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By
Dilla Pusparini
Faculty of Psychology, Prof.Dr.Hamka Muhammadiyah University
"Others do the hurting but it's our responsibility to make peace with the hurt"
The wounded inner child tries to protect itself and the pain, the inner child lives in every
person along with all the good and bad experiences from the past. The wounded inner child
can influence into adulthood even where one can be unaware that the inner child persists into
adulthood by showing up in one's habits. Painful childhood or past experiences make us
realize that our inner child has its own wounds with its own healing process capacity.
Inner child
In the perspective of psychology, the inner child is the side of a person's personality that
results from childhood experiences that have an impact on present life or the childish side of
a person. Inner Child is the result of past experiences or events that have not been properly
resolved (Bradshaw, 1992).
The inner child in each person is a character that is created from individual experiences of
how to behave to be loved in childhood. Unconsciously the inner child as an adult will appear
in the form of behavior or in an unconscious emotional state.
Inner child is formed from feelings or emotions in the growing child's soul that will shape his
mentality and personality, if the child gets good behavior or parenting from his environment,
then his soul and personality will be fulfilled, otherwise if the child gets bad parenting from
his environment, there will be a lack of sense of soul and personality (Herawati & Kamisah,
2019).
So although sometimes making peace with yourself is not always easy, mental health is one
of the important things in life that needs and needs attention in human life. Cheer up for
everything that is difficult to go through, don't forget to always try to slowly make peace with
your wounded inner child because this is for your better mental health in the future. it's okay
to not be okay.
Reference:
Bradshaw, J. (1992).Homecoming: Reclaiming and Championing Your Inner Child. Bantam
Books.
Herawati, H., & Kamisah, K. (2019). Educating Children Ala Rasulullah (Propethic
Parenting). JOURNAL OF EDUCATION SCIENCE, 5(1).
https://doi.org/10.3314/jes.v5i1.358