CONSTRUCT social roles, and responsibilities. it is what comes to your mind COGNITIVE PSYCHOLOGY when asked about who you are. concerned with mental processes (as it is not fixed in one time frame. perception, thinking, learning, and memory) especially with respect to the SELF-SCHEMA internal events occurring between sensing Our organized system or collection of and the expression of behavior. knowledge about who we are. The self-schema includes your hobbies, COGNITION family, religion, nationality, interests, the mental processes involved in gaining work, course, age, name, etc. knowledge and comprehension. It includes As you grow and adapt to the changes thinking, knowing, remembering, judging, around you, they also change. and problem-solving. They actively shape and affect how you These are higher level functions of the see, think, and feel about things. brain and encompass language, Psychological Theories see the self and identity as imagination, perception, and planning. mental constructs, created and recreated in In Psychology, the self is defined as: “the sense of memory. Current researches point to the frontal personal identity and of who we are as lobe of the brain as the area associated with individuals.” processes concerning the self.
William James (1890) SIGMUND FREUD
“The deepest principle in human nature is “Unexpressed emotions will never die. the craving to be appreciated.” They are buried alive and will come forth He conceptualized the Self as later in uglier ways.” (1) "I" -- the thinking, acting, and He sees the self and the mind as a result of feeling self; and, interaction between the parts: (2) "me" -- the physical Id - the instinctual part of the mind characteristics; capabilities. that contains sexual and aggressive drives and hidden memories. It is Carl Rogers (1959) theory of personality: selfish and wishful in nature. “The curious paradox is that when I accept Illogical and fantasy oriented. myself as I am, then I can change.” Ego - the realistic part that Theory of personality: mediates between the desires of the "I" is the one who acts and services id and the superego. Modified by "Me" is what you think or feel the direct influence of the external about yourself world. The decision-making Being in a large crowd may lessen our self- component of personality. control. Superego - operates as a moral SOCIAL COMPARISON conscience. Applies the values of In this theory we learn about ourselves, society which are learned from the appropriateness of our behaviors, as one's parents and others. well as our status, by comparing ourselves to other people. SYMBOLIC INTERACTIONISM Downward Social Comparison – is a GH Mead common type of comparing Argues that the self is created and ourselves to others. We create a developed through human interaction. We positive self-concept by comparing are social products because: ourselves with those who are worse 1. We do not create ourselves out of than us. nothing. Upwards Social Comparison – is 2. We need others to affirm and comparing ourselves with those reinforce who we think we are. who are better than us. It can be 3. What’s important to us is motivation for some, but it could influenced by our social/historical also lower your self-esteem because context. it shows your weakness. These also occur not only in SELF-AWARENESS individuals but also in groups. 1. The private self - your internal private thoughts and feelings. SELF-EVALUATION MAINTENANCE 2. The public self/image - geared to having a good THEORY presentation of yourself to others. States that we feel threatened when someone out-performs us, or does better Self -awareness presents us three other Self- than us. Especially when that person is a Schema: close peer/partner/friend. 1. Actual Self - Who you are at the moment. We usually act in three (3) ways in these 2. Ideal Self - Who you like to be. situations: 3. Ought to be - Who you think you should be 1. We distance ourselves from the (responsibilities) person. 2. We reconsider the aspects or SELF-AWARENESS MAY BE POSITIVE OR skill you were outperformed in. NEGATIVE At other times, we may experience 3. We try to improve that aspect of loss of individual self-awareness and ourselves. accountability in groups. A lot of people attune But then, sometimes to increase or themselves with the emotions of their group. maintain self-esteem, some may become NARCISSISTIC. Meaning: overly high self-esteem, self-admiration, self- centeredness. There is a difference between self-esteem and narcissism. People with high self- esteem are usually outgoing, adventurous, adaptable in a lot of situations. But they could also be bullies and experiment on abusive behavior, drugs, alcohol and etc.
“Each person is an island unto himself, in a very
real sense; and he can only build bridges to other islands if he is first of all willing to be himself and permitted to be himself.” --- Carl Rojers