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God loves the arrow that flies, so he loves the bow that is stable.
What does the phrase “the bow that is stable” refer to?
A parent who is resolute and willing to sacrifice to steadfastly and firmly propel his/her child to his/her destiny.
“They came through you but are not from you” means:
A) Though parents give birth to children, they do not own them.
B) Children have personalities independent of their parents.
C) Parents should be indifferent to their children.
“And a woman who held a babe against her bosom said, ‘speak to us of children’ and he said:” Here “he” refers to:
A) Her child.
B) The prophet.
C) The poet.
English literature, Poetry | Second Year, P.U.C. 10.
ANSWERS; Elaborate explanatory four mark questions
Why does the prophet categorically state “your children are not your children”? (4)
The phrase, "your children are not your children", is a reminder to parents about the fact that their children belong to the divine. Children according to him are the
result of life's longing to evolve and continue itself and to be expressed. He conveys that parents only play the role of stewards to take care of them and bring them
up to face the new world. Parents are, in the poet’s opinion, only vessels to bring forth the child into this beautiful world and therefore they do not own their spirit
and cannot be obsessively attached to them. The poet urges parents to realise that they can only shower their love but cannot force them to become like them or
think like them as their dreams and lives lie in the parents’ future ( said to be “in the house of tomorrow”). Every time a child is born, the birth emphasizes an
eternal life and the purpose of the divine.
What does the metaphor of a bow and arrows signify with regard to parent- child relationships? (4)
The poem dedicates an entire one third of itself to this metaphor and in doing so stresses strongly on the speaker’s views on the parent-children relationship. The
poet highlights the fact that children belong to the part of never ending cycle of life. He metaphorically refers to the parents as a bow and their children as arrows
and the almighty as the archer who draws the bow and takes aim. The bow is bent by the Archer to shoot the arrows to reach its goal likewise parents undergo
strain and sacrifice and are bent in the hands of the almighty. They submit themselves into his will so that their children move forward and reach the goal pre
determined by God. If the bows are steady and strong then the arrows will move swiftly in the right direction and carry out God’s will. Similarly parents should be
steady and strong in teaching their children the responsibility of moving forward and be firm in teaching them to face life's challenges and to reach and fulfill their
destiny.
According to the prophet what attitude should parents have towards children? (4)
According to the prophet parents should not be obsessively attached to their children because children belong to the future. He stresses on children's individuality
and independent ideas. Apparently parents try to fulfill their unfinished dreams through their children which can hinder the growth of their children. He points out
that life tarries not with the past but moves forward. He requests the parents to become like their children rather than moulding them to become like them. He
wants parents to shower love and help them to move forward and face life's challenges.
English literature, Poetry | Second Year, P.U.C. 11.
ANSWERS; Elaborate explanatory six mark questions
Explain how, in this poem, “parents” could stand as a metaphor for the following: (6)
a. the older generation
b. leaders
c. religious heads
d. Teachers
Parents as leaders:
In the name of parenting , parents end up leading their children. They think its important for them to control their children's thoughts and life in order to achieve
their goals. The disapprove the ideas of their children and in the bid to prove their power and influence, parents as leaders spurn the tender minds.
Parents as teachers:
Parents should be like mentors, facilitate independent thinking rather than largely controlling them. Parents should appreciate and encourage children to think and
act independently rather than discouraging them and demotivating them.