Professional Documents
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Rafael E. López-Corvo
First published in 2014 by
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To my daughter Vanessa Helena López-Corvo
who already has taken a similar path
and
my granddaughter Isabel Elena López-Bryce,
still too young to decide
CONTENTS
ACKNOWLEDGEMENTS xi
PREFACE xv
INTRODUCTION xxiii
CHAPTER ONE
“Evicted from life”: time distortion between pre-conceptual and
conceptual traumas 1
CHAPTER TWO
The mark of Cain: ego and superego narcissistic identifications
with pre-conceptual traumas 23
CHAPTER THREE
The conceptualisation of pre-conceptual traumas 35
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viii CONTENTS
CHAPTER FOUR
The unconscious: the messenger of truth from Bion’s
perspective of container–contained interaction 55
CHAPTER FIVE
Transformation of pre-conceptual traumas: heteromorphic or
homeomorphic symbolisations 69
CHAPTER SIX
“Deferred action” (“après coup”) and the emotional interaction
between pre-conceptual and conceptual traumas 87
CHAPTER SEVEN
Pre-conceptual traumas as the tyrannical presence of absences 95
CHAPTER EIGHT
Negative and positive links as a form of communication in the
traumatised and non-traumatised states (TS N-TS) 109
CHAPTER NINE
The traumatised ego and the traumatising superego 131
CHAPTER TEN
Acting out pre-conceptual traumas: interruption of therapy and
“catastrophic change” 145
CHAPTER ELEVEN
Pre-conceptual traumas: inflicted by chance and repeated by
compulsion 157
CHAPTER TWELVE
The world of sigma (∑) 175
CHAPTER THIRTEEN
The triangle’s entrapment: pre-conceptual traumas and
the oedipal condition 197
CONTENTS ix
CHAPTER FOURTEEN
All pregnancies are twins: one baby in the uterus and one
baby in the mind—pre-conceptual traumas and infertility 213
CHAPTER FIFTEEN
Children from the claustrum: pre-conceptual traumas
and addiction 229
CHAPTER SIXTEEN
Pre-conceptual traumas and somatic pathology: the
body’s attempt to dream a repetitious undreamed dream 247
CHAPTER SEVENTEEN
Pre-conceptual traumas and totalitarianism 269
Anamilagros Pérez Morazzani and Rafael E. López-Corvo
NOTES 287
REFERENCES 303
INDEX 311
ACKNOWL EDGEMENTS
Publication acknowledgement
I would like to express my thanks to The Guilford Press for their per-
mission to reproduce a series of aspects present in several chapters of
this book that were previously published in The Psychoanalytic Review,
99 (6), December 2012; as well as Chapter One, which was originally
published in No. 100, (2), April 2013 of the same journal.
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ABOUT THE AUTHOR
xiii
PREFACE
—Pindar
—William Blake
Bion grew up among groups, very large groups. From the age of
eight at the boarding school, and afterward, at the age of eighteen
when enlisted to fight in War World I, he was able to empirically
observe and existentially suffer the social behaviour and the imme-
diateness of anonymous multitudes. (López-Corvo, 2003, p. 5)
From his work on groups (1943, 1946, 1948 and 1952), Bion attained not
only a new and remarkable understanding of group dynamics, but also
a well earned international reputation. He established that any type of
ongoing group will be ruled by two disparate forces: one determined
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After his analytic training Bion never explicitly referred again to these
concepts, although we could presume they evolved into other ideas.
The interaction between the “working group” and the “basic assump-
tions”, for instance, became represented within individual psychol-
ogy as the “non-psychotic” and “psychotic parts of the personality”
respectively. Also, it could be deduced that the “basic assumptions”
corresponded to those emotions originating from different points of
fixation: “dependent ba” was equivalent to the oral stage, “fight and
fly” to anal, and “pairing” to genital. However, following the line of
thought of this book, I prefer to consider that these basic assumptions
represented emotions elicited by pre-conceptual traumas that took place
around the same time these specific sexual developmental stages (oral,
anal, and genital) were occurring. The “proto-mental system” became
equivalent to what Bion later referred to as the “beta space”, a primitive
space he extended back to intrauterine life.
According to Meltzer (1986), Bion’s creativity increased signifi-
cantly after Mrs Klein’s death in 1960, perhaps indicating that he was
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submitting his originality to the ideas of his analyst and teacher. The
old concept of the “double” was used by Bion, under the scheme of
the “imaginary twin”, to defend Klein’s notion of an early pre-genital
Oedipus and to graduate from the Psychoanalytic Institute in 1950. After
this work he produced comprehensive clinical research on psychoses,
as well as an epistemological conceptualisation of thinking. Of all these
papers, the article on “Differentiation of the psychotic from the non-
psychotic personalities” (1957) could now be conceived of as a mile-
stone for understanding the phenomenology of the working mind.
We could question what induced Bion not to consider such dichot-
omy of psychotic and non-psychotic as the expression of a universal
dynamic present in all human minds. We could speculate over some
possibilities, for instance, that maybe at that time Bion was dealing with
a similar confusion to those who believed Klein’s concept of “paranoid-
schizoid position” was specifically referring to psychosis (Grosskurth,
1986, p. 429), instead of a mechanism present in all individuals. There
was, however, an inclination in Bion to introduce some generalisation
to the concept when he said that:
In a very similar inquiry, Meltzer (1978) pointed out that Bion did not
discriminate between the psychotic part of the personality and clinical
psychoses, because of Klein’s influence in considering the paranoid-
schizoid position as representing the fixation point for schizophrenia.
He also added that it was not clear whether Bion “thinks that this part
of the personality is ubiquitous or only present in the person who actu-
ally presents a schizophrenic disorder” (p. 26). The discrimination often
made by Freud, between “normal” and “neurotic” persons, helped to
sustain the delusion of the existence of an idealised model of absolute
P R E FA C E xix
state is the result of the traumatic experiences that have taken place
during the first years of life, while the non-traumatised state represents
the mental and physical development that will normally take place
from birth to adulthood.
All human beings have been, are, and will always be, fatalistically
marked by the indispensable presence and eventual disappearance of
primary part objects, first and foremost the breast and subsequently
the penis, both absolutely essential: the former, for survival as well as
for attaining a sense of “being human” (animate);2 the latter, for inde-
pendence, freedom, and hope. Many of these “presence-absences”
are temporary events, but many others will overcome Freud’s “pro-
tective shield” or Bion’s (1962, p. 36) “maternal reverie” and become
permanent, amounting to an enduring distress or “psychic trauma”.
Like the Mad Hatter’s tea party in Alice’s Adventures in Wonderland,
pre-conceptual traumas become an eternal “now” that is continuously
projected everywhere.
The particularities associated to how these traumatic “presence-
absences” mark each and every individual, are absolutely unique, and
represent a selected fact that structures the specific demeanour and idi-
osyncrasy of every human being. There is always a substantial long-
ing for the lost objects, and sometimes there is the illusion of hoarding
them inside, bringing about a sense of triumph and contempt. At other
moments, there is the impression of failure to contain the absence-
presence, inducing a sense of hopelessness and melancholy as well as
envy towards those felt to be hoarding them. The inner void of these
absences is minutely split and becomes continuously projected eve-
rywhere, pressing for an all-pervading search ad infinitum. With age,
inner representations of these absences mutate, although changing only
their “appearance”, in a fashion that emulates the Greek god Proteus;
however, the original meaning is always preserved, and lingers, well
fastened to the primal loss. Based on these dynamics, and using Freud’s
original discoveries as well as Ferenczi’s and Bion’s contributions,
I would like to privilege the significance of “psychic traumas” and,
parodying Bion, refer rather to the dichotomy between a “traumatised”
and a “non-traumatised” state of the personality.
In “The Aleph”, Jorge Luis Borges (1945) depicted the existence of
a “little space, probably a bit larger than an inch”, located under the
stairs of a cellar and where is displayed, like on ongoing film, the
whole infinite, all the existing facts present in the universe that you
P R E FA C E xxi
could ever have imagined, past, as well as present and future. Borges
also appropriately used as an epigraph to his story, Hamlet’s: “O God!
I could be bounded in a nutshell, and count myself a king of infinite
space …” I thought of this wonderful short story because I was tempted,
while writing this book, by the possibility of producing in “a nutshell”
the spirit and fundamental nature of the absolute ubiquity and meaning
of pre-conceptual traumas. Tentatively, I have conjectured the following
précis:
Further, I consider that this holds true for the severe neurotic,
in whom I believe there is a psychotic personality concealed
[obscured] by neurosis as the neurotic personality is screened by
psychosis in the psychotic, that has to be laid bare and dealt with.
(Ibid., p. 63)
* * *
Two opposite systems, considered as the traumatised (psychotic) and
the non-traumatised (non-psychotic) states of the mind, constitute
the basic elements that structure Bion’s model of the mind. The dif-
ference between each dimension results from the ego’s capacity to
xxvi INTRODUCTION
However, several years later he stated that beta elements were not only
synonymous with mental pathology, but instead represented a kind of
communication, perhaps intuitive, commonly used by children (1974a,
pp. 127–128). By this time, Bion was conceiving the notion of “O”, which
he also classified as a beta element.
* * *
Although stored unconscious traumatic experiences represent beta
elements, not all beta elements stand for traumatic experiences, since
other undigested facts or unthought thoughts—such as, for instance,
the intuitive notion of “O”, or other unnamed forms of “non-traumatic
sensory impressions”—can also be considered, following Bion’s
description, a beta element. I would now like to consider what I refer
to as “pre-conceptual traumas”, representing beta elements or scars left
in the mind by psychic stimulus, which took place at a time not only
when there was not a rudimentary mind capable of digesting and con-
taining the impact of such psychic facts, but also, and very importantly,
when the mother’s alpha function had also failed.
We have learned from Freud that an experience becomes traumatic
when it is capable of fracturing the ego’s protective shield against
stimuli. This concept was distended by Bion when, perhaps following
Winnicott’s famous statement that “there is no such thing as a baby
[alone]”, he established that the mother’s reverie plays a substan-
tial role in the child’s failure to contain certain stimulus. Something
could become traumatic when a series of given conditions, such as
the ego’s frustration intolerance, turns a temporary fact into a perma-
nent one. If reality represents a temporary event circumscribed to one
instant, we could then ask, what set of circumstances would bear suf-
ficient weight in order to change what would, otherwise, have been
a person’s transient moment, into something perpetual? What would
make a temporary absence a permanent presence? Perhaps it might be
thought of as similar to dinosaurs’ footprints found engraved in the
limestone. We can imagine a thirsty dinosaur’s early walk performed
as an uneventful act repeated regularly until, one particular morning,
the presence of a series of variables conjoin to preserve the footsteps
forever. It means, in summary, that now, when there is no longer a lake
and the dinosaur has been erased from the face of the earth and there
are only absences, its footprints, produced in just one instant, become
preserved for eternity. Obviously, I understand that the mind becoming
xxviii INTRODUCTION
* * *
Alpha function is active continuously, day and night (Ferro, 2006;
Grotstein, 2007), and alternates between two disparate domains: one
is conscious and voluntary, the other unconscious and involuntary. This
is why Bion originally referred to alpha function as “dream-work α"
(1992, p. 62). These domains seem to work differently, but interact
continuously. The conscious one deals with sensory impressions in the
manner explained above, digesting raw sensory impressions, or beta
elements, and changing them into alpha elements. Whenever there are
facts that, while a person is awake, have not been properly digested
because of a low frustration tolerance—in the sense that some “lies” are
not adequately dealt with—the unconscious alpha function can elabo-
rate a dream while sleeping, with the purpose of revealing the unex-
posed truth. In other words, the unconscious alpha function corrects the
duties shirked by the conscious alpha function that, in order to avoid
INTRODUCTION xxix
* * *
There are four unfinished sculptures by Michelangelo, known as “The
Slaves”, which display a contrast between well-finished parts and the
rest of the crude marble block where they still remain impounded.
These particular carvings could perhaps cloak many meanings. Initially
they were made for the also unfinished tomb of Pope Julius II, a work
that occupied Michelangelo for over forty years, and of which he wrote:
“I find I have lost all my youth bound to this tomb”. Similarly to how
Michelangelo and his metaphorical, impounded sculptures remain
sequestered, the traumatised part unconsciously confiscates the non-
traumatised parts, attacking and mutilating its capacity to metabolise
and contain the pre-conceptual trauma.11 As a consequence, the person
feels a “prisoner” inside such a mental state and believes he would not
be able to free himself from it, because the mind, which represents the
means and ends of escape, has become impoverished and lacks the
capacity to be conscious of reality.12 The interpretation is the instru-
ment the psychotherapist will use as a chisel to carve out and liberate
the impounded non-traumatised part of the personality. This is why
Freud (1905) evoked Leonardo da Vinci’s metaphor that distinguished
between painting as a via di porre, that is, adding colours to produce a
shape, and sculptures as a via di levare, that liberates the figure by taking
something away. Freud resorted to this description in order to explain
the difference between psychotherapy and psychoanalysis. Where the
first works per via di porre, using suggestion or pedagogical techniques,
the latter works per via di levare, that is, by taking something away in
order to liberate the self (Freud, 1905, p. 260). Although Freud did not
explicitly specify that he was referring to the relationship between hys-
teria and trauma, we could argue that he was intuitively considering
these subjects—how traumas imprison the mind forever and determine
all forms of existing psychopathologies.
INTRODUCTION xxxi
* * *
There are many doors to reach the mind, the most reliable, I think, being
the one provided by the notion of the pre-conceptual trauma. This can
be approached by following the trail of emotional traces and imprints
present in the transference-countertransference dimension, representing
a narrative of timeless absences that must be dreamed in order for mean-
ing to be attained. The interpretation is the analyst’s only instrument, in
the search for the patient’s elusive truth as it is revealed by the uncon-
scious and that helps to reconstruct and contain the painful configura-
tion of the infantile trauma. The meaning revealed by the unconscious
can only be conceived by intuitive approximation because the language
spoken lacks the sincerity and precision of conscious meaning. Inter-
pretation of dreams, for instance, and interpretation of the manifest dis-
course articulated by the patient using free association, follows opposite
trails. When interpreting dreams, we travel from a semantic of cryptic
and abstract symbolisms depicted by the dream, towards a semantic of
concrete signs and easy access provided by the interpretation; but when
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* * *
What the psychoanalyst must face is the need to “abstract”, in order to
read the unconscious messages that are always structured in abstract
terms similar to ideographs that represent an idea condensed in just
one word, or one image. Such abstraction implies psychic facts that
remain associated in “constant conjunction”.13 Bion adds the paradox
that “abstraction should never be attempted without concretization”
(1992, p. 256), perhaps referring to the internal operation the analyst
must perform in order to grasp the abstraction implicit in the ideogram
or psychic fact, able to translate it into a hypothesis presented as an
interpretation. This is an operation we often perform in the consult-
ing room when referring to issues related to “reconstructions” and/or
“transference interpretations”, as we try to release meaning from pos-
sible realisations implicit within the ideograms they were originally
designed to represent. A young man often attacked my interpretations
by ignoring what I said and simply continuing his narrative, as if I had
said nothing. He once referred to a flooded basement, after a storm the
night before, as well as the unfair remarks his father had made accusing
him of not properly checking the drainage. This, obviously, is a very
concrete statement that I have to perceive as such and then make into an
abstraction in order to grasp the meaning, such as, for instance, that he
feared my interpretations could flood his mind with unfair accusations,
in the manner in which his father had addressed him.
xxxiv INTRODUCTION
the terror once experienced by the little girl, which was also inside of
her. In other words, the emotional continuity experienced before, was
now “broken” and “torn apart”: it was a dream pointing to the end of
analysis.
* * *
In conclusion
1. All human minds are born in bits and mental growth really means
integration: the greater the integration, the greater the sense of well-
being; the greater the splitting, the greater the suffering.
2. Mental integration is hindered by the existence of “pre-conceptual
traumas”. I am considering the existence of two different forms of
trauma, “pre-conceptuals” and “conceptuals”, the former is universal,
the latter accidental.
3. Pre-conceptual traumas become structured when deficiency of
maternal reverie allows a “temporary absence” to change into a
“permanent presence”.
4. I refer to “pre-conceptual traumas” as beta elements or events that
take place during the first years of life, when there is not a mind
capable of containing them. They remain as “pre-conceptions” in
search of a realisation, waiting for an alpha function to provide them
with a sensible meaning.
5. Pre-conceptual traumas stand for ubiquitous experiences present in
all human beings, like a “mark”, or “selected fact”, that organises
and provides significance to the idiosyncrasy and identity of each
individual. They amount to successive identifications, so tight-
fitting that the trauma renders itself invisible, like the Shakespearian
expression that the eye “sees not itself”. They are related to the
paranoid-schizoid position. Pre-conceptual traumas are also
minutely split or atomised and projected everywhere together with
the mind that contains them.
6. Pre-conceptual traumas split the mind into two opposite parts, the
“traumatised” and the “non-traumatised” state.
7. The traumatised state is the consequence of the unconscious
and compulsive repetition of pre-conceptual traumas. The non-
traumatised state represents the mental development that will
normally take place from birth to adulthood.
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You were not even able to see life, how can you see death? Death
is more subtle.
—Osho
Tao: The Pathless Path (p. 27)
—Emilia
“Trauma entanglement”
Is it the present that provides meaning to the past or is it the other way
around? Laplanche and Pontalis (1967) stated:
* The content of this chapter has been previously published in The Psychoanalytic
Review, Vol. 100, No. 2, pp. 289–310, and it is now reproduced with permission from the
publisher.
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2 T R A U M AT I S E D A N D N O N - T R AU M AT I S E D S TAT E S
touching letter she had just received from her ageing mother, thanking
her for a card the patient had send her for her birthday, something she
had seldom done before. I sensed in the countertransference the sad-
ness elicited by the message, but Patty started to laugh compulsively.
I asked her why she was laughing if there was nothing funny, and then
she burst into painful tears. Laughing was a defence, a fearful denial
of wounding emotions; but it was also the expression of an attitude
towards a hurt, sad, lonely “child element” in her, as if the “out of place
laugh” represented an internal callous and ignorant element, analo-
gous to a mother who could have laughed at her child’s emotional
misery. It was as if there was not proper containment from the “adult
part” towards the sad “child element” in her, and a lack of positive
emotions of self love and concern. She was now repeating in her own
mind—through the interaction between a superego traumatic, callous
element and an ego helpless, submissive part—the same situation she
had continuously complained about during the analysis, namely, that
which had taken place between her mother and herself as a child.
In this chapter I will present a clinical case to investigate how pre-
conceptual traumas obstruct the possibility of dealing with the emo-
tions that a true and violent threat of death can produce. Intense feelings
linked to the phenomenology of early traumatic events obscured the
true facts of the condition present at the time of the patient’s analysis.
Before I deal with the clinical material it will be helpful for us to first
consider some aspects related to death and the death drive.
But besides its late recognition, there were also other complications.
Awareness of the existence of the “death drive” was a slow process
in Freud’s investigations. “It is essential, in addition,” said Laplanche
and Pontalis (1967), “to relate the concept of the death instinct to the
evolution of Freud‘s thought, and to discover what structural necessity
its introduction answers to in the context of the more general revision
known as the turning-point of the 1920s” (1967, p. 97), when he finally
introduced the notion of this drive as we know it at present. The death
instinct remains to this day as controversial as it was in 1920. In a previ-
ous publication I expressed the following:
Freud had a similar disagreement with Adler around the same time,
arguing that he was overemphasising the importance of aggression.
Gay (1988) had this to say:
Ten years later, in 1930, in “Civilization and its discontents”, Freud con-
fessed: “I remember my own defensive attitude when the idea of an
instinct of destruction first emerged in psychoanalytic literature and
how long it took before I became receptive to it” (p. 120). I have previ-
ously stated that
Klein, on the other hand, gave the death instinct an even greater rel-
evance, by making it emblematic in her contributions to the metapsy-
chology of envy. Obviously, we also have to consider that times have
changed and sexuality does not suffer the same severity of repres-
sion as it did during the Victorian period, making aggression, as a
consequence, a more present drive during our everyday psychoanalytic
work.
“EVICTED FROM LIFE” 7
About death
I believe that what makes sex and death be experienced as always
something new, is repression; perhaps more death than sex. Buddhism,
for instance, has alerted us to the tendency to make death unfamiliar
and to deny its fatalistic presence. In the Añguttara-Nikaya (iii. 35),6
one of the sacred books of Buddhism, King Yama argues with his priests
about their ignorance and fear of death:
Death has three messengers … Did you not see the first of death’s
messenger visibly appear among men? He replies: “Lord I did
not” … Oh man! Did you not see among men and women eighty or
ninety or a hundred years of age, decrepit … bowed down, leaning
on a staff, trembling as he walked …? He replies, “Lord, I did” …
Oh man! Did you not see the second of death’s messengers visibly
appear among men? “Lord, I did not” … Oh man! Did you not
see among women or men, diseased, suffering, grievously sick …?
He replies, “Lord, I did” … Oh man! Did you not see the third
death’s messenger visibly … “Lord, I did not” … Did not you see …
a woman or man that has been one day dead, or two days dead …
and had been swollen, black … He replies, “Lord, I did” … Oh
man! Did it not occur to you, being a person of mature intelligence
and years, “I also am subject to [old age, to disease] to death, and in
no way exempt …?” … “Lord I did not think”. (pp. 94–95)
creative thinking (alpha elements), which will provide the mind with
material to produce “dream thoughts” (reverie), and “hence the capac-
ity to wake up or go to sleep, to be conscious or unconscious.” And,
I will add, “to be alive” or “not to be alive”. Bion continues:
I believe that when Bion refers to the mother’s “love being expressed
by reverie”, he is declaring that love will provide the child with the
capacity to discriminate between “being like a thing” (inanimate
object) and being “as a person” (animate object). For Bion (1962), an
overvaluation of the inanimate over the animate might represent a con-
sequence of enforced splitting associated with a disturbed relationship
with the breast. He stated that when envy obstructs the relationship
with the good breast—provider of love, understanding, solace, knowl-
edge, (Klein, 1946) during the paranoid-schizoid position—the perse-
cutory anxiety present could obstruct the physical need for sucking
and thereby jeopardise the infant’s life. “Fear of death through starva-
tion of essentials”, said Bion (1962) “compels resumption of sucking.
A split between material and psychical satisfaction develops” (p. 10).
This situation leads to an enforced splitting between the physical
need for survival (being loved for what we have or do), on the one
hand, and psychic satisfactions (being loved for what we are), on the
other. Such a condition can be achieved by the destruction of alpha
function:
Judith, for instance, was the wife of a successful businessman who had
managed, in a relatively short time, to become very wealthy. Although
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You cannot live without dying. You cannot live if you do not die
psychologically every minute. This is not an intellectual paradox.
“EVICTED FROM LIFE” 11
Sir, if one may ask, why are you so concerned to know what hap-
pens after death? “Doesn’t everyone want to know?” Probably they
do; but if we don’t know what living is, can we ever know what
death is? Living and dying may be the same thing, and the fact
that we have separated them may be the source of great sorrow.
(p. 62)
mother that was reversible; it could be worn on either side. I said that
perhaps she experienced her father as reversible, two-faced, not to be
trusted. She added that her parents acted very much the same and that
her father became very dependent on her mother after his accident.
“My parents were like this”—she joined both hands as if praying—
“there was no room for me”. She complained that her current boy-
friend, “A”, did not wish to marry her, and that she was not certain she
loved him either. It seemed as if there was, in her mind, an angry little
girl attempting to sabotage, out of envy, the relationship that another
adult part in her was capable of establishing with men, similar to how
she felt her parents made her feel as a child, as if there was “no room
left for her”.
About half a year into her therapy, because of a persistent dry cough,
she decided to consult her doctor, and discovered the terrible news
of a colon cancer, which had already moved to her liver. Her mother,
she remembered, had had a similar diagnosis, although localised, and
had been able to survive for thirty more years after her stomach was
removed. The diagnosis of cancer induced four significant feelings:
i) a terror as if she was not threatened with dying but with being tor-
tured to death; ii) anger and intense envy in the transference, as if she
was the only one dying while everybody else was living forever and
continuously celebrating; iii) anger and shame at herself for “becoming
a failure”; iv) the terrible suspicion that she was being rejected by her
boyfriend, her friends, and, in the transference, for being a total disap-
pointment. It seemed that feeling ashamed and a complete failure after
being diagnosed, introduced the idea that she was unconsciously deal-
ing with “something different” than a life-threatening cancer. It was a
form of knowledge that reminded me of what Bion (1965) once referred
to as “conscious awareness”. He stated:
three dreams: In the first she was wearing a shawl that belonged to Mother
Theresa of Calcutta. There was a crowd of people that made way for her to
see herself seated in a bistro. In a second dream she was buying a lot of socks
because they were very cheap. Finally, she was going to see a play about Galileo
with a boyfriend from her adolescence. She associated to returning from her
weekend with A, when he stopped to buy some socks on sale. Although
he was very wealthy, he was also very mean with himself. She remem-
bered her previous husband who used to force her to return whatever
she bought if he disagreed with the purchase. She did not know what
to think about Mother Theresa’s shawl and about the play, but felt they
were related to her father’s blindness, that perhaps what happened to
him then was similar to what was happening to her now. About the
bistro, she remembered that when she married the first time she was
uncertain about the wedding and when she came out of the church,
she saw herself sitting by a bistro located on the other side of the street.
I said she felt she had got cancer because she was “bad” and not “good”
like Mother Theresa; maybe she wished she could get out of her body,
like when she married and wanted not to be there. Galileo reminded
her of her blind father and she would like me to look after her as she
had tried to look after him. She also felt there was an internal element
that treated her cheaply, as if she did not deserve good things, or have
the right to be nice to herself.
The following week Emilia arrived crying and feeling very upset.
