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Anna Romo
ORGL 3311
Regardless of the employer, various types of conflict are unfortunately all too common in
the workplace. In order to maintain high levels of job satisfaction and performance, it is of the
utmost importance to make every effort to mitigate its adverse effects on the workplace, despite
its frequency. One of the most prevalent issues is harassment. Employees face while on the job.
Harassment can occur inside and outside the workplace, but it can still affect a person's ability to
work. Regardless of the nature of the issue, it is essential to work to gain control as quickly and
efficiently as possible. In contrast, it minimizes the amount of harm caused to either party. In this
essay, a disagreement happened outside of work and was not handled well, which led to more
problems.
The conflict process is an extensive multistage process that comprises the following:
and the consequences of those actions. After a few months at the editing company, Laura was
invited to a drink with a few of her coworkers. Laura accepted the invitation and had a great time
with the group, which included many laughs and a good time overall. After an evening out,
Laura discovered her evening was about to change. It is described as having a late-afternoon
happy hour with co-workers where alcohol was involved. Tim offered to share a cab with Laura,
but "Tim made an aggressive sexual advance toward her," the article says Laura responded by
telling him to get out of the cab. Tim ran out of the cab, horrified by what had happened. This
depicts the conflict process's potential opposition or incompatibility stage. The two parties
involved, Tim and Laura, did not agree or were incompatible in how they perceived that
This immediately merges into the following stage, where cognition and personalization
occur. Again, both Laura and Tim perceived the interaction differently. In her own right, Laura
was not okay with Tim's unwarranted advances. Furthermore, Laura is new to the company, and
knowing Tim was a superior developed conflicting feelings as she felt this could jeopardize her
workplace environment. “On the other hand, Tim was embarrassed” (Robbins & Judge, 2019).
Laura's senior-level coworker, Tim, had found a taxi before she did. Laura did not think
much of Tim's offer to share the ride home and agreed to it because she did not find it out of the
ordinary. Tim embarrassed himself by making an unprovoked sexual advance on Laura in the
taxi. After Laura categorically rejected Tim's advances, she demanded that he immediately exit
the vehicle. Tim complied with her request and left the vehicle with reluctance. As a result,
Laura was very uncomfortable. “Tim said he was very sorry when he talked to Laura about what
Tim immediately apologizes, which puts Laura at ease, until he repeatedly apologizes
when he finds himself in her presence. Although it may not have been his intention, this caused
another issue as Laura then found herself uneasy with the constant apologizing from Tim. Laura
then confides in a few co-workers, which causes them to act differently around Tim. “These
individuals' actions seem to have produced unintentional repercussions” (Hussein & AI-Mamary,
2019). Tim's constant apologizing caused further uneasiness in Laura and Laura discussed the
matter with her co-workers, which led to a change in the dynamic at work.
In the final step of the conflict process, the outcome, somewhat of a resolution, is
reached. Eventually, Laura transfers jobs to avoid the conflict altogether. However, she finds
herself unhappy with her new job. In the article, Laura finally decides to consult the company's
through informal channels by helping the person with the grievance, in this case, Laura, work
through their problem. I believe Laura could have sought help from the Ombudsman before
allowing this situation to escalate and speaking to her co-workers about the situation. After all,
the co-workers had no weigh-in on the case other than gossip. “In this sense, Laura inadvertently
created an issue as a private matter that is now common knowledge for parties that were not
involved and now have either a conscious or subconscious bias toward Tim” (Pluut & others,
2018).
When conflict between two people causes enough anxiety, another person or group is
drawn into the battle to alleviate the tension, and plotting occurs. An excellent example of this
pattern is Laura's decision to confide in her co-workers about her dilemma with Tim. She could
transfer the tension between Tim and her co-workers and the anxiety she was experiencing
toward Tim. They were concerned about Tim in two ways: they were dissatisfied with him and
concerned about a shift in their attitude toward him. “While this temporarily relieved Laura's
anxiety, it also spread and maintained it as a result” (Hussein & AI-Mamary, 2019).
