February 2023

Special Supplement

Bridal Guide
The

Inside:
Build a wedding budget
without breaking the bank
How to pick the perfect
wedding dress

How to tame wedding-related jitters

Fun ways to utilize social media

in your wedding

Popular and lasting wedding traditions

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Build a wedding budget without breaking the bank

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Wedding planning is a unique ex-
perience unlike any endeavor most
couples will ever encounter. Much
effort goes into planning a wedding,
and that includes building a budget
that ensures the big day will be fun
without breaking the bank.
Most couples planning a wedding
have never tied the knot before, so
it can be difficult to determine a
reasonable amount to spend. It’s
easy to go overboard when planning
a wedding, and couples may find
their list of wants and, consequent-
ly, their expenses, growing as they
get into the weeds of wedding plan-
ning.
Though it might require some
difficult decisions, couples can keep
these tips in mind so they can build
a wedding budget that won’t land
them in debt after saying, “I do.”
Here are some tips:
n Determine funding. The days
when a bride’s parents would fi-
nance the wedding entirely on their
own are largely a thing of the past.
According to a recent WeddingWire
Newlywed Report, parents now pay
for 52 percent of wedding expens-
es. As couples begin establishing a
wedding budget, it’s imperative that
they first determine who, if anyone,
will be helping them finance the big
day.
Fifty-two percent of wedding
expenses is a significant amount of
money, but in that scenario, cou-
ples will still need to come up with
roughly half of the money needed
to fund their weddings. Couples
A well-planned budget can be just what couples need to begin married life on
strong financial footing. Though it might require some difficult decisions, couples
can build a wedding budget that won’t leave them in debt.
without substantial savings may be
forced to cut back in order to avoid
beginning their life as a married
couple in debt.
n Make a list of potential expens-
es. Location will be a significant
factor when determining potential
expenses. For example, a 2022 Val-
uePenguin analysis of data from
The Wedding Report found that the
average wedding in Massachusetts
cost roughly $30,500 in 2020, while
couples tying the knot in Arkansas
spent around $12,500 on their wed-
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dings. With such wild fluctuations,
it’s important that couples get an
accurate estimate of how much it
may cost them to get married in a
given city.
Couples who met in a city and
still live in a city but grew up in a
suburb might save a considerable
sum by getting married in their
hometowns.
Compare and contrast prices in
locales you’re considering, and then
build your budget accordingly. This
can help you avoid sticker shock
and going over budget.
Notable expenses to budget in-
clude the venue, attire (i.e., wed-
ding dress and tuxedo rental), hair-
style and makeup, entertainment,
photography, and transportation,
among others.
n Make a list of what’s most
important. Most couples will have
to compromise in order to avoid
taking on debt to finance their wed-
dings. An earnest discussion about
what’s most important to each per-
son can ensure you both get what
you want.
Each person can make a list of
their priorities, ranking them from
most important to least important.
Once lists are shared, couples can
see where their priorities converge
and where they diverge.
Any items that rank low on each
person’s list of priorities can be
afforded less funding, while those
that are high on each list can take
up more of the budget, if necessary.
n Commit to a limit before
spending a dime. Committing to a
limit before spending a dime can
help couples keep wedding costs
more manageable. Once that num-
ber is defined, couples can then
work within its parameters, which
can make potentially difficult de-
cisions a little easier by narrowing
options at a time when options can
seem endless.
A well-planned budget can be just
what couples need to begin married
life on strong financial footing.

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Getting engaged is an exciting
moment in the lives of a couple.
One might think that excitement
would lead to couples hurrying
their way down the aisle to tie
the knot, but studies have shown
that couples spend a significant
amount of time between getting
engaged and saying, “I do.”
According to The Knot 2021
Real Weddings Study, the aver-
age engagement length among
couples in the United States is
16 months. Though those fig-
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How to tame your wedding-related jitters

