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Week 2
Week 2
=psychology of high-ticket-sales...
*As a high ticket closer we drive BMW,we are not BMW...
=>>Theme of HTC,..
How you do anything is how you do everything..
=>as you go through this journey One thing will happen this ,as you develop
skill,as you get better,that you will have tendency want to help everybody around
you..
*That you help people,you bent of backwards to help them,instead of that it's
become very draining for you,and it's become exhuasted...
=>Let me tell about something ,coast guard goes out in storming night to rescue
above that.
They bring helicopter,and they hover over top of boat,than they realize there are
more people in water than space available in helicopter. What they do?? who do
they save??
so,model is,
=>>>"We only save the one who swim towards us.."
that's why you need to save only who swim towards you..
Help people who help themselves..
=>>Most of the time you trying to help,they don't want your help..,we bent of
backwards to them,we get exhausted.
=>>They claim they want help,but they don't want your family...
sometimes they are closest to you..
The time you try to help they push you back,they push back...
=>>>Some time they swim towards you,and the helicopter is flying or you are not
there..
=>>You focus on who push you back(BIG NO),you need to focus on who swim towards
you..
=>>Saviour helps who doesnot need help,Leader helps the one who needs help..
=>>Stop trying to save the world,save yourself first..
=>>>Sometimes in life you have to be incredibly selfish ,so that you could
incredibly generous.
(Save yourself first than you can save others).....
=>>Most of the time you try to help they swim away from you..You are focusing on
them.
but you need to focus on the one who swims towards you,they are the one needs
help...
=>>You cannot give coming from place Scarcity,you can only give coming from place
abundance..
(People helping the people when they are dying in sea and try to save other to goto
helicopter..)
(you are drowning and you try to help other who doesnot need your help)
(So some time selfish)..
=>>>>>We gonna be leaders..
=>>3 laws of prosperity that you must understood..(Vision board making also)
One of these laws could easily save you months,years of hardwork,if you are not
been living and working consistent with these laws up to now..
*#1~Law of clarity..
=>>>>The clearer you are about your goals and objectives the more efficient and
effective you will be achieving them...
=>>Extreme clarity equals Extreme results..
**Your success in life will be largely determined by how crystal clear you are
about wht it is you really,really want..
=>>Take more/spend lot of time to think where i am today and where i need to go?
What the obstacles in between??
Then getting clear and getting more clearer you will achieve them very easily..
**Most people in life they don't get what they want,because they don't know what
they want??
=>>ex:I wanted more money.(No clarity)[because all money are not equal]
How much?How soon?what service or product?what value you gonna bring to the market
place in exchange of money?
NO clarity,that's why they are all fucking BROKE...
ex:
=>>When you have put 250 million dollar home on your vision board(America's
expensive home) with it's pictures .
*The question is where you are now?
we need to be realistic here,how much are you making??
=>>Actually it's billion dollar lifestyle,not million dollar.A person who has
networth of 100 million cannot afford this,it can be afforded only you have
networth of 1billion ..
than does this person deal world as it is, or world he wish or he would be..?
=>>Most people put things on vision board ,they say it inspires me,that's where i
want to be,but where you are living in basement with your mom,How about to go get
little condo first,get out of that fucking home.
instead of worrying about 250 million dollar home..
=>>Every time you walk by vision board instead of inspires you,it reminds you how
much a fucking failure you are...*****
=>>>Sifu is not saying don't dream big,he wants us to dream big,but we need to get
that first step first....
=>>Do you really feel good looking that everyday reminds me how far you are from
that(250 million dollar home),that it's almost impossible to where you are to that.
=>How does that build your self confidence as a closer.?
=>How does that help you any shit way of form?
=>>People put things on the vision board they are no fucking clue how much it
costs..
=>>All goals should be match up(Totally congruent).
You want 20 billion and you put you want truck(what the fucking it relates man)..
Billionarie will be driving pickup truck.
=>>>
Every thing you want you must be very clear,how much would it cost,what would it
take to get that??
