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Individualist Collectivist/Communal
o “What does my heart say?” o “What will other people say?”
(Love is a Feeling) (Love is an Obligation)
o For as long as we both shall o For life
love
o More passion o Commitment
Marriage have become more challenging today due to people expecting more
fulfilment from marriage but invest fewer resources (Sa tagalog, tanggap ka
lang ng tanggap, wlaa namang binibigay. Like, puro ka self-fulfilment. Self-love
to the point that you have forgotten the fact that you are not the only one in the
relationship, better yet, the marriage. Have you guys encountered a person like
this?) And have you encountered a person who stayed in their relationship?)
o Persistence to stay in a Marriage
So sino dito may kakilala na nag stestay sa long term relationship or kahit
marriage, although they are unsatisfied with it?
Investment Model Theory (Rusbult, 1980, 1983)
- So what is the significance of this table? You might ask?? Well other than the fact that it shows
the detachment process of married couples in a marriage, this also shows their detachment
process from conflict or the problem. It shows that, happy couples and long-standing marriage
are not necessarily devoid of conflict, rather the people that possess such marriage has the
capability to reconcile, and overbalance criticism with affection.
So let us answer the question earlier with all the information that we have learned