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Nerves are to be expected
when getting married.
It is exciting to be engaged
and realize you have met that
special someone with whom
you want to share the rest of
your life.
But anxiety may creep in as
the big day draws closer.
A lot of planning goes into a
wedding, and often the pres-
sure that comes with trying
to create the perfect day can
overshadow feelings of love
and excitement.
That is when wedding jitters
may crop up.
Couples must recognize
they’re not alone if they feel a
little uneasy as their wedding
day draws closer.
However, there are ways
you can address and tame jit-
ters both before and during the
wedding. Here are five things
you can do to ease your jitters:
Step away from
wedding-related tasks
Chances are you have spent
months with the wedding on
your brain.
It likely has consumed your
daily life.
Take a day or two to do
something unrelated to the
wedding, whether you’re
alone, with friends
or with your future spouse.
Attend a fun event, go out to
dinner, queue up several mov-
ies for a night in, or take a small
trip.
Keep wedding details out of
the picture while you’re enjoy-
ing yourself.
Forget about being perfect
Wedding jitters often stem
from being nervous about ev-
erything going as planned. You
may put undue pressure on
yourself to ensure everything
is perfect.
Nervousness when planning a wedding is understandable.
But perfection is impossi-
ble, and the sooner you accept
that a thing or two will likely
not work out, the less stressed
you may feel.
You’ll be surrounded by
family and friends who will
help you roll with the punches,
whether that’s a torn hemline
or a missing buffet item.
Guests are here to celebrate
you, not pass judgment.
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Discuss large changes to come
Some couples feel jittery
because they haven’t spoken
about changes ahead. These
can include relocation, merg-
ing finances and whether or
not children are in your future.
Stress can be tamed if you take
a break from wedding plan-
ning and discuss these import-
ant topics.
Learn relaxation techniques
Learning to relax is import-
ant when dealing with anxiety.
There are many different re-
laxation techniques to explore.
Some include meditation, yo-
ga, deep-tissue massage, exer-
cise, or immersing yourself in a
peaceful spot outdoors. Some
people turn to reading or other
hobbies to relax. Do not look
to alcohol or medication as an
outlet to alleviate stress.
Talk to someone
If anxiety about the wed-
ding is eating you up, consider
speaking with a therapist or
close friend or family member.
Sometimes a new perspective
can calm jitters.
Nervousness when planning
a wedding is understandable.
However, couples can take
steps to tame jitters so they en-
joy all that goes into tying the
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How to find the right wedding reception venue
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Every decision engaged cou-
ples make in regard to their wed-
dings is significant. Perhaps no
decision will help couples set the
tone they hope to establish more
than their choice of reception
venue.
Reception venues are where
couples and guests will spend
the majority of the wedding day.
With that in mind, couples can
consider these tips as they look
for the perfect place to host their
receptions.
n Decide what you want out
of a venue. Prospective brides
and grooms may have vastly dif-
ferent ideas regarding how they
want their weddings to go, and
it’s imperative that couples dis-
cuss their ideal weddings prior to
looking for a venue. Do you want
to get married in a place of wor-
ship? Or do you prefer a venue
that can host both the ceremo-
ny and reception? Do you want
an indoor, outdoor or hybrid
ceremony and reception? De-
fine what you both want before
looking for a venue and make
the necessary concessions if you
have different ideas in mind.
n Consider picking a venue
before setting a date. It can be
wise to pick a reception venue
first and then choose your wed-
ding date based on the availabil-
ity of the venue. This is especial-
ly important for couples who
already have an ideal venue in
mind, and it also provides some
flexibility as couples search for
the venue. For example, couples
working within a strict budget
may not be able to afford a pre-
ferred venue during the height of
wedding season, but that venue
could be less costly during slow-
er times of year. By waiting to
pick a date until you’ve chosen
a venue, you’re increasing your
options.
n Consider your guests.
Though couples, particularly
those footing the bill on their
own, should prioritize their de-
sires when choosing a reception,
it’s important they also consider
their guests before making a final
decision. A venue that’s accessi-
ble and located near transit hubs
such as airports and train sta-
tions will increase the likelihood
that more people can attend. In
addition, if children will be invit-
ed, a venue that includes family
Bridal Guide
4 tips for finding the right wedding venue
Depending on couples’ prefer- Finding a venue that will max-
ences and religious beliefs, imize dollars spent involves
ceremonies may take place at looking at what is included.
a house of worship or another Rentals for chairs, linens,
location separate from the lighting, a dance floor, and
reception venue. Consider other extras can quickly add
these four tips to find a up. Couples should have a
venue that suits their needs. set limit they’re willing to
spend on the venue and let
1. Consider your theme and that dictate the location.
wedding style. Most cou-
ples know which sentiments 3. Availability of the location.
they want to convey during When a couple wants to get
their weddings. The venue married may determine their
should match the theme so venue options. September
and October are the most
the entire wedding will feel
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The choice of reception venue is one of the most important modern wedding may be at ried, so venues will book up
home in an art gallery or quickly during that time of
wedding decisions a couple will have to make. year. Those who have their
warehouse. A wedding with hearts set on specific days
natural elements may work will have to begin the search
restrooms, including at least one of your budget. better on a ranch or in a
earlier than couples with no
with a changing table, can make n Consider the package. botanical garden. attachment to a particular
parents’ nights much easier. Venues vary in terms of their 2. Assess the budget. A cou- date.
n Consider your budget. reception packages. Some may ple may find what seems to 4. Estimate the size of your
The Knot 2021 Real Weddings offer catering, including bever-
be the perfect venue, only to guest list. A trendy restau-
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Tips to help master your wedding guest list
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Weddings are such mo-
mentous occasions that it’s
no wonder couples want to
share their big days with as
many people as possible.
Though a wedding where all
friends, family members and
acquaintances are in atten-
dance may be a dream sce-
nario, reality often calls for a
carefully curated guest list.
Data from The Wedding
Report indicates that the av-
erage cost of a wedding is
slightly more than $20,000,
though that figure could be
substantially higher, or even
lower, depending on where
couples tie the knot. Both
The Wedding Report and The
Knot report that a wedding
venue and catering make up
a significant percentage of the
overall cost of a wedding, with
some figures indicating that
these expenses account for
around 65 percent of the final
price tag.
The number of guests cou-
ples will host on their wed-
ding day will affect which
venue they book and how
much food and beverages
they’ll need to satisfy guests.
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manageable and less expensive.
within budget can consider
these tips as they try to build a
guest list that won’t break the
bank.
n Accept input. Parents
may no longer foot the entire
bill for their children’s wed-
dings, but couples who are
accepting some financial help
from parents must also accept
Mom’s and Dad’s input re-
garding the guest list. Even if
parents’ desired guests do not
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and consider who they want
to invite. Couples who are fi-
nancing their own weddings
without outside help need not
feel beholden to invite any-
one who does not meet their
invitation criteria.
n Make a preliminary list
without regard to budget.
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Couples can have fun making
preliminary guest lists with-
out considering their bud-
gets. A preliminary list can
serve as a solid starting point,
and couples may even realize
that their list is within bud-
get. Once the preliminary lists
have been created, couples
can categorize guests (i.e.,
distant cousins, coworkers,
etc.) and then work together
to determine if any categories
can be eliminated from the
invitation list. For example,
couples who may be going
over budget with their guest
lists can each agree to remove
distant cousins from their
prospective invitees.
n Seek advice. Many cou-
ples face difficult decisions
regarding their wedding day
guest lists, so it can be helpful
to speak to a recently married
friend or relative to see how
they handled paring down
their guest lists. Some might
have done it by category,
while others might have lim-
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February 2023 • 5
ited guest lists to local friends
and family. When taking this
approach, couples can speak
to friends about how they ap-
proached handling people
who were surprised that they
were not on the final list of in-
vitees.
n Throw a less formal
party down the road. A less
expensive backyard barbe-
cue within weeks of tying the
knot can serve as a less cost-
ly alternative to a large wed-
ding reception. Couples who
take this approach can keep
their wedding day guest lists
to a minimum, but invite ev-
eryone they hope to see to a
post-wedding day backyard
barbecue or pot luck picnic so
they can celebrate with every-
one they love.
Curating a wedding day
guest list is no small task.
However, couples can try
various approaches to keep
a guest list more manageable
and less expensive.
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How to avoid reception seating mistakes
Metro Creative Connection
Weddings are great oppor-
tunities for people to gather
and celebrate the melding of
two families into one.
Weddings are a melting
pot, and while the ultimate
goal is for all guests invited
to mingle and have a good
time, preexisting relation-
ships may cause some wed-
ding-day interactions to
be strained. However, with
careful planning and some
best behavior on the parts of
all involved, getting hitched
can go off without a hitch.
It’s possible for guests who
may have tumultuous pasts
to keep the peace, but this
also can be ensured through
careful seating arrange-
ments. This is just one fac-
tor couples need to consider
when deciding where guests
will sit and dine at recep-
tions.
It’s important to avoid
some common mistakes.
Here is some help:
Mistake #1: Not having a
seating plan. Let guests sit
where they want and cha-
os may ensue. People may
think they’re entitled to cer-
tain seats, may hop into seats
vacated by someone getting
up to use the restroom or any
number of other scenarios.
Seating arrangements also
ensure everyone is account-
ed for across the room.
Mistake #2: Seating fami-
lies separately. Unless there
are rifts between certain
family members, it’s best to
seat parents and children at
the same tables.
Mistake #3: Trying to force
new friendships. Avoid try-
ing to figure out who will get
along by creating a potpour-
ri table. A cousin in a band
will not necessarily want
to sit next to your coworker
who plays guitar simply be-
cause they have a shared love
of music. A wedding is not
the time to try to create new
friendships. If it’s meant to
be, they’ll connect in a more
organic way.
Mistake #4: The dread-
ed kids’ table. Young chil-
dren can probably get away
Bridal Guide
A guide to ‘plus one’etiquette
Making a guest list is seldom an ANY GUEST WHO IS ENGAGED OR IS
easy task. Couples often find that
many people are worthy of an invi- IN A SERIOUS LONG-TERM
tation, which can make creating a RELATIONSHIP
guest list tricky. It is challenging to know the re-
According to data from the online lationship status of everyone who
wedding resource The Knot, the will be invited to the wedding, but
average wedding catering cost per chances are you’ll have a good idea
guest is roughly $70. However, ca- of those closest to you. Include
tering costs will vary depending on
a plus one for guests who are en-
the reception venue, the number of gaged or in long-term relationships.
guests, the foods chosen, and the
region of the country where the wed- CONSIDER GUESTS
ding takes place. WHO MAY NOT KNOW OTHERS
When creating their guest lists, Weddings often are times when
couples may wonder if they have to childhood friends reconnect, or peo-
offer all guests the option of bring-
ple who haven’t seen each other in
ing a “plus one” to the occasion. a while come together. If there’s a
As with other wedding day etiquette good chance someone who is sin-
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A seating plan for wedding receptions is an important not set in stone. may not know anyone else there ex-
consideration so that every guest can feel comfortable. ANY GUEST WHO IS MARRIED cept the couple, extend a plus one
It’s typically standard to invite as a courtesy.
with sitting at a dedicated Mistake #6: Failing to get a couple as a whole to the wed-
kids’ table, although it may family feedback. Always INCLUDE THE WEDDING PARTY
ding, even if you’ve never met the All members of the wedding par-
mean their parents have to check with your parents and spouse. This often comes up when ty should be offered the option of
interrupt their experienc- future in-laws as resourc- inviting work friends, according to
bringing a date to the wedding.
es by checking on their kids es about how to seat certain Vogue magazine. Even if you have Apart from these guidelines, cou-
never interacted with a coworker’s
throughout the night. guests. They’ll likely know ples can establish any other rules,
spouse, etiquette dictates that all such as no plus ones for guests un-
A bigger faux pas is to sit who will make the best ta- married guests be allowed to bring
der a certain age or those who are
teenagers or twentysome- ble-mates, especially if cou- their spouses along.
not in serious relationships.
things at the kids table even ples are not familiar with ev-
if they seem like youngsters eryone on the guest list.
to you. Set a strict cut-off age Mistake #7: Not be-
for a children’s table. ing aware of disabilities
Mistake #5: Being too or needs. Be conscious of
strict in seating. It’s one guests’ needs. An elderly
thing to direct couples or relative may not be comfort-
singletons to specific tables, able in front of the DJ table.
quite another to assign spe- A person in a wheelchair
cific seats. may need easy access to and
Do not dictate exactly from the reception room. It’s
where at the table a guest important to be mindful of
should sit. Some people ar- these special needs.
rive early, others late, and A seating plan for wedding
it is up to them to work out receptions is an important
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Tips for choosing a wedding makeup artist

