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Department of Psychology
Doctor of Philosophy
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By
Laura Kurzius
Washington, D.C.
2018
The broad scope of research examining the link between marital conflict and child
mechanism accounting for how and why, and for whom and when marital conflict is associated
with poorer child outcomes. While previous studies have specified selected characteristics of
parental emotion that are most likely to affect children, to our knowledge, no study has explored
the role that mothers’ and fathers’ capacity to identify, manage, and comfortably express
The present study addressed this gap in the literature by longitudinally examining the
moderating role of observational data of parental emotion skills during conflict—utilizing the
and externalizing symptoms. Data were drawn from a study of 296 families across a two-year
time period. Structural equation modeling was used in order to examine the links between
children’s exposure to marital conflict, parental emotion skill, children’s emotional security, and
children’s adjustment.
Both maternal and paternal emotion skills significantly moderated the relationship
between marital conflict and children’s emotional security, such that marital conflict was found to
be a weaker predictor of emotional insecurity in the context of a more emotionally skillful parent.
Supplementary analyses, examining parental emotion skillfulness with positive and negative
emotions during marital conflict, point to gender differences and possibly highlight the role of
fathers. The current study provides evidence to target interventions toward emotional
This dissertation by Laura Kurzius fulfills the dissertation requirement for the doctoral degree in
Clinical Psychology approved by Marcie Goeke-Morey, Ph.D., as Director, and by Barry Wagner,
Ph.D. and Kathryn A. Degnan, Ph.D. as Readers.
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Marcie Goeke-Morey, Ph.D., Director
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Barry Wagner, Ph.D., Reader
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Kathryn A. Degnan, Ph.D., Reader
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TABLE OF CONTENTS
LIST OF FIGURES iv
LIST OF TABLES v
Participants 35
Procedures 36
Measures 36
APPENDIX B: FIGURES 67
APPENDIX C: TABLES 71
REFERENCES 79
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LIST OF FIGURES
Figure 1. Results of Mother Emotion Skills as the Moderator of the Indirect Effect of Marital
Figure 2. Results of Father Emotion Skills as the Moderator of the Indirect Effect of Marital
Figure 3. Results of Mother Emotion Skills as the Moderator of the Indirect Effect of Marital
Figure 4. Results of Father Emotion Skills as the Moderator of the Indirect Effect of Marital
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LIST OF TABLES
With the emergence of family systems theory, research on children and families over the
course of the last three decades has broadened and deepened in scope to consider individuals
within the context of a larger family unit (Cox & Paley, 2003). Along with this paradigm shift,
researchers have adopted more advanced methodology that has allowed for the consideration of
interplay across multiple levels of influence, including the parent-child relationship and the
marital relationship (Cox & Paley, 2003; Davies & Cummings, 1994). As a result, family
symptoms, have been shown to have a negative impact on parent-child relationships, and in turn
on the development and overall adjustment of children (Morris, Silk, Steinberg, Myers, &
Robinson, 2007; Papp, Cummings & Schermerhorn, 2004). Mounting research evidence has
pointed to the interparental relationship as the foundational component of the family, with the
quality of the marital relationship predicting the quality of other family relationships (Goodman,
Lusby, Thompson, K., & Stowe, 2014; Kouros, Papp, Goeke-Morey & Cummings, 2014). While
Decades of work have emphasized how marital satisfaction and marital quality are
associated with the parent-child relationship. (Cowan & Cowan, 2000; Shek,1998). Several
theoretical mechanisms have been proposed, including the spillover and compensatory
hypotheses, in order to explain the considerable variability in the relation between marital quality
and parenting (Cox, Paley, & Harter, 2001; Repetti, 1987; Kouros, Papp, Goeke-Morey,
Cummings, 2014). While the majority of research has focused on the negative emotional
spillover, recent work has increasingly examined how marriages can facilitate the emotional
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needs of parents, and how positive interactions can promote positive parent-child relationships
and children’s prosocial behaviors (Masten & Cicchetti, 2010; Goldberg & Easterbrooks, 1984;
McCoy, Cummings, & Davies, 2009). Emotional expressiveness within the marriage has been
regulatory processes and overall adjustment (Morris, Silk, Steinberg, Myers, & Robinson, 2007;
Cummings, Cheung & Davies, 2013; Gottman, Katz & Hooven, 1997; Carrère & Bowie, 2012).
