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Date:
Feb. 14, 2011
From:
Globe & Mail (Toronto, Canada)
Publisher:
CNW Group Ltd. - Globe & Mail
Document Type:
Article
Length:
856 words
Content Level:
(Level 4)
Full Text:
PARENTING
Many years ago, my wife and I were driving somewhere with our
three young daughters when one of
them suddenly asked: "Would you rather
that we were clever or that we were happy?"
Chinese mothers, Ms. Chua says, believe that children, once they
get past the toddler stage, need to
be told, in no uncertain terms, when they
haven't met the standards their parents expect of them.
Their egos
should be strong enough to take it.
But Ms. Chua, a professor at Yale Law School (as is her husband),
lives in a culture in which a child's
self-esteem is considered so
fragile that children's sports teams give "most valuable
player" awards to
every member. So it's not surprising that many
Americans reacted with horror to her style of parenting.
Tigers lead solitary lives, except for mothers with their cubs.
We, by contrast, are social animals. So
are elephants, and elephant mothers
don't focus only on the well-being of their own offspring.
Together,
they take care of all the young in their herd, running a kind of daycare
centre.
PETER SINGER
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Source Citation (MLA 8th Edition)
"The Elephant Mom in the room." Globe & Mail [Toronto, Canada], 14 Feb. 2011, p. A13. Gale In
Context: Global Issues, link.gale.com/apps/doc/A249035970/GIC?
u=temple_main&sid=bookmark-GIC&xid=c73153fd. Accessed 6 Aug. 2021.