Metro Creative Connection on their wedding days, but fail to un-
A wedding gives couples a chance to derstand that this is one of the most
shine and celebrate their love for one an- photographed moments in their lives.
other. Naturally, all eyes are on the happy High-definition cameras and lighting
couple on their wedding day, and that can affect how makeup appears in film
means brides and grooms want to look and in photographs, as well as what a
their best. complexion and pores will look like.
For those planning to wear makeup, Taking photos during the trial ap-
relying on a skilled makeup artist can pointment will help you see what you will
make a big difference in how couples look like in pictures, which may be dif-
look in videos and photographs. ferent from how makeup appears when
Professional makeup artists will be looking in the mirror.
acquainted with techniques that can Chances are a bride will need to be
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wedding day. Makeup artists recognize
when asking for natural. A qualified artist
which products to use to ensure a flaw-
can strike a balance between natural and
less face lasts all day. This person also can METRO CREATIVE CONNECTION
take the pressure off the bride having to A makeup artist can help couples look their best during their weddings, making photo-ready.
do makeup herself, meaning the bride them a worthy investment of time and money. TOUCH-UPS
can sit back and relax and enjoy being Some makeup artists are willing to
pampered. Techniques such as lash ap- tween cosmetics and beauty products look you desire. It’s important for a bride- be available for a short time before the
plications, contouring and highlighting purchased at a drug store and the profes- to-be to go to the trial appointment with start of the reception. This gives them
require skill, and skilled makeup profes- sional-grade items used by makeup art- an open mind and reserve judgment un- the opportunity to touch-up makeup if
sionals are well-trained in these areas. ists. Professional products have been en- til the application is complete. A profes- needed after the ceremony when most of
When shopping around for makeup gineered for specific applications. They sional can make suggestions on a color the posed photos are taken. Also, adjust-
artists, couples with limited knowledge tend to be long-wearing and luxurious. palette and products that will comple- ments can be made at this time if a bride
of what to expect can look for certain TRIAL APPLICATION wants a “nighttime” look.
ment skin tone and needs.
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Here’s a closer look at some popular wedding hairstyles