She said she was angry and very unhappy because she felt the test
results she was supposed to obtain from the hospital were going to be
very unsatisfactory and questioned the purpose of coming to see me if I
couldn’t do anything for her. She cried bitterly and said that everybody
was fine but herself. She asked a doctor friend to fetch the results, but
the friend said it was the hospital’s policy to hand them over to the
person; she thought this was not true, that what had happened was
that the results were so bad that her friend had refused to be the carrier
of such terrible news. The next day she went to pick them up and the
doctor told her the results were better than expected, that fifty per cent
of the tumours were reduced, and some were even calcified. But even
with this good news, she was not pleased and looked very strained
emotionally. I said to her that perhaps in her mind someone—possibly
the “cheap” part inside her mind—was secretly watching her, and if she
appeared to be too happy about the good results, it was either going to
be a bad omen or she was going to get punished by making the tumours
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When she went to the hospital to have some tests done, someone stole
a ring from her purse. However, when the technician was checking on
her, she was more concerned with the expression on his face, to see if
he looked concerned, than with the loss of her ring. She also remem-
bered that on her eleventh birthday her mother gave her a ring with
a stone similar to the one in her dream. Sometime later she lost the
ring and became very frightened about her mother knowing about it,
and kept the issue a secret while desperately looking for it; however,
the mother who had found it remained silent, as she watched Emilia’s
despair. I told her that perhaps she experienced the feeling that reality
was robbing her of something so precious, similar to an internal sadis-
tic mother part that filled her with terror, that this element was some-
times projected outside on to others—like the technician or me—and
then she would try to placate this element by offering something very
valuable.
A few weeks later she recalled a dream: She was somewhere in the
water and had the sensation that life was leaving her behind; she experienced
this as a form of exclusion as if it was herself who remained outdistanced. She
felt as if someone was going to rescue her from that. She looked physically
strained and neglected. She remembered reading that dreaming about
water could be associated with mother matters; also she recalled going
to the beach as a child with her mother while her father stayed behind
because of his work. She felt extremely unhappy because she could not
stand being alone with her mother. She wanted him to rescue her but
he never appeared. Every day, when she had said good-bye to her class-
mates and arrived home from school, her mother, who was waiting for
her by the door, would force her to sit on the sofa and listen to her talk
endlessly about the same things. She could hear her friends talking and
playing outside while she hopelessly watched the clock on the wall,
waiting for her father to arrive and liberate her. She recalled how diffi-
cult and shameful it was for her to always have to invent excuses for her
classmates about not being able to go outside and play with them. I said
that perhaps she felt very envious of those little girls whom she heard
playing outside because they were free to do whatever they wanted,
instead of being like her, who felt prisoner of her mother’s needs and
unable to free herself from her control. I also added that her mother used
her like an ear-toilet, as if she did not exist as an individual, other than
for her mother to dump her word-faeces into. Maybe she felt frustrated
that I, like her father, was unable to rescue her from feeling threatened
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by her cancer, trapped by her condition as she had felt trapped by her
mother.
A week later she appeared very depressed and feeling hopeless
about her analysis and very angry and envious of others: her boyfriend,
other friends, and even me. She cried in great despair, stating that she
felt terrified because she was going to the hospital the next day to have
a scan and was completely certain it was going to be terrible. I said that
although that might be possible, she did not know, and that she would
have to wait until tomorrow to see. I repeated a previous interpreta-
tion: Perhaps she was making herself feel terrible as a form of punish-
ment, thinking that in this way the results might be better. She had had
problems sleeping the previous night and referred to another dream:
A patient who was a prominent business man, whom she used to treat at the
hospital, was sitting in front of her. Suddenly she observed that something
like a penis was coming out through his shirt. He apologised and put it back
inside. This man’s penis was not in his crotch but at the level of his liver.
I said that perhaps a part of her wished that someone prominent would
introduce health to her liver with his penis through her vagina. Perhaps
she had similar desires towards me, that I could introduce something
through her ears-vagina, like a fantastic penis capable of curing her
liver’s tumours; however, there seemed to be another part in her that
feared I could become too important in her life. She answered that she
was always suspicious of others, of what they might want from her, and
that she feared her need of me, her wish to come every day.
Two weeks later she appeared very angry and stated that she had a
terrible headache and believed it was because of something I had said
the day before. She brought several dreams. She was giving a conference at
the hospital’s grand round, forgot the introduction, and felt anxious. A woman
said to her that she was not well dressed and she decided to change. She asso-
ciated this with the time when she used to present cases at the grand
rounds and was always dressed very nicely. Since the time she was a
child her mother forcefully insisted that she be properly attired and was
always extremely critical of how she clothed herself. In a second dream,
she was trying to clean a sculpture in a tomb but broke a piece of it and feared
someone could have seen her. I said she wished to regress to old times
when she was happy, well thought of, and in command; also, there was
wishful thinking of being able to change her present situation as easily
as changing clothes. About the second dream she said that perhaps it
represented her attempts to free herself from the cancer. I added that she
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seemed to be dealing with a cancer in her body and another in her mind
and that the latter appeared to be the product of something terrible she
seemed to be doing, like attacking and destroying a dead person, per-
haps her mother, who she felt was responsible for her sickness. At the
same time she did not wish to know about this, because she preferred
for nobody to know she had broken the sculpture.
Sometime later, I said that I would be leaving the next week for
Christmas holidays, something I had already announced three weeks
earlier. She responded with a dream: She was with her father in the garden
of the house in which she was born; he said that C is looking for her and Emilia
goes to fetch her. C said that they could not meet after four next Monday but
would meet at eight am the following day. Emilia felt very upset and angry
because of the cancellation of their appointment and said to C that she will lose
a lot of money. She linked C with a very ill and needy woman she used to
look after, as well as a couple who came to visit this patient, and Emilia
learned from another nurse that this couple became friends with older
people with the purpose of snatching their things after they died. Four
o’clock she associated with the time when she arrived from school and
her mother was waiting for her in order for Emilia to listen to her end-
less talk the whole afternoon. She remembered that there was a tree in
the garden where she used to talk to her father who loved gardening. It
was the only place she felt really close to him, also because her mother
hated anything that had to do with the garden and never came out to
it; it was like a secret or magic place. Even to this day she thought a lot
about that garden and at her boyfriend’s place there was a tree that very
much reminded her of her own garden. When her mother confined her
at four o’clock every day, all she could do was to watch the clock on
the wall, wishing for her father to arrive, or to think about the tree and
the garden, wishing to be there; it was her only way to freedom, even if
it was just in her imagination. C was also one of her classmate friends
when she was a child, whom she envied immensely because she was so
free and could do anything she wanted after school.
I said that C was like a seriously ill part of herself, and she felt she
could trust no one, that everybody—like the couple who snatched old
patients’ possessions—were for themselves, and did not really care for
her, like me, because I was going away next week regardless of how
she felt. It seemed that her present illness had trapped her in a way that
made her feel confused, not knowing if she was dealing with the real
threat of her cancer or emotionally remembering feeling trapped by her
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Conclusion
For as many as ten or eleven years, Emilia was trapped daily and tor-
tured by her mother’s pitiless need to pour into her innocent mind the
toxic waste she needed to excrete. Nobody came to her rescue, not even
her blind and useless father, or her little friends whom she heard with
great envy, playing and singing outside while she waited inside for
her torment to end. There was the embarrassment of having to excuse
herself from engaging after school hours in any mutual play because
she knew her mother was waiting to prey on her. The only outlet she
learned with practice through the years was to dissociate herself, leav-
ing her body behind and wandering in her mind to what later became
her “secret garden”. She became so good at such strategies that during
her first wedding, when she felt trapped and was torturing herself with
having second thoughts, she saw herself sitting at a bistro across the
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* Read at the Canadian 35th Annual Congress of Psychoanalysis, Quebec, June 2009 and at
the English branch of the Psychoanalytic Society, Montreal, March, 2010.
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Introduction
Cain was the older son who dedicated himself to cultivating the land,
while Abel looked after the flock of sheep. The Lord, suspiciously tainted
with human unfairness, privileged Abel’s offerings over those of Cain,
inducing jealousy and envy which eventually led to murder. If we know
something about sibling rivalry, we can conjecture that the envy, which
was already there from the very beginning, from the older Cain toward
the younger Abel, had set up a predisposition that exploded under the
effect of the Lord’s inequitable way of dealing with each of them. God
then set a punishment that Cain considered too unforgiving and Cain
feared to be recognised and put to death. The Lord responded by set-
ting a “protective” mark that would allow others to recognise Cain so
as not to harm him.
We could interpret “Cain’s mark” as the precise configuration made
on the structure of the Oedipus complex by the phenomenology of the
pre-conceptual trauma experienced by each individual. Early traumas
leave a “mark”, a “selected fact”1 that organises the personality and
determines significant aspects of the idiosyncrasy and identity of all
human beings. Not just the presence of any “crossroad” for the kill-
ing of the father and any “mother’s bed” for the consummation of
incest; but the unmistakable narrative of a precise “crossroad” and a
specific “mother’s bed”, registered in the history of each of us. There
are always the same characters in the Oedipus complex; however, the
narrative about how the interactions between these characters evolve
in the myth, is absolutely particular to each individual, to the point that
the cruelty exercised by the superego against the ego, is always directly
proportional to the cruelty present in the pre-conceptual trauma. These
traumas represent significant aspects of our idiosyncrasy, structured
following early incidents that have been bound in constant conjunc-
tion2 that pursue no other purpose than to repeat the status quo; they
are experiences inflicted by chance and repeated by compulsion.
According to Bion (1974a) any myth can be represented by the
formula K(ξ), where K stands for a constant that is conscious and
saturated—like the presence of the characters in the Oedipus myth,
who are always the same—and ξ characterises what is variable, what is
private, unsaturated and unconscious (p. 23). It means, in other words,
that the Oedipus complex, having always the same characters, evolves
in a unique manner according to each person.
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to analysis. If he were to give this up, what would he then do with his
life? On the other hand, to abandon the analysis would leave him in
danger of a terrible outcome of the continuous painful experience of
his original trauma. Pre-conceptual traumas can also be conceived as
nonlinear forms of equilibrium that maintain an internal stability in a
manner similar to Thom’s concept of “catastrophe theory” (Poston &
Stewart, 1998). Changes in certain parameters in the system can cause
equilibrium to modify, leading to sudden modification of the behaviour
of the system in the form of a catastrophic change.5
Bion (1967) alerted us to the danger of attempting to change such
resistances at any price. He advised that the therapist should be very
careful when interacting with his patients, so as not to display the dan-
gerous combination of “arrogance, curiosity, and stupidity”, something
akin to “not seeing the forest for the trees”. “Arrogance” in the sense of
not being aware of the patient’s true place and position, nor the qual-
ity of the transference, but rather to relentlessly pursue the therapist’s
intention, without considering the consequences. “Curiosity” refers to
privileging epistemophilic impulses instead of taking into account the
patient’s resistance to find her truth. Finally, “stupidity”, because to
practise both arrogance and curiosity at once and indiscriminately in
the sense previously stated, is absolutely stupid. Sometimes the ana-
lyst’s rigid attitude of maintaining the frame at any cost, regardless of
the patient’s need to exercise communication through incisive projec-
tive identifications, can represent an intolerant and arrogant attitude
towards the patient’s needs that has turned into a stupidity. It reminds
me of an expression I heard while in training: “My interpretation was
correct, but the patient didn’t come anymore!”
Freud borrowed his concept of the “id” (Ich) from Groddeck, a German
doctor who showed an interest in psychoanalysis. According to Bos
(1992), when Groddeck coined the term “It”, he meant to designate the
unidentifiable forces in the human body that apparently determine our
behaviour; it was, according to him,
But the greater thing—which you don’t want to believe in—is your
body and its great intelligence: it does not say I, but does I. (p. 30)
Seen from the perspective of a “life that lives us, instead of feeling
that we live our life”, or a “body that does not say I, but does I”, such
description reminds us of the concept of “Tao” as described in orien-
tal philosophy.6 Freud, however, followed the more precise and scien-
tific model of “drives” and “instincts”, perhaps under the influence of
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On tropism
There is a difference in how the mind, dominated either by the trau-
matised or the non-traumatised states, interacts with reality. The non-
traumatised is capable of being aware of reality independence and
limitations, while the traumatised intends continuously to reproduce
the original traumatic situation, as if driven by an established script,
like a moth in search of the light.
In an undated quote found in his book Cogitations (1992, p. 34), Bion
referred to “tropisms” as powerful forms of communication or pro-
jective identifications that require an object (a breast, or the analyst)
capable of containing them. He said:
—López-Corvo
—Wilfred Bion,
A Memoir of the Future
As far as I know, Bion did not pursue further the notion implicit in
this statement, in order to declare “traumas” as the centre in any form
of psychopathology. Grotstein (2007), however, has stated that if Bion
were “alive today, he would no doubt” see the relevance of traumatic
disorders (p. 154), instead of leaving it implicit, as pre-conceptions in
search of a mind to contain them. Similar to Winnicott’s model of the
“good enough mother”, Bion (1962, 1974) refers to the intuitive or rev-
erie capacity of the mother to contain her child’s language of action.
Bion associates the reverie only with feelings of love and hate from
the child, and believes it to be a factor of the mother’s alpha function,
which permits a total reception of any projective identification com-
ing from the baby regardless of it being felt as a good or bad object
(López-Corvo, 2003). There are, however, some brutal pre-conceptual
traumas, which, due to the violence involved, make it absolutely
impossible for any mother to metabolise and contain the immensity
of the event in order to prevent a temporary occurrence changing into
a permanent one. In other words, instead of the mother being able
to contain the violence, the violence will contain the mother as well
as the child, like a kind of “hyper-container” (Ferro, 2009). Following
the existing literature on trauma, we could theoretically regard two
extreme forms of trauma: a) the “hyper-container” that due to its mag-
nitude will always exceed any ego’s capacity to tolerate frustration;
b) the kind of trauma we could associate with Khan’s (1963) notion of
“cumulative trauma”, which is obviously related to frustration intol-
erance or failure of the maternal reverie. The first form of trauma is
considered by descriptive psychology as the true trauma capable of
inducing “post traumatic stress disorder” (PTSD); the second form is
seldom cogitated.
I find what Freud stated in 1920 very useful to understand what I am
now expressing:
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Even more, because of the particular nature of these traumas, the child
will always sense that his parents were important accomplices in their
“implementation”,1 inducing a sense of “absolute void”, which I con-
sider the core of all traumas, meaning powerful feelings of terror, hope-
lessness, and, as Freud (1926) stated, of total “helplessness”:
Obviously caught in his time and culture, Freud was unable to reach
a comfortable position from which to perceive the discrimination
between outside events considered as real and traumatic and inner
oedipal pressures considered neurotic. The weight of Victorian
repressed sexuality at that time was far too imposing. Similar to what
happened with concepts such as the “death instinct” or “secondary
narcissism”, we were left as orphans struggling to make some sense
and to find a more reasonable understanding of trauma. Freud’s ini-
tial “seduction theory”, gathered from observations made on patients
at the end of the 1800s, was built on the belief that all neuroses were
the consequence of paternal sexual abuse. This supposition did not
last long, as Freud soon started to observe that his generalisation
was defective. After discovering the relevance of childhood sexuality
at the beginning of 1900, Freud turned 360 degrees, giving up com-
pletely the importance of external seduction and concentrating totally
on inner sources of anxiety linked to instinctive sexual desires related
to the Oedipus complex. It was not until 1918, at the end of World
War I, that aggression and traumatic neurosis appeared and the ques-
tion of nature and nurture emerged again. Nonetheless, the confu-
sion remained. In 1926, in “Inhibition, symptoms and anxiety”, Freud
stated that,
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Any attempt to say how things really are, or what objectively exists,
requires a set of concepts (or terms, or symbols); and these concepts
are not dictated unequivocally by “the facts.” Indeed, to refer to
“the facts” or “the given” as if it were obvious just what is given
to us as fact is to disregard how the idiosyncrasies of human sen-
sation, perceptions, and cognition select and shape “the facts.” …
Can we assert that logic and mathematics, at least, are independent
of human conceptualization, eternally subsistent in their crystalline
purity? (p. xxii)
Pre-conceptions
Bion hyphenated the word with the purpose of stressing that he was
referring to something that precedes a “conception”, analogous to
Kant’s notion of “empty thoughts”, or
Bion did not expand on this idea as related to drive and impulses, but
we can intuit from these statements that his approach was in some ways
Protagorian, because drives in humans do not operate in a void totally
divorced from the mind and the particular historical events that have
conjoined them. We never deal with naked instincts, as might perhaps
happen with animals, but with specific “object relations” individu-
ally conjoined and stored in our memories, on the wait for a mind—or
alpha function—capable of containing and deciphering them. “Oedipal
desires” and “outside traumas” can never be differentiated one from
the other, as Freud led us to believe. They are always diachronically
intermingled and stored as “pre-conceptions” in search of a realisation.
They have been established by “chance”, according to a particular syn-
chronicity, and, subsequently, “compulsively” repeated, reminding us
of Jacques Monod’s (1971) well known expression of “chance and neces-
sity”. With this statement I am implying not only, as Freud once stated,
that the Oedipus complex remains at the centre of all psychopathology,
but also, that all possible forms of existing psychopathology we deal
with in the consulting room are always the immediate consequence of
childhood traumas.
Pre-conceptual traumas represent a state of continuous expecta-
tion in search of a realisation—like a moth in search of a light—that act
as a selected fact capable of organising and providing meaning to an
individual’s life (the mark of Cain). They are similar to Plato’s ideas of
Form, representing the idea of “something” that exists independently,
like a noumenon that will acquire the status of phenomenon—within
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i. The ego reacts in the first place, by minutely splitting the trauma
and continuously projecting it everywhere and in all directions.
Perhaps a clinical example could add clarity to this mechanism.
An adolescent patient who was raised by very rigid and religious
parents and who was starting to rebel against their sometimes
unfair authority, brought the following dream: His dog was hungry
and he was trying to find food. He opened the kitchen cabinets and all that
he could see were alligators and salamanders, and when he opened the
refrigerator it was full of alligators too. Finally he found the dog food and
then realised that even there, inside the dog’s bowl, were tiny alligators.
In his associations he explained that during the past weekend he
had broken up with his girlfriend because there was the feeling
that, since she belonged to a different religion, his parents were not
going to approve of the relationship; however, he did not feel happy
about breaking up. He also remembered that the previous year he
had gone with his family to visit Miami’s Everglades, where they
saw many alligators. It was there, for the first time, that he had a
heated argument with his parents, accusing them over and over
of being too rigid and manipulative. I thought he was ambivalent
about coming to therapy because he could have been feeling that
therapy was inducing him to protest against his parents, which
made him feel guilty. I said that it seemed he felt trapped because
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he could not find a neutral ground, like the right food to feed the
dog, feeling angry if he complied or guilty if he rebelled, that he
had split this “primitive” mechanism and projected it everywhere,
like the alligators in his dream.
Plato thought that “things”, as we call them, and people are really
a kind of precipitation of the “Forms” … [Or] the “noumena”, were
not understandable. Plato seemed to think that the Socratic Greeks
might at least understand the parable of the cave. But between then
and now many hundreds of people have tried, oh, “ever so hard”,
to understand what it means. (1991, p. 47)
If we believe that Plato had really attempted, 2400 years ago, to provide
an understanding of how pre-conceptual traumas are capable of exer-
cising an unconscious control and containment of any thinking mind,
it could be argued, that perhaps he—or Socrates—had provided the
first meaningful intuitive achievement yet to be accomplished by any
human mind. In Book VII of The Republic Plato says the following:
den, which has a mouth, open towards the light [reality] … here,
they have been from their childhood and have their legs and necks
chained so that they cannot move … and they are strange prison-
ers. Like ourselves [everybody], I replied; and they see only their
own shadows, or the shadows of one another … To them, I said, the
truth would be literally nothing but the shadows of the images.
ii. There will be also a projection of the mind that contains these
split particles. For instance, in what are now referred to as
“panic attacks”, the fear is not so much about some “terrorising
element” that has been projected, but about the void left in the
psyche by the part of the mind that has also been projected and
which could have been capable of containing the “terrorising
element”. In other words, the part of the mind absolutely
necessary to contain the projected “terrorising element”, once
it is introjected, is missing—a condition responsible for the
prognosis or capacity to change from a pathological to a less
conflictive form of paranoid-schizoid dynamics. In other words,
the lack of discrimination between reality and projection, as a
consequence of a failure in the conscious form of alpha function,
will induce a form of psychotic confusion similar to what Plato
described in his “Allegory of the Cave”, as I have just stated;
in simple terms, it will be like saying that very often “a cigar
is not a cigar”. A psychotherapist in his third year of analysis
was rather keen and productive about investigating his own
patients, but when we touched a hard issue concerning his own
difficulties he would usually remain silent or answer in a rather
childish manner: “I don’t know”, as if there was a mind ready
to investigate the others, but there was none to explore himself.
By saying “I don’t know”, he was expecting me to use my mind.
This results in three complications: a) there is no mind, or alpha
function, to contain the pre-conceptual beta elements structuring
the trauma; b) the patient turns to the analyst’s mind, but fears
such dependency; and c) there is a terror about the re-introjection
of what has been projected, something Bion has referred to as
“projective identification in reverse”:
The second boy was so ill that he required his mother’s continuous
attention, a condition that resulted in constant and severe neglect
towards my patient. Obviously, because he was unable to evoke these
extremely painful repudiated emotions, he could not remember them
and was not able to associate his present girlfriend’s desertion with his
mother’s serious neglect.
I very much agree with this statement, and I think that the trauma
becomes a selected fact that influences the personality, something I
consider in the next chapter as the “Cain complex”. My only differ-
ence hinges on my belief that such mechanisms are universal and
take place in all human minds, because all forms of existing psycho-
pathology are always traumatic in nature. Others, such as Meltzer
(1978) and Grotstein (2007), have also attempted to provide a mean-
ing to the obscurity of the concept of trauma never totally elucidated
by Bion.
Another aspect I deem decisive for the possibility of the trauma-
tised state shifting to the non-traumatised one, is the modification of
communication between inner part objects; the change from negative
links used in the traumatised state to positive ones present in the non-
traumatised state. I consider this dynamic in detail in Chapter Eight.
CHAPTER FOUR
—R. Hisda
Babylonian Talmud:
Tractate Berakoth 55a
3rd century BC
* Read at the Canadian 34th Annual Congress of Psychoanalysis, Vancouver, June 2008.
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What I would like now to stress is that the main function of the uncon-
scious is not to provide, as classical psychoanalysis established, a sat-
isfaction of repressed impulses, nor to repeat early repressed object
relations, but to purposely and continuously point out the lies that
consciousness uses in order to deal with frustration intolerance (Bion,
1992, p. 54). In other words, the unconscious is an organ that constantly
secretes truth, but, at the same time, is blind and completely dispas-
sionate about what that truth might mean to the individual. Perceiving
the unconscious in this light, emphasises its more gracious, positive,
and valuable nature. The main defence is from the resistance of a pre-
conscious structured as a “beta screen” that can refuse to know by
repudiating the unconscious message. The emphasis then, as we shall
see further on, is placed more on the dynamic structure of the precon-
scious than on the true intention of the unconscious of always reveal-
ing the individual’s truth, an intention that at all times remains the
same. The fear humans have of the unconscious is an expression of
fear about the violence often implicit in their own specific truth of the
repressed.
The existing interaction between the preconscious and the uncon-
scious is a container–contained relationship, similar to the one observed
between the baby and the breast or the psychoanalyst and his analysand.
In other words, it represents the interaction between a pre-conception
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the following dream: He was at a party sitting with a young and beautiful
woman whom he was trying to seduce. Suddenly she stood up and left and he
could see how she moved away, greeting everybody as if she was very popu-
lar. He decided to follow her and approached her again but she answered with
certain disdain, as if she was not interested, and he thought that perhaps he
was too old for her to be interested. She walked towards the entrance and left,
while he went back and sat again where he was previously, and then thought
that if he was inventing his own dream, how come he was not able to pro-
duce a nice young woman capable of having a warm sexual encounter? In his
associations, he elaborated his concern about getting old, not being as
attractive as he felt he had been not long before. Then he said that his
unconscious had a mind of its own and an already established agenda:
“It might have been very nice to have a sexual experience with an attrac-
tive young woman”, he added. “However,” he continued, “the truth
about my main concern at this moment is not so much about having an
affair, but about mourning the loss of my youth, and this is exactly what
the unconscious has pointed out.” And I added, “The truth, more than
satisfaction of a wish”.
Sometime later, he referred to symptoms related to prostatic enlarge-
ment that had surfaced after driving for a long distance during his
holidays. He also expressed concern about possible side-effects from
medication prescribed by his doctor to treat this ailment. In successive
sessions we investigated his prostate concern through material related
to childhood sexuality, how a nanny sexually manipulated him when
he was around seven years old, as well as his parents’ divorce when he
was nine. We concluded that an unconscious element in him was now
attempting in his phantasies to “control” his “mother-nanny” with his
penis, similar to how he felt he had as a child and in his youth. Perhaps
feeling now old and unattractive was unconsciously reproducing emo-
tions similar to those experienced by him as a child at the time of his
separation from his mother, and in his youth when he was still endeav-
ouring to find her in his desire for younger women. He wondered if
perhaps this continuous search for this sexualised “mother-nanny”
multiplied everywhere, as well as if his difficulty to mourn the “van-
ishing of his youth” was related to his prostate enlargement. Maybe
unresolved oedipal pretensions, if still existing at an older age, could
have represented a menace to the species and to nature’s laws due to
the danger of a faulty procreation.3 At the next session, he brought the
following dream: He was in bed and was holding tight with his legs the legs
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Programmed dreams
In 1911 Freud, referring to “dream interpretation”, specified a certain
kind of dream he designated as “programmed dreams”, which were
capable of portraying
A clinical illustration
Ingrid, a forty-two-year-old married mother of three, was referred by
a psychiatrist who treated her “on and off” for around two years, but
who felt now unable to continue seeing her due to a difficult turn in
her marital situation, and also because the psychiatrist’s relationship
to the patient had become more “friendly than therapeutic”. During
his telephone referral, the psychiatrist stated that he had tried without
results to make her aware of the “immoral and dangerous situation she
had placed herself in”, in which she listens but always ends up doing
whatever she wants. The referring psychiatrist felt that perhaps I might
be able to confront her “more strongly”.
Ingrid is a rather intelligent, sensuous, attractive-looking woman,
who often wears suggestive miniskirts and behaves in some ways
younger than her stated age. Her presenting problem at the start of our
first session was that she wanted to divorce “A”, whom she married
over twenty-four years ago, because she was no longer in love with him.