=>>versus
you put house that look nice,
do you know how much it cost?
do you know wh you need to take care of that house?
do you know how much electricity cost?
probability electrity cost of house may be more than that rent ,we are paying now
=>>>*Your ability and your willingness to be completely realistic in your life and
work are among the most important qualities of high ticket closer..
*High ticket closer we deal the world as it is,not we wish to be..
**When we go into closing call,we don't believe in the whole BS positive thinking.
when we attend the closing call,it's gonna be easy,prospects gonna love me,he is
gonna like wanted to buy,it's gonna be walk in the path,i am just gonna hand
agreement over ,probably he gonna finish the agreement and we get commision in 15
minutes...It's fucking fantasy land..
it's not sifu belives that power of positive thinking..
=>You don't go in and i say nothing gets wrong,you need to say everything will go
fucking wrong,it will go bad.
you are well prepared,when they throw,i will cover..
when you go in,not the optimism,I go in with real confidence,because you are well
prepared.
it's the power the negative preparation..
=>>NEVER trust to luck or hope that something unexpected will turn up to solve a
problem or save situation..
NO,that's not what i think.
We know is,you are in charge,Deal with your world as it is,not as you wish it would
it be.
=>>We don't buy lottery,because i don't trust luck or hope that something
unexpected will turn up..
=>>We might think,Sifu my friend does it,my family does it,it's few dollars.it's
not about few dollars,you understand that how you do anything is how you do
everything....
yeah when you spend 5 dollars for lottery ticket,it's not about 5 dollars,
it's what you are saying to act buying that lottery ticket to your subconscious
mind than you believe luck or hope that something will happen or you need some
miracle to get fucking successful,then if that's your expectations
guess what, you are subconsciously self sabotaging yourself,and you will never be
successful.
=>>That's why you are hoping even 1 in 10million chance,you say there is a chance i
could win, i would buy the ticket,all my problems will go away..
=>The act of buying the lottery what are you saying to yourself? versus
=>>The act of NOT buying the lottery ticket ,what i am saying to myself is,i don't
need lottery,i don't need luck,i don't need hope,i don't need this shit...
=>>Now,what if lottery ticket 10million,20 million jackpot thing ,but what goes to
my mind is,
it's not fucking big money,i can make that,i can make 20 million,i can make my
self..
=>>it's very very different outlooking life,you deal with the world as it is,not as
i wish to be..
#3~Law of focus,
=>>WHAT you FOCUS on EXPANDS..
=>>May be we are not thinking about it but now you are thinking about it.
for ex:Initially when you are not thinking about audi,but when you think about
it,you suddenly get aware everywhere,you could identify on streets and everywhere..
Initially they were there,but now they are seeing for you because you are focused
on it..
=>>They are always there,you weren't paying attention/focus on it so we cannot
see.NOw you are focusing and it expands..
=>WHat you focus on expands...
=>>Our minds are very powerful,our minds know we cannot handle so much
information,It filters outstuff for you,It says it's not important.
=>you don't see those cars,but suddenly you think of get one ,than you will see
those cars..you found it everywhere.
=>>If you focus on lack,if you focus on scarcity,if you focus on worrying about
money,if you focus on debt,if you focus on negative thinking,if you focus more on
paying bills(I need to pay thiss,i need to pay gas bill)..
Guess what you will get more of that+What you focus on expands..
=>>Your mind doesnot know the difference between positive and negative.
you need to put what you want in vision board,not what you don't want...
=>>At first you are not thinking of i could be this successful and that(Like
millionarie and all..)
=>>You need think of making enough and get my parents life little bit easier...
=>>After developed first high income skill,then learn second high income skill.when
we are making 6 figures than think of millionarie..
=>>When i am working on my mindset,I want to get this,once i thinking differently i
could always see millionarie within me,way before actual money gets deposited into
bank account first..
=>it wasnot the money made me millionarie,it's the mindset and skill set..