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Much goes into being pho-
to-ready on your wedding day.
Gowns and tuxes garner their fair
share of attention, but hairstyles
also help couples look their best.
Certain hairstyles have exhib-
ited some serious staying power
and can look timeless in photos
and videos for years to come.
n Classic low bun or chignon:
This is one hairstyle that certain-
ly has withstood the test of time.
A bun can be as sleek as a bride
desires, or tendrils can be pulled
out to frame the face, and the
bun can be anything from min-
imal to messy. Pulling hair back
may be more comfortable on
warm days and there’s no frizz
to worry about if Mother Nature
fails to cooperate.
n Vintage curls: Brides whose
dresses harken back to a bygone
era may want to complement
that style with a hairdo that also
speaks to that moment in time.
For example, the intricate pin
curls of the 1920s will tie into a
gown with an umpire waist.
n Fancy ponytail: Like a bun,
a ponytail can pull hair away
from the face for comfort and
style. It’s a less formal than a bun
and can be styled in many fash-
ions, even incorporating braids.
n Side-swept waves: Evoke
movie-star drama with a hair-
style that features hair pulled to
one side and cascading waves
down the length of the face.
n Loose waterfall braids:
Carefree boho looks run the
gamut of styles. One to consider
is loosely plaited waterfall braids
that add whimsy. Additional
braided options also work well
for less formal weddings.
n Half-up, half-down: This
hairstyle offers the best of both
worlds. It enables the hair to be
pulled back on top, and then
the bottom is left loose, whether
straight or in curls or waves.
n Ballerina top knot: This is a
take on the bun. But rather than
pinned at the nape, it is high on n Halo braid: This braid is
the crown of the head. fashioned so that it goes over the
n Short bob or pixie with ac- top of the head and mimics the
cents: Shorter hair also can look look of a crown or halo. It may
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Find the venue that works best for you