She also claimed to be deeply in love with “B”, the all-time best friend
and business partner of A. B was married to their friend “C” and was
father of two children. Ingrid married A when she was eighteen and
“never had another man”. Her husband, she stated, has always abused
her, treated her with contempt as if she was stupid, and for several
months now they have not been sleeping together. She had never con-
sidered divorce before, because she did not want to upset her mother-
in-law, who was very much like a mother to her, but she has now been
deceased for two years. “My husband is very sorry about what has hap-
pened, and has also started therapy trying to change himself because he
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wants to win me back again. I feel sorry for the man; he seems to bend
over backwards, sending me flowers, and offering me anything I want.
He just bought me a new car”.
Ingrid is the youngest of four siblings and there is more than a twenty
year difference between her and her oldest sister, who together with her
older brother acted more like her true parents, because her real ones, due
to the significant age disparity, were rather distant and unconcerned.
The two families, hers and B’s, immigrated to Venezuela from the south
of Spain about fifteen years previously. “We came with little money but
have made a fortune here”. She is a jewellery designer, has exhibited
some of her work and even won a prize, although she was not certain
her work was of great value. Speaking of B, her lover, she said, “He
is very jealous and very religious”. Then with a smile she added, “He
accuses me of being too liberal, that I am always surrounded by men
and that I dress too sexy, showing everything. But I am completely in
love with him; I think he is my soul mate and loves me unconditionally.
His wife, C, suspects something but she doesn’t really know. She called
my husband and told him she thought there was something going on
between me and B, but my husband didn’t believe her”.
At the next session, Ingrid asked if I could give her some guidance
about what she should do. I said it would be unfair to give her advice
because she knew more than I did about her situation, but that I thought
an important issue seemed to be that she felt divided in two correlating
desires, the need to idealise her relationship with B, while at the same
time there was also the need to degrade her marriage. One part felt in
love with B and the other wished to go ahead and get a divorce regard-
less of the consequences to A, her children, C, and her own children.
I wonder if her wish for a divorce was unconsciously related to anger
and a desire for revenge against her distant and neglectful father. The
danger, it seemed to me, was not so much that she would have then to
face the consequences of a divorce, but that in taking such a decision,
she could be repeating again what she did at eighteen when she mar-
ried her husband. In other words, once more she could be taking an
important decision because a man (A previously, and B now) was offer-
ing to collude with her, against the memory of her neglectful father,
only this time the projection of the neglectful father was falling on A.
Now she was willing to risk everything because she felt that another
man was again offering her the unconditional love she felt her parents
did not provide her with.
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key and started to drive like a mad man. She told him to be careful that the car
had a flat tyre. In the second dream, her youngest daughter was in a hospital
and a nurse was administering her medicine using some mechanism attached
to the child’s forehead, as if there was a lesion on her head. The nurse was
monitoring the amount of medicine with a machine and the child shivered and
jumped as if the amount of medicine released was too high. Of the last dream,
she said that her youngest child was perhaps left out, because her age
difference with the other two was too great. The oldest is a girl, and she
was like her right hand, the second is a boy and completely spoiled,
but the youngest is a bit like she was as a child, left aside and ignored.
“She is also rebellious, like I was”. Of the medicine, she said that B was
Jewish and a believer. The day before he was referring to some “funny
thing” Jews tied around their arms and their forehead and she felt this
was ridiculous and stupid: “What can such a stupid device do for you?”
I said that perhaps she felt I am administering her overdoses of stupid-
ity in what I am saying. She disagreed. Then I said that another pos-
sibility could be that perhaps the nurse and the child represented inner
aspects of herself, as if she was saying to herself that a “nurse part”
inside of her was administering to a child part, also inside herself, over-
doses of stupidity she has learned from B. She listened but said nothing.
After a silence, she said about the first dream that her husband was
trying to win her back, and had given her a $70,000 car as a present.
She said, “A new car is like a new man”. The black man reminded her
of a holiday in Florida several years ago, at a time when there were a
number of news stories about several women being murdered. She was
coming back to her hotel by herself through a lonely parking lot when
she spotted a black man hiding behind some cars. She felt really scared
and started to run very quickly towards the hotel. She felt she was in
real danger at that moment, and it was perhaps the most threatening
experience she had ever endured. I said that perhaps a part of her felt
that B, “her new man”, was a real threat, so important that she felt he
was similar to the threat she experienced in Florida; or perhaps, since
the car was a present from A, the black man driving the car could have
also represented what she felt she was doing to her marriage, which
already had a flat tyre. She rejected the interpretations and asked again
if that was the only interpretation that such a dream could have. I asked
if she could think of something else the dream might have represented.
“Why should the car represent A or B?” she questioned. I said, “I agree,
but that is what you just said”. I then said that it seemed as if there
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were two different parts of her, one that dreamed and another that was
awake, which did not like what she dreamed about. It also appeared as
if there was not much communication between them, as if the awaking
part of her did not seem to like what the dreaming part had to offer.
At the next session, she brought another dream: She was somewhere in
the midst of a children’s party. There was a beautiful “piñata”, nicely decorated.
There was also a man, a close friend, who then introduced a knife through the
back of the “piñata” that then became alive and changed into a dog that was
going to be used in some experiments to be dissected and cut into pieces. The
man in the dream was a very good friend whom her children found
very amusing and liked very much because he performed all sorts of
magic tricks: “The other day they all went to eat at a Chinese restaurant
and there was a fountain that contained colourful fish and my friend
took a piece of carrot in his hand and placed the hand inside the foun-
tain making believe he had caught a fish. He then put it in his mouth
and was making believe he was eating one of the fish, and the children
were looking at him astonished and with eyes wide open. Another time
he had a barbecue at his house and was roasting a lamb and he said to
the children that it was a dog.” I said to her that perhaps a part of her
wished for me to be like this friend, like a magician at a children’s party,
to change serious matters from reality into simple jokes, and to be able
to rescue her from the serious predicaments she was dealing with now.
In other words, she wanted me to prevent a happy (nicely elaborated)
piñata party for the children (marriage) from turning into the horrible
slaughtering of a poor dog (divorce).
In the next session, she said she was awaiting the upcoming religious
confirmation of her youngest daughter and explained that some of her
relatives from Florida and France would be coming. Once this was over,
she would ask her husband for a separation and would wait for a year
before she moved in with B. She remembered a dream: She was going to
see B and parked her car around the corner, and then went to fetch an antique
pram that B had given her. She could see through the houses as if they were
made of glass. She is able to look inside his house and see how he was coming
down the stairs holding hands with his wife, C, something that made her feel
very jealous. She associated the baby carriage with small children, when
they look vulnerable and defenceless. “If there is a wounded person or
an animal like a dog”, she stated, “I feel more impelled to assist the dog
than the person, because a person will always have more people will-
ing to help. People can always speak if something hurts them, but dogs
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are never asked and are treated as if they weren’t experiencing pain.”
I said that perhaps she places a child part of herself into the defenceless-
ness of dogs or helplessness of babies and that she might have experi-
enced something similar long ago and that for this reason, the carriage
is antique—it’s old. I wonder if in some way her relationships with
men could carry something similar, that someone could take care of her
unconditionally.
Discussion
For Bion, the main purpose of dreams is to avoid “frustration intoler-
ance” produced by the facts of reality. In this same direction, the main
purpose of “dream-work” for Bion will not be determined by the need
to deceive a censorship but to evade frustration; and the raison d’être of
dream-thoughts, as well, would be to modify the reason of frustration.
I believe that an essential source of frustration results from the conjoint
of actual facts presented by reality, which I refer to as “conceptual trau-
mas”, and emotions related to early pre-conceptual traumas that are
automatically triggered by the actual facts. It is a form of interaction
similar to Freud’s notion of “deferred action”, which I will be discuss-
ing in Chapter Six, and which I have described in detail as “trauma
entanglement” in Chapter One.
Bion (1992, p. 45) stated that, “contact with reality is not dependent
on dream-work”, however, the accessibility to the individual “of the
material derived from this contact is dependent on dream-work” (1959).
Dreams represent stored memories of external and internal undigested
facts or stranded thoughts expelled in the form of ideograms that could
either disappear or find an alpha function capable of unconsciously
metabolising them into material for thinking. “A dream which is not
interpreted is like a letter which is not read”, stated Raby Hisda in the
Babylonian Talmud, around seventeen hundred years ago.
Bion (1992, p. 49) presented another theory about dreaming, although
as far as I know he never pursued it further. In a note written at the
same time as the above statements, he associated the pictorial manifes-
tation of dreams with visual hallucinations, conjecturing how a given
stimuli, such as a tactile experience, for instance, is changed into an
image. He interpreted this mechanism as a kind of “synthesising func-
tion” or “linking one sense to another” that would be carried out by the
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Ingrid, the patient I just referred to, was a new patient presenting a
behaviour problem of considerable emotional implication as well as
of significant and lasting consequences for her and the two families
involved. My interest at this moment was not so much with the psy-
choanalytic process but with the physiology of the unconscious, with
the enormous contrast between the conscious disposition and persistent
denial on one hand, and the unconscious repetitive revelations, through
the dreams, about the true nature of the conflict, on the other. The expe-
rience represented the work of six sessions, face to face, in a span of two
weeks. The dreams appear clear in what they seem to portray and yet I
did not find then, and do not find now, a different way to interpret the
symbolism involved, as the patient often requested.
CHAPTER FIVE
Transformation of pre-conceptual
traumas: heteromorphic or
homeomorphic symbolisations
All forms are similar, and none is like the others. So that their chorus
points the way to a hidden law.
—Goethe1
Introduction
I remember as a child reading a story about a closed door standing in
the middle of a field. If walked around, it was an ordinary closed door
with nothing attached to it, but if opened and its threshold crossed, one
entered a completely different and unknown world. This door is a good
metaphor for what the aptitude to symbolise has bestowed on human
beings; this is why Langer referred to symbolism as a “new key” to
philosophy:
Its cleavages cut across the old lines, and suddenly bring out new
motifs that were not felt to be implicit in the premises of the schools
at all; for it changes the questions of philosophy. (Langer, 1942, Preface,
original italics)
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i) Public and
conscious
a) Primitive form ii) Private and
A) Discontinuous or of communication unconscious
heteromorphic
b) As a defence against
Includes ‘+links’:
narcissistic fusion
(+K, +L, +H).
Found in the
non-traumatised
state of the
SYMBOLISM personality
their mind, in the meaning; therefore even if the person is not present,
he or she still exists. Money as we know it at the present time—coins,
paper, plastic money, and so on—represents a symbolical account for
labour; however, there is enough trust for us to accept it without any
hesitation in spite of the absence of its equivalence in gold. In other
words, the internal representation or meaning of a loved object, the pro-
gressive change from symbol to sign in language, the transformation
from coinage to paper and plastic money—or changes from hieroglyph-
ics to demotic language—all carry within them a progressive disaffec-
tion from the trap exercised by the weight of the original object. Moving
away from the object is made possible by a “natural” call or drive to
achieve higher degrees of freedom, something that eventually will
induce mental growth and progress.
we infer one from the other not by reason, but from the particular
experience that surrounded them … It seems as if there is noth-
ing logical to explain their relationship which bears more towards
a causality of cause-effect relation where both were linked by
experience, by accident and remain associated. (López-Corvo,
2003, pp. 67–68)
symbol where the psychotic patient confuses the violin with the penis.
Segal (ibid.) said:
The symbolic equation between the original object and the symbol
in the internal and the external world is, I think, the basis of the
schizophrenic’s concrete thinking where substitutes for the origi-
nal objects, or parts of the self, can be used quite freely, but, as in
the … examples of schizophrenic patients which I quoted, they are
hardly different from the original object: they are felt and treated as
though they were identical with it.
She continued:
What to listen to
A session is a narrative that follows a process of transformation (Bion,
1965), from a beginning we could refer to as Sa, to an end or Sb. Between
these two extremes there are at least two discourses taking place at
the same time: there is a conscious, cognitive, and manifest narrative
using signs that usually refer to what appears to be real facts; however,
this kind of narrative is as a rule full of misleading lies or resistances
propped up by the fear of castration (annihilation, exclusion), in an
attempt to conceal what the other discourse might attempt to reveal. It
is a narrative that uses discontinuous or heteromorphic forms of sym-
bolisation and should be dreamed by the analyst’s unconscious alpha
function or reverie in order to intuit its meaning and be “caught by
‘O’”.12 It represents what Ferro (2009a), following Bion, referred to as
“transformation in dream”.13
Some clinical vignettes will be useful. Sharon started her session by
saying that the day before, after leaving the session, she had gone to see
two houses that were for sale nearby, but were far too expensive and
the school was on the other side of the main street, which would make
it too dangerous for her child to cross. After a long pause, she contin-
ued talking about a subject that appeared to differ from the previous
material. She referred to a discussion she had had with her husband
concerning money, where he complained she was spending too much
money and not making enough. Up to this point I was wondering if she
was just referring to real concerns about the price of houses around the
area where I lived and about the inconvenience of the school location,
or if, behind this manifest narrative, she was referring to something
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brings to mind a woman I treated who was the older of two girls and
who was sexually abused by an uncle as a young child. She manifested,
in analysis, bitter feelings against her father whom she often strongly
debased, while at the same time she praised her mother, proclaim-
ing she was his victim, and idealised other men including a teacher
for whom she felt great fondness. She married a man towards whom
she felt very ambivalent, because while she felt she loved him, she
also degraded him and often spoke of her disappointment about her
marriage. After ten years of marriage she had not been able to become
pregnant and now felt that she was not very interested. I found some
contradictions listening to her conscious discourse, because if her feel-
ings about her father were so disgusting and she idealised her mother,
why would she prefer a man instead of a woman as a sexual partner?
I felt perhaps there were some issues not yet clear that could explain her
heterosexual object choice. At one point in the analysis she brought a
dream: Andy, a sweetheart from her adolescence she felt very attracted to, was
coming to the city to visit but told her he was now married and could not get
sexually involved with her. In reality this was not the case, because he was
divorced and single at that moment. I said that if she was really inter-
ested in him why would she create a dream where she made him mar-
ried; perhaps she was talking about someone else she had disguised as
Andy and who is or was married. She immediately said, “You mean,
my father?” “Perhaps”, I answer. Such revelation suggested that her
father was not the diminished figure she had often proclaimed he was,
if after all he was still present in the hub of her desire. I believe that the
sexual molestation inflicted by her relative induced in her an increment
to her oedipal desires of being sexually penetrated by her father, mean-
ing that if her relative was capable of getting sexually interested in her
why not her father? Feeling left out and excluded by her father, who she
felt preferred her younger sister, induced in her a narcissistic rage and a
need to split her father’s image into a “bad-persecutory” and a “good-
idealised” element and to use this mechanism in order to negotiate a
positive (heterosexual) oedipal transaction where she could get mar-
ried without becoming pregnant. It was this splitting that allowed her
in some way to break away from the oedipal father and to be able to
find a male partner. It was as if some aspects of her Oedipus complex
were resolved using a discontinuous form of symbolisation and she
was able to find a man “like her father who was not her father”. How-
ever, not being able at the same time to free herself from her childhood
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“And ever since that,” the Hatter went on in a mournful tone, “he
won’t do a thing I ask! It’s always six o’clock now!”
—Lewis Carroll
Alice’s Adventures in Wonderland, Chapter VII
Introduction
Time and space are different when considered either in the
“traumatised” or in the “non-traumatised” part of the personality,
although they are always running simultaneously parallel to each
other. When the child’s rudimentary ego fails to contain a temporary
loss due to low frustration tolerance that loss can become a traumatic
or a permanent fact. This means that time changes from a linear and dia-
chronic succession of different facts—as existing in the non-traumatised
part—to a circular synchronic repetition of the same, as observed in the
traumatised domain. Bion (1965) said:
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Deferred action
Freud never produced a particular theory about “deferred action” and
only alluded to Nachträglichkeit as a substantive, meaning “what is
postponed”, like a sort of “afterwardness”. As stated by Laplanche and
Pontalis (1967), he used the word very often just as a term and never
as a theory. According to these authors, Lacan (1953) was the first to
draw attention to the notion and created the term après coup in order
to provide corporeity to the idea. In other languages, however, such
as Spanish, Italian, or Portuguese, there is not a precise expression by
which to refer to it, apart from common words such as “posterior” or
“posteriority”, which are so saturated with meanings that they result in
absolute meaninglessness.
Laplanche and Pontalis (ibid.) had this to say about the concept:
In actuality Freud had pointed out from the beginning that the sub-
ject revises past events at a later date (nachträglich), and that it is
this revision which invests them with significance and even with
efficacy or pathogenic force … It is not lived experience in general
that undergoes a deferred revision but, specifically, whatever it
has been impossible in the first instance to incorporate fully into
a meaningful context. The traumatic event is the epitome of such unas-
similated experience. (ibid., p. 112, my italics)
Originally Freud (1895) used the notion of deferred action in the case of
children who were sexual abused (pre-conceptual trauma); an experi-
ence that remained repressed, like an emotional tsunami, and became
symptomatic later on, during adolescence, usually producing a “delay
in puberty”. Another reference Freud made about Nachträglich was in
relation to the case of the “Wolf Man”, where he established a connec-
tion between the primary scene, which according to him took place
around the age of four, and the dream about the wolves when the Wolf
Man was an adult.
Faimberg (2005) has made very important contributions to the con-
cept. She points to other similar ideas such as Winnicott’s (1974) “fear of
breakdown”, something Winnicott described in relation to patients who
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anal sphincter. She was very angry with her mother-in-law after she
felt unfairly accused by her, as well as her uncle because he had not
sided with her. Whenever she thought about either of them, she would
tighten her sphincter: “it is automatic”.
Noreen had been placed for several months with a family who were
unknown to her when she was around three years of age. This pre-
conceptual trauma left important emotional scars that were visible in
the transference-countertransference interaction. She presented a sort
of “as if” personality, always ready to comply and feeling lost in the
other person’s desire. Very often, she handled interpretations as if they
were something absolutely alien to her and provided no response, nei-
ther agreeing nor disagreeing. Frequently, at the next session, she might
refer to that particular interpretation but remain totally uncommitted,
as if it was only my own affair. She might ask a question, for instance:
“Doctor. Yesterday you said ‘this’ and ‘that’, did you means ‘this or
that’?” And I might answer, “Well, I meant ‘that’, what do you think?”
“Oh, nothing, I just wanted to be sure”. I had the feeling she was contin-
uously depriving herself of any right to say anything, always remaining
uncompromised, as if she was still feeling threatened and paralysed
with terror, perpetually living in her mind at the strangers’ house where
she was placed as a child. I pictured her as a little girl, crying profusely
and holding tight to herself her belongings, perhaps a doll.
Around a year after she had been placed, her mother came to fetch
her. I suggested that perhaps her need to please and to comply was
connected to that time, specifically, when she went back to live with
her mother; but it was not clear why she had been given away, if that
could happen again, or why her mother wished to get rid of her in the
first place. I believed she might have been absolutely terrorised at the
threat of being placed again, or even killed. She learned to comply and
to hide her anger in order to survive. The need to comply, her tendency
to tighten her sphincter when she felt resentful, and the asymptomatic
colitis, could have represented her terror about the consequences of
openly expressing her own aggression.
Noreen started a Monday session by saying that she was trying to
recall what I had said the previous Friday, but she could not remember.
She felt some cramps during the weekend that she attributed to her
colitis. I said that perhaps what I had given her was indigestible by
an internal baby that refused to feed from my breast and was daring
to express it by discarding anally what I had fed her previously. Then
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she remembered something she had never spoken about before: around
eight years ago, when she was around forty, she suffered an anaphylac-
tic shock after ingesting food that contained nuts and she almost died;
she could not breathe and was taken to a hospital’s emergency depart-
ment. She noticed that after this incident, she started, for the first time
in her life, to express anger towards her mother, the reason for which
she had not been able to understand. I then said that she had waited
around thirty-seven years to dare express her anger against her mother.
She feared that perhaps I could place her too, but she was still so fright-
ened to express her anger openly that she preferred to use her anus to
silently attack me, instead of doing it aloud with her mouth.
Around a week later, she brought a dream: She was in a room with me,
although it did not look like my office. It was not very nice, was smaller and
of a different colour. I was talking about another patient, saying that she was
foolish. She fell asleep and was awoken by the light from a bulb hanging from
the roof. Then a little dog came into the room and I picked it up and said that
it was very friendly and liked to play with toys. Having said that the room
was not nice, that it was unpleasant, perhaps meant that what took
place in the office was painful, and the comments I made about another
patient could be about her. She associated with the family where she
had been placed as a child as well as my comment that there was in
her an unconscious tendency to project her “placement” everywhere.
I then said that perhaps it was painful for her to wake up. The dog she
associated with an aunt who lives in the United States, who was very
nice to her and who had a dog like the one in her dream. “I don’t like
big dogs because they frighten me, but I do not mind little ones because
those I could frighten”, she said laughingly. I said that perhaps this part
of the dream was related to her attempt to express anger, something
she had not allowed herself to do before. I said the dogs were like two
parts of her, the little frightened one and the angry big one, with the
little one making her feel angry at herself, and the big one making her
feel guilty.
Case two: Mark is a forty-nine-year-old engineer who consulted
because of chronic anxiety. When he was eighteen, he had had a car
accident where he lost most of his scalp, leaving him with a visible scar
and complete baldness. Although these marks were fairly obvious,
he dismissed them as rather inconsequential. For quite some time we
concentrated on childhood recollections and emotions related to early
traumatic experiences, castration anxiety, oedipal conflicts, and so on.
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—Wilfred Bion
A Memoir of the Future (1991, p. 50)
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mental mechanisms that take place when the analyst manages to grasp
the unconscious phantasy present in the manifest content, or when the
patient is capable of achieving an insight.
I believe the superego is the product of successive identifications
resulting from the accumulation of “tyrannical presence of absences”,
while the ego results from the capacity to identify with the good
object. The conscious and non-traumatised state of the mind has to
deal with reality, concrete objects, and realisations, while the trauma-
tised and unconscious state relates to a world of complex absences
or “no-things”. The world of reality requires alpha elements based
on true knowledge and acceptance of that reality or plus knowledge
(+K), while the unconscious chain of events that structure the pre-
conceptual trauma follows a logic based on a kind of pseudo causality
or chain of beta elements, that Bion, following David Hume, referred
to as “constant conjunction”.2 This form of pseudo causality would
be considered as a minus knowledge (−K) or a continuous association
of no-things or absences that are joined together following a mecha-
nism I have named “homeomorphic symbolisation” (see Chapter Five).
The mind’s intolerance of mental pain induced by the presence of
“no-things” will trigger the need to be free from the accretion of stim-
uli, using beta elements which are good only for evacuation, by means
of projective identification and acting out. These projective identifica-
tions are directed towards either external or internal objects, as seen in
psychosomatic pathology.3
Bion (1965, p. 54) represented the absence of the breast with a point
(.) and the absence of the penis with a line ( ___ ) symbolising a mark
where the breast or penis used to be but where they are no longer,
similar to a mark, or
in the back. And I talked to her, and asked her how could you be doing this?
I got down and remembered I had forgotten something like a parcel and I had
to go back … but now the steps were a ladder and it was hard for me to climb
because I had this attaché case. A man helped me, but I never looked at the
body of the woman who turned herself inside out. The “unknown city” rep-
resented her fear of meeting the unexpected, as well as a failure of her
“omnipotent control”. “A place that was advertised or someone talking
about it” meant that in her mind, this place was very relevant. “Going
upstairs” requires associations from the patient, although I think it may
have symbolised something connected with her mind (upstairs) and
representing the part that was more “damaged”. To “commit suicide”
by “turning herself”—mostly her head—“inside out”, represented,
I believe, an amazing choice made by the unconscious in order to char-
acterise the “complying false self”, meaning the danger to the true self
of “disappearing” by turning herself into her analyst’s desire. We had no
associations about what could be inside the “suitcase” or the “parcel”
she forgot; we might, however, infer that perhaps the content of these
items could have represented hidden aspects of the “negativistic false
self”, or scattered bits from the “true self” that have never been linked
together.
This splitting represents a replication of a more primitive one, result-
ing from the baby’s early splitting of the breast, between good and bad
(Klein, 1946), then projecting the bad and idealising the good in order
to resume feeding and to avoid death from starvation; something Bion
(1962) referred to as “enforced splitting” (pp. 10–11). In this way the ide-
alised breast from which the baby sucks, is linked with oral needs, while
the bad one the baby tries to do away with, is confused with destruc-
tive aspects related to offensive secretions such as urine and faeces.
Homeomorphic progression of the idealised breast would evolve into
an overt attitude of complying, related to oral mechanisms, while the
bad breast’s homeomorphic development changes into concealed oral or
anal negativism, usually repressed or projected into the external object.
There is also a polarisation of affects between both false selves: while
the complying induces anxiety and anger for fear of “vanishing” inside
the external object’s desire and becoming a “no-thing”, the negativis-
tic produces guilt because of envious and hidden (oral, anal) attacks
performed in phantasy against the good object. Complying could also
represent a kind of protection of the object (breast) from murderous
impulses and total extinction; because to privilege the other’s desire
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case was that of a female candidate who found it very thorny to analyse
pathology related to female penis envy and homosexuality, as well as
another candidate who found difficulties dealing with destructive envy
in an obsessive patient. I wonder if cases such as these, of candidates
whose analysis did not help them to deal with split elements that could
have been acted out in the analysis of the candidate’s patients, could
later be responsible for the lack of clinical material in major presenta-
tions taking place in their respective psychoanalytic societies. In this
sense, Bion has hyphenated the word “public-ation” possibly attempt-
ing to say “public-action”, or the action of making public something
private. The interpretation, in this sense, represents a form of publica-
tion in the analyst’s attempt to make conscious (public) what has been
unconscious (private) (López-Corvo, 2003).
I will now use clinical material from a patient to illustrate how cor-
related bivalent11 emotions linked to bivalent part objects, slide or move
and are progressively uncovered with interpretation, in order to reach
the presence of absent primary objects, such as the penis or the breast.
Delia was an eighteen-year-old woman who came for consultation
because of a reactive depression after her mother was killed in a car
accident. She had always lived with her mother after her parents sepa-
rated when she was around four years of age. Two years ago, however,
she decided to move in with her father and stepmother. “I grew up,”
she stated at her first session, “travelling between my parents’ houses.”
