Personality Vs Appearance

If people could see inner beauty, they wouldn’t care about the outer beauty. Since we live in a physical
world, we go on appearance. I know people from all walks of life and I honestly have to say, inner
beauty is what matters to me. The inner beauty is reflected on the outer beauty. This person is an all
around beautiful person

Sometimes the inner beauty is not reflected on the outer beauty. And this person may not have the most
desirable physical features but is a beautiful person within.

Sometimes the inner beauty ruins the outer beauty. And this person is shallow, self absorbed and has
nothing intelligent or nice to say but has the looks.

Looks are deceptive; it is your personality that takes you places. So, how do you define personality?
Technically, personality is a set of qualities that makes an individual. Qualities can be behavioral,
temperamental, emotional and intellectual. While many of these traits are congenital, most are
acquired. And, appearance is just a small contribution towards completing this package.

But beauty does not last forever. What lasts and makes you is your individual personality. How you
behave, how good a person you are, how well you treat others measures your likeability and shapes
your personality.

Character shows on the face. Often the most successful people are not the ones who were blessed with
the best appearances, instead were extremely good at what they did and were and are people of
character.

Imagine a lean, thin and a half-dressed man with millions of followers. He walks with a stick bare-feet
and the world walks with him. He causes a revolution, changes the fate of a nation, takes the world by
storm - Yes, I am talking of a super human being Mahatma Gandhi!

How would you rate his appearance? Nothing more than 3-4 on a scale of 10? All he had was an
immense personality and a profound depth of character. This is what needs to be valued.

While you may want to meet, greet or dine with an extremely good looking person who has little
respect for others, you may rather spend your life with a rather average looking but a good human
being. Now that is my opinion! No offense!

If you are good, personality comes naturally. No matter what color, race or religion you belong to, if
you are a good human being, you will never be alone. All you need is to believe in what you do, and do
it with complete dedication, honesty and love. And, your efforts will be rewarded. If you are good at
something, believe in your talent, don't look back.

If you want to, you can! This is the kind of confidence, you get when you believe in your strengths and
values. Every individual is a different package and everyone has a personality.

Imagine entering a kindergarten classroom during playtime. Each child has a different talent, a
different style. Yet all of them believe in what they do! And, you love them all because they have their
own beliefs and it is their belief that wins them your love. You don't really care who looks better and
who's best dressed. You love them because they are themselves.

What you believe in, is your personality and that is what is important for the world.

Whether you are a good singer, or a good writer, it does not matter. It is only when you do your job
with complete sincerity is when you will be called a 'personality' - a celebrity!