GLOW WEDDINGS: Area venues offer a variety of experiences and services
By KORI SCIANDRA
ksciandra@batavianews.com
When you begin plan-
ning your wedding or a bridal
shower, the best place to start
is choosing your venue. This
is one of the largest tasks and
plans tend to fall into place
from there.
When choosing your venue,
consider your theme and the
number of guests you intend
to host.
There are a variety of venues
available in the four-county
GLOW region, including wed-
ding barns, and country club
and fire department banquet
halls, among others. The facil-
ities may be in historic struc-
tures or modern venues. Each
venue offers a different atmo-
sphere and come paired with
different amenities.
Among those to consider is
Bent’s Opera House, 444 Main
St., Medina for hosting a small,
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cient funding and financial
incentives, insensitive public
policies, general neglect, dis-
investment, and in some cas-
recognized the facility’s reno-
vation and resurgence.
A love of beer and a passion
for business led to the creation
of Windy Brew, a custome
brew center at 733 US-20A,
Strykersville.
Windy Brew owners Bill and
Michelle Snyder have created
a fun atmosphere where cus-
tomers can enjoy a beverage of
their choice or even brew their
own beer.
Windy Brew offers a sepa-
rate space from where general
customer traffic is that is bright
and open – and could be an ex- PHOTO COURTESY OF BENT’S OPERA HOUSE.
cellent space to host a bridal Bent’s Opera House in Medina offers both event and guest
shower. The venue includes accomodations.
enough table and chair space
as well as a small table for gifts
and desserts. This space can
accommodate about 25 to 30
people.
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ing facility, want your dining
experience to be personal and
cherished.
Bent’s Opera House is a
restored 1865 performance
space. The building has three
floors with a restaurant and
hotel on the first and second
floors, and on the third floor, a
fully and historically restored
Opera House Ballroom.
Bent’s can provide both
events and guest accommoda-
tions.
To see its dinner and brunch
menus, for more information
about Bent’s Opera House or
to learn about how they can
accommodate your guests,
visit bentsoperahouse.com.
In 2012, Bent’s Opera House
was named to the Preservation
League of New York State’s
“Seven to Save” list of New
York’s most threatened his-
toric resources. The Medina
property was among seven
historic resources the League
said were in danger of disap-
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Windy Brew bills itself as
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“I think what is really unique
about Windy Brew is that you
can come make your own beer
in our custom brew center and
serve it at your wedding as a
Diamonds remain a top jewelry trend, but see changes
By KORI SCIANDRA
ksciandra@batavianews.com
It might be time to start
shopping for that special
someone as you prepare to
ask for their hand in mar-
riage. But where do you start
your search?
Stay on trend this wedding
season and start with a local
jewelry store.
This can help point you in
the right direction while also
helping to find you the per-
fect piece of jewelry.
“Classic solitaire rings and
hidden halo designs (un-
der the center diamond) are
growing in popularity,” said
Carrie Valle of Valle Jewelers
in Batavia.
“Lab-grown diamonds
have continued to be the eco-
nomical and environmen-
tally friendly choice for large
center stones. A large variety
of diamond wedding bands
continue to satisfy the young
brides as they ‘create their
own stack.’ Emerald cut and
baguette diamond wedding
bands are also making a huge
comeback!” said Valle.
Classic cuts and designs re-
main popular.
“We have been selling sev-
eral oval and rectangular ra-
diant cuts as well as the tra-
ditional round brilliant cut,”
Valle said. “As far as metal
color, 14K Yellow Gold has
been a very popular choice
again.”
favor to your guests,” said Mi-
chelle.
Since the COVID-19 pan-
demic, Windy Brew has been
on a slow and steady pace re-
covering from losses due to the
pandemic.
“We made changes as we
were directed by the govern-
ment, but have gone back to
pre-COVID accommodations.
Where we have really grown
post-pandemic is our outdoor
space. We have a really fantas-
tic beer garden with live music
in the summer, corn hole tour-
naments, or just people relax-
ing with friends and family,”
said Michelle.
Though halo diamonds
have stayed in demand for
centuries, according to
keyzarjewelry.com, and they
will always be in demand,
they are not the top trend for
2023.
“Trends for 2023 jewelry
feature Gabriel Bridal. Pear-
shaped and oval diamonds
have been very popular,” said
Jimmy Lambert of Lambert’s
Design Jewelers in Batavia.
“We’re seeing a lot of sim-
pler designs, nothing too
complicated. Halos are phas-
ing out and there is a higher
demand for simple designs,”
said Lambert, who also offers
more than 30 years of experi-
ence with repair, custom de-
sign and sale of jewelry.
When looking for an en-
gagement ring or shopping
for wedding bands, it’s im-
portant to know where to
shop so that you’re in shared
company and can rely on the
jeweler’s expertise.
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many events that have come
back year after year such as
NFG Gunshows, Pembroke
during the COVID pandemic,
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She continued, “We have Though the hall was closed 356-3301.
“If you don’t know jewelry,
know your jeweler,” said Val-
le. “Several online sources are
selling lab-grown diamonds
that are actually simulat-
ed stones. We suggest doing
your research, then find a
jeweler to meet with face-to-
face before buying anything.”
Shopping at your local jew-
eler is an excellent place to
purchase quality jewelry and
get to know you’re neighbor
as well. Valle Jewelers prides
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“We sell different levels of
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do periodically offer sales.
We also offer interest-free fi-
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How to pick the perfect wedding dress
Metro Creative Connection
Planning a wedding re-
quires making many different
decisions. The choice of wed-
ding attire is among the most
crucial decisions that couples
must make.
Whether the wedding is tra-
ditional or customized to suit
couples’ personalities, brides
and grooms want to look their
best when they say, “I do.”
Many brides-to-be spend
a significant amount of time
looking for their ideal wedding
dresses. What defines the
right gown depends on per-
sonal preference and is unique
to the person doing the search.
For example, a dress that sets
a fairy tale scene for one bride
may not necessarily align with
the tastes of another.
According to Bridal Atelier,
the average bride-to-be tries
on try three to seven dresses
before finding the right one.
The following tips can help
those shopping for dresses
find a look that makes their big
day even more special.
1. Don’t get hung up
on perfection
Many brides get caught
up as they search for the one
dress they consider perfect.
No dress is likely to check ev-
ery box. Getting hung up on a
desire to find a dress that has it
all may make it hard to see the
beauty in other dresses.
Remember, with the talents
of an experienced tailor or
seamstress, most dresses can
be tweaked to suit your vision
of the ideal gown.
2. Consider the season
Getting married during the
Hair
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Men have plenty of options
to get their hair ready. Classic
shorter cuts feature close-cut
sides and more length on top,
which can be spiked, tousled or
even slicked back depending on
personal preference.
hazy and humid days of sum-
mer is an entirely different
experience than tying the knot
during the heart of winter. The
fabric of the wedding dress
should complement the sea-
son, whether it’s lightweight
and breezy for a warm day,
or more substantial and cozy
when darting to the ceremony
in snowfall.
3. Flatter your figure
Chances are brides-to-be
know which cuts and styles are
most flattering. Mimic those
style choices in the wedding
dress.
If you want to take focus off
of full hips, choose a basque
or asymmetrical waistline.
Gowns with substantial straps
or higher necklines may be
better if you have a larger
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style gowns are options if you
are confident with your figure
and want to show off your
curves.
4. Try a bit of this and that
Don’t go into a wedding
dress appointment with firm
parameters. Although you
may have a ball gown style in
mind, after trying on other
options something with a less
voluminous silhouette may
actually catch your eye. Many
brides also automatically de-
fer to strapless gowns, when
various straps and sleeves can
be very appealing.
5. Arrive with a firm budget
Weddings can be costly.
It’s important to set a budget
for the wedding dress just as
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A look behind the veil
Though couples can plan
wedding ceremonies and
receptions how they see fit,
many weddings are steeped
in tradition, some of which
may be more subtle than oth-
ers.
One longstanding tradition
revolves around a bride’s
attire. Historians differ re-
garding the origins of the
bridal veil, but some trace
this tradition back to Ancient
Greece. Others suggest brid-
al veils were first popularized
within the Roman Empire by
people who believed that the
veil protected the bride from
evil spirits as she walked
down the aisle.
Traditions surrounding
bridal veils even differ with-
in various faiths, so the veil
may signify one thing at a
Jewish wedding and some-
thing entirely different at a
Christian ceremony.
Veils also have long been
seen by some as symbolic of
purity.
Despite their long-held
position in wedding lore and
tradition, veils are no longer
seen as a must-have. Nor
are brides who choose to
wear a veil beholden to hav-
ing it cover their face as they
walk down the aisle. Many
modern brides now flip their
veils over their head as they
walk down the aisle en route
to saying, “I do.”