Even though her father and stepmother were both well known analysts,
she was always resistant to engaging in any form of psychotherapy.
That is, until now, after she started to decompensate because of her
mother’s sudden death, becoming very anxious, irritable, and finally
depressed. She described her father as too rigid, very bright but distant,
and her mother as very warm, kind but stupid. When at the beginning
of her analysis, perhaps identifying with her dead mother, I showed a
rather understanding and kind attitude, Delia responded with criticism
expressing some doubts about my ability as a therapist. Afterwards it
became clear that she had reacted to an internal dissociation related to
the differences she had experienced while moving between both of her
parents’ homes. For instance, when she was a child she used to travel
by bus from one house to the other whenever she felt frustrated about
something. If, while staying at her father’s home, something happened
that made her feel rejected, she then journeyed immediately to her
mother’s house. As she travelled in the bus, she would continuously
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The bus could have represented a space where a secret and autoerotic
metamorphosis was established. At the same time as she was travelling,
she was incorporating through her senses (orally, visually), the now
idealised parent she was approaching, while at the same time expelling
anally the bad denigrated one she was leaving “behind”. This was also
the model she was using now to deal with her mourning: destroying
the pain in bits, and expelling it anally through the transference, while
at the same time establishing a narcissistic fusion with her boyfriend as
the ideal object. This circular narcissistic structure that she had learned
and used for survival, and which was uncannily successful until this
moment, facilitated her attempt to deal with any pain and exclusion.
The main complication, I told her, was the danger of remaining alone
because her fear of being hurt could always force her to look for some-
one else.
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I would like to use the case of a patient I have previously referred to:
At one point, he got curious about the real truth of these memories and
decided to visit the summer camp several years later.
brothers who stayed at home?), which was being carried away, but
not to be ever carried away. (Ibid.)
disregard them with ease. Once she ended these relations she would
usually call them to find out if they were dating other women, and if
suspicious of such a possibility, she would react with rage, in spite of
the fact that she was continuously unfaithful. They must be always at
her disposal and ready to attend to her calls as if they were not to have
a life of their own, like “dead pieces of nothing”. She feared the dimen-
sion of the others, their initiative, profundity, and individuality. It was
like a penis containing a man, where only the penis was important, like
a fetish, the rest being easily disregarded. It was an intense, destructive,
murderous, and envious element that attacked her older brothers who
she felt were all privileged just because they were men; she then feared
retaliatory attacks that paralysed her. Intrapsychically, she attacked
her femininity and idealised her masculine identifications, in order to
exercise revenge against men, as a homeomorphic representation of her
father and siblings.
Case two: A young patient, the older of two boys, suffering from a
toxic psychosis induced by the chronic use of marijuana, was brought
for treatment. The parents explained that while at university he had
confessed to his mother that he could become homeless and survive on
his own just by eatingpigeons from the campus, something his mother
found a bit peculiar. Later he travelled to Europe, backpacking, but after
having no news for a while, his parents decided to go and fetch him.
They found him in a deplorable state of emaciation and filthiness. Some-
time later, he journeyed to Germany just for the weekend, remaining
the whole time inside the airport. Another time he disappeared for four
days, which he spent driving aimlessly for a distance of several hundred
miles. At one point, his parents confiscated his passport in order to stop
him from travelling to Colombia. From the start, we managed to estab-
lish the existence of a central splitting between two opposite feelings:
on the one hand, he held the wish to liberate himself and move away
from his mother’s control; on the other hand, he unconsciously did all
he could in order to remain dependent. Trying to move away was an
attitude that brought with it substantial feelings of guilt and a need
for punishment, such as reckless driving under the influence of alco-
hol, psychotic manifestations induced from the use of marijuana that
resulted in odd forms of behaviour and rejection from his peers, and so
on. Such behaviour persuadedhis parents to justify their unconscious
desire to take over. When they did take charge, the young man became
very angry with himself and his parents, inducing once more the need
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He also
[t]he destructive part of the self presents itself to the suffering good
part first as a protector from pain, second as a servant to its sen-
suality and vanity, and only covertly—in the face of resistance to
regression—as the brute, the torturer. (p. 97)
hospital, when she could not figure out why her parents “hated her so
much”. Perhaps it was because she was “unworthy, unlovable, guilty
of something she had never been able to understand”, although she
was nevertheless “severely punished” with a surgical intervention. To
look after herself and protect herself from her own sadistic superego
attacks represented the insurmountable task of giving up the endless
unconscious hope that her parents, mostly her father, would come to
her rescue. Perhaps to do nothing and to wait in despair was the right
thing to do, because it would provide her with a way out, the hope
that someone would set her free from the pain of an ongoing surgery
that seemed to be haunting her everywhere. But when this possibility
was presented, she would then attack it in her mind out of envy and
revenge, and destroy it again and again, leaving herself always in the
midst of her painful and hopeless “surgical intervention”. It would be
better to keep alive the hope that the father would come and finally
rescue the abandoned and tortured little girl, than to go ahead as the
adult she now was and do it by herself, regardless of what might be
needed to free herself from the predicament of a tyrannising absence in
which she endlessly placed herself. Such a perplexing drama is always
at the bottom of any serious pre-conceptual injury, as observed in bor-
derline pathology, or as in self-envy mechanisms or negative therapeu-
tic reactions.
Case two: Another patient who as a child went to stay with his grand-
parents, away from his parents and younger sibling’s house, maintained
emotionally alive in his mind the extremely painful memories from that
time. At a moment when we were working through these difficult emo-
tional ties, now when he is a successful adult, he presented a dream:
He was climbing a hill away from his parent’s house and then he turned to the
right facing his back to their home as he proceeded towards a place of his own.
He said that as a child he had carried out that same turn every time he
had gone to visit his parents; feeling excluded as he “turned his back”.
I then said that it seems as if he is continuously turning his back on the
feeling of exclusion he feels unable to give his back to.
had the dream before this episode with her cousin, and she said she
had, about three days before. Then I added that because an “intellec-
tual” part (defence) of her “own roof” was collapsing, she felt more
aware of the crippled, helpless, hurting, part in herself. I considered
this session a turning point, because her attitude towards the little girl
was corroborating the unconscious message portrayed by the dream. In
other words, she responded to this scene and became aware of the little
girl, because “the roof” was already collapsing and not the other way
around. Translated into Bion’s theory of links, we could say that −H
(minus hate), representing the previous emotional link between her
“careless, intellectual, adult part” and her “crippled child part”, had
changed to a +L (plus love), where there is more concern and awareness
about the “mean mother” in her.
threat, she split the feeling of insignificance, together with that part of
her mind capable of thinking about it, and tried to free herself from
the mental pain with the use of projective identifications, which usu-
ally returned, inducing the feeling that the threat of “insignificance”
was present in most of her everyday interactions. She came to analysis
with the unconscious purpose of finding someone who could become
her supporter and provide her with continuous licence to be absolutely
essential. For similar reasons of attempting to become the “significant”,
she resorted to excelling in any field in which she became involved, but
to such an extreme that she often got hurt and became “insignificant”.
She started piano lessons at six years of age and did very well, win-
ning prizes, and was able to manage public performances with good
success, but had to stop due to painful cramps in both hands. A similar
story took place in her practice of gymnastics, which she also had to
give up because of a serious injury to her back. She established with her
piano teacher, old enough to be her grandfather, a sort of sadomasochist
relationship, where he manipulated their liaison in a rather perverse
manner, with sexual manipulations and promises of complete success
(supra-significant), combined with cruel threats and coercion of aban-
donment (insignificance), if she were not to abide to his demands. At
the same time he became her “champion”, or someone who was going
to provide her with a complete manic triumph in her rivalry with the
rest of her older siblings, now projected worldwide.
She complained of great anxiety every day as soon as she was awake,
as if in her “omnipotent conscious mind” she found it very difficult
to “delegate” to her unconscious while sleeping. It was as if she felt
guilty about not being consciously aware and present, instead of being
“away” sleeping. As a form of reaction formation, because of her inner
sense of insignificance, she developed the omnipotent delusion that she
was absolutely indispensable (significant) for the well being of all of
those who surrounded her. The level of anxiety was always very high
because of her superego’s demand of having always to outshine herself
in order to carry an envious vengeance against her parents and siblings,
by preserving inside feelings of “significance”, while at the same time
projecting into them her feelings of “insignificance”. Therefore, conse-
quent guilt and an unconscious need for punishment occurred, in a sort
of circularity, which was always translated into a greater anxiety. The
feeling of insignificance, always split and projected, remained hidden,
threatening her around every corner: at home with her parents and
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siblings, at work, with friends, and in the analysis. She would never
refer to whatever hypothesis we might have elicited during previous
sessions to understand her anxiety, although she would get involved
and would repeat with evident interest the content of the interpreta-
tion given at the moment. It seemed as if she were extremely ambiva-
lent, between the desire to free herself from her anxiety, and at the same
time, feeling very angry and envious about what the analyst had to say
and the powerful need to render the analyst completely “insignificant”.
I had the phantasy of the interpretations nicely and carefully wrapped
up and then placed aside and forgotten.
The problem, as I saw it, was that she was trying to free herself from
feelings of “insignificance”, by projecting them out into others to make
herself “significant”; a sort of metamorphosis from insignificant to
super-significant, but with such cruelty that her own state of well being
was not considered, and she became paralysed by terrible anxiety and
hopeless despair. But even this mechanism was insufficient, because she
felt then like an “infra-insignificant” disguised as a “supra-significant”,
becoming terrified of being discovered, always feeling false and an
impostor. Internal elements repeated now in her mind the original trau-
matic condition she experienced as a child, reproducing a fake drama
structured by false or negative emotional links that were true in the past
but were no longer true in the present. At the present time she was no
longer an insignificant little girl who could have been ignored, and who
was required, as compensation, to continuously display an overwhelm-
ing performance in order to be recognised. I have also used this case in
Chapter Ten in relation to “catastrophic change”.
Conclusion
Interaction between introjected and projected correlated elements
represents a reproduction of what takes place between these same parts
inside the mind; in that sense, projective and introjective identifications
can also take place intrapsychically. Different from the usual belief that
there is no communication between these split parts, I think there is
a form of interaction based on correlated emotions or bivalent part
objects. Unlike total objects that use positive links (+H, +L, +K), these
split parts use only negative or false links (−H, −L, −K) to interact: nega-
tive or false in the sense that these emotions represent identifications
that “reproduce” formal and real interactions that took place between
parents and children, which are afterwards unconsciously and automat-
ically replicated between internalised superego’s and ego’s part objects.
These elements are also simultaneously used as material for projec-
tive introjective identifications directed to outside objects. Changing
negative to positive links should be part of the array of strategies psy-
chotherapists and psychoanalysts need to keep always in mind.
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us, to the scene of the crime is always absolutely personal and unique.
This uniqueness represents the particular chronology of how the per-
sonal trauma evolves; in other words, of how in each of us the Oedipus
tragedy is always delineated by chance and repeated by compulsion.5
I have referred to this fatalistic and universal combination between
Oedipus complex and personal trauma, as the “Cain complex”.6
The cruelty sensed in primitive forms of superego is always related
to introjective identifications of a “pre-conceptual traumatic object”.
I have stated in the previous chapter that pre-conceptual traumas con-
solidate as an active, toxic, internal object that posits itself in consecu-
tive layers of identification within the ego and the superego, something
already stated by Freud in 1926, in “Inhibitions, symptoms and anxi-
ety”, where he clearly stated that
I will be referring now to the second domain only, leaving the first
to be considered in detail in Chapter Eleven relating to “bivalent
part objects”, and the third already pondered in Chapter Five on
“symbolism”. The phenomenology of the defences used by the ego will
vary, depending mainly on the violence and characteristics of the pre-
conceptual trauma, as well as gender, culture (family culture included),
and genetic factors, among other variables. A weak ego, as we might
find in the psychotic part of the personality, will always induce rigid
behaviour, or behaviour of extremes, with very little middle ground:
all or nothing, zero sum, or black and white, with almost no grey zone
at all. Just as there are sphincters in the soma that separate internal
from external milieus, we can also consider the existence of a “mental
sphincter” that separates total internal freedom from outside restric-
tions imposed by reality. We are absolutely free to imagine anything, and
creativity will always sprout from that inner freedom; but our actions
must always be limited according to the characteristics of reality we
might be facing. The self can be master of phantasies but might also be
the slave of actions. The ego then can be equated with an organ capable
of handling this contradiction between “absolute internal freedom” and
“the restrictions imposed by reality”. In other words, a “weak” ego is
dominated mainly by “bivalent part objects”, low frustration tolerance,
projective-introjective identifications, beta elements, and, metaphori-
cally, Manichaean solutions of “black or white”; while the strong ego’s
muscle, on the other hand, will rely on alpha function, high frustration
tolerance, and “univalent” or total objects,7 which can be measured by
the flexible and wide extension of “grey’s” good judgment and com-
mon sense.
In 1923 in “The ego and the id”, Freud established that the id has to
give up its libidinal cathexes with external objects, in order for these
relations to become incorporated and to form internal identifications
that, eventually, will create the structure of the ego: “it makes it possible
to suppose that the character of the ego is a precipitate of abandoned
object-cathexes” (1923, p. 29). The concept implicit in this statement had
already been used in 1914 in the description of “secondary narcissism”
as a shift of cathexis from the external object to the ego. At this time,
however, it did not occur to Freud that cathexes and objects were just
like “a thing and its shadow”, impossible to separate one from the other,
making secondary narcissism an unattainable fact.8 This difficulty, nev-
ertheless, did not lessen the importance Freud had given to the process
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and also then feelingdeep sorrow and anger, because of her phantasy
that “her mother was an accomplice who took her to the hospital to be
terrorised and tortured by strange men who sexually molested her by
introducing things into her genitals.” The mother, on the other hand,
felt she was dutiful and lovingly, who provided her daughter with a
therapy that was indispensable and absolutely unavoidable.
The ego competently uses different means in order to deal with cas-
tration threats exercised by the superego: some are well known in psy-
chopathology, such as splitting, projection, identification, identification
with the aggressor, denial, reaction formation, intellectualisation, con-
crete thinking, and so on; others, perhaps less common, which I have
encountered in my clinical work, I will now illustrate.
Procrustes’ bed
The traumatic object always accumulates in layers within the superego
and the ego structures. From there the superego will exercise a power-
ful and cruel tyranny over a subjugated ego that feels restricted, hope-
less, threatened, diminished, helpless, and terrified. The superego can
reach high levels of sadistic aggression, and the ego of masochistic sur-
render, as can be seen in what I have previously referred to (2006) as
“Procrustes’ bed”.9 This condition also reminds us of the well known
aphorism: “damned if you do, damned if you don’t”. In this situation the
ego usually responds with paralysis, terrified of any form of resolution;
in other words, the “tyrannical superego is a Procrustes par excellence!”
A widower in his late fifties, who originally consulted me about
his daughter’s compulsive use of hashish, started therapy because
he was unable to convince her to attend by herself. His wife had died
about three years before, and shortly thereafter he started to feel over-
whelmed by loneliness, compulsive work, a masked depression, and
ambivalence towards his conflictive daughter. Although still young,
good-looking, and well off, he feared to seek out a new relationship.
He appeared somewhat inhibited, depressed, and rather sober: “I am
too shy to approach a woman”, he said. “But you were married for
many years.” “Well, “M” was a childhood sweetheart, she was the
only woman I have been with, and I think we married because she
decided the whole thing.” As the therapy progressed, he confessed
with great reluctance, shame, and guilt, to having been sexually abused
as a child by a nanny and how he also sexually abused his younger
sister. He felt so bad and dirty that no woman would ever want to be
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with him. There was an obvious attempt to induce an active role in the
countertransference by acting out in the transference a kind of compul-
sive passivity or “shyness”, as he referred to it, so as to create a form
of mutual, perverse “masturbatory collusion”, similar to what he had
experienced with his nanny. It was clear also, that this shyness was
directly related to feelings of guilt and shame induced by the power
of an internal superego’s threat of universal scorn that paralysed him
because of the complicity of an ego largely subdued. Out of terror from
an internal castration threat, he had to always remain absolutely pas-
sive and immobile in order to avoid being castrated by a Procrustean
superego projected everywhere.
Conclusion
Psychoanalysis is a subversive system that attempts to encourage the
submissive ego to fight back the cruel demands made by a superego,
which has been fashioned by successive identifications learned at the
time when the pre-conceptual trauma took place. Using the story I
shared at the beginning of this chapter, it is like helping the Scythian
slaves to finally fight back against their masters, in spite of the memory
of having been subdued by the whip. The superego relentlessly repeats
on the ego a cruelty similar to that originally exercised on the child by
a reality that was not properly digested due to the absence of a sophis-
ticated alpha function. I have attempted to share some defences I have
observed during my clinical practice, used by the ego in order to deal
with such superego demands.
CHAPTER TEN
Catastrophic change
Bion (1965) referred to two forms of catastrophic change, one whose
consequences involved persons outside the consulting room, the other
remaining as a “controlled breakdown” within the analytic dyad (p. 8).
I believe the difference between these two forms will hinge on the seri-
ousness of the psychopathology involved. I will be referring to the sec-
ond kind of catastrophic change, the one taking place inside the analytic
setting.
Bion borrowed Thom’s concept of catastrophe theory to develop
his own dissertation about catastrophic changes.1 Following this model,
we can infer that interpretation—introducing integration by changing
bivalent part objects into univalent total objects, as well as changing dif-
ferent kinds of equilibration2 (from symmetrical to asymmetrical)—
could result in a discontinuity of the mental system and, sometimes,
in a catastrophic change. In other words, catastrophe could be induced
by the introduction of time, space, and symbolisation into a currently
steady or levelled state of equilibrium, which is assembled and sus-
tained by the repetition compulsion of childhood traumas. In Chapter
Two I have alluded to how pre-conceptual traumas eventually organise
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“I’m not doing well. I drove yesterday, and I’m still driving.
Yesterday afternoon I went into the office but I didn’t stay long.
I seem to be on a course of disaster. I want to be on this course of
disaster. There is something about it that I find appealing. I have this
feeling like, yes, I want to do this. I suppose it is a form of rebellion
that I couldn’t act on as a child and now I can rebel. I just don’t care
anymore. All the normal checks and balances are thrown out the
window: consciousness, work ethic … I just don’t care anymore.”
This was a style of discourse completely different from his usual com-
pliant demeanour, a drastic change towards a negativistic kind of false
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Clinical case
I will now follow in more detail the psychoanalytic course of a case
illustrated in Figure 2, as a topological model based on Thom’s catas-
trophe theory (Poston & Stewart, 1996). The model moves from right
to left and contains three stages. Stage one corresponds to the initial
state of equilibrium representing the patient’s psychic state when she
arrived for consultation. Stage two is divided into four sequential sub-
stages: “A” to “D”, standing for the time the analysis lasted, depicting
transformations in the patient’s mental structure, that eventually led to
a “stage of catastrophe” and to interruption of therapy. Finally, stage
three represents the patient’s psychic state after discontinuation of anal-
ysis. “Attractors” signify a series of matters considered to be the subject
of successive interpretations, and possibly responsible for dissipation
of the original state at the time of consultation.
A thirty-year-old, single woman I will refer to as Francis, the young-
est of five siblings and born ten years after her next older brother, ini-
tially consulted because of chronic and unspecific anxiety. From very
early in her treatment we managed to understand the importance of her
age difference with the other siblings, a situation that induced in her a
sense of “total insignificance”. Paradigmatic of this state of affairs was a
repetitious situation she remembered taking place at dinnertime, when
her parents and her older siblings would engage in political or philo-
sophical discussions, leaving her out, making her feel painfully ignored.
She complained of chronic insomnia as well as great anxiety as soon as
she awakens. It seemed that her “omnipotent conscious mind” found
it difficult to delegate to her “unconscious mind” in order to be able to
sleep. Also, she felt so indispensable that she harboured the delusion
that nothing could be solved while she was “away” sleeping, and that
as soon as she woke up, she had to face all those predicaments that, left
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Final state d 2
of equilibrium c
b 1
CA
TA a
3 ST
RO
PH Stable equilibrium
E
ATTRACTORS: INITIAL STATE
interpretation of:
insignificance, fear
of dependency … ATTRACTORS:
interpretation of:
sexual abuse,
sado-masochism,
mother’s sadism … .
she considered was her wish to find somebody else to rescue and free
her from the anxiety state she had created, but without her taking an
active role in the search, instead being quite passive in order to avoid
superego accusations about incestuous sexual desires: “if she is pas-
sive she is a victim, she will be fine; but if she is active in any way, she
will be suspicious”. For instance, one important part of her generated
a chronic state of anxiety, while at the same time, she split and pro-
jected her “thinking apparatus” in order to use the analyst’s mind, so
she could experience being “passively” and “sexually explored” by the
interpretation. The main splitting could be epitomised as the correla-
tion between the “nun and the whore.”
During the first day after Easter holidays, she pointed out a change
when she was away with a girlfriend at a beach resort: “I felt very good
and had a wonderful time.” While there, she met a nice man and spent
one night with him. It was something she had never done before in such
a short time and with an unknown man:
I agreed that it was a new experience, since she was not complaining
about feeling stressed, anxious, or ashamed, as she had done before in
similar occasions. Previously, she felt she had to protect herself from
men she presumed were trying to use and hurt her, and then, as a
defence, she tried to make them useless, like—as she often stated—“the
fox and the grapes”. She listened carefully to what I said and agreed
with it, and then, as if she had not heard, and thinking about something
else, she added, “I think my mother wants me to stay with her because
she does not feel comfortable with my brother and sisters.” There was a
serious change in her psychic state at the end of this plateau, coinciding
with a rapid decline in her mother’s health.
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She paid the cheque and said that she owed me sixty dollars because
she did not have enough. I felt—but did not say—that she could be using
this debt to convince me that she had reduced her sessions because she
hadn’t enough money, rather than because she was attempting to kill
me as a representation of her mother. She had seen her sister-in-law
who was pregnant and so young: “Only twenty-three. I am seven years
older and she is already pregnant, very self-sufficient. She makes me
feel as if I were the youngest.” Her father had asked her yesterday if she
had worked at the weekend: “Did you work hard, Francis? Were you
very productive today?” She had an argument with her boss because
she did not agree with something he said, and he was very negative,
and she got very angry and stormed out of his office, but later felt
guilty. She had also had a dream: She is packing her luggage to participate
in gymnastics as she did as a child but, being an adult as she is now, this makes
her feel very anxious. I said that perhaps the problem was that although
her unconscious speaks using metaphors, her consciousness does it in
a concrete manner. She said she did not understand. I said that that
was exactly what I was saying, that it is difficult for her to follow the
metaphorical way her unconscious seems to be talking to her, and that
perhaps her dream is not referring to gymnastics in a concrete way, but
metaphorically she cannot cope with the gymnastics of her life as she
feels her sister-in-law is doing, disagree with her boss without feeling
bad about it, or tell her father to leave her alone, to find her own way.
because guilt will promote a need to comply, and so on. The only exit
from this predicament is the capacity to find what Winnicott (1960)
referred to as the “true self”, meaning the “true desire of the self”,
which is really a virtual desire, because by the time we are able to find
our true “forgotten self” (López-Corvo, 2006a), if we ever do find it,
we will discover that the most practical outcome will be to continue
being what we have been so far, but with the inner feeling that now it
is our choice, and not our mother’s! The only approach to find the true
self is through symbolisation, in the discontinued or heteromorphic
form, as has already been alluded to in Chapter Five, where I stated
that this form of symbolisation—different from the homeomorphic or
continuous—is the only true door to mental freedom.
Not being able to make use of heteromorphic symbolisations in
order to free herself from her dependency on her mother’s desire, by
either complying or rebelling, Francis resorted to homeomorphic sym-
bolisations with the use of the mechanism of displacement, narcissisti-
cally projecting her mother through the transference onto me. It was
easier to “murder” her analysis than to contain the guilt induced by
the internal representation of her already dead mother. She attempted
to negotiate in the transference a way out of her dilemma without suc-
cess. I explained that people can carry on with their search in different
forms; some might do it in just one analysis, while others might resort
to breaking it up and taking some free time in between and continuing
later on and perhaps this format was more helpful for her. She agreed
and left on good terms.
CHAPTER ELEVEN
—Homer
B
ion has produced a dual conception of the mind integrated by a
psychotic (traumatised) and a non-psychotic (non-traumatised)
part of the personality, as a possible extension of Klein’s meta-
psychology of affects or paranoid-schizoid and depressive positions,
respectively. Bion, however, using the metaphor of the digestive appara-
tus, filled the missing hiatus between cognition and affect with notions
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such as alpha function, beta and alpha elements, as well as links, among
many other mental constructs. In this chapter, I will try to conceptual-
ise dynamics related to the interaction between the traumatised (psy-
chotic) and non-traumatised (non-psychotic) part of the personality
and its association to Klein’s positions, as well as to distorions of time
and space.
In previous chapters, I have reiterated that transient absences change
into permanent presences due to a series of circumstances such as frustra-
tion intolerance. Once a permanent fact is established, it will endlessly
repeat, in a fashion that brings to mind what has been stated by French
Nobel laureate Jacques Monod (1971), that “what takes place by chance
will continuously repeat by compulsion”, or in Freud’s own words, by
way of the “repetition compulsion”. At the same time, as the permanent
fact repeats synchronically it also mutates diachronically—with age—in a
fashion I have described in Chapter Five as “homeomorphic” (continu-
ous) transformations, where the phenomenon changes but the noume-
non, the “thing-in-itself” or meaning, remains. “Repetition compulsion”
also stands for a form of time distortion within the traumatised state of
the personality, together with other time alterations such as “deferred
action” (Chapter Six), transference-countertransference, and the influ-
ence of present realities over pre-conceptual traumas (Chapter Twelve).
I will now consider two aspects I regard as significant in the
mechanism of pre-conceptual traumas’ incessant compulsion to repeat:
1) speed and size of the circularity; 2) emotional correlation as a form
of communication between “bivalent” part objects, different from
communication between “univalent” or total objects.
… the difficulties that arose depended (to extend the use of the circle
as a model) on the diameter. If the circular argument has a large
enough diameter, its circular character is not detected and may, for
all I know, contribute to useful discoveries such as I understand
the curvature in space to be … Conversely, the diameter can be so
reduced that the circle itself disappears and only a point remains.
