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Hello How are you doing today

.....I'm sorry if my texting you looks embarrassing i just want us to know more
about each others

......I'm from san fransisco california

......Whats your ethnicity [My father is from USA and my mother is a laotian]

.......I work with US army but currently on a deployment in yemen for a peace
keeping mission

.......I'm a single father with one lovely daughter Mia by name 7 years old

...... i got diovrced due to my wife was a cheater and a drug addict she never
loved me and my daughter she was only interested in my money

...... i even opened a cloth shop for her but she sold it and ran away with her
jobless boyfriend

...... since i'm divorced i have been single and faithful to myself even now i am
alone with my daughter

.......I'm 40 years old

....... i have good home nanny who takes care of my daughter while am at service

........ I am the only son of my parent and I have no brother nor Sister and I lost
my parents at the age of 25.

........My dad was former Military Pilot in United States Army but he died in autor
crash. I have uncles we are not in good relationship, I don't know the reason but
it all started from my Father and i can't question him.

........People says they spoiled me but i think since am there only child, they
have to done there best to take good care of me.

........I have go through alot of things in my life ...But i do Thanks God for my
life after i have face the hard time am enjoying now because he has helped me in
many ways.

........So tell me Do you have Gmail? You have to Understand me, we are not always
allowed to make use of facebook. But with Gmail, we can always communicate on gmail
hangout ok.
I am a very open minded person, someone who accepts people as they are, I am a fair
individual who adapts to changes in life and enjoys life to the fullest,and looking
to meet a woman that i can spend the rest of my life with in good times and in
badtimes as well,.... A woman that I can love and cherished with all my whole being
and heart and I pray to God almighty that he will provide me with that kind of a
woman someday in my life.

I feel good happy and love chatting with a pretty good like you

To tell you more about me, I am an honest, kindhearted, hardworking person who does
need the support of a loving somebody. Ideally, l am someone who is confident in
what he want and who he is. We all face tough situations in our lives and we
sometimes tend to be mislead by it. A lot of times we often tend to give up. In
this life, I have chosen to give up numerous times but I am proud to say that I
have also chosen to stay strong and be patient all these years..... which has now
led to my finding you.

.........what kind of man are you looking for?.......... A lawful and The type of
person I am interested in is a woman who can laugh, be heated, one who is motivated
and ambitious, intelligent, and self confident. I enjoy meaningful conversation in
addition to plain old good fun. I'm basically a very positive person who also loves
humor and laughter and would like someone with an adventurous spirit and a positive
attitude who can see the funny side of life, someone who is open and willing to
learn new things. I have a passion for music and a curiosity for life. To find a
woman I like to share things I learn and am open to learning new things as well.who
loves to dance would be a miracle, but not impossible I believe, even if rare, but
definitely a bonus, but not a requirement! loll I also love a man who knows how to
treat a woman like a baby and a baby like a woman. Romance and passion are
important as well. I have learned though that chemistry is not everything and not
the only Like everyone I talk to I want the whole enchanter, including chemistry.
component for building a strong relationship. A picture is worth a thousand words
yet can still tell you nothing. Lastly beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and I
would say I have more on the inside than the outside. LOL No one is perfect
including myself but I suppose if you don't put it out there and risk, you'll never
know. However I am realistic and I am by far not perfect.

Building trust********Building trust

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1. What do you do for fun?