=>>we have seen what not to put on vision board,let's see what to put on vision
board..
=>>Let's imagine,genie or HTC genie or god asks you whatever goals you want or what
wishes need to come true put on vision board..
but there are three rules..
1.Genie is very busy and doesnot have time to hear your explantion.
=>>Genie helps other people,he doesn't have time to hear explanation.
it means if genie looks at your vision board of any items,if genie confused than
genie says you are out man..I am out of you.
=>>If genie looks you put inspiraton things like genie is like you need quote,you
need logo,you need pen,if you say i don't want that
than ok i don't have time your explanation and get lost.
ex:If he looks at 250 million dollar home on vision board and you are making 2000$
month,than genie looks at this i am not making your goals come true..
=>>Every time geenie looks at your vision board,he feels like i am failure,i am not
doing that..
=>Genie is like if it's accomplished your goal,than what's next what i need to
accomlish..
=>>>then,as i accomplish more i started streching myself,i put some big stuff on
vision board,than i still get acomplished,.
because now this Genie is with me for many many years,and this is very strong
Genie,even if you puy pretty big things it will accomplish that..
=>>At any given time you need to have only 5-6 things only..not 50 things.
=>>as you succeed ,you get to have only 2 things..
You will not have materialistic things any more...
Genie asks big things as you go with genie.
=>>When i took the car out from delarship,Sifu wasn't excited, he felt as if when
you put car in parking lot and go to mall,and coming back and take the car you feel
no right,that's how Sifu felt.
because he driven 100 times in his mind,he driven in real and all.
That's how you accomplish things on vision board..
=>>When you do this enough ,you will feel like you were already there..
=>>Most of the time,when you want luxury items,you are not even comfortable walking
in the store,you are not even comfortable trying them on,because you feel like
fraud,I am not gonna buy,I couldn't afford it,it tells subconscious mind you aree
not comfortble to idea of success,than how could you get success..
=>>That's why sifu says dress for success,than you will get success..
=>>Sifu is not saying go out and get expensive watch to feel smell leather,go and
wear and try to get comfortable with success..
=>>Every time you get success,you need to get reward your self(Like Desmond rewards
with 500$ pen,Dan rewards with business class)..
=>>Every one wants something different,just starts with one,one little thing.
=>>It's not about saving the money.(How you do anything is how you do everything.)
=>>Every action that you take it has reaction,
Every thing you do,it tells to subconscious mind,
=>>>When you try to save 100$,it is telling your subconscious mind that,that i
don't value my time,i am not important,i am not worth it,i am cannot afford it..
It's not about 100$,it's bout what you are saying to your subconscious mind,you
need to be very careful,.
even when you are broke you need to be aware of it,what it tells to my subconscious
my mind..
=>>Don't think of gas price and all,because i can't change it.
i never think of it,i never talk about it...
=>>People like gas pricing going above some cents,whatever it's ,what the fuck i
have to do,
It never enters my mind,because rich people never think of those things...
versus
broke people will think of always that..
=>>you need to put precise picture,and frame it and put in the middle.
i don't need to tell i am fucking serious about this,i will tell i am cherish about
this, i need many things i need really this now..
Genie is like your wish my command..
=>>You need to focus,on what fucking you want..
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=>>You are not overwhelmed you just learn the same thing,but you feel
overwhelmed,busyness,confusion only when you learn new things..
=>>High-Ticket Sales,
Secret# ~1; WHAT PEPOPLE ACTUALLY BUY..
let's see history lesson,
*How shopping was invented.
=>Back in the day,the ultra wealthy are the only one who have lot of
things(houses,horses,farms).and They didnot shop for them..
=>>Normal people had fewer things because they were difficult to manufacture and
produce.all are handmade so expensive .
=>There wasn't much to shop for because you couldn't produce any things at scale
=>>you have one coat,one pair of shoes,pants,gloves..
=>You were servant back then,you don't need nice dancing shoes,or noce suit,there
is no way to use them.
you had your servant outfit and causual outfit that's it.
you werenot doing anything besides working and sleeping...