(1997, p. 18)
There is implicit in this [in the diameter’s size] the possibility that
there must be distance between the correlated statements if mean-
ing is to be achieved. If ‘madness’ is feared, the operation that leads
to meaning is avoided. The circular argument must therefore be of
small diameter to preclude the conjunction of meaning and feeling
of madness. (1997, p. 20)
i. Part objects are beta elements lacking the status of a total object—
although not all beta elements are part objects. They lack the
qualities of identity and predictability, meaning the capacity of the
object to be recognised in spite of its transformations, as well as
predicted; like knowing that the “pleasant” and the “angry mother”
are the same, or having the capacity to learn from experience.
ii. Part objects are bivalent (see Figure 3, first part), because they carry
within themselves mirror-like affects that oppose, but correlate
part object and the bad one, because if one extreme is projected,
the other must remain inside, and vice versa. One important aspect
to consider is the communication between both “bivalent part
objects” with the use of negative emotional links such as minus
love (−L) minus hate (−H) and minus K (−K), as described by
Bion (1967). I have considered this aspect in Chapter Eight when
discussing how split parts communicate.
vi. The fact that bivalent part objects are ruled by a symmetrical
(circular) equilibrium also implies that they are closed and
saturated structures, so “empty” that they cannot contain anything
else. For instance, any correlation, such as “included-excluded”,
is so empty that anything in general could be either “included”
or “excluded”, but itis so saturated in relation to a particular
individual, that only specific things could be considered either
“included” or “excluded”.
vii. Finally, these part objects or beta elements represent concrete
structures that lack the capacity to achieve “discontinuous”
forms of symbolisation, and follow instead a continuous or
“homeomorphic”2 type of symbolisation, which does not allow
discrimination between past/present as well as subject/object
and symbol/symbolised. Symbolism signifies the faculty to
represent the absent object, or to “contain” the absence of the
object—the place where the object used to be but is no longer—
instead of being “contained” by it. The incapacity to create
“discontinuous symbols” is translated into concrete thinking,
as in psychotic individuals, or in the psychotic part of the
personality, a condition Segal (1957) conceptualised as “symbolic
equation”, whereby the “symbol-substitute” is experienced as
the original object.
In the last analysis, what the proper use of these seven instances really
represents is the capacity to mourn the separation from the power
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of the original object, the breast; meaning, the capacity of the self to
constructively “contain” human dependency. This process can often
translate itself into a subversion of the status quo, which Bion has referred
to as “catastrophic change”. Beta elements represent a form of equilib-
rium that contain important aspects of the mind that, under the impact
of the analyst’s alpha function, can, as I have just summarised, change
into alpha elements, and produce new forms of equilibrium that at times
can have catastrophic consequences for the treatment. However, if toler-
ated and endured, valuable results will be provided for the patient.
right thing by telling her about the increase of the fee, and if I should
have waited for another moment, and so on. I thought that again the
polarity had changed: she presented herself as an “angry-jealous-child”
filled with homicidal and omnipotent intentions, while I felt “guilty,
bad, and vulnerable”. She missed the following session and did not
call, but arrived on time at the next one. She said she could not make
it, but did not try to communicate with me and felt very guilty. I said
that perhaps in her phantasies she felt she had attacked and hurt me,
similarly to how she might have felt about what she had done to her
father before he died, out of jealousy and anger because she felt her
younger sister had taken her place. Then she said that she could not
tell her husband P. about the increase of the fees. “Saturday, P. went
to play tennis and came home with a back-ache, very upset, throwing
doors, breaking things. This analysis has really helped me, because I
was patient and gave him a massage.” There was now a polarisation of
internal part objects between an “angry-frustrated” and a “placating-
massager”, where she could have been “the massager” and I the “mas-
saged placated one”, or vice versa. It was also possible that she was
“trying to massage me” when she came on time after having “thrown”
an “absent session” at me the previous day. She continued: “My anger
is because you created a difficulty by increasing the fee and forcing me
to talk to my husband about it … I have tried to tell him about your pen-
sion, I mean, your session, about the payment, and I don’t know why it is
so difficult. On the one hand I understand that the analysis has helped
me, but on the other hand, I feel so angry, and I don’t understand why
and why it is so difficult to tell P., although I could tell him that it is for
a dress or could steal it from him, but I don’t want to do that.” When I
asked about her confusion between pension and session, she said that
pension was a room in a house, something sad and lonely and “pension
is also the money I give to my mother”.
The polarisation now introduced another vertex, which had moved
in a homeomorphic fashion from a “rich-independent-happy-pension
giver”, placed inside her and observed in the transference, and a
“dependent-poor-lonely-pension receiver”, projected and experienced
in the countertransference. Increasing the fee threatened to invert the
situation, because it made her aware that, in relation to her husband, she
was just like her mother and I was towards her: meaning, three “lonely,
unhappy, pension receivers”. The feelings of anxiety, uncertainty, and
guilt I experienced in the countertransference after I had announced the
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increase of the fee, represented what she had experienced towards her
husband when she tried to tell him about the increase. Such feelings were
perhaps also similar to feelings of despondency she had experienced as
a child after her father’s death, when, on the day before his death, she
witnessed how he had given her doll to her younger sister who sat in
her chair. The jealousy, rage, and feeling of revenge could have induced
extreme guilt, as she omnipotently felt she could have something to do
with his death. This could have explained her ambivalence between
her need to act out missing one session, and being on time—as a call for
repair—at the next session. I thought also that there was a narcissistic
oedipal complicity and collusion with her husband, as she felt finan-
cially powerful in relation to her “pensioned mother” as well as the rest
of her siblings, who were not in such a good financial position as her
husband. I told her that it seemed as if her marriage carried some form
of revenge against her mother and siblings, because of what she might
have experienced as a child, feeling like an excluded “lonely-unhappy-
pension receiver”, while at the same time envisioning her younger
and older siblings as “rich-happy-love receivers”. I also stated that the
anger, resentment, and desire to avenge, which she might have expe-
rienced against them, she now seemed to be experiencing against me
by wanting to discontinue her analysis, being silent, late or not coming
at all, as she was feeling I was becoming also a “rich-happy-receiver”
when increasing my fees. She reacted by blaming herself: “I feel terri-
ble, how can I be so bad? I now feel very frightened and a sensation on
my chest I have experienced other times when I feel I might be dying.”
In the countertransference I experienced the desire to be nice and to
calm her, a sensation I had previously observed during similar circum-
stances. Thinking that my feelings were the consequence of a projective
identification, I said that perhaps she felt frightened because she felt
discovered, not only by me, but most importantly, by a part of herself,
and that this had frightened her so much that she preferred to punish
herself before she were punished. I said that by attacking herself, she
was placating someone she feared that she was now placing in me. I felt
this mechanism of “self punishment” was an attempt to protect a narcis-
sistic identification with an ideal and powerful object related to P., that
she had often used in order to exercise revenge. It was very important
for a part of her to preserve inside (introjective identification) the space
of an “ideal part-bivalent-object” (party, happy, included, rich, pen-
sion giver, etc.), while projecting into the outside object, the correlated
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… with the wish for a penis and the masculine protest we have
penetrated through all the psychological strata and have reached
bedrock, and that thus our activities are at an end. (p. 252)
(1)
Container : funeral-space / party space;
Contained : (_ _____) / (+ ______);
(2)
: angry-homicidal-child / guilty-bad-vulnerable
: (_ _____) / (+ ______)
(3)
: angry-frustrated / placating-massager
: (_ ______ ) / (+ ______)
(4)
: poor-pension-receiver / rich-pension-giver
: (_ ______) / (+ ______)
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(5)
: presence of the phallus / absence of the phallus, or
: (+ ______) / (_ ______)
(6)
: (+ ______) (_ ______)
___________ / ____________
: (+ _______) / (_ ______)
Numbers five and six, where the container and the contained are the
same, represent the proper insight related to her primitive feelings of
castration anxiety and penis envy, or bedrock status according to Freud.
In summary, when container and contained coincide, there is an insight
and the projective-introjective identifications are no longer relevant, or
the other way around.
CHAPTER TWELVE
—I. Kant
—Bion
Cogitations, 1992, (p. 315)
A children’s rhyme
When I first came to Canada, I discovered, in speaking with a colleague,
that a certain nursery rhyme I sang as a child while engaging in chil-
dren’s games, was also sung by children in Canada. In my country it
was only the music because the words were just a long chain of “nyah,
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And also:
Through F [act of faith] one can “see”, “hear”, and “feel” the mental
phenomena of whose reality no practicing psycho-analyst has any
doubt though he cannot with any accuracy represent them by exist-
ing formulations. (pp. 57–59)
We could gather from what Freud stated here, that there was in him
some implicit knowledge of what later on Klein put forward as projec-
tive identification. Bion (1970) had made reference to a letter written by
Freud to Andreas-Salome dated 25 May 1916 where he
I think it [the Grid] is good enough to know how bad it is, how
unsuitable for the task for which I have made it. But even if it
inflicts a certain amount of mental pain I hope you can turn it to
good account and make a better one. (1974, p. 53)
And in 1980, when asked how difficult the Grid was, he said: “Not for
me, only a waste of time because it doesn’t really correspond to the facts
I am likely to meet”.13
Is there a possibility of placing intuition within the framework of the
Grid? In the first place, intuition is related to unconscious thinking or
dream thoughts, which means that there is no intellectual mediation of
a manipulated epistemological system, and the benefits of those func-
tions associated with consciousness, such as notation, attention, inquiry,
and action, present in the “axis of uses”, do not apply. It could either
belong to the unidentified territory of “… n”, or placed in row C of the
vertical axis, as Bion already recommended, together with “dreams”
and “myths” (1992, p. 314). I am differentiating here between intuition
as an automatic and involuntary quality of the mind independent of
the senses, and O as a conjecture of intuition. It is similar to “dream
thought”, which Bion had placed in row C of the vertical axis, a category
he suggested should amount to a grid of its own (1977, p. 3). By means
of intuition, O evolves; if picked up with an act of faith and transformed
into K, it would become substance to manufacture an insightful inter-
pretation, which will act as a kind of turbulence,14 capable of producing
a catastrophic15 change once an already established equilibrium moves
into a different one.
About intuition
Bion advocates the use of intuition during the analytic session, in a
manner similar to what the Zen masters advocate in the practice of
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But, what is intuition? The word stems from the Latin intuitio, indi-
cating the act of seeing inside (tueri in), “the image reflected on a
mirror” (Foulquié & Saint-Jean, 1966, p. 560). In Sanskrit, intuition is
referred to as cakkhu, which literarily means the “eye”. Webster (1983)
defines it as “the power or faculty of attaining to direct knowledge or
cognition without evident rational thought and inference” (p. 635).
At the beginning of the 1900s, influenced by Husserl’s contributions
on phenomenology, intuition became a subject of immense interest
and revision by several philosophers such as Bergson, Heidegger,
Levinas, Sartre, and many others. While Bergson became an advocate
of intuition, Russell argued that “ineffable intuition cannot be verified
and made coherent”. He then wittily commented that, “instincts have
been granted to the birds, to the bees, and to Bergson” (Abel, 1976,
p. 209).
“Intuition”, said Sartre (1943, p. 221), influenced by Husserl, “is
the conscious of the thing”,16 as if thinking were to come from the
“thing” and not from the mind of the thinker, who will then act as
receptor, like a sort of mindlessness awareness. In this sense, the mind
of the patient should become the “thing” for the analyst’s mind, in
order to guarantee the possibility of a true or intuitive “vision” of the
truth, and as a result, a fruitful communication between two minds.
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… can know what the patient says, does, and appears to be, but
cannot know the O of which the patient is an evolution: he can only
“be” it. (p. 27)
with guilt and persecutory anxiety.22 At one point, and after a long
silence, she stated that she had nothing to say and that her mind was
occupied with other things that had nothing to do with her treatment.
I said that everything in her mind had to do with her treatment. She
continued: “I thought of calling my sister to tell her I was leaving,
but I changed my mind. I am thinking of cleaning the apartment
thoroughly before I leave. I washed the sheets, and took out all the
garbage. I cleaned the refrigerator very carefully and threw away
leftovers that were getting rotten. As you can see these are unimpor-
tant issues. I did not want to leave the keys with anybody; the con-
cierge told me someone else had left the keys and when they came
back, they had found several long-distance calls made from their
phone. I am thinking to leave around two o’clock. I think I am going
to drive myself instead of using my driver. He talks too much about
X [a well known politician who has been accused of corruption and
murder].”
Considering her manifest discourse represented internal elements
similar to those found in any dream, I interpreted that she was trying
her best to conceal, from herself and the rest of us (she did not wish
for her sister to know and had cleaned her apartment thoroughly “of
any trace”) about the presence of an unconscious “murderous child ele-
ment” that wished to destroy her younger sister by poisoning mother’s
milk with faeces (she cleaned the refrigerator by throwing away spoiled
food) because she wanted to have total control and did not want to have
any surprises (did not want to leave the keys with anybody because
she did not wish to find surprise calls). She wished also to be her own
driver, because she feared that I would continuously insist on the exist-
ence in her of a corrupt and murderous “Louise X” element.
A female supervisee brought the case of a new patient, a young
man with a long history of drug dependency who had been attending
psychotherapy on and off for the last few months. He was financially
dependent on his parents, and often referred to all sorts of fantastic
projects which he never followed through. The supervisee’s main dif-
ficulty was related to the patient’s “irresponsibility” and lack of con-
cern about his therapy, missing sessions regularly and not attending at
all during the last week. The supervisee’s concern was about getting
more emotionally involved, such as calling his parents or discontinu-
ing the therapy altogether. I stated that, in my experience cases like this
involved serious borderline psychopathology dealing with a powerful
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—López-Corvo
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unfairly excluded, they develop the idea that their parents are lying.
Since they intuitively “know” but are seldom told, they will produce
their own phantasies, which could follow very imaginative patterns of
a kind Freud very early on referred to as “polymorphous perverse”;
meaning that, because they do not understand what is really happen-
ing, they will envision anything according to their own unconscious
phantasies, and this is exactly the substance of the universal phenom-
enon we know as the “primal scene”. At the same time, since sexuality
is a powerful drive—a pre-conception incessantly searching for a reali-
sation which is very difficult to restrain—it will manifest in a thousand
ways depending on the psychosexual stage of development; such as, for
instance, oral impregnation, anal sadism, scoptophilia, exhibitionism,
sadomasochism, and so on. At the Oedipus level, the command of the
sexual drive for satisfaction will contrast with the power of superego
restrictions, making sexuality something always hidden, inappropriate,
anxiety-provoking, and guilt ridden. It is this closed door or emotional
contradiction that makes the Oedipus complex an impossible situa-
tion, a blind alley which articulates at once very powerful incongrui-
ties: enticement and proscription; incestuous desires and castration
anxiety; wish for inclusion and terror of exclusion; fear of inclusion and
need for exclusion. It will allow only two possibilities, either black or
white, all or nothing, just as we see it in the traumatised part of the
personality: either to repress it and act it out, or to symbolise it. This
sense of exclusion not only induces incestuous desires, but also sadistic
attacks against the parental couple in a form Klein (1930) has already
referred to in detail:
Thus the child’s sadistic attacks have for their object both father and
mother, who are in phantasy bitten, torn, cut or stamped to bits.
The attacks give rise to anxiety lest the subject should be punished
from … The object of attack becomes a source of danger because the
subject fears similar—retaliatory—attacks form it. (pp. 219–220)
“You may not be like this (like your father)—that is, you may not
do all that he does; some things are his prerogative.” This double
aspect of the ego ideal [super-ego] derives from the fact that the ego
ideal had the task of repressing the Oedipus complex; indeed, it is
to that revolutionary event that it owes its existence. (p. 34)
envy him, and all beautiful girls fall madly in love with, and struggle to
seduce, him. These phantasies represented his desire of becoming very
special to his mother as well as a manic triumph over his father—who
happened to be a builder who never went to university—that filled him
with great anxiety and guilt. He could not always discriminate phan-
tasy from reality and often felt as if he had done in reality a terrible
deed, something that induced a great level of persecution that para-
lysed him with terror.
Narcissism and its quality of “fusion between self and object”,
represents the main defence against separation and anxiety from exclu-
sion; it is the primitive extreme from which all human beings must
evolve along the path towards independence and freedom. This is why
Bion, for instance, polarised narcissism and social-ism, hyphening the
latter in order to emphasise the separation between the self and the
other as a social being. Social interaction, in contrast, often reflects not
a true “social” relationship with someone different, but a narcissistic
interaction with parts of the self placed into the “Other” via projective
identification.
Depressive4 separation and individuation5 from the breast as the
original object will require, among many other issues, a capacity for
abstract thinking and symbolisation, representing a “second closed
door” that can open to the fantastic world of freedom, something I
referred to in Chapter Five. Between these two extremes of “narcis-
sistic fusion”, on the one hand, and symbolisation and individuation,
on the other, remains Winnicott’s (1951) “space of transition”, already
representing the beginning of the “process of symbolisation”, when
an original object approximating the breast is capable, without tear-
ing, of changing form into another object, such as a “teddy bear”, for
instance.6
When the oedipal door remains closed, the adolescent will even-
tually understand that the search for satisfaction must be looked for
elsewhere—a process that when “properly” contained will lead to sym-
bolisation and independence. In real life, however, the door may some-
times be left “ajar”, allowing a peep into parental pleasure, which gives
the child a sense of complicity, that parents do like “it”. I am aware
that in this last statement I am dealing with metaphorical construc-
tions, because “leaving the door ajar” and sensing parental pleasure
could really mean anything. What I wish to portray is that sometimes
parental pleasure not only could be linked to complicity by the child,
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but that the child might be always compulsively searching for that
“parental-capacity-for-sexual-pleasure” as a form of complicity as well
as of omnipotent control, and that this powerful need represents the
background where perversions are registered; the question sometimes
is to know when any parental pleasure becomes, in fact, a parental
complicity.
was walking with a girlfriend inside of a tunnel and feared that I, who was
following them from behind, could have heard what she was telling her friend.
I waited for her associations and after some time, she angrily protested
about my silence, as if she wished for me to talk, possibly with the pur-
pose of exercising omnipotent control, as in previous sessions, when
she wished for me to say something in order to prove I was wrong.
I thought it was this that she feared for me to hear in her dream as well
as in the session, that she wished to keep me “behind”, in the tunnel, in
her anus, to make me appear and disappear at her will, like her faeces.
Another woman, sexually molested as a child by a “card player”
friend of her family, who often visited her house, presented a persist-
ent erotic transference. She often threatened to discontinue the analy-
sis, and used comments made by other therapists she knew who were
“more friendly with their patients and invited them to their homes”; she
often accused me of being cold and detached, and said that I, unfairly,
decided all the rules and she had no alternative but to confide. At other
times she became openly and aggressively seductive; for instance, she
would take an extra pillow and place it underneath her legs when wear-
ing a miniskirt. We came to identify an internal narcissistic interaction
between a destructive and dangerous envious element she referred
to as the “card-man-card-girl-couple”, in contrast with an “analyst-
patient-constructive-pair”, as well as other creative aspects in herself.
There was the fact, for instance, that for the last year she had been work-
ing on a historical investigation and publication about a well known
deceased architect. However, she delayed the publication beyond the
sponsor’s required time, either by senseless arguments or finding inter-
minable loose ends that she managed to identify but did not correct,
to the point of jeopardising the whole project. Around this time she
had some dreams, clearly related to envious feelings about people she
felt were of “high social position, wealth, and general sophistication”.
In one of these dreams, she was attending a party given by the architect’s
great-granddaughter who, in real life had invited her several times for dinner
in a very exclusive club. In her dream, the party was taking place in such a
poor section of the city that she was afraid she could have been knifed.9 This
unconscious desire to soil what she idealised is very much present in
the erotic transference.
Another example of this omnipotent demand for complicity can
be observed in the case of Alexis, a forty-year-old divorced man of
Italian descent and the older of two siblings. He consulted because of
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the act—to remain alert and teach the innocent child of the irrelevant
act of shocking prostitutes with an erect penis. He looked very serious.
I thought this was an important dynamic because it threw light on his
need for complicity, so crucial in perversions; meaning, the need to con-
ceal through collusion and connivance, the existence of a sense of fail-
ure, loneliness, sadness, and desperation related to a child-part element
that, very often, overpowered the logical, independent, sophisticated,
and self-sufficient adult element.
At one point in the analysis he presented a dream: He was climbing
a mountain with his girlfriend when suddenly she lost her balance and fell.
He could not see her and feared she had died. He said that he felt guilty
because the day before, after finishing work, he felt very anxious and
decided to call a woman to his office to have sex around the same time
he had his appointment with me. Asked about the dream, he said that
perhaps he felt guilty toward his girlfriend, that by staying with the
prostitute he was perhaps destroying her. I said he tried to “get me
involved” in order to convince himself that I, like his girlfriend, would
be against him having sex with a prostitute. It seems as if he needed to
place the girlfriend-mother outside, in me, to make me an accomplice
because it will be terrible for him to feel that I could be completely indif-
ferent whether he had sex, or not, with a prostitute. There is a powerless,
revengeful, hopeless, helpless, angry child that wishes to overpower his
mother by getting her involved. He interrupted and said: “Well, every
child likes to get his mother involved”. “Yes,” I said, “but not at the
age of forty-five”. Silence. Then he said: “That is hard, like a slap on
the face”. The problem, I said, was not just the search for a mother out-
side by an orphan child who wished to control her by making her an
accomplice; the problem, I thought, was the relationship between the
child and the mother inside his head (negative links), the attitude of an
indifferent mother-part of him (forty-five year old) who looked to the
other side, in order to ignore a distressed, impotent, revengeful, lonely,
confused child, similar to how he might have felt his mother treated
him when he was little.
He was the fourth child and third boy of John Arthur Lawrence, a coal
miner and heavy drinker, from Nottinghamshire. His mother, Lydia
Beardsall, came from an impoverished middle class family, a school
teacher, who was considered by her parents to have married below her
social class. Working in the mines was a family matter; Lawrence’s three
paternal uncles worked as miners and it was expected the boys in the
family would follow a similar model. Sons and Lovers (1995), one of his
first novels, is considered to represent his autobiography. In that novel,
Lawrence expressed great dislike toward his father whom he portrayed
as a primitive drunkard. He had three older siblings and one younger
sister. George, the oldest, out-lived David Herbert and was a bit of a
trouble-maker; then came Ernest, who died at the age of twenty-three,
followed by his sister, Emily. Then David Herbert was born, who died
in 1930 from tuberculosis at the age forty-five. His younger sister was
Lettice Ada.
If we were to measure success in the case of this family, it would
mostly be from the perspective of D. H. Lawrence’s literary work,
which allowed them to have a place in history. Perhaps we could say
that, according to Meltzer (1992), he became a “parasite” of his moth-
er’s mind.10 We could now ask, how could Lydia, who had an intel-
lectual mind, choose to marry an alcoholic brute, a primitive man such
as Arthur Lawrence? Could it be she was unconsciously encouraged
by oedipal ambivalence of “forbidden” desires and guilt? If he was a
drunk, primitive, and sexually aggressive partner, he could have been
the “dirty” active initiator of any sexual activity that would have con-
sequentially made her a sort a passive and “innocent” prey, similar to
the dynamics present in the fairytale of “The Beauty and the Beast”.
A miner on the other hand, who digs out and searches inside the earth—
“mother earth”—could be driven by unconscious desires to search the
mother’s entrails, perhaps satisfying a need to get closer in order to
either possess her or, following Klein, to destroy inner children, or both.
We could also infer from Lawrence’s autobiographical novel Sons and
Lovers, how seductive his mother was with her sons, as a way of finding
a narcissistic completion of her own unfulfilled intellectual ambitions.
In a letter written to his editors, portraying a summary of the novel’s
plot, Lawrence (1995) presented this insightful account:
her husband, so the children are born of passion, and have heaps
of vitality. But as her sons grow up she selects them as lovers—
first the eldest, then the second. These sons are urged into life by
their reciprocal love of their mother—urged on and on. But when
they come to manhood, they can’t love, because their mother is the
strongest power in their lives and holds them … (p. xv)
been interested in women: “It was absolutely pure shyness”. His two
sisters were forced to leave home after becoming pregnant at the age
of seventeen and eighteen respectively, and both got married shortly
after dropping out of high school. His father, similar to Lawrence’s,
was described as a “brute, violent, and cruel”, who continuously pun-
ished them for the slightest wrong-doing. His mother, who in her youth
worked as a teacher, was rather shy and phobic, to the extent of never
leaving the house: “She was very submissive and frightened of my
father’s aggression and powerful will.”
When he was around ten and his older sister thirteen, she started
to visit his bed at night and initiated sexual relations with vaginal
penetration in which she played the active role while he remained pas-
sive. Eventually she confessed to him that her father was also having
sex with her, and latter confirmed that this practice finally stopped
when she was about fifteen years old. Although his younger sister
never shared similar experiences with him, he guessed that it could
have happened to her too. He later commented that around the age
of twelve, he had sex with two little neighbour girls, something that
filled him with remorse up to the present day. He became the mother’s
favourite child and “saviour”, and, unlike his sisters, she protected him
from the father’s insensitive aggression. This form of liaison linked them
both in secret behind his father’s brutality. The incestuous relationship
with his sister became a displacement of his own oedipal desires toward
his mother, inducing a covert narcissistic tie, the unconscious feeling
of becoming her narcissistic completion, her intellectual champion and
redeemer from hopelessness and emotional penuries; after all his name
was Moses.
