The self is defined as separate, self-contained, independent, and consistent. However, it is also ever-changing and dynamic, shaped by external influences. It has two facets - the "personne" composed of social identities, and the "moi" comprising one's basic identity. Language and social interaction play a key role in developing the self. Families are also hugely influential, as that is where people learn ways of living and develop their sense of self. Gender is another important aspect of selfhood that is subject to change over time.
The self is defined as separate, self-contained, independent, and consistent. However, it is also ever-changing and dynamic, shaped by external influences. It has two facets - the "personne" composed of social identities, and the "moi" comprising one's basic identity. Language and social interaction play a key role in developing the self. Families are also hugely influential, as that is where people learn ways of living and develop their sense of self. Gender is another important aspect of selfhood that is subject to change over time.
The self is defined as separate, self-contained, independent, and consistent. However, it is also ever-changing and dynamic, shaped by external influences. It has two facets - the "personne" composed of social identities, and the "moi" comprising one's basic identity. Language and social interaction play a key role in developing the self. Families are also hugely influential, as that is where people learn ways of living and develop their sense of self. Gender is another important aspect of selfhood that is subject to change over time.
Each person sorts out information, feelings and emotions, and thought processes What is the Self? within the self. The whole process is never Commonly defined by the following accessible to anyone but the self. characteristic: (Stevens, 1996) Self is isolated from the external world. It lives within its own world. Separate The self is distinct from other selves. SELF It is ever-changing and dynamic, allowing Self-Contained external influences to take part in its Its distinctness allows it to be self- shaping. (Social Constructionist contained with its own thoughts, Perspective) characteristics, and volition. It does not require any other self for it to exist. o It argues that for a merged view of "the person" and "their social Independent context" where the boundaries of In itself it can exist. one cannot easily be separated from the boundaries of the other. Consistent o The self should not be seen as a It has a personality that is enduring static entity that stays constant and therefore can be expected to through and through. Rather, the persist for some quite some time. self has to be seen as something It can be studied, described, and that is in unceasing flux. In a measured. constant struggle with external The self-traits, characteristics, reality and is flexible in its dealings tendencies, and potentialities are more with society. or less the same. It is always in a participation with social Unitary life and its identity subjected to influences It is the center of all experiences and here and there. It is truly complex. thoughts that run through a certain person. THE SELF AND CULTURE It is the chief of command post in an "Remaining the same person and turning individual where all processes, chameleon by adapting to one's context emotions, and thoughts converge. seems paradoxical." But according to a French Anthropologist Marcel Mauss, this phenomenon can be explained. that?" "But if I do this, it will be like this." "Don't I EVERY SELF HAS TWO FACES: want the other option?" PERSONNE - composed of the social concepts of what Cognitive and emotional development of a it means to be who he is. child is always a mimicry of how it is done -It has much to do with what it means to in the social world, in the external reality live in a particular institution, a particular where he is in. family, a particular religion, a particular They treat human mind as something that nationality, and how to behave given is made, constituted through language as expectations and influences from others. experiences in the external world and as encountered in dialogs with others. MOI - refers to a person's sense of who he is, his body, and his basic identity, his SELF IN FAMILIES biological givenness. It is a person's basic Sociological perspective struggles to identity. understand the real connection between the concept of the SELF and the SOCIAL THE SELF AND THE DEVELOPMENT WORLD. In doing so, sociologist focus on OF THE SOCIAL WORLD the different institutions and powers at play in the society. Among these, the most Studies indicate that men and women in prominent is the FAMILY. their growth and development engage Human persons learn the ways of living actively in the shaping of the self. The and therefore their selfhood by being in a unending terrain of metamorphosis of the family. It is what a family initiates a self is mediated by language. person to become that serves as the basis Language as both publicly a shared and for this person's progress. privately utilized symbol system is the site Without a family, biologically and where the individual and the social make sociologically, a person may not even and remake each other. survive or become a human person. One is PROPONENTS: o who he is because of his family for the Mead and Vygotsky most part. The way that human
persons develop is with the use of language acquisition GENDER AND THE SELF and interaction with others. Another important aspect of the "self" is The way that we process GENDER. information is normally a Gender is one of those loci of the self that form of an internal dialogue is subject to alteration, change, and in our head. development. e.g. Those who deliberate about moral dilemmas From the point-of-view of the social undergo internal dialog. "Should I do this or sciences and the self, it is important to give one the leeway to find, express, and live his identity. This forms part of the selfhood that one cannot just dismiss. One maneuvers into the society and identifies himself as who he is by also taking note of gender identities.