=>>consider you are woman who's worked as ladies maid for 25 years
=>You watched your masters live in luxury for 25 years,and they go to fancy parties
in fancy fabrics,you dreamed of putting on those outfits,but it's always been
dream..
=>>suddenly department stores come along,the dress you dreamed of is accessble,
do you want it?YES do you need that?NO
=>>Where are you going go in that kind of dress you are ladies maid?
=>>EXCEPT in your mind,you are not thinking about the use of a dress.Because you
NEVER buying "a dress."
=>You are buying a your PERMISSION SLIP into a life you never dreamed possible for
you.
=>We never buy what we think we are buying.
=>We buy how things make us feel..
=>>As a HTC,you have to realize you are not selling product and services,you are
selling your prospect better version of themselves..
=>by having six packs,it means people tells man with discipline,and attracts
opposite sex.
=>>"Everything single thing we want ,it 's because it's boils down to this"
=>>"That's why people buy"
"That's what people actually buy"
=>>You think people buy product and services,No people want to buy different
versions of themselves..
=>>What I am saying is,I am not buying nice things so that i could feel i am better
version of myself,I am constantly improving moulding,becoming better version of
myself,nothing to do with things..
=>>Those nice things don't define who I am,I define who I am?
I can wear 100,000$ watch,it doesnot define who i am?
I am who i am..I know who I am..
=>>The minute you get this,one piece,you will learn great lesson.
=>>>what does that means?
It means you are free.you are not caged lion anymore.
=>>>It doesnot mean we don't seek success,doesnot mean we donot want more..
=>>"Start with freedom.."
=>>and finally after you found this is not,then you work hard to get another car
and you get it after few months you loose excitement.and you say this is not.
versus
you start from this place,of enough,of better,of freedom..and you go from there.
=>>Go for the house not because house defines who you are,it's just because simply
what I like..
=>>Don't buy for other people,social media.
=>>Simply buy it ,buy for your life.what you like.
=>>If you are not greatful what you have right now,do you think by having 10000
more things you will be greatful than,if you haven't grateful now?
""""""""Genie,I want to finish ,High ticket sale secrets 2,3,&4 taught by Dan Lok
in week 2 replay, within 7:00pm of 13-5-2022"""""""
=>>Premium is everywhere..
=>>If you look at almost any service industry out there,virtually every single one
offers a HIGH TICKET LEVEL of service.
=>ex:Airline Industry,Car Industry,Clothing Industry,Fitness club,Sporting
events,concerts,Online Services almost every other imaginable industry..
=>>>Most people are the same way.They buy high ticket when it's important to them!
(in any given time..)
=>>10-20% of the people in your marketplace /Audience want the BEST you could
provide, NOT the cheapest
**They don't want something basic or cheap,
=>>One of the biggest hurdle when it comes to High-ticket closing is we will not
get premium clients.=>>NOOO
premium is everywhere.
10-20%of the marketplace needs best..
ex::Heart surgeon will not come and tell,i am giving 30% discounts ...NO right
because people will not buy it..people will not go to it..
People want best when it's important to them...
=>>>>There's a beautiful opportunity for you to provide that level of service for
the people who want to sit in the front of plane and in most comfortable seat
possible in your area of expertise..
10-20% of your market place wants higher ticket to get expertise..
=>>Having fewer clients means you can focus the ones you have.
It also means,they are paying more,there's deeper level of commitment.
=>>If you are selling service,the most valuable resource you have is your
time,because you only so many hours in a day.
you can work with so may clients.
=>By not charging enough,it's very difficult to make great living.
by just working with more people,there is no enough profit margin,we have got
problem and we cannot focus on more..
**5 big problems you run into when you are not charging enough..
1)Lousy customer experience(cause you can't afford to provide superior experience)
=>>Because you are not charging enough,ther's no enough profit margin
Even if you want to provide more value,you know if you provide,you know there is no
profit left..
