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and more people from different places and different cultures are living and interacting with each
other. One of these places where interactions are happening is in organizations where conflicts
arise between people, groups, and even within ourselves. During my readings, I was able to
understand not only the importance of diversity in organizations, but how to best approach the
cultural conflicts that can arise. The first thing we have to understand about diversity conflict is
how to not approach it. In R. Thomas’ book, “Building a House for Diversity”, it mentions we
might be tempted to “fix” diversity by forcing people to adhere to the status quo.
In reality, we can’t force anyone to change or leave behind who they are fundamentally,
and trying to will inevitably lead to more conflict. Instead of trying to pigeon-hole someone into
something they’re not, we should take a moment to appreciate who they are and see how we can
apply their diversity to the organization. This can start by practicing inclusive leadership. This
means that leaders create an environment where every employee feels comfortable speaking up
and knowing that they will be heard. Having this kind of environment, and a leader who listens,
helps organizations embrace the ideas and input of people no matter their background or culture
(5 Strategies for Creating an Inclusive Workplace, 2020). Another way we can better approach
For example: People from a low-context culture tend to deal with conflict openly and
directly, whereas people from a high-context culture would feel uncomfortable with someone
confronting them directly(Freidrich 2018). But this also doesn’t mean we can assume someone
from a low-context culture prefers to deal with problems openly. For instance, while teaching I
jokingly said we had such a bad class the day before that one of my students heard about it and
didn’t even show up. I was trying to get a laugh, but what I didn’t realize was how
uncomfortable I had made the student by mentioning she hadn’t been to class the day before.
This made them upset enough that the parent contacted me and explained her kids perspective. I
later apoligized to the student. Diversity management in reality starts with the individual
(Woodruff & Thomas, 1999, 12). We all have to do our part in looking past our preconceived
notions and see people for who they are and come to appreciate their differences.
During a service mission for my church I was roommates with someone born in
Colombia. This is a little embarrassing to admit, but growing up in southern Arizona I had
become familiarized with the Mexican culture and it’s people and felt that I could apply it to
other Hispanic cultures as well. This was an unconscious stereotype in my brain that took months
to overcome. During the first day with my new roommate I mentioned how I wanted him to help
me speak spanish like a native Mexican speaker. He responded by saying he didn’t understand
very much about Mexican culture because he wasn’t from there; after all, he was Colombian, not
Mexican.
As we lived together, conflicts would arise as I misunderstood his culure or tried to apply
responsibility of understanding individual cultures and stopping myself from stereotyping one
culture for another (Woodruff & Thomas, 1999, 11). As I learned and treated cultures with
respect and understanding, the diversity conflict between me and my roommate stopped and we
were able to become good friends. As I learned more about individual Hispanic countries and
their unique cultures I was able to see and understand those unique cultures for what they were.
III Giraffe and Elephant “Key Dynamics”
In R. Thomas’ book “Building a house for Diversity” a short parable about an elephant
trying to fit inside a giraffes house is given to help us understand key dynamics of diversity
management. The fist key dynamic is different components of a diversity mixture have different
perspectives. For example, the giraffe only saw what a mess the elephant was making while the
elephant was left wondering why nothing in the house was built for him. Understanding different
The next key dynamic is many are reluctant to fully embrace genuine diversity. It’s
important to help people understand that the solution to diversity management isn’t getting rid of
the diversity. Another key dynamic is that diversity tension is inevitable. It’s important to
remember in diversity management that not all conflict is negative. And whether it’s negative or
positive conflict, it’s important to know all conflict can have a good outcome if managed
correctly. The last key dynamic is complexity inevitably accompanies diversity. This is
important to remember because diversity conflict and it’s challenges are almost guarenteed in
today’s organizations. But no matter the complexities, it’s important to remember it’s a
worthwhile cause.
IV Personal Application
I think these concepts will help me be more aware of a person’s individual culture and
identity. I believe they will also show me the best approach to interact and communicate with
them. I think some ways I will try and incorporate that awareness is trying to create an
environment where everyone feels free to speak their mind and share their opinion. Another
thing I will try and incorporate is getting to know people on a personal level. This can also mean
126. I think the main difference I’ve been able to see between my previous and present score is
the amount of confidence I have when approaching this topic. Before this class I wasn’t sure of
the importance of certain cultural interactions or beliefs and wasn’t confident discussing the best
way to approach those types of problems. But now I think I have at least a basic grasp about the
important differences in between cultures and the best way to approach or interact with the
various ones. I hope I’ll be able to better engage with these cultures in the oncoming future.
References
5 Strategies for Creating an Inclusive Workplace. (2020, January 13). Harvard Business
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Woodruff, M. I., & Thomas, R. R. (1999). Building a House for Diversity: How a Fable
about a Giraffe & Elephant Offers New Strategies for Today's Workforce. AMACOM.