At the age of twenty-seven he married a neighbour and classmate;
however, if we were to be truthful to the facts, it would be more accurate
to state—as I once told him—that “she had married him”. He became
very religious, attended church regularly, and was very involved in vol-
untary work for the parish. Later in the analysis it became clear that
his piousness was linked to guilt and a sense of shame related to his
premature incestuous experiences. I believe that similar to Lawrence,
Moses’ narcissistic attachment to his mother provided him with a sig-
nificant desire to achieve, which in the end did not protect him from
guilt and remorse. His interest in architecture carried the childhood
aspiration of the medieval knight who fought the dragon and finally
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Conclusion
The ego uses several forms of defence to protect the self from emotions
induced by repetitious pre-conceptual traumas that remain opera-
tive via the presence of active superego identifications. Among these
emotions we usually observe helplessness, hopelessness, and anxiety
in all its forms: annihilation, separation, and/or castration. The kind
of defence employed by the ego varies depending on a series of vari-
ables related to culture, family structure, age, gender, and so on. In this
chapter, I have attempted to present patients who resort to a kind of
defence that classical analysis has referred to as “perversion”; however,
this word has become a sort of tendentious expression with a penumbra
of associations that render it unreliable. I have decided to use the meta-
psychological concept and meaning that remain behind it by referring
instead to the “omnipotent desire” unconsciously present in an internal
child element that tries to make the other an accomplice of a certain kind
of sexual pleasure or “jouissance”. This omnipotent desire and need for
control represents the main solutions the internal child element uses
in order to deal with a sense of hopelessness, helplessness, anxiety,
and unresolved mourning. Using a patient’s expression, I labelled this
desire or tropism the “hole in the screen”. Obviously, the particular con-
figuration of this kind of defence results from whatever has taken place
during the structuring of pre-conceptual trauma, of how a child who
often felt lost and helpless, was able to find hope and felt rescued by the
complicity of the “sexual game” the powerful adults, who encircled this
child, were willing to play. I described it as a kind of “Ariadne’s threat”
that provides a sense of hope, but at the same time, is extremely danger-
ous because the consequences of guilt and punishment implicit in such
a compulsive and collusive desire are usually extremely significant and
behaviour determinant.
CHAPTER FOURTEEN
Introduction
Phantasies related to pregnancy can usually be found, like several
other mental issues, in the folklore and legends of different cultures.
die Believing that men alone were responsible for procreation, Aristotle
wrote in his fourth book, Generation of Animals, that, “Anyone who
does not take after his parents is really in a way a monstrosity, since
in these cases Nature has in a way strayed from the generic type. The
first beginning of this deviation is when a female is formed instead of
a male”, and as a consequence, “the female is as it were a deformed
male”. Based on these theories, Empedocles is credited with believ-
ing that progeny would be influenced by the mother’s imagination, by
images she might have gazed upon during her pregnancy. “Thus, fol-
lowing Empedocles’ theory”, writes Huet (1993), “it was long believed
that monsters, inasmuch as they did not resemble their parents, could
well be the result of a mother’s fevered and passionate consideration
* Read at the 46th IPA Congress, Chicago, Illinois, 29 July to 1 August 1 2009.
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… here is set forth the truth concerning four horrible crimes which
devils commit against infants, both in the mother’s womb and after-
wards. And since the devils do these things through the medium of
women, and not men, this form of homicide is associated rather
with women than with men.
At one point, she said she had never felt very feminine and referred
to a recurrent dream in which she was chased by a very good-looking
women. I told her she feared the femininity in her, because she felt it
was dirty and vengeful, something that became more obvious after we
discussed the importance of the oedipal nature of her libidinal approach
towards older men. She also wondered if her father would have been
more loving if she had been a boy. She then reported the following
dream: She was having sexual relations with her husband when suddenly
they were interrupted by her mother who came into their room. In another
scene they were shopping and realised that her mother was following them.
She turned towards her and very angrily told her to leave them alone. I said
that an envious internal “mother part” in her was attacking her desire
to become pregnant, just as she might have done as a child towards her
own mother. As a mechanism of self-envy, she was now both—the envi-
ous child she used to be, as well as the pregnant mother she might wish
to become. She answered that she was indeed attempting to become
pregnant, but feared she might not become pregnant after all. Sometime
after this, she brought a dream she said she had never had before: She
was bitterly beating her mother, like a punching bag. I said she was trying
to destroy the babies in her, in the same manner she wanted to destroy
them inside her mother when she was a child.
At the beginning of the next session she remembered two dreams:
She is in her Madrid apartment and has three pets, a cat, a dog and a deer, like
Bambi. “But this Bambi”, she says, “does not feel very comfortable because she
is not in her environment in the forest, and appears very anxious about that”.
Then I (the analyst) appear and tell the deer not to worry, that I will take her
to my farm where she is going to have plenty of room and she feels very grate-
ful and relieved. In the second dream, she is involved in some acrobatics and
during the first act she performs very well, but in a second act, when she will
need her husband to assist her, he does not arrive. She is very concerned and
wakes up. She says it is as though there were two of her, one that could
take care of the cat and dog, and another one that is not able to take care
of the deer. Also, in the other dream there is one part that feels every-
thing is okay, but does not feel well because of her husband’s absence.
I said she feels very threatened by her desire to trust me.
After a long pause, she said she was struggling to tell me about other
dreams and fantasies about sex that she doesn’t speak about because she
feels ashamed. In a third dream she also had that night she is masturbat-
ing and her stepfather is with her in the same bed but sleeping and she cannot
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have an orgasm because he is there, so she goes to another room but cannot
reach it there either. She said that she doesn’t have a vaginal orgasm and
that bothers her. Some of her friends say they have them often but she
doesn’t want to believe them. Sometimes she has an orgasm while sleep-
ing and she wonders if they are vaginal or just like masturbation. I said
that in her struggle to trust me she seems to be dealing with two other
issues; on the one hand, she wonders if I will fail her like her father or
her husband in the dream; on the other hand, there is a confused part
of her that is not clear about the limits of trust. If she shares all of her
sexual phantasies, that could mean, as in her dream, that she is trying to
seduce men in order to avenge her rejecting father, or to find a sexuality
of her own, away from her father, or to establish a trusting relationship
with men. She does not know if she should disregard men completely
and achieve an orgasm on her own, or take a chance and trust men and
use their penis to have an orgasm or to have a baby. She says, “I am
trying to find my own way out”. Two months later, she states that the
nurse called to inform her that her blood test was positive, although she
did not present any signs of pregnancy. She fears delivery because it
could be too painful, that she could have a miscarriage, or that the baby
could be deformed, having six fingers, Down syndrome, or cleft lip.
I said she is pregnant with twins. She asks how do I know, and I explain
that from what she is telling me she carries two babies, one in her uterus
and another in her mind. The one in the uterus is just “news” on the
telephone; the other in her mind seems to be an older one, envious and
murderous who wishes to get rid of the baby in the uterus. Perhaps
she experienced similar envious feelings towards her mother as a child,
when she feared she could have become pregnant with a baby brother
or sister from her stepfather (López-Corvo, 2006a, p. 119).
She seems to be beating her mind like a “punching bag”. Two ses-
sions latter she presented a dream related to what we had previously
discussed. She had given birth to a beautiful baby, who suddenly turns black.
She asks her husband if he has any black genes in him; something he denies.
Then she looks at the baby closely and realises that the black colour disappears
and the skin turns white when she rubs it. She states she does not know
why she had a dream like that; there are no black people in her fam-
ily. She remembers that the place where she lived as a child with her
grandparents was a city where a great majority of the population was
black. “Some of them worked as maids in our home. There was a little
girl, the daughter of a women who worked for my grandparents, and
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I could have thought she was my sister, or perhaps that her parents
were my own, because after all, my grandparents looked too old to be
my real parents or perhaps I was envious of that little black girl.” She
also remembered a woman teacher when she was at the university,
who she liked very much and phantasised that she was her mother. She
even followed her once to see where she lived. After a long pause, she
stated that she still feels she could have a miscarriage, and also that a
friend told her breast feeding was very painful and she is very sensi-
tive around her nipples. She needs to have an operation involving one
of her teeth because she could lose it, but also fears that the medicine
she will need to take—penicillin, cortisone, and another she does not
remember—could be harmful to the baby. I again repeat that she seems
to be pregnant with twins, that the baby in her mind looks like a little
envious, murderous black baby who wishes to poison the uterus’ baby
in order to destroy it.
At the last session before Christmas, she rings the bell in a rather
unusual manner, twice at once. I think that I should try to find out
what this ringing means; my phantasy is that she is very happy. She
said that since it was the last session she would like to pay, and writes
a cheque. She also said that a pregnant friend at work had complained
that she does not feel well, and was crying because she was afraid of
what pregnancy might do to her body. She said to her—recalling some
of what we have discussed in session—that pregnancy is a natural
thing and she should not feel threatened. She then explained that she
feels very happy because she feels more certain about her pregnancy.
Her husband has told her that because she had always been so uncer-
tain about being pregnant, he feared she could lose the baby, but she
told him that she is completely certain she will have this baby. He is
afraid to have sex with her but she reassured him that nothing will hap-
pen. She paused. She describes very feminine feelings, perhaps because
she never thought before she could have ever become pregnant, and
now she is. She feels she is too stingy with herself, and would like to
buy some new things to wear, like a nice shirt to wear at a party this
weekend. After a pause, I said that it seems to me she feels very happy
and I wonder if it is because this is her last session. She emphatically
says no. “There are several things. My husband is staying with me
for a few days, I am also going to Spain after the holidays, and will
not be back until the seventeenth of January (I am starting work on
the ninth).” Also, she described starting to enjoy being pregnant and
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about before, that is, of a “toxic baby” in her head. She doesn’t know the
gender of her baby, she would like a boy but it would be nice to have a
girl too. “I will give her all I didn’t have myself as a child.” After a pause
she said that while she was in Madrid her uncle (her mother’s brother)
did not call her, he is a macho kind of guy who does not care very much
about his family. Also her other uncle who lived in Argentina was angry
because she did not send them an invitation to her wedding, “It didn’t
make sense to send an invitation since he was living so far away. I don’t
trust men in my family, starting with my father, they just don’t care.”
I said that perhaps both dreams are related, meaning that she is sensing
that her baby inside her now is a baby threatened by her inner dogs of
anger, frustration, and mostly revenge, because she felt so ignored by
all of her family; that her baby is being eaten by a vengeful hope against
those she felt ignored her, including her mother who placed her at birth
for four years with her grandparents. It seems as if she feels that once
she has her baby, she will not need anyone, not her husband, and per-
haps not even her analyst. It will be a “revengeful baby”. She adds that
a part of herself might feel like that but not all of her.
Sometime later, she said she does not wish to breastfeed because she
feels very sensitive to anybody touching her breasts; when her husband
tries it, she discourages him (makes a gesture like saying “go away”).
“Here in the city everybody talks about breastfeeding, but it is not the
same in Spain. I don’t remember when exactly I started to feel like that,
but I remember taking some hormones for many years because of that.
The sensation I feel on the breast is very unpleasant similar to what I
feel on my left foot after I had an accident and was operated on, as if
they might have pinched a nerve or something, and I got this funny
sensation.” “What happened?” I ask. “Well I was riding a horse and I
fell and twisted my ankle.” “And you were very fond of horses?” I ask
from a countertransference feeling that horses usually take the place of
an absent father, as has happened to her. “Yes,” she said, “I was very
fond of horses, and I fell many times and hurt my left arm and my
head, always on the left side. When I hurt my ankle it got operated on
and I had to stay in the hospital, and I remember I was on a bed after
the operation, I couldn’t move and my horse trainer came to visit. He
was much older, like a father to me, I was only fifteen, and he started
to stroke my hair and then my face and then my breast, he touched
my vagina and then placed himself on top of me and kissed me. I felt
completely disgusted for what he did”. I said: “I gather that was not
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very fatherly.” “It wasn’t”, she answered. “After that I quit going for
the horses. I really loved them. I expected my mother to say something;
I told her what happened but she said nothing to this guy when she saw
him.” “I wonder if you feel that there could be a relationship between
the feeling at your foot that you were experiencing at the hospital and
the stroking of your breast by this ‘father like’ guy. For, after all, you
say that both sensations felt the same.” “Well, it could be, I don’t know,
but he also touched my vagina.” “Well, in which way is your vagina
different from your breast?” “I don’t mind men performing oral sex
on my clitoris but not in my vagina. Down there is too gross, it’s not
nice. People talk about vaginal orgasms, but I have never had a vaginal
orgasm, do you think it could be because of that?” “Perhaps”, I said, “it
is the case that your capacity to trust felt betrayed and injured in three
places, all on your left side as you said: your ankle from the horse, your
breast and genitals from your trainer, and your heart from your father.
I wonder if you might fear further injury from your child or from me.”
At her last session, the day she was supposed to have her child,
she came with her husband on their way to the hospital. She was very
upset because her doctor said he was going to induce the labour and
she wished for a natural birth. I said that inducing means to assist
the uterus; it is a natural procedure the Greeks knew over 2500 years
ago. She said that this makes her feel better, but I saw the fear in her
eyes. I said—referring to previous material—that perhaps she fears the
delivery because an “arrogant part” of her wishes to take over, to be
in charge, and it is difficult for her to think that “a baby is pregnant
with her” and not the other way around: that the baby is in charge, and
what is really happening is that it might not need her m any longer as a
hostess and could dismiss her, fire her. This, I could understand, would
make her feel sad but not frightened.
I saw this patient only a few more times because her husband was
abruptly transferred to another city. At that time she was dealing with
some signs of depression and anxiety due to ambivalent feelings about
her child. It became clear that her extreme sensitivity around her nip-
ples was already a rejection of maternity, that the presence of her baby
signified that her own phantasy of being herself forever a baby in search
of the parents she never had, was now threatened by the presence of a
child who had made her a mother.
Donna is a forty-two-year-old, married woman who consulted
due to marital conflicts and ambivalent feelings about becoming
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pregnant. She had been in analysis three times weekly for the last two
and a half years. Her mother was a chronic schizophrenic and her father
was physically very ill; she also had a younger sister she has seen very
rarely during the past twenty years. At the beginning of her analysis
she often referred to two issues: her envious feelings in relation to a
friend who has two babies and seems very happy; and about two very
aggressive puppies. She was advised to take the puppies’ toys away, but
feared if she were to do that they might end up chewing all of her fur-
niture. Also, she and her husband might end up being isolated because
the dogs could bite some of their friends’ children. She felt M—her
husband—was also like a child, very demanding, gave no support, and
she thought that if she were to have a baby he might be too jealous. She
thought she has nobody, her mother was completely crazy, she does not
know the whereabouts of her younger sister whom she has not seen
for many years, and her father, who lives far away, is also crazy. “I feel
completely alone.” She cries. Her husband thinks if they were to have
a child, she would have to give up her work, will stop making money
for many years, and they might end up being destitute. She has the
phantasy also that she will give birth to a child with Down syndrome
or leukaemia, like a friend’s child who was diagnosed with this illness
that has cost them a fortune. I then said she felt completely alone and
helpless to deal with a very envious, angry, and destructive internal
baby that will “chew” their comfort and happiness and will leave them
penniless. The main conflict would be the terrifying combination of a
super-terrible child and completely helpless parents. Also, in her head,
she already felt “pregnant” with this baby, making it impossible to dis-
criminate between this phantasy and what it really meant to have a true
child. The problem could also be the envy they felt towards a “very
happy child and family”, with a fantastic mother who could became
pregnant any time without any trouble. Not only did they feel envious
towards their friends’ family, but also towards the inner happy family
they wish to become. It seems as if out of envy, this “inner happy fam-
ily” was viciously attacked in their heads beyond repair, by this inner,
greedy, callous, omnipotent, envious, destructive “puppy-baby”.
When she was sixteen she became very promiscuous and did not
stop until she was around twenty-three, at the time her father attempted
suicide. “I was very close to him; I was his confidante for almost eve-
rything.” I said it seemed her sexuality was in some way related to
her father; perhaps because she felt betrayed by him, she might have
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in her head, pregnant with her father’s penis, or that he favoured her
over her mother and sister.
Sometime later, she says, crying, that she is feeling terrible because
she thought she was not pregnant: “It is so hard to try and fail.” Her hus-
band said that she felt bad before because she did not want to become
pregnant, and felt bad again now because she wants to get pregnant.
“Why is it like that?” she asked. I say it is like going from a serial killer
to Mother Theresa and nothing in between. After a pause she stated
that she and her husband had been fighting bitterly all week. I said that
perhaps they were very frightened because they seem to be considering
pregnancy, very seriously. She recalled a long dream: She was running
because a killer in the form of her old boss, Z, was after her and she needed to
find a place to hide. She approached a hotel and felt it would be safe. Suddenly,
when she entered the room, out of one of the doors in the room, around five
children came prancing. She asked them where they had come from and they
said the bathroom and then she realised that it must have been a bathroom with
a double entrance, and then their mum came to help. They locked the door to
the bathroom so the kids couldn’t come back out. She sat back down on the bed,
but more kids came from the door on the other side of her room. At this point,
she was quite afraid as she realised she wasn’t safe and that Z could find her.
She was also afraid of the kids possibly saying something to Z. In the next
scene, she started running, and as she did, she saw her friends and family
(husband, father, possibly her sister) in front of her. She couldn’t catch up and
was frustrated and angry that they weren’t waiting for her. Afraid they were
leaving her behind with a killer out to get her, she sped up. She ran so fast she
left everyone else behind her. The scene changed. She was on the couch of a dear
friend and felt safe there, but could see this friend was already shot and was
slowly dying. The woman looked at her and said, “Oh, it’s great! You’re preg-
nant!” She asked her what she meant and she said, “Just look at your hands—
that’s a sign that you’re pregnant”. Apparently she had taken some kind of
supplement, which makes veins appear under the skin, like Middle Eastern
henna designs. The woman was a bit disgusted but she encouraged her. There
was dried blood under all of her nails. She said, “No, don’t worry, it’s a good
thing!”
She did not know why she was running from Z. The children from
the bathroom she associated with her fear of being inseminated and
then having more than one child. She was trying to get an appointment
with a specialist for a possible implantation of eggs. She felt the injured
woman could be me, but thought it could also represent a part of her
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telling her not to worry, but did not know why she was shot. The henna
theme represented for her something very feminine that only women
used. I asked if she was physically attracted to Z and she said, “Yes, at
the beginning”. I said that I wondered if he might be taking the place of
her father in the dream, that perhaps she was running from childhood
confusions that frightened her, like having babies with her father or
children being born out of the bathroom, from the mother’s anus. That
perhaps she was desperately running away from childhood phantasies
(oedipal phantasies) related to the serial killer in her, in order to become
pregnant. The wounded woman could be representing the analyst, as
she said; wounded might mean that I might not have a strong voice. She
remarked: “Wouldn’t it be wonderful if I were to be pregnant like the
dream says?” I say yes. The next day she called very excited, saying that
her pregnancy test was positive!
Let us consider a last example. A newlywed woman in her forties
complained sadly that she had very little sex with her husband even
before they got married, and felt that she might even end up divorc-
ing him for this reason. I suggested that perhaps she married him for
just that reason. She found a man whose sexual inhibitions allowed her
to render him useless, like an oedipal revenge against her abandoning
father. In spite of this ambivalence about their sexuality, fantasies of
divorce and concern about her age, at one point she started to make
plans to become pregnant. A phantasised baby started to develop, often
confused with a real one that demanded time from her work, the cause
of financial restrictions to the point of having to depend on her husband
whom she did not trust. In the course of attempting her pregnancy,
they started to have sex daily about a week before and a week after her
menstruation. Since she said nothing about this radical change from
before, when four or five months would elapse without sex, I said that
the baby in her head was inducing her to forgive her husband-father,
because their sexuality had changed drastically, once she decided, and
not him, to have sex in order to have a baby. She said nothing about
this and after a long pause said that she brought her cat downstairs
and told her, with “tears in my eyes, that it could no longer sleep with
me, on our bed, because it was going to bother the baby”. It is a cat she
had from the time she was single, that we identified with an internal
revengeful child in her. I said that perhaps she was remembering what
her mother could have told her when her younger sibling was born and
added that perhaps the cat represented that part of herself that felt then
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very jealous about her mother being pregnant and that now might feel
jealous about herself becoming pregnant. She answered saying it was
an interesting idea and remembered a dream she had the night before:
She was driving at night on a country road and felt she hit something and
stopped to investigate and found she had killed a raccoon that was carrying a
baby in its mouth.
Phantasies associated to pregnancy are present in all women;
however, the configuration of these phantasies might be different on a
continuum from one extreme of favouring impregnation, to another of
conflicting with it. I have the impression that the three patients presented
here were able to become pregnant helped by the way the analytical
work evolved, predominantly by making conscious those phantasies
related to envious elements which attacked internally creative aspects
of the self, in a manner compatible with self-envy mechanisms. I found
it remarkable how Donna, the second patient, intuitively perceived her
pregnancy in her dream.
CHAPTER FIFTEEN
—López-Corvo
—Arnold Geulincx
(Quoted by Beckett in Murphy)
A “freedom drive”
The fact that totalitarianism—or absence of freedom—and creativity are
absolutely contradictory, can be deducted from the concept of “kitsch
art”. Kitsch is a German word signifying an inferior and aesthetically
poor form of talent. It was used to refer to the type of art produced dur-
ing the communist totalitarian domination of the Soviet Union; interest-
ingly, it can also be observed in the creativity of prison inmates.
At the beginning of Chapter Three I mentioned a comment made
by a patient, who described himself has having been “adultnapped”,
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something that filled her with anger and sadness. She then said: “It is
too unfair to put that burden on a little boy.”
Following Lacan’s famous aphorism, we are in many ways our own
“mother’s desire”; however, this form of psychological captivity is often
brought to extremes. From a historical point of view, for instance, we
could think of the Vestals, the priestesses of the Vestal goddess, in ancient
Rome, who were taken at a very early age to remain for the rest of their
lives in charge of the “sacred fire”. Before the invention of matches, it
was absolutely necessary for any “civilised” inhabitants—in order to
survive, face harsh winters, or cook—to guarantee the continuance of an
ongoing fire. The Vestals gave way to Christian nuns, who had no need
to keep any everlasting fire—except their “own”,1 “‘married’ as they
were to Jesus in spirit, in order, I think, to exercise advocacy for parents”
sins in front of all mighty God. The history of Saint Brigit in Ireland’s
Druid mythology, for instance, followed this pattern of shifting from a
pagan priestess to a Christian saint. It was very helpful to have such a
possibility of winning indulgences and securing a place in Heaven with
the help of a “sacrificed” daughter. The virginity equally demanded of
vestals2 and nuns, as a way to remain “pure”, confirms the hypothesis
that the main unconscious purpose for their sacrifice was, and still is, to
intervene with God on behalf of their relations, in order to forgive them
from any sexual wrongdoing. A similar sacrifice was also demanded in
the Catholic Church, for sons to become priests, possibly for the same
unconscious reasons that their sisters became nuns.3
Unresolved particular traumatic patterns projected on to the chil-
dren, become a dominant narcissistic bond that powerfully induces the
child to take over the role of rescuer of his/her parents, who felt them-
selves entrapped by their own particular pre-conceptual traumas. The
bond then narcissistically established, becomes an entrenched mission
impossible for the child to break, so as to eventually achieve a needed
sense of autonomy and independence indispensable for mental growth.
In other words, the “child hero” is really a “child slave”, a “narcissistic
appendix” entangled in his/her mother’s desire, like an insect in a spi-
der’s web.
I have very often observed, in the treatment of adolescents with
drug dependency, the existence of a familiar equation resulting from
the interaction between the type of drug in use and the seriousness
of the dependency, on the one hand, and the ascendancy or absence of
the parents on the other. The severity of the case usually moves along a
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“Anal children”
Samuel Beckett started psychotherapy with Wilfred Bion in 1934. It is
said that he was suffering from a “crippling neurosis” as the result of
being “inextricably tied to a rejecting, harsh, and demanding mother”
(Stevens, 2005, p. 631). On Bion’s invitation Beckett attended a lecture at
the Tavistock given by Carl Jung. An important aspect of the conference
referred to a ten-year-old girl who presented a dream that Jung felt was
an uncanny premonition of her early death, because “she had never
been born entirely” (Jung, 1968, p. 107). According to Stevens (2005) this
remark had a profound significance for Beckett, who
And also:
Faeces are experienced not only as babies who live inside the anus,
but also as food to feed them. The mother could also be preserved
inside the baby’s anus in the form of mother-breast-faeces-baby,
withheld, controlled, or expelled omnipotently at their wish.
(Ibid.)
home alone with the exams and several different textbooks. I began to correct
answers when another girlfriend, B, dropped in. At that time, I was trying to
find answers, but I dropped my sheet and had a hard time finding it. At this
point, I am not sure what happened. I think I gave up and brought the exam
back to the teacher.”
I thought, as stated once by Freud, that this dream represented a
summary of the whole family dynamic.5 She said she did not know
what the dream meant and I said that it seems as if her dream was tell-
ing us that she was taking Martin’s place, because in reality, different
from him, she was not writing any exam. It is a long dream where the
main theme of her writing an exam persists through the whole dream
in spite of the different scenes. It seemed as if Martin did not exist at
all and as if she was continuously “pregnant” with him. The mother
approved and added that she did want for him to be her real child.
She had attempted several fertilisation procedures without any result.
I said, “So, you flunk maternity”. She associated the teacher with the
therapist. I asked, why two teachers? “I don’t know, perhaps you are
the first teacher and my husband the second. The people that came into
the room are in reality friends of my husband and in the dream they
were friends of the second teacher”. I said it was a much diluted father
because his presence was very distant and his friends were making
noises and disturbing. The father added: “She made of Martin her own
project”. About the “twenty-one questions” in the exam, she associates
this with the age she was when her own mother insisted she take a job
distant from the town where her family was living, indicating perhaps
a form of breaking away from her mother’s dependency. At this point
the father asked Martin to wake up, while he protested, saying he was
completely awake. I then said that Martin was such a good child that
he has provided his mother with a kind of foetus, always sleeping, not
interested in issues in which he ought to be interested and not being
able to look after his school obligations. It seems also that his mother
took over as if she remains pregnant with Martin, as if he was not yet
born, and the father was so “diluted” that he was unable to step in and
“rescue” or “deliver” the child from the mother’s strong symbiotic pull-
ing, perhaps because he felt that after all, Martin was not his own bio-
logical child, not “his own project” or he felt jealous of Martin and his
wife’s relationship. I also said to the mother that maintaining the inten-
tion throughout the whole dream of finding a way to pass the exam
could have portrayed a strong and persistent desire to “give birth” to
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Martin. A few minutes after this interpretation, Martin sat on the sofa
for the first time looking very surprised, but said nothing.
