How To Use A Dildo How To Use A Dildo

How To Use a Dildo
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actually <em style="box-sizing: border-box;">do</em> with a dildo when it
comes right down to it? How do you use a dildo? As it turns out, rather a lot of
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smooth surface definitely mixes up the ways you can play with it. If you’re the one
who tends to like to do the thrusting, it might be the right pick for
you.</div></p><p style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Open-sans, sans-serif;
font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px 0px 11px;"><div style="text-
align: center;"><img src="https://www.kinkly.com/images/uploads/4b4c26aa-8a77-4ca7-
83cf-87b757f9d5c6.jpg" style="box-sizing: border-box; vertical-align: middle; max-
width: 92vw; padding: 0px; height: 300px;"></div><span class="fr-img-caption fr-fic
fr-dib" style="box-sizing: border-box; width: 163px;"><div style="text-align:
box;">This silicone dildo sports an exceptionally strong suction base. Get
it </em></strong><a href="https://indigohoney.com/products/real-nude-ergo-
dual-density-dildo?
border-box;"><em style="box-sizing:
border-box;">here.</em></strong></a></div></span></p><p style="color: rgb(51, 51,
border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">Strap-On Compatible
Dildo</strong></em></div><div style="text-align: center;">If you think you’d like
to try <a href="https://www.kinkly.com/2/982/passion-play/sex-toys/strap-on-
the-fun" style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box;
color: rgb(90, 191, 75);">strap-on sex</a>, a strap-on compatible dildo is the way
to go. This type of dildo typically has a large, round base, which holds it into
the O-ring of a strap-on harness. These dildos work just fine without a harness
too, though, which makes them very versatile.</div></p><p style="color: rgb(51, 51,
margin: 0px 0px 11px;"><div style="text-align: center;"><img
src="https://www.kinkly.com/images/uploads/19f3edaf-61f7-4b47-8eef-
15c743499104.jpg" style="box-sizing: border-box; vertical-align: middle; max-width:
box;">Most of the dildos displayed in this piece are strap-on compatible, but we
think this one would look great with a black or red harness. Get
it </em></strong><a href="https://indigohoney.com/products/avant-d5-sin-city?
border-box;">.</em></strong></div></span></p><p style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51);
border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">Double
Dildo</strong></em></div><div style="text-align: center;">A double dildo is two
sided, and typically offers a different shape or texture on each side. These are
great for people who like options – it’s like two dildos in one.</div></p><p
center;"><img src="https://www.kinkly.com/images/uploads/d0d5a0ad-1d8a-43a7-ac70-
14bf2777a19f.jpg" style="box-sizing: border-box; vertical-align: middle; max-width:
box;">This lightweight glass double dildo has two usable ends for double the fun.
Get it </em></strong><a href="https://indigohoney.com/products/double-bull-
black-dildo?utm_source=Kinkly&utm_medium=Content&utm_campaign=Kinkly"
style="box-sizing: border-box;">.</em></strong></div></span></p><h3 style="text-
align: center; color: inherit; font-family: inherit; font-size: 20px; box-sizing:
border-box; line-height: 1.1; margin-top: 22px; margin-bottom: 11px;">Dildo
Materials</h3><p style="text-align: center; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family:
11px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51);
border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing:
border-box;">Silicone</strong></em></div><div style="text-align: center; box-
sizing: border-box; color: rgb(90, 191, 75);"><a
href="https://www.kinkly.com/definition/1341/silicone-sex-toys" style="box-sizing:
border-box; color: rgb(90, 191, 75);"><a
href="https://www.kinkly.com/definition/1341/silicone-sex-toys" style="background-
75);">Silicone</a><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51);"> </span><span
style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51);">is probably the most common dildo material you’ll
see nowadays. It’s also the most versatile. It can be very firm or it can have some
“squish” to it. Either way, it’s always body-safe, durable and easy to
clean.</span><br></a></div></p><p style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Open-
sans, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px 0px
11px;"><div style="text-align: center;"><em style="box-sizing: border-box;"><strong
style="box-sizing: border-box;">Glass</strong></em></div><div style="text-align:
center; box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(90, 191, 75);"><a
href="https://www.kinkly.com/definition/1345/borosilicate-glass-sex-toys"
style="box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(90, 191, 75);"><a
href="https://www.kinkly.com/definition/1345/borosilicate-glass-sex-toys"
style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(90,
191, 75);">Glass</a><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51);"> </span><span
style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51);">dildos are durable, body-safe and easy to clean,
but the firm material can make them more intense in terms of sensation. One
additional benefit with a glass dildo is that they can be used for</span><span
style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51);"> </span><a
href="https://www.kinkly.com/definition/833/temperature-play" style="background-
75);">temperature play</a><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51);">. Pop them in the
fridge or warm them up in hot water before using for a unique
experience.</span><br></a></div></p><p style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family:
11px;"><div style="text-align: center;"><em style="box-sizing: border-box;"><strong
style="box-sizing: border-box;">Wood</strong></em></div><div style="text-align:
center;">Specially treated wood is a less common dildo material, but you will see
it from time to time. Wood dildos are often beautiful (and tend to be hand-made!)
