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try it at all?
Or has a fear of failure meant that you undermined your own efforts to avoid the
possibility of a larger failure?
I think that most of us have probably experienced this at one time or another. The
fear of failing can be immobilizing – it can cause us to do nothing, and therefore
resist moving forward. But when we allow fear to stop our forward progress in life,
we’re likely to miss some great opportunities along the way. And that is a shame.
The possibility of failure is not something we enjoy. We all fall short of what we
ought to do. We fail in our marriages, in raising our children, in our friendships, in
school, in our careers, in our church life—and often with devastating consequences.
It’s no wonder, then, that at one time or another we all have a fear of failure.
Most of us will stumble and fall in life. Doors will get slammed in our faces, and we
might make some bad decisions. But imagine if Michael Jordan had given up on his
dream to play basketball when he was cut from that team. Imagine if Richard
Branson had listened to the people who told him he’d never do anything
worthwhile without a high-school diploma. When we go outside of our comfort
zone, we feel scared. That’s pretty normal. But we don’t have to stay immobilised.
(Inactive). Keep moving.
It’s virtually impossible to live up to the expectations of others. It’s far better to trust
God. Without God as our driving ambition, we will end up feeling very disappointed,
not content with life, cynical and bitter.
Fear is part of our make-up, making us feel insecure. Pessimism is fearing that
whatever is hoped for will not happen. There is no confidence in the future.. They
refuse to believe the best and eliminate positive expectations. This is a serious
problem that comes from within the heart. The Psalmist cries out to himself, “Why
are you cast down, O my soul, and why are you in turmoil within me?” (Ps 42:5). His
faith wrestles with his fear. There is a sense of despair for the future. Don’t be a
pessimistic person!
Most of us have dreams that we never fully realize. That does not mean we have
failed. Sometimes we overlook our successes because we focus all our attention on
what we cannot do. There are many things you can do to the glory of God. But if
you let failure discourage you, you will never accomplish what you might have if
you had just kept on trying.
All human beings fail. God is fully aware of your limitations. The Scripture says in
Psalm 103:14 that God knows our limitations. He knows our frame is frail, and He
remembers we came from dust.
Some of us think we have failed, when in fact we simply have not recognised our
limitations. God has given you certain gifts and abilities with which to serve Him.
You cannot do everything, but you can do something for God. Identify what you can
do effectively, and concentrate your efforts on that. Stop worrying about what you
cannot do.
Our natural response to failure can be to hide away and nurse our wounds, vowing
never to try something again. We can also become very self-condemning, heaping
negative thoughts upon ourselves. While incredibly tempting, all that does is start a
vicious circle of failure, in which there is no room left for faith. Throughout the Bible
God speaks to His people about refusing discouragement and acting out of faith
and purpose.