Picture perfect wedding day photography tips
Metro Creative Connection
Few things document wed-
dings more effectively than
photographs. Carefully curated
wedding albums and portraits
hung on walls serve as daily
reminders of a couple’s special
day.
Photography is often left in
the very qualified hands of pro-
fessional photographers. How-
ever, couples can pitch in to
make their photos really pop.
These picture pointers from
industry insiders can help
couples put their best smile
forward.
Leave ample time
A carefully orchestrated
timeline can ensure photos are
the best they can be.
Why? Because a couple
who is relaxed and not over-
whelmed will notice that
attitude translates to their pho-
tographs.
When planning wedding
timelines, couples should leave
ample opportunities for getting
dressed, chatting with the wed-
ding party and going through
various photography settings
to grab great photos, advise the
experts at Martha Stewart.
Put together a short list
The photographer will have
his or her ideas of which shots
to cover, but a couple with
specific goals in mind should
relay that information to their
photographer. For example,
if a grandparent is getting up
in years, request some solo
photos of that person so you
can look back on happy times
together.
Certain couples want to be
snapped posing with a beloved
pet. Putting that on the list
helps ensure it will happen.
Enlist a family
photo coordinator
If the photographer does not
have his or her own assistant,
recruit someone who is asser-
tive to help wrangle everyone
for the family shots. Attempt to
get family photos when family
members are relaxed but not
too far rumpled by dancing or
Bridal Guide February 2023 • 11
in front of mirrors to get a feel
for body positions that put
Carefully curated
them in their best light. wedding albums
A photographer’s advice in
regard to posture is invaluable and portraits hung
as well. Create space between
arms and the body and learn
on walls serve as
how to angle the body so you daily reminders
look your best.
Photos will capture wedding of a couple’s
day memories forever. Cou-
ples can put themselves in the
special day.
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following some photography
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Embracing modern trends is
one way couples have looked
to set their weddings apart
from traditional ceremonies.
Give your wedding
a modern touch
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No two weddings are the
same.
Some couples go to great
lengths to personalize their
weddings, while others make a
few minor tweaks to tradition-
al components to make cere-
monies and receptions more
reflective of their style and the
sentiments they hope to con-
vey.
Embracing modern trends
is one way couples have looked
to set their weddings apart
from traditional ceremonies.
There are no rules govern-
ing weddings, and that affords
couples certain freedoms as
they seek to incorporate a
modern sensibility into the
festivities. For example, cou-
ples can modernize certain
components of their weddings
while remaining loyal to more
traditional elements, or they
can fully embrace a modern
aesthetic.
That choice of how mod-
ern to make a wedding is up to
the couple tying the knot, but
the following are some ways
to give weddings a modern
touch.
n Leave a small carbon
footprint. Eco-conscious
couples can embrace an en-
vironmentalist ethos when
planning their weddings by
doing everything they can to
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A look at popular and lasting wedding traditions
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Weddings are steeped in
tradition. Some of those tra-
ditions may be exclusive to
particular families, but many
others are embraced by fam-
ilies of various backgrounds.
Couples need not feel be-
holden to popular wedding
traditions, but some may feel
that these customs make their
weddings more fun and serve
as a great way to connect their
ceremonies with those of their
parents, grandparents and
possibly even their ancestors.
Here’s a capsule look at
some long-time traditions
that remain popular:
Old, new, borrowed, blue
The rhyme “something old,
something new, something
borrowed, something blue”is
likely familiar to people about
to get married.
This traditional rhyme has
existed for centuries and re-
fers to items a bride should
wear and keep with her on her
wedding day.
The old alludes to a bride’s
past, the new refers to her fu-
ture, the borrowed is intend-
ed to be something borrowed
from a married couple or
bride, and the blue is a symbol
of purity, love and fidelity.
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Many brides still weir veils
today, a tradition that dates
to ancient Greece.
These items are tradition-
ally given to the bride-to-be
by family members or female
friends who are already mar-
ried.
Bridal veil
It’s now up to brides if they
want to wear a veil on their
wedding day, but it was once a
tradition all brides adhered to.
Some trace the tradition back
to ancient Greece, while oth-
ers suggest the tradition be-
gan in the days of the Roman
Empire.
Veils were believed to
shield brides from evil spirits
on her wedding day, thus pav-
& much more
ing the way for a healthy and
happy future.
Many brides still wear veils
today, though likely due more
to their aesthetic appeal than
out of a belief that the veil will
ward off evil spirits.
Some brides still use veils
to cover their face as they walk
up the aisle, while others flip
the veil over their heads.
Gifting knives
Perhaps one of the less-
er known superstitions sur-
rounding weddings, giving
knives as a wedding gift is a
no-no for some people. The
origins of this superstition are
uncertain, but people who
abide by this tradition feel that
knives are symbolic of a bro-
ken relationship. That would
likely come as a surprise to the
many engaged couples who
have a set of knives on their
wedding registries.
Carrying the bride
over the threshold
Historians trace this tra-
dition, which Hollywood has
undoubtedly helped to keep
alive, all the way back to medi-
eval Europe.
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evil spirits, the tradition of a
groom carrying his bride over
the threshold into their new
home was believed to keep
the spirits form entering the
home through the soles of the
bride’s feet.
Breaking glass
Couples break glass for dif-
ferent reasons on their wed-
ding days.
Within the Jewish faith, one
member of the couple will
stomp on a carefully wrapped
glass to serve as a reminder of
the destruction of the Jewish
temples and to inspire reflec-
tion among those in atten-
dance.
Italian newlyweds also may
smash glass, but they’ll do it
with a little more gusto. Local
tradition in Italy dictated that,
at the end of the wedding, the
newly married couple would
smash a wine glass. Folklore
suggests that the number of
pieces the glass breaks into
indicates how many years the
couple will stay together.
Tradition is part and parcel
of many weddings. Some tra-
ditions are more solemn than
others, but all can add some-
thing meaningful, dramatic
and even a little fun to the cer-
emony.