3)Clients don't respect and don't value you(they don't show up,do the work etc..).
=>>The more money people pay,the more they attention.
=>>When you don't pay ,they don't implement shit..
=>>When you really want,spending time they respect (only few cases)
=>>But ,when people pay they pay more attention..
5)You must grow slowly,(because when you don't have enough profit,you are forced to
spend bare minimum in attracting and acquiring ideal customers..)
=>>broke entreprenuers is the idea they have is ,how you can spend least amount of
money in marketing to get ideal clients.(scarcity mindset)
that's not how you scale a company..
=>>but when you don't have enough margin you cannot scale
.
=>Scale a company by investing in marketing.
=>>you need to see ,how could i outspend everybody else.(Abundance mindset).
ex:
=>>let's say you are selling 100$ product and your profit margin is 50%,It costs
you deliver the service and product is 50 dollars.
He is marketing in online ,FB,youtube ,etcc..whatever you do in online
=>what's the most he could spend to acquire customer(Assuming you don't even make
money)?
50 dollars that the most we could spend acquire each customer.
=>>Even i spend 400$ also you could hire very high skilled people..
=>>it comes to how you designed your business model..
=>>>If you are designed to lower the price,then you are out of the game.(It's not
how much hard you work to compete)..
=>>Dan is like ,I have no emotions attached ,I am just telling you facts with his
experience.
He wants us to succeed,not to waste money and time..
=>>Where pepople encourage to bad decisions ,sometime family and friends it's ok we
support you,you just stick long enough i will be there.
if you don't know what they are talking ,please shit close your mouth.
=>>Instead of that ,if you don't know just tell them,i look i am not qualified to
tell you,i have not done business,just go and talk with expertise who has
experience.
**Sifu wanted haircut in hongkong,he asked his friend where do you recommend to
haircut.
He said it's down town where celebrities go..
How much is haircut?100 dollars..
usually he spends 50$ for haircut..
=>>He wents ,he sees beautiful view,he noticed how clean the place,magazines
nice,high end magazines,receptionist asked do you need tea?
=>>Consultation took 5 minutes ,what type of haircut ,put gel or not and all..
Nice tv,masaaz 10 minutes.hair spa.
=>>The entire experience ,he was looking at just how nice it is...
2)when your clients INVEST top dollars,they will help you MAKE SURE i has been
valuable investment.
that same thing happened with energy drink and wine scenario.
It's not about tricking here,it actually tastes better in their mind..
=>>Let's think 8$ haircut and 100$ haircut both have same skills,
do you appretiate?No
what even notice it?probably not.
because they have won the price already..
i already felt that how the experience is this..
Genie,i want to finish High ticket sales secret 4 which taught by dan lok,by 11:59
pm 13-5-2022.
=>>You can't really look at a price without looking inward as well as outward.
*All closers,suddenly they post in chat like,i am not getting sales,i am getting
objections.
So,many times you are getting negative results,Not closing,you gotta look inside
yourself,when you change your inside,you will see results outside.
We have beliefs like,
=>>I wouldn't watch 90 minute webinar,so my prospects wouldnot watch 90 minute
webinar.
=>>I wouldn't spend 10000$ on single phone call,my prospects will not.
=>>I wouldn't spend 15000$ on x or Y so my prospects wouldnot spend 15000$ with me.
=>I don't have $15000 to spend on ------------,so my prospects would not have that
much money to spend .
that means we are projecting our values(which we have in mind about money in past
future) to our prospects.
don't think like that..
=>>Money making is not serious business,it's game you play.at first it may seem
that you play with forces outside of yourself-the economies of marketplace,so to
speak-but as you proceed you discover it's actually game that you play with
yourself..
--Stuart Wilde.
Umbrella
2$,3$,10$,5$.
Capasodi umbrella range from 300$ to 500$.
you might thinking who the fuck will buy that..
=>>Again don't project your values on other people.
**The first thing you have to knw about price is,you have got to get out of your
own way,when you close high ticket sales..
