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Chapter Ii - Knowing Others (Makatao)
Chapter Ii - Knowing Others (Makatao)
(MAKATAO) you and make your better. You are never meant to
Learning outcomes: be alone on earth. Be in a relationship with people
1. Define relationship of various experiences and you trust. As stated earlier, relationship isn't all
settings. about dating, courting or marriage. And
2. Differentiate the types of relationship. relationships can be toxic. So be careful of the
3. Develop interpersonal and intrapersonal kind of relationship you hold on to. It could be
relationship framework. relationship with countries that instead of progress,
4. Explain the different teaching strategies for it brings regress. Could be company relationship
interpersonal and intrapersonal relationships. and so on. Whenever you find yourself in such,
5. Describe the Filipino learners and share withdraw!
experiences in teaching the 21st century learners. “Relationships are to be nurtured, enjoyed,
6. Write a reflection paper about relationship and be of benefits. Do well to understand
including struggles and victories. relationships and get the best of it.”
You can listen to success systems, a message
Basic Concept of Relationship by Apostle Joshua Selman. It throws more light on
When we mention relationship, the first this and helps you to know more about what
thing that comes to mind is what exists between a relationship can do for you.
male and a female. However, that is just a part of
what relationship entails. Relationship is the way in Knowing Self and knowing others.
which two or more people are connected. We could There is paradox in everything about the
be connected by blood in the case of being family human experience. For instance, it is through giving
members, we could be connected by our jobs and we receive, and through receiving we give. It is the
that's where we have colleagues. We also have ‘unimportant’ in our lives, such as stopping to
friendship. And the most common type of breath under an unfolding oak tree, that gives
relationship in our world today is the relationship importance to other activities. It is the
between two people of the opposite which mostly “meaningless’ connections in daily living, such as a
eventually leads to marriage. hello at a checkout at the supermarket, that provides
It is said that relationships sometimes will framework and meaning for the more intimate
do for you what money cannot do. Setting up a connections we have. These apparent paradoxes are
good relationship with people bring favors in some not part of any cosmic game played on us, but
way. It is likened to a debit card can be used to rather a daily reminder of the wholeness and
withdraw currency anytime needed. Ever heard perfection of life. Each moment offers glimpses into
about the saying ' two heads are better than one'? this, often via these connections with others.
That is to mean that what you can achieve in being These connections with others are a
in a good relationship is better off than what you foundational part of living. Without them, we
alone can achieve. would quite literally go insane or feel tormented, as
Little wonder Ecclesiastes talks about how those in solitary confinement in prison sometimes
two are better than one. And three cords are not do. Exploring connections is hard wired into our
easily broken. Nobody is an island where you stand bodies, and even when lives of relative isolation are
on your own. You need relationships. lived, there will always be an element of this
Most things many countries benefit today wouldn't exploration.
be possible if there was no relationship between Exploring longer term connections, the
those countries. Most successful stories we hear depth of them, is termed ‘a relationship‘. We all
today are a product of good relationships. have different preconceptions of what a relationship
“Even when God created man, he created is – as many preconceptions as the word ‘love’. It is
him for relationship. So, it would be so unwise of in longer term relationships that we meet the
you to say you don't need relationships.” dichotomy between these preconceptions and what
Relationship in itself isn't a bad idea. But it is head on. Conflict can be the natural result. We
is often said that when the use of a thing is not also see how much the ideal of ‘relationship’ we
known, abuse is inevitable. In application to have works within ourselves, for we can try to fit
relationship, when we don't understand its ourselves in a mold very easily in an attempt for
entirety, it's going to be abused and we see the intimacy. It is a dance with essentially the present
results in our daily lives. moment, Now.
INTERPERSONAL RELATIONSHIP with other humans, our lives would have virtually
One of the most distinctive aspects of human no meaning or purpose. Yet, it is our
being is that we are social beings. Interpersonal interpersonal relating that creates most of our
relationships are and have been the core of our difficulties.
social system since the dawn of civilization. Imagine life without any interaction with
Nursing is the therapeutic process and demands as another human. No arguments, no fights, no
association between the nurse and the patient. obligations, no misunderstandings, but also no love,
Interpersonal relationships refer to reciprocal no joy, no laughs and no life. Obviously, the
social and emotional environment. Interpersonal answer to interpersonal relational difficulties is not
relationship is defined as a close association to withdraw from or avoid interaction with others,
between individuals who share common interest and but rather to learn how to relate in a meaningful,
goals. honoring and constructive way.
The third stage of deterioration, the Dyadic exhibited by relational partners in an effort to
Phase, occurs when partners make the choice to talk maintain that relationship. Relational maintenance
about their problems. In this stage, they discuss how is defined by scholars in four different ways: to
to resolve the issues and may seek outside help such keep a relationship in existence.
as a therapist to help them work through the reasons
they are growing apart. This could also be the stage What is a Healthy Relationship?
where couples begin initial discussions about how “Different people define relationships in different
to divide up shared resources such as property, ways. But in order for a relationship to be healthy, it
money, or children. needs a few key ingredients!”