Engaged couples have increasingly incorporated social media
into their weddings.
Utilize social media in
fun ways at your wedding
Metro Creative Connection
Young couples tying the knot
today grew up with social me-
dia, so it’s no great surprise that
so many want to utilize various
platforms with their weddings.
On the surface, modern wed-
ding ceremonies and receptions
may look similar to the nuptials
of yesteryear. However, en-
gaged couples have increasingly
incorporated social media into
their weddings. Here are some
fun and creative ways to em-
brace that trend.
n Create a social media
photo booth. Guests may take
more pictures at modern wed-
dings than the photographers
who were hired to document
the couple’s big day from start
to finish. Social media boards
are digital screens that display
social media walls. Live event
social media boards collect and
curate content from social me-
dia channels and display it on
a single digital screen. Users,
in this case a couple’s guests,
simply use a predetermined
hashtag when posting photos
and the images are then dis-
played on digital screens in real
time. This can be a fun way to
engage guests during the recep-
tion.
n Live stream the wedding.
Live streams became very pop-
ular during the pandemic, when
couples getting married had to
pare down their guest lists in or-
der to adhere to social distanc-
ing guidelines. But live streams
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can continue to be used after the
pandemic, as there will always
be guests who can’t make it to
the wedding. Facebook Live was
a go-to social media platform for
live streaming weddings during
the pandemic, and it can be uti-
lized to involve loved ones in the
festivities even if they can’t be
there in person. Live streaming
via social media may be espe-
cially useful for couples who
want to enjoy destination wed-
dings, which tend to be small
affairs due to travel constraints.
n Hashtag the wedding. A
couple-specific hashtag can
serve as something akin to a
wedding album, only it’s one
everyone can easily access via
the couple’s chosen social me-
dia platform. Encourage guests
to hashtag photos from the
wedding so everyone can have
a good time looking back on the
ceremony and reception once
the day has come and gone.
n Plan with your party. So-
cial media can be as fun, inclu-
sive and useful when planning
the wedding as it can during
the wedding itself. Brides and
grooms can create private Pin-
terest boards and share with
the wedding party. Everyone
can then use the private board
to bounce ideas off each other.
Couples can infuse fun into the
Pinterest board by encouraging
groomsmen and bridesmaids
to post outrageous outfit ideas
or submit sing-along song re-
quests for the reception.
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How to take the hectic out of your wedding day
Metro Creative Connection
Weddings are among the
most complex events many
people will ever plan.
Couples often try to go the
extra mile in an effort to make
the day memorable for them-
selves and their guests. That
pressure can make a wedding
day feel a little frenzied.
Thankfully, there are vari-
ous ways to ensure the vibe of
the big day is happy and not
hectic.
Among them:
Hire a wedding planner
or wedding coordinator
Leaving the nitty gritty to a
professional wedding plan-
ner takes a lot of pressure off
of couples.
The renowned wedding
resource The Knot says wed-
ding planners are clued into
everything there is to know
about a wedding and they can
be tapped to take care of just
about anything on couples’
to-do list.
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Simple strategies
can ensure couples
keep their focus on
one another and
their loved ones.
Consider a package deal
All-inclusive resorts are
popular vacation spots be-
cause variables such as en-
tertainment, lodging, food,
drinks, and more is all taken
care of, leaving vacationers
with little to do other than
show up and relax.
Couples can apply that
same approach on their wed-
ding day. Host the ceremony
and reception at the same
site, which takes the poten-
tially problematic issue of
getting guests to and fro out
of the equation. Some venues
may even provide in-house
vendors such as photog-
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raphers and florists. Such
vendors’ familiarity with the
venue reduces the risk of sur-
prises that can derail wedding
day schedules.
Pick your priorities
Avoid getting bogged down
on a million details by making
a list of your priorities when
planning.
Couples can revisit this list
a couple of days before their
wedding so they remember
what’s most important to
them on the big day. This
refresher can ensure couples
don’t get too concerned if mi-
nor issues arise during their
big day, helping them remain
calm and keeping a focus on
all the fun to be had during
the day.
It’s easy for couples to feel
a little overwhelmed on their
wedding day. Some simple
strategies can take the hectic
out of couples’ wedding day
and ensure they keep their fo-
cus on one another and their
loved ones.
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eliminate waste and promote
conservation.
Send electronic invitations
and save-the-date cards in
lieu of paper alternatives and
choose a reception venue that
serves only locally sourced
food and beverages. In lieu of
wedding favors, which tend
to be individually wrapped,
make a donation in guests’
names to a local environmen-
tal group and share that infor-
mation with loved ones. When
picking a hotel for guests, find
lodging that incorporates sus-
tainability into its day-to-day
operations.
n Retire certain traditions.
Couples need not feel pres-
sured to incorporate traditions
that no longer reflect modern
sensibilities. It’s up to couples
to determine which traditions
to retire, but customs such as
the garter toss and bouquet
toss may no longer resonate
with modern couples or their
guests. In addition, brides who
want to be walked down the
aisle by both of their parents,
as opposed to just their father,
should not hesitate to do so.
n Look for a modern venue.
One of the most awe-inspiring
ways to give a wedding a mod-
ern touch is to choose a venue
that reflects a modern aesthet-
ic. Vaulted ceilings, white walls
and floor-to-ceiling windows
can create a clean, modern
feel.
Outdoor ceremonies also
can create a modern ambi-
ance.
n Adjust your attire. Black
tuxedos and white wedding
dresses are among the first
things to come to mind when
imagining traditional wed-
dings. Couples can stay formal
but embrace a more modern
look by choosing more col-
orful tuxes for grooms and
groomsmen and picking a
wedding gown with a flair of
color. Brides also can allow
bridesmaids to pick their own
bridesmaid dresses to expand
the modern look even further.
There’s no shortage of ways
for couples to give their wed-
dings a modern touch.
A guide to wedding day floral arrangements
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Various elements come to-
gether to complete a wedding
day visual. Floral arrangements
are one such component
that can create a special and
awe-inspiring ambiance.
Flowers appeal to at least
three of the senses. Their del-
icate aroma can help a venue
smell fresh and inviting. And
it’s hard to deny the visual
appeal of a stunning floral ar-
rangement.
There are colors, sizes, tex-
tures, and much more that can
cater to any theme. In addi-
tion, flowers can add a tactile
element, even if guests do not
going around touching the
blooms.
Flowers convey so much
during weddings that it’s im-
portant to make finding a flo-
rist a priority, according to the
wedding resource The Knot.
The following is a guide to
understanding floral arrange-
ments that may be included in
a wedding.
Bouquets, corsages
and boutonnieres