=>>your value judgement doesnot matter,it doesnot matter you will buy it or
not,does not matter how you feel about it,it doesnot matter you feel it's
wasteful,it doesnot matter you feel doesnot worth it..
#Genie ,I want to finsh that High ticket sales secret #5 today 14-5-2022 before 6
am.
#High ticket sales secret #5
Fix your thinking and remove money obstacles.
=>>Some time you say,i cannot good at track of cash,if i have credit card i can see
the statements.
you are saying you don't trust yourself with money,you are not good money manager.
you afraid to loose money.
=>>watching video gives slight edge i will do it,wearing suit gives slight edge2%
better i will do it,vastushastra gives slight edge i will do it.(Anything)
=>>Broke people says,they think slight edge is too small.
=>>Suceessful people if it makes me 1% better,I will do it.
=>>A lot of people worry that if they make more money, or if they radically change
their economic state or if they charge lot what they do they will be judged..
lot of people will worry about it..
=>>How do people judge??
You are greedy,
you are selfish,
you are just in it for money,
you are just in it for help yourself.......
but you and only you truly know ,why do what you do..
=>>Money is an AMPLIFIER.
*Money and success don't change people;they simply amplify what is already there.
=>>you are greedy,more money will make more greedy.
=>You are generous,more money will make you more generous.
=>you are kind,more money will make you more kinder.
=>you are jerk,more money will make bigger jerk..
=>you are nice,more money will make more nicer.
=>>It is an amplifier of who you are,it doesn't change,it reveals who you truly
are..
=>It gonna change who i am,NOOO
=>It reveals who you are,only you know who you are..
=>>>>>>>The more money I generate ,the more people i can care for.
=>I now get to take care of lots of mentees(Tens of thousands),
=>I get to take care of my team.
=>i get to care of many business relationships,and partnerships.
=>I also get to be cared for,lot more people in life too..
=>>>But Sifu,I don't want to people behind (that are close to me)or I don't want to
only serve with money.
*I hear from this pearl a lot who really wanna help people.
*I love it that you have this concern..
**You can choose to deeply help small number of people with high ticket closing
skill have an income that sustains you..
*Then you can devote rest of your time to helping other people with low cost or
free offerings.
*I combine all my skills and all my experiences and everything i love doing into an
offering that my students truly want,but more importantly,i love to deliver..
=>>Let's say you are walking down the street,you hear sound like
wrrrrrr,werrrrrrrrrrrrrr,wrnnnnnnn,wrrnnn,this sound is black lamborgini drove by??
What's the first thing comes to your mind?who do you think of that person?
=>Holy shit,bitch,cocky,spoilbrab,lotterywinner,abnoxious,show-off,gold
digger,badass.
we think like that,but my question is How do you know??
=>>99% of people will think ,the first thing that comes to their mind is negative..
why it's negative??
=>>Because we are thought to believe like in certain way by
family,friends,surrounding..
why couldn't that person is very successful entreprenuer,why that person who is
serving people for 20 years,that person who cares community may be..
you don't think in that way>>
=>>Imagine,you have enough money and closer worked hard to get that and provided
value to society,you like lamborgini and you drove down to the street and
subconsciously how do you think people are perciving??
even you work hard..
Knowing when you drive,people think bitch,probably gold digger,asshole son of
bitch,showoff...that only they think..
you are like you don't even fucking know me,what the fuck..
that's the biggest problem,that holds most people back to not move forward..
=>>Let's say you went to family party,you drove brand new lamborgini,what you think
your family would say..
do you think they will say congrasulations,NO..
They say like,do something illegal,what show off,what hell happen to you,
sometimes they may not say anything,they definately treat you different..
they make assumptions of you like money is gone to head,even though you were the
same person..
=>>you know that,because that's how you see people by the way..
=>>When you pitch financial successful(a person sitting lamborgini),in your mind
you are like i don't want to be that person,i don't want to people to judge me
badly..
that's one hand you wanna be financial successful,and the other hand if i am
financial successful if i sit in car people gonna say me bad things,they perceive
me different..