It was very painful for the mother to accept that Martin was adopted
because that implied she was unable to become pregnant, was barren,
and had failed becoming a mother. On the other hand, she was deal-
ing also with the psychotic delusion of confusing a phantasised child
with the real one.6 She destroyed the true child in order to keep alive
the imaginary one, as she was unable to mourn for her “empty” womb,
and Martin became an “unborn child to be born”. If this were to be
true, what exactly induced the mother, with such intensity, to become
unconsciously pregnant with Martin? From previous information she
had provided, we knew that she had two ectopic pregnancies and later
feared becoming pregnant because she thought it was too painful.
She associated this fear with the memory of being ill with meningitis
around the age of twelve, when she suffered an unbearable pain she had
never again experienced. The doctor who was treating her at that time
also abused her sexually by manipulating her vagina with his finger.
“I was also abused by my older brother around this same time, and
many years later on I was raped by a fellow worker.” In order to avoid
mourning the narcissistic injuries left by such abuses, she resorted to
the manic denial of becoming mentally pregnant with Martin, who also
disliked being adopted, something he attempted to deny by providing
his mother with an eternal foetus who remained unborn. Martin had
often shared the phantasy about his desire to remain a child all of his
life. Where in her mind had she kept this child for so many years? In
which cryptic space different from her uterus? After all, the uterus is an
organ that sets the exactness of time: menstruation every month, and
birth after nine months, as well as the distance in space by establish-
ing at birth the difference between the thou and the I. I believe Martin
unconsciously attacked any kind of success that could have resulted
in independence and freedom, such as school achievement or psycho-
therapy, struggling to identify with and to provide his mother with the
condition of a “faecal phallus”.
Unable to produce a child of her own, perhaps due to a nameless
oedipal terror (as consequence of being sexually abused), she decided
not to adopt but to “steal” a baby, as if she could become pregnant in
her mind only, by confusing her phantasy with her reality. The father, on
the other hand, remained distant not only as a way to give the mother
sufficient room to freely exercise her need “to fulfil her project”, but
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everything in her parents’ house was old, dark, and dirty, completely
different from her new apartment, newly painted, and where every-
thing would be arranged by herself.
From the perspective of this material we could infer, that she was
attempting to break away from her parents’ pull by parting from the
mother’s “idealised anal claustrum“: from “a house old, dark, and dirty”
to a new place of her own that she could “paint” as she wished, some-
thing “livelier” instead of “dead faces”. She discovered that her internal
struggle against the “authority” (“the landlord’s forbidden clauses”)
was not so difficult after all; it was more the consequence of her ego’s
submissive and not-daring attitude towards her superego. The dream,
I think, portrayed additional fine details about her attempt to break
away from her internal need to remain in the maternal claustrum. We
could interpret, following her dream, that she ventured into the “hill-
breast-behind” in order to convince a “masculine” part of herself that
she is no longer jealous of her father-brothers’ penises, which were used
to penetrate her mother’s idealised behind. The presence of the “happy-
faeces-whores”, that had previously been experienced as powerful and
attractive, capable of enviously degrading the “good-breast”, are also
an expression of this anal idealisation she is trying to break away from.
However, there is still at the end, the stubbornness of a “scab” that
resisted being removed, resisted facing the painful separation, the lone-
liness of trying to go on her own, to give up the ongoing happy party of
the idealised “whore-faeces” and of the resourceful manic triumph of
stealing the father’s penis from her mother (vibrator).
fire me afterwards. She then became very upset and stated that she
understood nothing.
I felt she was incapable of freeing herself from the “narcissistic
weight” of the other. She resisted with terror anything she conceived
as “heterogeneous”, as different, like the outside space, the unlike-
ness; it was like a true form of “heterophobia”, or fear of “otherness”.
It was essential to capture and withhold the object in order to expel it
afterwards.
She was the eldest of three girls, and very early, together with her
mother, were all abandoned by her father when he left the country for
political reasons. She grew up with a deep sense of responsibility for
her two younger sisters and her frightened, insecure, and economically
dependent mother. This feeling, together with an aggressive sibling
rivalry, induced in her the need to identify with the absent father as a
form of denying the painful lost. At one point, she revealed with great
difficulty and anxiety, a masturbatory phantasy where she felt in pos-
session of an artificial penis.
At the next session, she talked about her brother-in-law, and of his
need to take sleeping pills, and asked if I could give her a prescription.
“He is so … skinny, so insignificant, always depressed. He was the eld-
est of three brothers, was never wanted by his mother and was born
with a fractured arm. When his mother died they found him huddled
in his apartment, sleeping on a mattress on the floor, with a candle illu-
minating his own picture when he was a baby, several Teddy bears and
dolls scattered around, plates, clothes throughout the garden. It was
horrible … [pause] … F [her son] is travelling to the USA and he wished
to take his girlfriend with him, and I said it was unnecessary to take her
because he is going there to work, and I don’t know what is he going to
do there with her.” At that moment, she lifted her head off the couch and
said jokingly: “You should put something on the pillow so I don’t get
contaminated from other patients.” Then I said to her, that she wished to
be the only child, without other “couch” sisters, or perhaps she wanted
to be different from her own sisters, perhaps to be a boy, although she
was becoming more aware, with great sadness and horror, that she was
not a boy. She did not wish to be such an “insignificant” boy resembling
her brother-in-law, who like her, was born with a fractured arm-penis,
with a fabricated penis, a lie. It was difficult for her to imagine, or possi-
bly filled her with envy to think, that there were other men who received
a real penis and wished to use it, like her son F with his girlfriend.
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Her pure and eloquent blood Spoke in her cheeks, and so distinctly
wrought that one might almost say, her body thought!
—John Donne
The sorrow which has no vent in tears may make other organs
weep.
Introduction
When dealing with psychosomatic disturbances, we could consider
Henry Maudsley’s famous maxim shown above, as a masterful sum-
mary of psychosomatic dynamics. It is not by chance that the French
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language chose the same root to designate the pleura, the membrane
that covers the lungs, and pleurer, the verb meaning “to weep”; more-
over, the association between clinical depression and respiratory ail-
ments is well known. I have observed in the unconscious phantasies
of certain patients, how some symbolism is linked to specific forms
of psychosomatic ailments. For instance, the existing relationship
between unresolved mourning and rheumatoid arthritis; between
hyperthyroidism and a compulsive need to maintain control over
feared murderous oedipal inclinations; or between relentless, hid-
den, murderous, envious, and retaliatory attacks on the object and the
banishing of the spoils in ulcerative colitis. I agree with McDougal’s
(1989) statement, that careful listening might often help us find psy-
chosomatic symptoms otherwise overlooked. We could distinguish,
depending on the degree of somatic compromise, between sporadic
somatic symptoms, and somatic structures we refer to as psychoso-
matics. Transient psychosomatic symptomatology is rather common
in the consulting room, in contrast with chronic and well structured
somatic disorders, which appear to a lesser degree, possibly because
patients presenting this kind of pathology are usually retained within
medical facilities and seldom referred to analysis. In fact, most of the
patients I have observed with somatic disturbances had come for
other reasons, and only afterwards have we discovered this form of
pathology.
Some researchers have used the Faustian pact1 as a metaphor
to understand some dynamics in psychosomatic patients, such as
Lefebvre (1988), who used it in a case of ulcerative colitis. I believe
there is a similar mechanism between the superego acting as
Mephistopheles, and the ego acting as Dr Faustus, where the “sacrifice”
is represented by surrendering some somatic function in exchange for a
certain achievement or amenity, similar to Faustus’ demands of power,
wealth, wisdom, women, and so on. There are two important aspects
to be considered: i) the superego’s primitive brutality is heightened
or demonised by the effect of the cruelty present in the identifications
from pre-conceptual traumas; ii) the “somatic concessions” made by
the ego to the demonised superego in order to ease castration fear, are
meaningfully related to the physiology of the organ selected, a situa-
tion that was present in a patient who became paralysed (“dead”) with
rheumatic pathology because of guilt experienced for being alive after
the death of a loved one.
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flight baF”, and the “pairing baP”. All ba have a leader, although in
the pairing group it would be “non-existing”, that is, “unborn” or not
identified with a person, but with a metaphor—such as a messiah—or
an idea, even an inanimate object; whereas in the dependent group,
sometimes the leader may be filled by the history of the group or “the
bible”. The group could only be dominated by one ba at the time, while
the other two remain hidden within a virtual space Bion referred as the
“proto-mental system” (pm), which he depicted as:
Bion attempted to explain, with the use of this system, the appearance
of diseases, regardless of their aetiology. Diseases were manifested in
the individual according to the group to which they belonged (city,
family, work, etc.); that is, they would be the product of the relation-
ship between the proto-mental system, the dominating basic assump-
tion, and the latent basic assumption. In all diseases there will be three
dimensions: a) the “matrix”, corresponding to the undifferentiated or
proto-mental system; b) a determined “affiliation” to the latent basic
assumption; c) a “cause” determined by the dominating basic assump-
tion. Usually they will be psychosomatic pathology as well as infec-
tious. Tuberculosis, for instance, due to the need for the patient’s care,
would be associated (matrix) with a dependent basic assumption (baD);
it would have an affiliation with a pairing basic assumption (baP) and
would have as a cause a flight-fight basic assumption (baF). Clinical
experience has shown me that exophthalmia present in hyperthy-
roidism could be interpreted as the watchful monitoring (dependency)
of a projected “internal murderer” and thus corresponds to a flight-fight
ba where baD and baA remain latent.
Bion never referred again to these concepts after his analytical train-
ing, although we could presume they evolved into other ideas. The
interaction between the “working group” and the “basic assumptions”,
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And also:
“I was always afraid that my father could have found out.” He added
that in his previous analysis this was interpreted as a homosexual long-
ing for his father. I then said perhaps there was an element in him that
felt he could have solved his fear of castration by stealing his father’s
penis and potency, something he might also try with me but feared I
could find out.
Several weeks later, he said he had visited an acquaintance who suf-
fered from multiple sclerosis and was in a wheelchair. That night he had
a dream in which a woman gave him two flutes. The flutes, he thought,
represented a phallic symbol, as if she was giving him a penis. This
friend with “MS” was in bad shape and he thought he could die soon.
He answered affirmatively when I asked if he found himself in a simi-
lar situation when he thought he was ready for a wheel-chair, and he
added that now he felt much better and even his wife had told him
so: “She said I am more hopeful and don’t look as if someone is wait-
ing for me with a stick.” I said he resented his mother because he felt
she had not protected him from being “castrated”, and that he did not
know what kind of a mother I was. Either a mother that would not pro-
tect him and would wait for him with a stick, or a mother who could
teach him how to use his internal penis in order to repair his mind and
protect him from the wheel-chair and death. After a pause, he said he
had been asked from abroad to write an article for a round-table dis-
cussion. I then said that possibly in order to exercise such creativity he
perhaps had to make concessions, to self-castrate or self-tonsillectomise
and thus avoid “the man with the stick”. Perhaps there existed an
oedipal unconscious relationship between his need to create, as a form
of revenge, and at the same time, there was also guilt and a need to
castrate himself (pain in his legs) in order to avoid a “true castration”.
I felt it was like a form of “self-envy” or envy between internal parts of
the self, as if the tonsillectomised-castrated element in him enviously
attacked his creativity. It was a situation analogous to how, when ton-
sillectomised as a child, he could have envied others (siblings, parents,
and so on) who were not, a condition that became internalised and was
now experienced as envy against himself.
Some weeks later, he brought a dream: He is with a doctor who had
taken an X-ray of his head that looked clearer than a previous one, and he is
now superimposing each to evaluate the progress. The doctor then tells him
to leave because there is too much radiation in the room that could harm him.
He goes to a waiting room and then an otolaryngologist5 appears who invites
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him to come into his office, but he refuses and says he is not his patient, that he
came to see the radiologist. He associated the X-ray with the analysis and
the radiation with what we have uncovered about his pre-conceptual
trauma, which he had not seen during his previous analysis. The
otolaryngologist reminded him of his tonsillectomy. I then said that he
might be experiencing the analysis as a trap: feeling that my penis had
more curative power than his previous analysts’ did, and could pro-
mote “too much” envious feelings (too much radiation) and the desire
to give up the analysis, but then he found himself facing the threat of
the tonsillectomy again.
A few days later, he remembered another dream: He is sitting with
his wife in the living room looking at the colour of the walls (in reality, he was
redecorating his house). Suddenly Hitler appears accompanied by a woman
walking around the house and he feels uneasy and threatened. Although
Hitler disappeared, he has the hunch he is still there, even though his wife
said to ignore him. He said he often used Hitler to portray persecutory
aspects in patients. He had been feeling bad with his prostate for the
last five days because he had forgotten to take his medication. “The
question is”, he stated, “Why had I forgotten to take the medication,
is it as if I were acting against myself?” I told him that in the midst of
a pleasant moment, of contemplating the new decoration of his house,
the frightening cruel Hitler had to appear, as if he had to enviously
attack his right for a pleasant and peaceful moment. His wife in the
dream who said “to ignore it”, could represent a feminine aspect in
him that might not respond to castration anxiety and attempted to
calm the masculine part that felt threatened. He then remembered a
movie he had seen at the weekend about a motorcycle rider who was
suffering from his prostate and who found an American Indian who
provided him with a place to stay and some pills made of dog’s testes
and told him that they tasted bad but were excellent. I then told him
that it seemed as if a part of him felt that when his tonsils were taken
out, he lost his testes and now he wished for me to give him mine.
He answered that he felt I worked differently from other analysts and
he worried that he was plagiarising me with his patients. I said that
perhaps he felt he could not learn by himself but had to steal from
me because during the tonsillectomy his testes, the instrument needed
for learning, were destroyed. However, he is not very clear whether
he wishes to creatively use what he learns from me or to attack and
destroy it out of envy.
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him understand the connection between his “mobility”6 and the guilt
produced by his envious attack in the transference, which eventually
resulted in his “tyres” (feet) being flat.
In the next session he seemed depressed and said he felt very tired
because he had slept badly the night before. He talked about prob-
lems between his wife and the interior decorator working at his place
and, besides, he also had to give a seminar and prepare a conference to
present abroad. I said that I could not see how these matters could have
affected him so much; after all, they all seem like short-term problems
with tangible solutions, and that I wondered if there could be some-
thing else he had not mentioned. He was silent for a while and then,
crying, said he felt disillusioned. He was also feeling a rather painful
and strange sensation in his throat that began the day before, although
it was not so intense. I asked if he felt this sensation could have some-
thing to do with the tonsillectomy, as if his body was remembering
because of what we had talked about during the previous session. He
remembered when he used to visit his grandmother during the holidays
and felt very lonely. I also said that perhaps these memory-sensations
could have been triggered in his mind whenever he felt questioned or
rejected, as he could have possibly experienced in our previous session
when I referred to an envious element in him; this might have made
him feel questioned or even rejected by me, similar perhaps to what
could have happened when he was sent to his grandmother’s instead
of staying at home with the rest of the family, which made him feel
excluded. I also wondered if he experienced the tonsillectomy as a form
of punishment because he could have felt he was not considered a good
boy. Perhaps the memory of his tonsillectomy was registered in his
mind in such a way that any question he dares ask will automatically
lead to a threat and terror of castration. He then said he had read about
emotional memories stored in different part of the brain, that some will
be repeated continuously while others would be forgotten. He also said
he felt much better in terms of the pain in his legs. I said that his brain
was too far away from his mind, similar to the pain on his legs, while
the sensation in his throat was much closer to him and to his traumatic
memories, something that was now helping him to talk about it. At this
point I speculated that perhaps symptoms that were purely somatic,
such as the pain in his legs, for instance (which was far removed from
a “symbolical” comprehension and different in this respect from a
hysterical conversion), could have changed into a symptom closer to
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bathtub to stop him from having a tantrum. He found that his daughter
was so different; she was very patient with her own children. I then said
that there was a distrusting aspect in him that he felt afraid to “invite”
to the couch: he wished to see beyond my door because he wished to
know what kind of a parent I am; because he was filled with mistrust
and resentment against his aggressive and untrustworthy parents. He
wished to know if I could be trusted, because if his “roof-mind” were
to collapse, he wondered how I would respond, if I would be more
like his “patient” daughter, instead of his “aggressive” mother or his
“unreliable” landlord-father because if I were to be someone like the
latter, he “will move away”, leave the analysis. He cried bitterly and
with his voice choked with emotion, said that he remembered last year
when he thought for sure his death was close, and he still feels very sad
whenever he remembers that. I said I wondered if perhaps it could be
stated in the opposite way, not that he felt sad because of the pain in
his legs, but that he had pain in his legs because he felt sad. He said it
could be possible. He said that he will present a paper in Buenos Aires
about psychosomatic medicine in which he is thinking of using the his-
tory, already published, of somebody else’s patient. I then said that he
seemed to have some resistance to using and validating his own case,
as well as my help.
On the day of our next appointment, he called to say he was in the
hospital emergency room bleeding profusely from his nose and was
being cauterised. He bled the whole night to the point that he could not
sleep or talk because of all the clots inside his throat. That Sunday was
Mother’s Day; on Friday he was with his daughter and grandchildren,
then went home and felt very lonely because his wife was away. He had
to go to the emergency room on Sunday and Monday, thought of phon-
ing me but in the end called a friend, then phoned on Monday to tell
me he could not make it. He was very concerned about the long flight
to Argentina to present his paper the next Thursday. In our next session
after this event, he shared a dream he had on that Friday: He is in a car
with a couple and their daughter who is playing inside. Suddenly she wishes to
investigate the engine and he says to her parents that this could be too danger-
ous, but they pay no attention. She squeezes herself through a hole in the floor
and starts advancing through a series of underground tunnels and he follows
her, something that pleases her. Suddenly they arrive at a new space where they
find a monster that starts to follow them. He feels there is no exit and wakes up.
He remembered when he constructed an engine for a boat he built as
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he said no. He associated the doctor with his father because they had the
same name. The blood reminded him of the bleeding he had before
attending the congress, and it also reminded him when he was an ado-
lescent and became very religious and took the Communion drinking
orange juice, which the priest said was Christ’s blood, something that
was changed for wine when he became older. He also recalled when his
father was brought to the emergency room because of a bleeding stom-
ach ulcer, and he thought he could die. Now, as he reminisced, he cried.
He remembered in a previous session I told him he was “sacrificing”
his organs to the doctors by getting ill, as a way of placating them.
Communion was like a sacrifice to God and at one point he remembered
identifying with Christ on the cross. I then said that perhaps the two
tubes in the dream represented the two formulas he had unconsciously
used to protect himself from a possible castrator: while the tube with
the cork represented the sacrifice to the doctors, which he thought was
more logical, the other tube with the cotton that could leak, might have
symbolised magic and religious defences that could leak, meaning that
they could be questioned.
At the next session, he brought a dream: He sends two men to murder
someone, but they fail and he thinks he might have to do it himself, but some-
body says it could be very risky. His brother appears and says his friend X, the
psychiatrist, is very ill; he calls afterwards and says he has died. He thinks he
will have to attend the funeral to represent his family and that there will be
many psychiatrists present. He associated with a movie where a mafia
boss sent two murderers to a town in which they must wait for further
instructions. While there, the younger murderer assaulted and shot a
priest, but the bullet also killed a child. The killer felt very depressed
and thought of committing suicide because there was a code of ethics
among them that said that anybody who killed a child must kill himself
too. He had been reading Klein about envy and voracity. He thought
the psychiatrist was in the dream because of his name that sounded
similar to Klein. I said that this dream seemed to be associated with the
previous session, when he told me about an aggressive and toxic inter-
nal element trying, out of envy and voracity, to shoot the analysis and
me. However, he feared at the same time that, by doing so, he could also
destroy an “innocent child element” inside him. Also, because he feared
to share this murderous, voracious, and envious aspect in him, he is
trying to find an answer himself (reading Klein) but fears this could
backfire (psychiatrist who died and whose name was similar to Klein’s)
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and he could become a serial killer that nobody would be able to save
(many psychiatrists at the funeral). He said nothing.
In another dream, he visits a specialist because of his neurological symp-
toms, who finds something like a capsule floating in his cerebrospinal fluid,
which might be responsible for his neurological condition. Because his symp-
toms have worsened, another X-ray was taken that showed the capsule has
broken and its content, in the shape of a ballpoint pen spring, comes out. He
believes he must see a neurosurgeon in Miami, but fears to fly in his condition.
He associated the US with some of his training in medicine, but found
it difficult to associate to the capsule and its content. He remembered a
previous interpretation about his difficulty in discriminating between
mind and brain, when he referred to emotional memories and the hip-
pocampus, and to me stating that perhaps it was a form of resistance to
know about his need to punish himself in order to achieve. I then added
that maybe his last remarks were related to the content of the capsule,
the ballpoint pen spring representing the instrument he uses for his
intellectual achievements; it seemed as if his unconscious was pointing
out the importance of his mind in the aetiology of his neuropathology.
He remembered reading about the case of a little boy who had the com-
pulsion to lick his lips after watching a news image of a man who was
hanged in Iran as his tongue protruded. He added: “I believe a psycho-
analyst would have better possibilities helping this child than a psy-
chiatrist.” Also, he recalled something very important he had referred
to at the beginning of the analysis, regarding a friend who wrote a very
nice letter about him, in order to get a very important award. His origi-
nal neurological symptoms appeared shortly after the Medical Federa-
tion had given him this recognition for some outstanding research he
produced on psychosomatics!
Conclusion
I have based the investigation of the clinical material on several theo-
retical models. They are, in a nutshell: a) the belief that all forms of
existing psychopathology are the product of pre-conceptual traumas;
b) “reversal of alpha function” (Bion, 1962) and production of “bizarre
objects” projected into the soma, where the choice of the organ will
depend on its particular physiology; c) there is an ongoing unconscious
communication between internalised part objects and any selected
organ. Such communication is established with the use of negative
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Pre-conceptual traumas
and totalitarianism*
Anamilagros Pérez Morazzani† and
Rafael E. López-Corvo
—Dostoyevsky
The House of the Dead, p. 165
—Winston Churchill
Introduction
To our knowledge, a satisfactory and comprehensive psychoana-
lytic understanding of totalitarian or tyrannical regimes has yet to
be achieved. Thus, we would like to take on the venture of creating
* Read at the Fepal Congress of Psychoanalysis, Lima, Peru, October 2006. It was pub-
lished in Portuguese in Revista da Psicanalise, Sociedade Brasileira de Psicanálise de Porto
Alegre, Vol. 9, No 2, 2007.
†
Full member, International Psychoanalytical Association and Venezuela Psychoanalytic
Association.
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evil, hidden, and perverse purposes just below the surface, which are
markedly different from those necessary to help the people.
Equally, at the other end of the spectrum, we see in “savage capital-
ism” an expression of similar inner conflicts among those who compul-
sively make a cult of the power of money. While communist leaders
decree “social unfairness due to uneven distribution of wealth”, capital-
ists will employ “absence of freedom” in order “to implement the power
of riches”. In certain individuals, some pre-conceptual traumas induce
powerful phantasies, which continuously, but unconsciously, demand
realisation. Bion referred to the “real aspects of projective identifica-
tion”, meaning the way in which projective identifications are some-
times capable of inducing a real action in the object and, in this manner,
make a reality of what otherwise could have remained a plain phantasy.
For instance, for seventy million Chinese who were murdered by Mao,
and for their relatives, his pre-conceptual traumas, which determined in
his mind such a level of sadism, became a true and devastating reality.
Such statements may be construed as a form of “psychologism” or
psychoanalytic reductionism that might leave out other issues more
apparent and of “greater” relevance. Let us consider this further. An arti-
ficial dichotomy between the “individual” and the “group” in relation
to totalitarianism has already been introduced by Popper (1971), who
opposed what he calls “methodological individualism” to “methodo-
logical collectivism”.2 Marx himself opposed “psychologism” by insist-
ing on “sociologism”, as can be observed in his well known statement
that “It is not the consciousness of man that determines his existence—
rather, it is his social existence that determines his consciousness”. Marx
could have responded to Hegel’s influence, of what could be conceived
as “Hegel’s Platonising collectivism”, where the state and the nation
are more “real” than the individual who owes everything to them. We
know now that such Manichaeism between what is “social” and what is
“individual” makes no sense, that the individual will influence society
in the same fashion that society will influence the individual. Wilfred
Bion (1948) clearly proved, following his experiments with “leaderless
groups”, that the group and the leader interact according to three uni-
versal possibilities he described as “basic assumptions”: the need for
the masses to depend on a leader and vice versus; the need to produce
a saviour or messiah; and the need to deal with paranoid projections by
attacking and escaping.
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that had already formed between them.” The symbiosis between them
was to
Such a close relationship with his mother resulted not only in asthma,
but also in dependency, fear, frustration, and anger. Che’s father, on the
other hand, who was accused of being unfaithful, became depressed
after failing several endeavours which left him jobless and financially
dependent on his well-to-do wife. Photographs from that time show
Celia as a hard-looking woman, almost masculine, while her husband,
Ernesto Guevara Lynch, appears soft and rather feminine. An impor-
tant characteristic of fathers, within the psychological dynamics of any
family, refers to their role as “rescuers” of children from the mother’s
natural gravitational symbiosis.3 A soft father, together with an over-
powering mother, will obviously result in an enhancement and further-
ance of the symbiotic ties towards the mother, and as a consequence, if
there is a genetic disposition, the appearance of a somatic ailment such
as asthma.
As compensation for his feelings of dependency, Che resorted to
“counter-phobic” defence mechanisms. In order to get attention and
to master his fears, he behaved in all sorts of odd ways: drank ink,
ate chalk, climbed trees, and explored deep and perilous mine shafts.
Later on, after becoming a commander with Castro’s rebels in Cuba, he
changed into a dangerous and callous executioner, as has been reported
by Cubans who fought alongside of him.4 It is quite possible that he
became a doctor as an attempt to deal with his illness and a guerrilla
fighter as a way of dealing with his fear. In other words, Che’s mind was
split into two parts. On the one hand, there was an “asthmatic aspect”,
with a childlike need for dependency and tremendous fear, perhaps
even suffering from penile erection (erectile dysfunction), which could
have been seen by him as an expression of cowardice, while on the
other hand, there were tough overcompensating attempts to cloak
these fears by displaying behaviours compatible with true bravery.
