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Enitan Ogunbekun
Anthony Gregg
ENGL1101
09-20-21
Ryan Anderson's article "The Social Costs of Abandoning the Meaning of Marriage"
argues that revisionists views on marriage have created a society in which individuals undermine
society's understanding of not only the value of marriage but also the cause for it. Anderson
defends his claim using logos and ethos. He highlights the negative effects of these new norms of
marriage in order to persuade the audience to start rejecting revisionism and start working to
restore the considered normal marriage norms. While Anderson thoroughly indulges in the
Anderson uses ethos and logos in order to reveal both the negative and positive effects of
children who grow up in households where their parents have committed marriages. Ethos is the
strongest device that he uses. He specifically indulges on the addition of children in a marriage
emphasizing that due to the fact that marriage pledges husband and wife "faithful by vows of
permanence and exclusivity" if men choose not to commit to these vows the "likelihood of
creating fatherless children and fragmented families increases" (np.1) By painting the image into
readers minds of the possibility of another child without a father or any parent figure, Anderson
is eliciting the emotions of guilt and sympathy out of the audience. The guilt and sympathy that
the audience will feel are due to the fact that a child might be likely to suffer the pain of
abandonment and feeling undesirable when they no longer have a father figure present.
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Therefore, in order to prevent the potential suffering that children can face the audience is more
likely to be in support of Anderson's concept of the value of marriage and cause for it because of
the fact that he explains that an individual is more likely to commit or take care of something, in
this case, a child, if they already showcase commitment in other affairs related to the subject
Although Anderson does effectively explain the high social costs of not knowing the
value or cause for marriage, his view does become bias due to the fact that he states that
Anderson provides evidence on the high social costs of failing to understand the value and the
meaning of marriage by using statistics like the one from Utah state university scholar David
Schramm that "estimated that divorce alone costs federal, state, and local governments $33
billion each year"(np.1). He does this in order to reveal that because individuals don't value
marriage and understand its importance, they are more likely to separate, creating the problem of
high social costs due to divorce. However, when Anderson provides examples of revisionist
views on marriage, an article on wed lease states how convenient and helpful wed leases can be
due to the fact that married couples can exit their marriages on whatever time frame they choose
without having to deal with "messiness of divorce" (np.1), Anderon still states that he opposes
the idea of the wed lease along with other revisionist ideas like throuples and monogamous. This
proves that Anderson simply favors the martial norms of monogamy, sexual exclusivity, and
permeance over monogamous and temporary relationships without having reasonable proof that
monogamous and design temporary marriages cause or are more likely to cause high social costs
than marriages that are based on monogamy and sexual exclusivity. Anderson does, however,
create strong points in his argument by repetitively indulging on how marriage affects children.
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Anderson gains the audience support not only by indulging in the pain children can endure for
not having a parent figure around, but he also uses logos to provide the statistic that marriage
marriage. In stating this the audience can realize that one of the reasons marriages are beneficial
is to protect the children in society. Anderson could have, however, in his article, provided more
specific evidence of why monogamous relationships, throuples, and wed leases negatively affect
society. He indulges heavily on why marriage is important, but he fails to inform his audience on
Ryan Anderson overall wants society after being informed on why marriage is so
significant to bring back the previous principles of marriage which would include sexual
does include very reasonable points on the significance of marriage which will pull many readers
in favor of his argument however I believe he did not effectively provide his reasoning on why
marriage must be built on those specific principles which can be a major alteration in the
Work cited
Anderson, Ryan “The Social Costs of Abandoning the Meaning of Marriage” The