THat the same time you put EMERGENCY Brake ON..
*Negative association is that emergency brake...
*It does affect you.
*Most people they saw afraid to being judge,so you make sure no succed..
=>>Sifu i wanna be rich,successful but You working hard,but emergency brake on ,No
matter how hard you try or how many things you try,because deep down you are not
comfortable with money,deep down you are not comfortable with high ticket,deep down
you are afraid for asking money,deep down even you do make lot of money ,you afraid
of how people see you,family see you..they think you changed
=>>what hurts you the most is don't you know i am doing it for you,don't you know i
am doing it for my family.. they don't caree..
Q)why they see you this way??
=>>Because your success is remainder of what failure they are..
Because they see some people on social media,magazines,TV,that's like farway,that
person made it happen that person successful..
but when you do they are like,,,you ffuck we went highscholl together,i knew you
what you are like you are no smarter than me,how come you come out of matrix,how
come you,it's Unfair..
So,what could they do??they point fingers on you,you could be target for them..
Because it's the only way ours to be saying,
i coundnot look in the mirror and say to myself that,the guy who and i started from
same place, i knew him how fuck he would be successful,they are no different than
me,they are not people i see in magazine..
that's why they target you..
Q)Where do your thoughts and beliefs about money and wealth come from??
=>>They come primarily from the information or programming you received in the
past,especially as a young child...
Q)who were the some of the primary sources of this information or programming?
=>parents,siblings,authority figures,media,culture,more..
ex:you say rich people are greedy,i don't want be greedy person,guess what you will
never be rich person..you make sure you stay the same,you don't wanna be us you
will not becoe like us...
=>>So,when your you see successful people like person going with lamborgini,
You are like wow,so awsome,so proud,i bless you..
becuse when you do that you rewire your brain,there is nothing wrong..
=>>If you are rich,you want to be appreciated,you want to everyone love,you want to
be respected,ou wanted to be like don't you?
=>>Media talks BS,they want your belief,and make look rich people in certain way..
Rich people are scandal,they always scandal and report like that.
**If any rich person donates just report for 30 seconds,if someone do wrong they
play 1-2 hour,..
Do you know what media does that??
=>>it makes poor people feel better about themselvess...
*Just like people cannot accept the truth,what you mean rich people are happy?They
cannot be happy..what you mean rich people are fulfilled?They are not
fulfilled,,..what do you mean rich people have good family?Rich people are not have
good family... what you mean they are generous?They are not generous I can justify
that..They justify by one story and say all rich are workholic,not happy..
People react in this way,when you talk good about rich people......
=>>If you actually met /have personal experience you see it.
*Do you know who are the ones are greedy,who are the ones fucked me over,ones who
always complain=>>>Guess who are they,they are poor people only..
*Do you know who are the ones generous,who always giving,who always helps=>>Guess
who they are,THE RICH...
=>>>>Don't listen to other people,find out for yourself...
=>>>You can't get rich by looking poor,you definately can't get rich feeling
poor...
=>>Sifu travels north america,when he picks cab it would cost me about 60$,one time
very bad experience with cab driver,seats were so dirty,smelly driver and
environment is bad..
Instead of get a cab,he picked limbo which costs 100$,only 40 bucks more,,Long
limbo not short..
=>>>When i am in limbo,the lot of people were looking into limbo even i stopped at
redlights..
like who's in there,who's that guy..
=>>Then i got to airport and i flew to event ,and i observed that i performed
better as a speaker,i felt better,and i made more money..
How that hell happened??
But audience doesnot know before i got plane i came from limbo??
=>>>Who knows ,I KNOW....
only you know that.
MInd game...It's mental game..(Wealth trigger,do the thing which feels better)..
I got here by limbo man,so i performed better..
=>>Einstein said:Once your mind stretched,you never retract to it's original state.