and they are easily cleaned and body safe thanks to a special coating (don’t worry
– no splinters!)</div></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px 0px
11px;"><div style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Open-sans, sans-serif;
font-size: 16px; text-align: center;"><em style="box-sizing: border-box;"><strong
style="box-sizing: border-box;">Metal</strong></em></div><div style="color: rgb(51,
51, 51); font-family: Open-sans, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; text-align:
center;">Metal dildos are heavy, virtually indestructible and designed to deliver a
pretty intense experience. They aren’t for everyone, but some people love the
weight and power they provide! They are also body safe and great for temperature
play.</div><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 16px;"><div style="text-
align: center;"><font color="#333333" face="Open-sans,
sans-serif"><i><br></i></font></div></span></p><h2 style="text-align: center;
color: inherit; font-family: inherit; font-size: 18px; box-sizing: border-box;
line-height: 1.1; margin-top: 22px; margin-bottom: 11px;">How to Use a
Dildo</h2><h3 style="text-align: center; color: inherit; font-family: inherit;
font-size: 20px; box-sizing: border-box; line-height: 1.1; margin-top: 22px;
margin-bottom: 11px;">Pick the Right Dildo for the Job</h3><p style="text-align:
center; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Open-sans, sans-serif; font-size:
16px; box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px 0px 11px;">While we do our best to point
people in the right direction in terms of finding the right kind of dildo for them,
know this: dildo lovers tend to accumulate a collection. Not only are a lot of the
latest dildos amaaazing sex toys, many of them also come in beautiful shapes and
colors that people get off on having as much as using.</p><p style="text-align:
16px; box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px 0px 11px;"><iframe src="cid:frame-
469F3CC90DAAEC78E0E2697939414023@mhtml.blink" height="710" width="612"
frameborder="0" scrolling="no" style="box-sizing: border-box;"></iframe></p><h3
style="text-align: center; color: inherit; font-family: inherit; font-size: 20px;
box-sizing: border-box; line-height: 1.1; margin-top: 22px; margin-bottom:
11px;">Think About the Shape of Your Body and Your Physical Abilities</h3><p
serif; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px 0px 11px;">If you’re
into vigorous thrusting, using a dildo on yourself can be hard work (in the best
way, of course!) That said, that kind of movement can be difficult for some people
depending on their physical abilities, the size and shape of their bodies, and any
issues they may have with pain in their arms, wrists or shoulders.</p><p
serif; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px 0px 11px;">When it
comes to dildos, reach may be limited to by body size, arm length, or a
combination, making thrusting a dildo very awkward – or impossible. In this case, a
longer dildo can help. Many people find that a dildo with a C-curve can also be
useful here.</p><p style="text-align: center; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family:
11px;">Those with arm or wrist issues may want to look for a curved or “ergonomic”
shape for easier thrusting. The weight of the toy may also be important here, so
stay away from heavier materials and watch the weights on the sex toy
specifications.</p><p style="text-align: center; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-
family: Open-sans, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px
0px 11px;"><a href="https://www.kinkly.com/top-sex-bloggers/topics/sex-toy-reviews"
style="box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(90, 191, 75);">Sex toy
reviews</a> are a great way to get a sense of how a toy works in action,
especially if you can find one by someone with a similar body shape to your
own.</p><h3 style="text-align: center; color: inherit; font-family: inherit; font-
size: 20px; box-sizing: border-box; line-height: 1.1; margin-top: 22px; margin-