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I love travelling, Swimming, hunting, surfing the net, soccer and music.
hunting is my favorite because i hardly miss games.
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2. cc
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i never smoke but i drink occassionally.
My favorite drink is hieneken or leinenkugel's honey Weiss beer.
whiskey soda. Or vodka soda
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3. What is your favorite meal?
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I love Tea and Bread with egg source for breakfast, Pasta for lunch (spaghetti) I
hardly eat macaroni. I also love Shrimps and Tilapia Ceviche,
I drink plenty of red wines. How about you
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4..Do you read books at all? What's the last thing you read?
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The last thing i read was the Bible. I have aslo read "how to make friend and
influence people by Dale canergie" I have read it several tiI lo read 50 shades of
grey but i'm yet to watch the movie.
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5. What kind of personality do you have? And how tall are you?
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I'm a little bit shy, easy going, sensitive, lenient, some times adventurous,
organised, spiritual and a computer geek lols. I'm 6'1"
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6. If you were an animal, what animal do you resemble most?
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A cat or an eagle. cats are very clean and smart creatures whereas eagles are
strong and have strong vision.
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7. Are you a night owl or an early bird.
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I'm a night owl, i spend most of my night working in the war room or patroling.
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8. What kind of music do you listen to?
I love gospel musics,pop,blues and some classical
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9. What's your favorite movie?
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I love to watch action movies and also commic movies. My favorite is Fast and
furious....Oh I miss paul walker.
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10. How often do you do exercise?
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I Exercise 1-2 times per week Exercise.
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11. What's your definition of love?
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I think love is an unconditional mutual attraction between two people.
if it is not mutual, then it is not love.
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12. What's your ideal date?
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A walk along the waterfront of a beach or Having a dinner with my partner in a very
calm and serene environment.
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13. What are your likes and dislike?
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I have no place for lairs and dishonest people. I hate lazy and arrogant people.
I'm a great sucker for intelligent, hardworking and independent women.
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14. They say your bed room tells more about you.
What and what can be found in your bed room?
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I love flowers around me, romantic pantings on my walls, frames and photo of my
loved ones.
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15. Are you very romantic? How do you treat your partner?
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Although I'm very shy and finds it dificult to be romantic outside but i love to
treat my woman with much respect.
I enjoy stolen kisses from her, frequent hugs and verbal communication.
I always like to make love to her daily, this binds us together and make our
relationship more stronger.
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16. What's your greatest fantasy?
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Having a honeymoon in sydney, Australia. It's a very beautiful city.
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17. Do you like your Job? How much do you earn from it?
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I'm not too rich, but i have everything to make life confortable for me and my
family.I earn a total of US$68,540 per anum together with my allowance and combat
grants.
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18. Where do you sit on the political fence?
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I am not happy with any of our politicians I think they're all a bunch of crooks.
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19. Do you sing or play a musical instrument?
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I sing and I play several instruments,I play guitar and trumpet, a little piano
would love to learn.
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20. How will you treat your man?
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Although every relationship has it's ups & downs, I will treat my woman with lots
of love & respect. I like to hold her hand while walking side by side, I enjoy the
little kisses stolen throughout the day, & the little smiles she gives me from
across the room. I believe a man & man are to walk side by side in life & so
communication & honesty are VERY important. My man is a man of God & because of
that reason alone I will not have to worry about him treating me badly or cheating
on me. I in turn will be completely faithful to him & will support him during our
lives together. I do expect him to do the same for me. We don't always have to be
together but we'll feel each others presence even when we're apart. We will be each
others rock to lean on & we,will share dreams & goals for ourselves & our children.
We will also support them & raise them to be the God-fearing men & women who will
have faith & be strong even when life is looking down.
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21.Can you take my kids as yours if we are meant to be together?
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I love kids & I treat all kids as if they are my own... I favor none but give my
love & support to them & try to be the godly man I am supposed to be. My son has
friends that call me dad also.
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22. what make you smile?
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That's easy!!! What makes me smile is seeing those I love smiling & knowing I put
that smile on their faces
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23. Do you love rose flower?
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My favorite Rose is a Purple rose... they are not as common as the other types. My
favorite flowers are Stargazer lillies & lilac bushes.
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24. Are you God fearing?
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VERY much so!!! I love God with all my heart & trust in HIM to comfort me & guide
me. Only he knows what he has in store for us. How often do you go to church?
Haven't gone much in the last few years . In this case, God has come to where I am
spoken to my heart about different situations. I totally believe in going to church
& fellowshiping however, I don't believe that a person NEEDS to goto church to be a
christian as going into a chicken house doesn't make you a chicken. wink
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25. Do you love to express your feelings or you love to hide your feelings?
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I'm a person who would rather express my feelings as I know it's not good to keep
them locked up. It's important to express to others that you care for them & are
there to support & encourage. I LOVE sharing sweet moments with the woman I love...
it makes my heart happy!

Day 11-15
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Building real Love*****Love Builder.
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I don't know how to approach this with you online.
I have been fighting a terrible battle within myself since we met.
My heart says i should tell you how i feel but my head tells me not to be stupid
that it will only cause a terrible damage to our new friendship. And that you
wouldn't be interested.
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It is very important for me to tell you how cute and lovely you are.
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I wish I could do this in person while gazing into your eyes,but since we are
physically separated by miles of emptiness, this expression must come in the form
of letters such as this.
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I know that distance dosen't allow actions to be felt but trust me, our words can
convey our feelings when distance hinders.
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As the saying goes: "True Love and Friendship knows no boundaries and no distance;

If what i felt for you is real, then distance mean absolutely nothing in the face
of love for love dosen't count by the miles...It's measure by the heart.
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I want to spend the next phase of my life with you baby.
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What do you have to say?
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It's a great pleasure to be you friend and a greater one to be able to look into
our future and see a mixture of serenity, hope, love and happiness.
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This fairly recent relatioship of ours is something i consider sacred already. Our
connection is divine.
Believe me, this friendship is so precious to me, i intend to keep it till the end
of my days on earth.
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The test of true love is not when we are together, It comes when we are far apart
and still realize that despite the distance, our thoughts and feelings are still
conveyed.
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Sometimes, I wish you were here or that I am there, or that we were together
anywhere because this is a rather unconventional way of starting up a relationship.
What we started as a mere internet contact has turned into a stronger bond between
two peple that have now discovered the true meaning of loving in an unconventional
way.
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I have learnt a lot from this relationship. I have seen what's like to trust and
give yourself completely to the other person when are so far apart.
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The Distance between two hearts is not an obstacle, rather a great reminder of just
how strong true love can be

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ABOUT MY MILITARY LIFE
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I'm chatting you live from the Military command center here in Kabul where i work
as an information system analyst.
My Job here in the Tactical operation unit is to monitor military
Intelligence,Survillience, network administration, database management and computer
hardware and software implementation.
Sometimes i aslo join the combat team on special missions and beat Patrols when it
is required of me.

I must tell you that things work very differently here when compared to the real
world.
We call it the control or war room, it is heavenly secured and monitored
constantly.
Most times it is very difficult to have a personal conversation without having them
decoded and recorded by the military Authorities.This is to ensure discipline among
our troops.

Talking with you here is safe as long as i don't get caught.

Most soldiers find it dificult to cope and would sneak out of camp to get the
satisfaction they desire.
Though a heavy penalty await those who default the camp rules.

I know i shouldn't be telling you all of these but i see you as a very
understanding and caring woman.
I want you to know that i find pleasure chatting with you not withstanding these
rules.