety of languages, it would provide solid basis for badly
needed cross-sociocultural analysis, which would ‘greatly aid in efforts toward
intercultural communication’ (Wolfson, 1981: 20).
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(1) Opening
(2) Heading
(3) Identifying the inviters
(4) Requesting the presence of others
(5) Identifying the bride and groom
(6) Situating the wedding ceremony
(7) Closing
(8) Other optional components
NOTES
1. Sunna is the legal ways, orders, acts of worshiping and statements of Prophet
Mohammed that have become models to be followed by Muslims.
2. It should be noted here that Arabic adopts a right-left writing and reading orientation
system, but the transliteration system adopted here is the English left-right writing
system. As a result of transliteration, what appears on the left hand is read from right
to left in the original Arabic text.
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