Further analyzing this scenario, Tim's unwarranted advances toward Laura in the cab
during their informal night out with co-workers and constant apologizing for his actions had a
lasting impact and changed the dynamic at the workplace. Even though Laura quickly stated that
"everything was fine," the article further depicts that she was upset to the point where she moved
on to another journalist position where she was dissatisfied with her new job situation. When it
comes to conflicts, there are three distinct types. Interpersonal conflict is a type of conflict that
occurs between two or more people, such as that between Tim and Laura. Another type of
conflict is intrapersonal conflict, in which the individual’s conflict is within. This is seen when
Laura faces the dilemma of handling the situation when she returns to work. In this situation,
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Laura may be experiencing intrapersonal conflict as she was uncertain about what to expect
when she returned to work after the incident took place. She weighs her decision-making over
Laura felt her worth in the eyes of those she worked with was diminished when she was
subjected to sexual harassment from Tim. It is frustrating when they cannot determine what is
causing their anxiety. The continued apologies from Tim only served to aggravate Laura's
already-heightened uneasiness over the situation. Seeing how the case did not resolve, she sought
assistance from her co-workers to deal with her situation. This, in turn, changed the dynamic as
her co-workers now knew about the incident, and their perspective of Tim altered as a result of
their gained knowledge. “A private disagreement between two people can immediately and
The Loci of a conflict are used to determine the framework within which a conflict may
occur. The Loci of conflict is therefore essential in understanding where the conflict occurs.
There are three types of conflict loci, including the dyadic conflict, which defines the conflict
between two individuals. Intragroup conflict occurs within a team, while intergroup conflict
involves conflict among different groups or teams. In this case, with Laura and Tim, it could be
both dyadic conflict and intragroup because the conflict started with Laura and Tim but ended
with the team. Intergroup conflict is between-group or groups (Hussein & AI-Mamary, 2019).
Communication skills were critical in escalation and resolution, especially in this case. In
conflict assessment and resolution assessment, the emotional patterns that emerge during anxiety
can be a warning sign that intervention is required. Ombudspersons frequently assist individuals
in resolving disputes informally by utilizing family systems theory to resolve their conflicts
independently. One of the main goals of the Ombudsman is to help people deal with life's
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difficulties more effectively, which is similar to the goal of differentiation in the theory of family
systems (Taylor, 2022). Conflict resolvers, such as mediators, can assist parties in engaging in
the lifelong differentiation process by sharing their understanding of common emotional patterns
in their interactions
Even a small step toward greater self-awareness and a reduction in one's reactionary
tendencies can significantly impact the likelihood of conflict turning destructive in the first place.
The situation could have been handled differently by Laura confronting Tim. Since she was new
at work, Laura felt she was unknown at home of work; I think she did not want conflict, so she
quickly tried to run from the problem, which led to her not being happy in the new department.
Then led to gossip in the work area by telling co-workers what had happened and speaking to the
ombudspersons. Those things could have been avoided when meeting with Tim Laura could
have let him know that he could stop with the apologies that she felt unconformable (Robbins &
Judge, 2019).
In conclusion, the situation between Laura and Tim has been categorized as a "Dyadic
Conflict," one of three types of conflict, in order to summarize and gain a deeper understanding
of the type of conflict Tim and Laura caused by using one of lumen learning's three loci of
conflict. This implies that the conflict originated between the two parties, or at the very least,
where it originated. Laura's communication with her other two coworkers about the issue
escalated into a multiparty conflict. Laura was highly uncomfortable with Tim's advances, and
the Ombudsman handled the situation flawlessly. Laura also made a mistake by engaging in
office gossip and switching departments when she could have told Tim that she was unconcerned
about the situation. In the future, Laura could confront the person causing the issue. Then merely
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