During Castro’s invasion of Cuba, he performed as a continuously cold,
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I feel that I have fulfilled the part of my duty that tied me to the
Cuban revolution in its territory. And I say goodbye to you, the
comrades, and your people, who are already mine … Other nations
of the world call for my modest efforts. I can do that which is denied
to you because of your responsibility as the head of Cuba, and the
time has come for us to part.6
There is no question that he was doomed from very early on, because of
his own pre-conceptual trauma or mark of Cain, to die in just the way
he did.
What we are espousing, in other words, is a form of solipsistic
approach, where the mind, as Protagoras once stated, “is the measure of
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all things”, meaning that, eventually, men are fatalistically bound to the
limitations of their minds, to the restriction of their own pre-conceptual
trauma. We are not stating that other more altruistic interests might not
also be present in these individuals; on the contrary, what we are try-
ing to express is how the individual’s psychological and idiosyncratic
profile can divert such altruism into more selfish and egoistic satisfac-
tions, disregarding other people’s needs. For instance, Castro could
have been motivated at the beginning of his revolution, at the time he
fought Batista’s dictatorship, by a sincere concern for the Cuban peo-
ple, their poverty and suffering. However, almost fifty years later he is
obviously driven by revenge, sadism, and the need to control, among
other human limitations, which has changed him into yet another
incompetent and dangerous dictator, just like Batista. Mao on the other
hand, never referred to poor peasants at the beginning of his struggle
as a communist, and never cared about the outcome of his abandoned
wives or children. In their book Mao: The Unknown Story, Chang and
Halliday (2005) stated:
Mao’s attitude to morality consisted of one core, the self, the “I”
above everything else: I do not agree with the view that to be moral,
the motive on one’s action has to be benefiting to others. Morality
does not have to be defined in relation to others.
… Of course there are people and objects in the world, but they are
all there for me … People like me only have a duty to ourselves; we
have no duty to other people: Mao had little concern for peasants
and poor: There is no sign that Mao derived from his peasant roots
any social concerns, much less that he was motivated by a sense
of injustice … Mao’s peasant background did not imbue him with
idealism about improving the lot of Chinese peasants [pp. 8–9] …
He felt no more sympathy for workers than he did for peasants.
(p. 30)
… was strict with him but also smothered him with attention and
affection … never let him out of her sight till he was six years old …
he had been a sickly infant … [which was] putting it mildly. Around
the age of six he became a victim to smallpox. His mother was fran-
tic. Smallpox was often a fatal disease and for a time it looked as if
she would lose him. (p. 19)
I … saw that among the pupils was standing a boy I didn’t know,
dressed in a long akhalukhi (a plain, cloth body garment) which
went down his knees, in new boots with high tops. He had a thick
leather belt tightly drawn around his waist. On his head was a
black cloth peak-cap with a varnished peak which shone in the sun.
(Ibid., pp. 20–21)
Service continues:
No one else wore either an akhalukhi or such boots, and the other
pupils pressed around him out of curiosity. Obviously his mother
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was very eager to dress her son as well as possible; she had coddled
him since birth. She herself had never been to school, and probably
she did not understand that by dressing him up differently, she did
him no favours with his fellow pupils. (Ibid., p. 21)
Mao’s mother, after losing two of her children before his birth, became
devoted to Buddha and gave her son the name of “Tse-Tung”, where
“tse” means “to shine” and “tung” “from the east”, or “the one shining
from the east”, that according to belief meant “to be born exceptionally
lucky”. Not being satisfied with this, and following the tradition at that
time, she provided him with a special nickname: “Shisan yazi”, or “the
stone child”.
During Subha’s pregnancy with Saddam Hussein, she lost her hus-
band and her twelve-year-old child; in desperation she attempted first
to abort and then to commit suicide, but was dissuaded by friends in
both attempts. She named her son Saddam, meaning, “the confronting
one” in Arab, but shortly after birth suffered from postpartum depres-
sion and had to place the baby with a paternal uncle.
Hitler was Klara’s fourth child, after three previous brothers had
died, and, according to her, she had a weak constitution:
The mother’s fear of losing the child that survived, together with other
feelings of insecurity and dependency, are usually experienced from the
child’s vertex as an expression of mother’s fragility, a sense of helpless-
ness and uncertainty. Such feelings will induce in the child the need
for an omnipotent compromise to rescue and protect his mother and to
unconsciously become the ideal phallus that completes her. There exist
at least two conditions that threaten the possibile consolidation of this
“basic delusion”: a) one is the continuous threat of oedipal exclusion,
meaning that the others, father or siblings, could represent the “true”
phallus that completes the mother; b) the paradox present in the castra-
tion complex, which we will be referring to next.
Lazy and cruel, The Liar used the boy to steal sheep from neigh-
bour’s farms; woke him up every morning by aggressively pulling
his hair while screaming “wake up son of a bitch”. (Ibid., p. 231)
Chapter One
1. We could also think that the difference between pre-conceptual and
conceptual traumas could be similar to the difference between the
Platonic Form as a primary idea (pre-conceptions, noumenon, or the
thing-in-itself) and the specific experience or phenomenon, taking place
at a later age which could become a realisation that resounds with the
original pre-conceptual trauma.
2. Perhaps monks have tried for centuries to intuitively avoid this “entan-
glement”, by controlling the environment where they dwell, building
their monasteries in isolated and bucolic locations, where sometimes
even absolute silence is compulsory.
3. Differences between “discontinuous” and “continuous” (homeomor-
phic) forms of symbolisation are described in Chapter Five.
4. Pornography would constitute the consequence of sex’s sense of
strangeness, while religion would represent the consequence of death’s
unfamiliarity.
5. “Die Destruktion als Ursache des Werdens”.
6. Copied from The Wisdom of Buddha, New York: Philosophical Library,
1968.
7. Reverie, in other words, represents the capacity to sense what Lao Tzu
referred as the Tao.
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Chapter Two
1. A term Bion has borrowed from Poincaré, representing an emotional
experience capable of providing order and coherence to a complexity of
elements, to moments scattered and seemingly unrelated (Bion, 1962,
p. 87).
2. A concept borrowed by Bion from Hume to explain how some mental
facts that were associated by chance remain conjoined and repeat by
causality. See Chapter Eleven.
3. There is an array of defences used with the purpose of preserving the
status quo at any cost, as has been portrayed in Rosenfeld’s (1971) con-
cept of “pathological narcissism”, or Bion’s (1967) notion of anxiety
being incremented due to reversion of projective identifications (López-
Corvo, 2006, p. 54).
4. This case is presented in detail in Chapter Sixteen.
5. This dynamic will be discussed in detail in Chapter Ten.
6. For instance, in Kaltenmark’s (1969) Lao Tzu and Taoism”, he states:
“The word Tao can have so many different meanings that it invariably
imposes difficulties of interpretation in the passages in which it occurs.
A case in point is the Tao Te Ching, connotations. Often the word is used
in one of its normal meanings: Natural Law”. Or, in words attributed to
Lao Tzu, the man who supposedly introduced the notion of Tao: “There
was something vague before heaven and earth arose. How calm! How
void! It stands alone, unchanging; it acts everywhere, untiring. It may
be considered the mother of everything under heaven. I do not know its
name, but call it by the word Tao” (Alan Watts, 1957, p. 16).
Chapter Three
1. Hardin (2008) referred to lack of “validation” from the parents towards
children who have experienced significant loss or separation.
2. Here I am thinking of Darwin’s possible influence on Freud’s con-
ceptualisation of the human mind, similar to an animal’s instinctive
behaviour. See Chapter Two.
3. The true name of “Irma” in Freud’s own dream. See Masson, 1984,
pp. 55–106.
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13. Also in a note sent by Bion to Meltzer, a propos of the latter’s paper on
the subject, Bion stated: “Aesthetic (beautiful) way—Now I would use
as a model: the diamond cutter’s method of cutting a stone so that a ray
of light entering the stone is reflected back by the same path in such a
way that the light is augmented—the same ‘free association’ is reflected
back by the same path, but with augmented ‘brilliance’. So the patient is
able to see his ‘reflection’, only more clearly than he can see his person-
ality as expressed by himself alone (i.e., without an analyst)” (Meltzer,
1978, p. 126).
14. See Chapter Twelve: “Dreaming the session”.
Chapter Four
1. Ancient Latin had already established that “consciousness lies”, because
the words “lie” (mentior) and “mind” (mentis) have the same root.
2. See López-Corvo, 2003.
3. Medicine that is used to reduce benign prostate enlargement (BPH),
such as finasteride, prevents the liberation of unbound testosterone, or
DTH, a more powerful androgen than testosterone, capable of amplify-
ing the androgenic effect of testosterone in the prostate and other tissues
in which it is found. The prostate is a gland that circles the urethra, in
such a manner that, when enlarged, it will strangle the urethra to the
point that will make urination impossible and produce a medical emer-
gency. Perhaps such emergency could be interpreted as an aggressive
intervention of nature to stop procreation after a certain age—similar to
women’s menopause—in order to avoid a defective progeny.
Chapter Five
1. Quoted by Levi-Strauss (1949).
2. I am thinking here of quantum physics and of Einstein’s discovery that
light appears not only as a continuous electromagnetic wave but also as
a discontinue, discrete unit, or photons.
3. I am now using Bion’s (1970) model of container/contained, where the
container represents the sign or word (or symbol) and the contained the
concept induced by that word.
4. “Links” will be discussed in Chapter Eight. See also López-Corvo, 2003,
p. 93.
5. These individual logograms can also be grouped in order to reach
the category of a narrative, as in hieroglyphics. In this form of scrip-
ture, for instance, two open legs signified “walking”, two concentric
circles represented both the sun and “time” or “day”; a sinuous line
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Chapter Six
1. I have previously considered narcissism (López-Corvo, 2006);
“projective and introjective identification”, beside Klein’s (1946) origi-
nal description on this subject, has been broadly studied and there is an
extensive literature (see Hinshelwood, 1989).
2. See López-Corvo, 2006, Chapter Thirteen.
3. Norman Bates is the name of the main character and serial killer in
Hitchcock’s movie Psycho.
Chapter Seven
1. According to Rotman (1987), there was a great misunderstanding and
difficulty in grasping the notion of zero. It was unknown by otherwise
enlightened Romans and Greeks, although it was used by Babylonians
and pre-Columbian Mayans. The idea of zero was not well received
in medieval Europe, perhaps as a consequence of Christian resistance
towards a concept that carried, implicitly, the notion of nothingness,
of no-existence, correlated to “absence of God”, blasphemy, heresy,
and the Inquisition. Mercantile capitalism emerging during the
Renaissance, according to Rotman (ibid., p. 5), created accountants’
need to import the use of zero from other cultures such as Hindu and
Arab.
2. Two elements are in constant conjunction, said Hume, when we infer
one from the other not by reason but from the particular experience that
surrounded them, although we might fail to penetrate inside the logic
of such conjunction. However, once the concept is established by chance
it will repeat compulsively. It is similar to the determinism described by
epigenesis (Piaget, 1968), where fatalism is present in the progression
of elements in a narrative, a history, or a myth (such as the Oedipus
complex), or in biological or geometrical structures. For instance, if we
recite the alphabet, letter N would not be present at the beginning at all,
at the level say of C, but once we reach letter M, N will be a determinant
and compulsory step. What follows at the level of the crossroads is the
murder of the father (López-Corvo, 2003, pp. 67–68).
3. See Chapter Sixteen.
4. About “tropism”’ see Chapter Two.
5. About symbolism see Chapter Five.
6. It is a play written first by Spanish Tirso de Molina, published in 1630
as El Burlador de Sevilla, and later, in 1844, by José Zorrilla, as Don Juan
Tenorio.
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Chapter Eight
1. Perhaps “self-envy” is not the most appropriate term to describe what I
am now trying to convey, because this expression signals envy towards
the self, and I am describing “envy between the parts”.
2. Sisyphus was a king known for being deceitful and cunning. He took
his brother’s throne, seduced his niece, and believed he could outwit
the will of Zeus. For his transgressions, the gods punished Sisyphus
by making him roll a large rock to the top of a steep hill. Once at the
top the rock would roll back down, leaving Sisyphus the task of rolling
it back up, after which it would roll down again, and so on for eter-
nity. Another similar story has been offered by historian Suetonius who
explained that the nickname of “Callipedes” was given to Emperor
Tiberius on account of him asking Romans every year to make vows
for his safe return from touring the provinces. He chartered transports
and requested Roman municipalities and colonies to have supplies of
food and drink ready when he arrived; however, Tiberius never set foot
beyond the outskirts of Rome. Callipedes was a tragi-comic Greek actor
famous for his realistic imitation of a long-distance runner, who made
preparations to run but never moved from the same spot (The Twelve
Caesars, p. 122).
3. −K because her knowledge is used as a form of defence, or intellectuali-
sation, in order to obstruct, instead of using it to understand the nature
of her conflict.
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Chapter Nine
1. See Chapters Seven and Nine for further discussion of these aspects.
2. I have referred to this mechanism as the “stone guest” in Chapter
Seven.
3. There is another short story we might consider, opposite to that of the
Scythians, this time from the Portuguese colonisation of Africa, when
at the beginning of 1600 they explored the island of Madagascar and
signed treaties with local chieftains and sent the first missionaries, who
found it “impossible to make islanders believe in Hell”, and were, for
this reason, eventually expelled by the locals from their island.
4. See Chapter Fourteen.
5. I deal with some of these matters in more detail in Chapter Eleven.
6. See Chapter Two.
7. See Chapter Eleven.
8. Conceptualisation of such impossibility, of separating the self from the
cathexed object, represents one of the crucial differences between clas-
sical analysis and object relations theory. (See López-Corvo, 1994).
9. Procrustes was a mythical bandit killed by Theseus because he used to
capture people and tie them to an iron bed that could be enlarged or
shortened according to his desire. He demanded ransom but said he
would let his victims go if the captive agreed to try out his bed and
could fit its length. The victim would then lie down and he would
stretch or enlarge the bed in order to make them fail to fit it. At just this
moment he would pull the victim’s legs or hack them off to make them
fit. In other words, it was impossible to win. I am now using the myth
in a form different from other previous applications, like Poe in “The
Purloined Letter”, where Auguste Dupin uses the “Procrustean bed” to
describe the conformity and rigidity exercised by the French police in
their investigations.
10. Correlation found in the youngest child between feelings of insignifi-
cance vs. significance is described in more detail in Chapter Seven.
11. I have already referred to this myth in Chapters Eight and Nine.
Chapter Ten
1. René Thom was a French mathematician who introduced the concept
of “catastrophe theory”. In simple terms the theory implies that small
alterations in certain factors of a non-linear system, can affect the equi-
librium in such a way, that it can preserve it or make it disappear, induc-
ing significant and abrupt changes in the performance of the system.
2. See Chapter Eleven.
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Chapter Eleven
1. I am referring to a metapsychological understanding of narcissism. See
López-Corvo, 2006, Chapter Six.
2. Homeomorphism is a Greek complex word, made up of homoios
(ηομοιοσ) meaning similar, and morphe (μορπηε), signifying shape. I am
using it here in a similar fashion to how it is used in the mathemati-
cal field of topology, where homeomorphism represents “a continuous
stretching and bending of an object into a new shape, without tearing
or breaking”. For instance, the breast could change into the thumb in
a continuous sliding without break. I believe Winnicott’s transitional
space follows this form of symbolisation. About a comprehensive defi-
nition of “discontinuous” and “continuous” or “homeomorphic” forms
of symbolisation, please see Chapter Eight, on “Symbolism: a door
towards freedom”.
3. See Chapter Five on symbolism.
Chapter Twelve
1. It was not the same thing to calculate the area of a square on a piece of
flat land, as to estimate a much larger surface on the curved surface of
the earth. This finding was also similar to the situation generated by
Copernicus when he discovered that the old Aristotelian concept of the
sun moving around the earth was a terrible mistake.
2. This was the result of his 1905 demonstration of the photon concept as
an interpretation of the photoelectric effect, for which he received the
Nobel Prize.
3. A word used by father Pierre Teilhard de Chardin (1959) in 1925 to
explain the notion of a “sphere of reflection, of conscious invention, of
conscious souls” or “collective mind or conscious”, some kind of global
trade network, communication, accumulation, and exchange of knowl-
edge, related to fields such as economy, “psychic affiliations” and so
on, which weaves itself at increasing speed, penetrating and engulfing
each of the individuals within that media who, as time evolves, find it
much more difficult to think or act in any other non-collective way. For
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Chapter Thirteen
1. See Chapter Five on symbolism.
2. See Chapters One and Two.
3. See Chapter Eleven.
4. I am using “depression” here in a sense similar to Klein’s notion of the
“depressive position”.
5. “Individual” origiïtes from a composed Latin word (“un-divided”)
meaning without division, similar to the Greek word “atom”
(ατομοσ).
6. See Chapter Five on symbolism.
7. Better than “omnipotent power”, would be, to feel “reduced to becom-
ing omnipotent”, as Bion once said to James Grotstein (see Grotstein,
2007, p. 33).
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8. Lacan left untranslated, in most of his English editions, the French word
“jouissance” (“goce”, in Spanish) that basically means “enjoyment”, but
with a sexual connotation (i.e., orgastic) which is lacking in the English
word “enjoyment” (Evans, 1996, p. 91).
9. For further information about this patient, see López-Corvo, 1995,
pp. 157–166.
10. I have summarised in Chapter Fifteen, Meltzer’s (1992) concept of the
“claustrum”’, related to three kinds of narcissistic links with the mother:
i) breast/mind, ii) genital, and iii) anal claustrum.
Chapter Fourteen
1. First published in 1487, The Hammer of Witches or the Hexenhammer,
is considered by many to be the classic Catholic text on witchcraft,
although it was in fact condemned by the Inquisition in 1490. The book
is notorious for its use in the witchhunt craze of the fifteenth to seven-
teenth centuries.
2. This last phantasy is also present in ancient myths; it can be found
in Oedipus, whose father King Laios attempted to kill him, because
according to the Oracle, he was going to be the reason for his own death
and the destruction of his kingdom. A similar fate is shared by Paris,
when his sister Cassandra declared he would bring the destruction of
Troy and the death of Priam, his father.
Chapter Fifteen
1. “Keeping the fire” can also imply for women not to act out their sexual
impulses.
2. The ass was goddess Vesta’s sacred animal, as it was considered that it
used its braying to keep away the lascivious Priapus. Vesta was depicted
as a stern woman dressed in a long dress and with her head covered.
3. One wonders, in relation to this last observation, if what we have been
witnessing in recent times about the existence of paedophilic behav-
iour in priests, could represent a form of protest from them—as “res-
cuer children”—against their parents, by acting out exactly what they
intuitively felt their parents feared, while at the same time remaining
children forever. After all, sexual perversion is always a result of pre-
conceptual traumas that replicate “polymorphous perversions” present
in all children. I have observed how some individuals can use their
homosexuality as a form of revenge against their demanding fathers
who projected on them their narcissistic delusion of the “child hero”.
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Chapter Sixteen
1. “Dr Faustus’ pact with the Devil” is a well known seventeenth-
century religious fiction later immortalised by Goethe. It tells the story
of the exchange of Dr Faustus’ soul and body for what is thought to
be “the best life can offer”—wealth, luxury, power, wisdom, and so
on. Mephistopheles, the devil, conditions the pact with the following
clause: “be signed in Faust’s own blood, renunciation of Christian faith,
and surrendering of body and soul at the end of twenty-four years”.
It is also analogous to Shakespeare’s Shylock in The Merchant of Venice,
where a cruel and revengeful moneylender demands a “pound of flesh”
from a “helpless” Antonio.
2. I remember reading during my first year of medical school—although
I do not remember the specific reference—that some old textbooks on
anatomy described the existence, believed to be natural, of a vertical
fold on the frontal side of women’s livers, a description that disap-
peared afterwards once it was found that the reason for that fold was
the women’s habit of wearing a corset!
3. Herodotus (Histories, II.36) stated that different people in different cul-
tures, “express mourning, especially those closest to the deceased, by
cutting their hair at once …”
4. In Spanish, “dolores” means pain.
5. Ear, nose, and throat doctor.
6. “Mobility” was a term we had used colloquially in connection to
his tendency to migrate to several countries, and also in the sense of
“ambitious (narcissistic) creativity” and oedipal desires to achieve and
to “move ahead”.
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Chapter Seventeen
1. See Chapter Two.
2. This argumentation pivots on the fact that John Stuart Mill’s book
A System of Logic, used by Popper for his questioning, was published in
1875, long before Bion’s experiments on group psychology during the
1950s had taken place.
3. See Chapter Fifteen.
4. In an unpublished document, Armando Lago had reported around
216 victims executed by Che Guevara in Cuba: “The exact number of
Che’s victims in Cuba is unknown”, said Lago. “Guevara is said to
have acknowledged ordering many executions—all carried out with-
out affording the victims due process of law. Combat deaths caused by
Che in Cuba or other countries where he led guerrilla operations have
yet to be tallied.” Internet: www. futurodecuba.org/chevictimes.htm; (CUBA
ARCHIVE, FREE SOCIETY PROJECT, INC. www.CubaArchive.org).
Also from the article “How Che Murdered”, published in the news-
paper El Nuevo Herald, Miami, 28 December 1997, by San Martin,
Pierre.
5. By making this statement we are not accusing Che Guevara at all of
being a coward. What we are trying to say is that men in general, while
exposed to life-threatening situations such as war, might deal in their
human mind either with feelings of castration anxiety, which will
enhance any realistic fear of possibly being killed, or with feelings of
compensation or the need to prove themselves brave, usually by means
of suicide. When these actions are successful, it will produce a dead
or—if lucky—alive and well medalled hero.
6. CubaSolidarity.Com, February, 2007.
7. This is a formula that could be extended following all of the psychosex-
ual stages of development, as follows: baby = penis = faeces = breast.
8. It is obvious that these interactions take place between internal “part
objects”, and not against the self as a totality; in this sense, the term
“self-envy” is not perhaps the most appropriate one; however, I have
not been able to find a better expression than this one originally used by
Scott (1975).
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312 INDEX
anxiety 37–38, 288 see also castration alpha and beta elements 11,
anxiety 51–52, 97, 177, 215 see also
après coup xxxvi, 89–90 below beta elements
Arabs 292 alpha function see also alpha
Argota, Maria Luisa 283 function
Ariadne 209, 211 attacks on 114
Aristotle 213, 295 dream-work α xxviii–xix
Attention and Interpretation (Wilfred ego lacking in 190
Bion) 180, 183 making use of while awake 192
August Rush, (Kirsten Sheridan) 122 maternal reverie and 8–9
mental and proto-mental
Babylonian Talmud 55, 66 boundary 251
Babylonians 292 primary and secondary
bad breast see breasts process and 29
Balint, Michael 39 reversal of 3, 265
Bambi 217 anxiety incremented 288
Barrett, William 296 “basic assumptions” 249–250, 272
“basic assumptions” xvii, 33, 203, basic concepts xvi–xvii
249–251, 272 Beckett invited by to Jung lecture
Batista, Fulgencio 276 233
Batman 128 beta elements 251, 289, 297 see
Beardsall, Lydia 208 also above alpha and beta
“Beauty and the Beast” 208 elements
Beckett, Samuel 229, 233 bizarre objects 52–53, 74
Beethoven, Ludwig van 277–278 breast and penis representation
being alive 8, 10–11 171
benzene 58 catastrophic change 145, 167
Bergson, Henri 185 conception of “O” xxvii
Besarion Jughashvili 282 consciousness and lies 56
beta elements container–contained model
alpha function and xxviii, 11, 138–139, 172, 290
51–53, 97, 177, 215 dreams xxviii–xxix, 29, 66, 189
beta space xvii, 110, 177 dual conception of the mind 157
bivalent part objects as 162 enforced splitting 103
creation of screen of 289 faith 180–181
evacuation of 98, 251 Fraunhofer line metaphor 296
O as xxvii, 297 Grid, the 182–184, 297
pre-conceptual trauma and 30 group dynamics xvi
stored xxvi, 29, 252 hallucinations 66–67, 180, 247
Bion, Francesca 296 Hume and 74, 98, 288–289
Bion, Wilfred Husserl and 186–187
absent breast, the 88, 98, 111 inspiration for Grid xxiii
INDEX 313
penis envy 106, 244, 270 speed and size as variables 158
Péron, Juan 270 summarised xxxv, 46
Perseus 122 superego and xxxvii, 3
Phaedo (Plato) 7 telescoping of generations 90
Pharos 289 time entrapment 121
phenomenology 185–186 transient and permanent xxviii
Piaget, Jean 75, 292 Priam 299
Picasso, Maria 278 Priapus 299
Picasso, Pablo 277–278 primary narcissism 88, 291 see also
Pindar xv narcissism
Pines, D. 214 Procrustes’ bed 140–141, 294
Pinochet, Augusto 270 projective identification
plague 178, 296 alexithymia and 249
Planck, Max 176 beta elements and xxvi, 11, 98,
Plato 215, 251
Bion and 298 Bion’s real aspects of 272
Cave xxx, xxxvii, 3, 11, 30, 47–48, bivalent part objects and 166
79, 190 ego’s frustration intolerance
execution of Socrates 7 and 190
Forms 28, 42–44, 47, 78, 100, 287 forgetting and 29
Hegel and 272 in reverse 48
pleasure principle 28–30 mother’s alpha function and 36
Poe, Edgar Allan 198, 294 social interaction involving 202
Poincaré, Henri 288 tropisms and 33
polarisation 102–104, 168–169, 171 Protagoras 40, 42, 275
Pontalis, Jean-Bertrand 1, 5, 29–30, 89 protective shields xx, xxvii, 37, 45
Popper, Karl 272, 301 Protestants 79
Portugal 294 Proteus xx, 45, 77, 289, 291
positive links 110 proto-mental systems xvii, 250–252
post traumatic stress disorders 2, 36 Psycho (Alfred Hitchcock) 93, 292
pre-conceptions 28, 42–44 Psychoanalytic Institute xviii
pre-conceptual traumas psychotic personalities xviii–xix,
beta elements and 30 xxiv–xxv
eternal “now” of xx Purloined Letter, The (Edgar Allan
helplessness and hopelessness Poe) 198, 294
118
mind and 12 Qazbegi, Alexander 282
nature of xv–xvi quantum physics 176, 290
parasites, as xxi
Plato’s forms and 100, 287 reality 40–41
self and breast dynamic 163 reality testing 161
selfness, death and 11 relativity 183, 297
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