bottom: 11px;">Warm Up First</h3><p style="text-align: center; color: rgb(51, 51,
margin: 0px 0px 11px;">Any kind of penetrative sex (whether vaginal or anal) is
better, hotter and safer if you warm up first. Being aroused helps relax your body
and make penetration much more pleasant (or even possible). If you’re with a
partner, try some kissing or other foreplay. If not, tease yourself with your
hands, a vibrator or other sex toy to get things started. As we get aroused, the
vagina opens up, relaxes and begins to lubricate itself. The anus also becomes more
relaxed with arousal too (be sure to use lube!).</p><p style="text-align: center;
color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Open-sans, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; box-
sizing: border-box; margin: 0px 0px 11px;">As you get more experienced, your body
will tell you when you’re ready for penetration. You’ll feel like you want
it!</p><h3 style="text-align: center; color: inherit; font-family: inherit; font-
size: 20px; box-sizing: border-box; line-height: 1.1; margin-top: 22px; margin-
bottom: 11px;">Experiment with Different Depths and Angles</h3><p style="text-
align: center; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Open-sans, sans-serif; font-
size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px 0px 11px;">Sex toys are all about
experimentation. And, because dildos are one of the most versatile toys out there,
they are a great tool for experimentation! So, don’t assume they’re all about
thrusting. Try different depths, speeds and angles. Try twisting or rocking your
dildo or wiggling back and forth inside of you. Consider your play a place to learn
more about your body and what makes it feel amazing! (Oh, and we also have some
tried-and-true tricks to try at the bottom of this post!)</p><h3 style="text-align:
center; color: inherit; font-family: inherit; font-size: 20px; box-sizing: border-
box; line-height: 1.1; margin-top: 22px; margin-bottom: 11px;">Use Lube. Lots of
Lube. All the Lube.</h3><p style="text-align: center; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-
family: Open-sans, sans-serif; font-size:
16px; box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px 0px 11px;"><a
href="https://indigohoney.com/products?
keywords=lubricant&utm_source=Kinkly&utm_medium=Content&utm_campaign=Ki
nkly" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank" style="box-sizing: border-
box; color: rgb(90, 191, 75);">Lube</a> makes any kind of penetration better,
so do lube up that dildo before you get down to business. If you're using a
silicone toy, you may need even more lube; if you’re using a glass or metal toy,
you may need a bit less. Either way, having enough glide will ensure your tissues
(and you) don’t get irritated. Just be sure to choose a body-safe, quality lube
that you love, OK?</p><h3 style="text-align: center; color: inherit; font-family:
inherit; font-size: 20px; box-sizing: border-box; line-height: 1.1; margin-top:
22px; margin-bottom: 11px;">Put Them in Perspective</h3><p style="text-align:
16px; box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px 0px 11px;">Dildos, just like any other
sex toy, can be great for solo or partner play. You can fuck yourself silly, or
hand the job over to your partner (we hope they’ll oblige!) You or your partner can
also strap on a dildo for some strap-on or <a
href="https://www.kinkly.com/definition/96/pegging" style="box-sizing: border-box;
color: rgb(90, 191, 75);">pegging</a> play. But, while many dildos resemble
the male anatomy, just remember to keep them in perspective. They’re toys, mere
pieces of plastic or silicone designed for fun, not a threat or a replacement for a
partner.</p><p style="text-align: center; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family:
11px;">“Dildos are an addition to the bedroom, not a threat to men. View them as a
friendly helper, not a slur to your manhood,” DeGrey said.</p><h3 style="text-
border-box; line-height: 1.1; margin-top: 22px; margin-bottom: 11px;">But Make Them
Your Own</h3><p style="text-align: center; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family:
11px;">Sex toys are all about fantasy play, so if you use a dildo, we definitely
encourage getting right into it! Pretend it’s attached to a fantasy fuck, pretend
it’s an extension of your body – pretend whatever you want, but take time to
imagine and embody that play.</p><p style="text-align: center; color: rgb(51, 51,
margin: 0px 0px 11px;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">“</strong>You know
how at first, when you put a backpack on, you knock into everything because you
aren't sure where the backpack is in space, but then after a while, you can feel
how far behind you it goes, and you can navigate comfortably? That's what it's like
with a dildo. The more you wear it — and *feel* it — the more you'll embody it,”
says <a href="https://twitter.com/mrsexsmith?lang=en" rel="noopener
noreferrer" target="_blank" style="box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(90, 191,
75);">Sinclair Sexsmith</a>, an erotica author and sex educator. “And embodying it
makes a big difference when you're playing with it with someone else.”</p><h2
style="text-align: center; color: inherit; font-family: inherit; font-size: 18px;
box-sizing: border-box; line-height: 1.1; margin-top: 22px; margin-bottom:
11px;">Finally ... A Few Super-Hot Dildo Techniques to Try</h2><h3 style="text-
border-box; line-height: 1.1; margin-top: 22px; margin-bottom: 11px;">Thrusting
Downward</h3><p style="text-align: center; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family:
11px;">Even if you have a straight, simple dildo, you can still play with angles.
Try thrusting down (towards the back of your body if you're lying on your back).
This rocks the base of the dildo near your clitoris, which can provide earth-
shattering stimulation for some people.</p><h3 style="text-align: center; color:
inherit; font-family: inherit; font-size: 20px; box-sizing: border-box; line-
height: 1.1; margin-top: 22px; margin-bottom: 11px;">Thrusting Upward</h3><p
serif; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px 0px 11px;">The opposite
way to thrust is upward, with the tip of the dildo pointed at the front side of
your body if you're lying on your back. This way, you'll be thrusting against the
G-spot, a super-sensitive area that many people find very orgasmic. If you're not
into intense stimulation here, a gentle rocking motion with a curved dildo can feel
amazing as well.</p><h3 style="text-align: center; color: inherit; font-family:
inherit; font-size: 20px; box-sizing: border-box; line-height: 1.1; margin-top:
22px; margin-bottom: 11px;">Do the Twist</h3><p style="text-align: center; color:
rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Open-sans, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; box-sizing:
border-box; margin: 0px 0px 11px;">As we mentioned, the vaginal opening has tons of
sensitive nerve endings. Twisting a dildo around can help stimulate that area,
especially if the dildo you're using has some texture.</p><h3 style="text-align:
center; color: inherit; font-family: inherit; font-size: 20px; box-sizing: border-
box; line-height: 1.1; margin-top: 22px; margin-bottom: 11px;">Double Up</h3><p
serif; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px 0px 11px;">If you're
into anal play, inserting an anal plug (or another dildo!) anally can really up the
pleasure of using a dildo vaginally. Essentially, the insertion of an anal toy puts
internal pressure on the vaginal canal, making it tighter and more sensitive to
whatever motions you're making with that dildo.</p><h3 style="text-align: center;
color: inherit; font-family: inherit; font-size: 20px; box-sizing: border-box;
line-height: 1.1; margin-top: 22px; margin-bottom: 11px;">In Conclusion: Do What
Feels Good</h3><p style="text-align: center; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family:
11px;">These are just a few tips to set you on your dildo journey. But ... everyone
is different. So find a dildo - and technique - that works for you through
research, experimentation and play. Enjoy!</p></div></div></div></div></div></div>

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