The wedding party, bride,
groom, and parents of the cou-
ple are set apart from others at
the wedding ceremony by the
special flowers on their attire
and in their hands, among oth-
er indicators.
Boutonnieres are a single
bud pinned to the left side of a
gentleman’s jacket.
Corsages can be attached to
a dress, but are now often worn
on the wrist.
Bouquets are held in hand.
They can be a few flowers gath-
ered together, or more exten-
sive displays. Bouquets may
feature bare stems, or stems
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may be bound and hidden be-
neath ribbon and fabric. Some
couples also have a small toss-
ing bouquet for later in the day.
Flower petals for a flower girl
to drop down the aisle also may
be part of the floral plan.
Ceremony flowers
Guests often are first intro-
duced to floral arrangements at
the wedding ceremony.
Potted or vase-encased flow-
ers may bookend the couple at
the altar. Seats or pews may
be adorned with flower sprays
to draw attention to the aisle,
known as aisle markers. These
are subtle choices that en-
hance the ceremony space.
Reception components
Flowers may truly shine
during the reception.
They’re one of the most
important components when
decorating the space.
Flowers serve as center-
pieces, so the guest list and the
number of tables will dictate
how many centerpieces are
required. These centerpieces
can be elaborate or simply a
few loose flowers in vases. Flo-
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Some additional reception
flowers can include installa-
tions on arches or on anything
hanging like a floral backdrop
for photo opportunities.
Tips and tricks
Couples should create a list
of everywhere they would like
to use flowers and present it,
along with magazine clippings
or planning boards, to show
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A 2021 survey from The Knot
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It’s important to set a strict
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Many special moments
unfold during a couple’s
wedding day. A bride’s walk
down the aisle, a married
couple’s first dance together
and, of course, the moment
couples say “I do” are just
a few of the many memora-
ble moments to take place
during a wedding.
Another memorable mo-
ment, and one that couples
have little to no control over,
is the wedding toast.
Toasting is a tradition that
some historians trace to an-
cient Greece, which should
give nervous toasters-to-be a
little more confidence as the
wedding day approaches.
After all, given the lengthy
history of toasting, it’s like-
ly that millions of people
have toasted happy couples
over the years. If millions of
others can do it, then so can
this year’s crop of best men,
maids of honor and proud
parents who will be asked to
raise a glass to happy cou-
ples.
As a couple’s big day
draws near, those trusted
with toasting the newlyweds
can consider these tips:
n Introduce yourself.
Unless it’s a very intimate
affair with only a handful
of well-acquainted guests,
introduce yourself before
beginning your toast. This
not only ensures everyone
recognizes who you are, but
also provides a simple way
to begin your comments
without feeling a need to
impress.
n Keep things lightheart-
ed. Though it’s best to avoid
being too informal, a light-
hearted toast with a funny
anecdote and/or a joke or
two can help to maintain the
jovial vibe of the reception.
n Explain your relation-
ship. Maids of honor and
best men are often chosen
because they have a special
relationship with the bride
or groom. So it’s alright to
give a brief explanation of
that relationship and explain
how much it means to you
during the toast.
Toasts are a beloved wedding tradition. People tasked with
toasting the happy couple can follow some simple strategies to
stay calm and deliver remarks couples will remember forever.
n Toast the couple. Even
though most people toast-
ing at a wedding likely have
a special connection with
just one half of the newly
married couple, it’s normal
to toast the new couple and
their happiness before clos-
ing your remarks.
If you want to toast each
person when delivering
your remarks, speak to your
counterpart (i.e., a maid of
honor if you’re the best man,
or vice versa) for some spe-
cial insight.
n Keep your toast short.
Toasts need not be lengthy.
In fact, toasts should be on
the shorter side so everyone
tasked with delivering a
toast can do so in a reason-
able amount of time.
n Avoid winging it. Plan
your remarks ahead of time,
even writing down your
toast or at least organizing
your ideas before you’re
handed the microphone.
Winging it might seem like
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an option, but if you speak
off-the-cuff you’ll likely find
yourself rambling and going
off course.
Planning also allows time
to practice your remarks
before the big day, which
also can help to calm your
nerves.
n Remember you’re
among friends. If need be,
remind yourself before your
toast that you’re among
friends. Speaking to a room
full of people you know or
are at least familiar with
should help you avoid the
nervousness that can come
with speaking to a room
filled with strangers.
Toasts are a beloved wed-
ding tradition. People tasked
with toasting the happy cou-
ple can follow some simple
strategies to stay calm and
deliver remarks couples will
remember forever.
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Brides- and grooms-to-be
select people who are near and
dear to their hearts to be special
parts of their momentous days.
So the chance to participate in
a friend’s or family member’s
wedding is a great honor.
A wedding party plays a key
role in both the ceremony and
reception. Participants do ev-
erything from helping couples
make decisions to addressing
invitations to providing emo-
tional support. As so much is
asked of the wedding party
– particularly the maid/ma-
tron of honor and bridesmaids
–it’s customary to bestow gifts
on those people who devot-
ed so much time and effort to
the wedding. These potential
bridesmaid gifts can serve as a
thoughtful and unique to way
to thank bridesmaids for all
that they’ve done.
n Photo books: Gift the
bridesmaids with photo books
of carefully curated photo-
graphs taken throughout the
wedding planning experience.
Pepper the books with other
photos, such as images of you
with the bridesmaids at fun
moments throughout your
lives together.
n Portrait wine or cham-
pagne glasses: Beverage glass-
es customized with the brides-
maids’ likenesses painted or
printed onto them make for
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great gifts. Bridesmaids will en-
joy sipping their favorite drinks
in special glasses for years.
n Personalized phone cas-
es: Who doesn’t rely on their
mobile phones these days?
Treat your bridesmaids to
something special with col-
orful phone cases with their
names embossed or printed on
the outsides.
n Wellness or spa gift card:
After all of the running around
for the wedding, bridesmaids
may need a little extra pamper-
ing. Gift cards to a local spa can
fit the bill.
n Birthstone jewelry: Neck-
laces, rings or earrings become
that much more special when
they’re customized to the re-
cipients. Purchase jewelry with
your bridesmaids’ birthstones
so they’ll be as unique as each
woman.
n Friendship bracelets: Gift
each bridesmaid with beaded
friendship bracelets that fea-
tures all of the ladies’ initials.
Be sure to keep one for yourself,
and you all can enjoy nights on
the town showcasing your spe-
cial bracelets.
n Monogrammed robes or
purses: A customized pock-
etbook, robe or another item
bridesmaids will use every day
can make for an extra-special
item that will serve as a daily
reminder of how much you ap-
preciate them.
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