=>>Dan lok says:Once your wallet expands,you never retract to it's original state
=>>Once you get used to certain lifestyle,you do everything you could to keep
living that lifestyle..
That becomes your new comfort..
=>>>But now,Sifu doesnot care much,but back then it is,
Q)What is lowerself??
LOWER SELF is the creative center of our negative attitudes and feelings towards
self and others ,arising of our egocentric separteness from the totality of life..
=>>It's our defense against pain,Our numbness to feeling,
Our disconnection of ourselves from other people,And it's the negativity we act out
as a result of this numbness..
That's lowerself,
Closing is very very easy any body can learn it that's not the problem,Lowerself is
problem..
*Do you know why you are afraid to connect with people,Do you know why you set
sidelines,Do you know why you have been server all the life..
Server:Who doesnot participate,who is invisible.
*you don't know me,you can't hurt you..it's true.
*But,
they don't know you,can't you help either..
=>>So,you sit on the side watching other people participating,and life goes by you
don't really participate.
=>>The thing you save,are you happy,is that what you want?Being alone?Don't matter
people don't know you exist?
is that how you see yourself?
=>>It's not about making the video,
=>>EVERY THING SIFU ASKED YOU TO DO IS THERE IS A PURPOSE.
*is to make learn something about yourself.
*to make you realize what's been holding you back..
*Why you were not there,where you want to be?
=>>No body knows,you don't need to make the video,you don't need to attend the
class live,you don't need to do assignments....Nobody really knows.
you could be server..
you could be server al your life,and you have been doing that all your life,you are
very good at it..
i know you are very good at it..
Just nobody pointed it out..
=>>then for some ,you wear so many masks when face different people,
you wear one mask when you talking to family,you wear other mask when you talk to
clients,you wear other mask that works with them..
**YOU lost..
=>>You no longer no which one is me,who am I?
=>>We wear this mask when you are hiding,when you are upserving,when you
pretending,and you get so good at it..
but everyday you die little inside...and you wonder why you are depressed,you
wonder why you are not happy,you wonder why you are not fulfilled,you wonder wwhy
you are lost???
*****But you are not your lowerself,you also have higher self..
Higher self:
This is the self that is the highest expression of your personality,It is the self
that KNOWS you can create anything you want...
=>>have you ever noticed ,have you ever had those moments things just happen or
things just work..
your sense of time is lost,i was just gone by what was happened,you are excited,you
are happy,your life..
Those moments that's your higher self..
=>>you are not your lower self,you simply bring awareness to it..
**When you bitch slap your lower self enough times,your lowerself shut the fuck
up,and it has less power over you..
=>>Now when lower self wants to say something,,youuuuu boom,you can't affordddd
boom,i can't say any more Dan,Good..
=>>>Imagine you start the day with the creed,you shut down the lower self.
=>before going to close the call,you can read creed.
=>>Do it for every day,make that part of morning rituals,and see how your life
transformmed..
2.What are three items,or areas that you want to improve on in your own GEM.
ex:Rubies,be a better listner
sappiers,work on your follow through skills.
pearl,say "no" more often.
emeralds ,be more sociable..
4.From list above,when conflict arises ,which gems do you have the most conflicts
with..
5.How could you handle these differently in the future based on what you have
learned so far about gems...
6.After learning this information about gems,what are the biggest insights you have
discovered.
=>>>You answer each questio 10 times or more until no answers come out for that
question.
*Write everything about money ,wealth and rich people you heard as child..
*Write down description of an early emotional experience with money that affects
you today..
May be i am 7 years old,if you ask can i buy icecream..
they say,No,we can't afford out...
*Write down the conclusion/story you created from that experience,how that story
has affected you up to this time...
*Write down your family situation,and each parents or adult guardians habits their
ways of thinking and being around money as you were growing up.
Also describe who you might me similar or opposite to you in what ways...
=>>>Answer all those questions,when you lay it out all your current beliefs about
money...
=>>You gonna find exactly,what is been exactly holding you back..
like n wonder i am struggling to make money or struggling to keep money..