This work has provided empirical support for the influence of emotional qualities of the marital
relationship on children’s emotional reactivity, as well as their security within the parent-child
Morris et al., 2007). Alongside this work, a considerable body of literature has explored the
dyadic and triangular nature of children and the marital relationship by looking at the coparenting
alliances (Margolin, Gordis & John, 2001; McHale, Kuersten-Hogan, Lauretti & Rasmussen,
2000; Feinberg & Kan, 2008). Coparenting—the extent to which parents support or undercut each
other in the context of parenting responsibilities—has been shown to explicate the interwoven
Taken together, it is evident from the overwhelming empirical support that marital
relationships are important, and that there is a need for continued research and evidence-based
interventions targeted to promote marital health first—and thus in turn—promote the well-being
of children and families. Therefore, it is the objective of this paper to link the impressive
advances in research and theory in the disparate but related fields of couples research and
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intervention, developmental psychopathology, and family research. Providing these links will
provide evidence for future researchers to better design and target interventions aimed towards the
interparental relationship, given its outsized influence on the greater family environment.
For decades now, family researchers have adopted paradigms to help them consider the
influence the interparental relationship has directly and indirectly—usually by way of parenting
practices—on the development and overall adjustment of children (Cox & Paley, 2003;
Cummings, Cheung & Davies, 2013; Carrère & Bowie, 2012). However, the symbiotic
relationship between the fields of family theory and child development was not always the case.
Prior to the early 1980s much of the work exploring the individual components of family
McHale, Kuersten & Lauretti, 1996; Parke, Schulz, Pruett, & Kerig, 2010). Developmental
specifically on the mother-child dyad—and rarely acknowledged the influence of fathers, siblings
and marriage on child well-being (Parke et al., 2010). Likewise, family sociologists devoted their
scholarly attention to partner’s satisfaction and dissatisfaction within the marital relationship,
overlooking not only the influence this relationship has on child psychological growth, but also
the broader family context (Locke & Wallace, 1959; Parke et al., 2010).
A seismic shift occurred, however, during the late 1970s and early 1980s, with the
(1979) ecological model underscored not only the influence of the marital relationship on child
well-being, but also the second order effects the marital relationship has on parenting and the
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parent-child relationship (Fitcham & Hall, 2005). This foundational advancement spurred shifts in
the literature to include the systematic study of fathers, a focus on triads and family as a whole,
and seminal work examining the impact of the transition to parenthood on couple’s relationships
and children’s development (Cowan, Cowan, Coie, & Coie, 1978; McHale et al., 1996). Work
exploring the interwoven nature of the marital relationship and the parent-child relationship
emerged with a primary area of interest being the deleterious effects of interparental conflict on
the socio-emotional and cognitive functioning of children (Davies & Cummings, 1994; Cox &
Paley, 2003; McHale et al., 1996). Finally, the current form and shape of the literature has been
greatly influenced by work exploring the integral role of the coparenting relationship (Margolin,
Gordis, & John, 2001). While the first generation of this work initially drew from the divorce
literature—a unique scenario in which couples continue to coordinate parenting in the absence of
marriage—scholars have since documented the distinct role of coparenting within the family
system (Ahrons, 1981; Morrill, Hines, Mahmood, & Cordova, 2010; McHale, Kuersten-Hogan,
Rao, 2004). Recent studies have demonstrated the reciprocal bidirectional relationship between
the marital relationship and coparenting relationship, underscoring the importance of considering
this construct when examining the link between the interparental relationship and child well-being
Family systems theory and the extant literature up until present day has proven the clinical
significance of the interparental relationship in understanding the well-being of children (Cox &
Paley, 2003). Ultimately, this breadth of work laid the theoretical ground for advanced
methodologies and the development of conceptual models that consider the transactional
pathways across the marital relationship (Fincham & Hall, 2005; Cummings & Davies, 2010).
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This section will examine the literature on the interparental relationship and child functioning,
identifying gaps in the literature. It will begin with the direct influence of the marital relationship
indirect effects, underscoring the influence of marital quality on parenting. It will end by
A diverse set of findings has shown that the overall well-being and health of children,
parents, and families is corroded by high levels of marital conflict (Katz & Gottman, 1993). As
such, the literature exploring the direct effects of marriage on children has been dominated by a
focus on interparental conflict. An initial meta-analysis conducted by Reid and Crisafulli (1990),
predictors of children’s adjustment. Since then, a vast body of literature has demonstrated that
beyond a global measure of marital satisfaction, interparental conflict is indeed the single most
significant risk factor for the psychological maladjustment of children (Suh et al., 2016). In
particular, studies have shown that it is not simply a distressed marriage, characterized by covert
tension or marital apathy, that results in child behavioral problems, but rather overt marital
hostility that is the best predictor of poor child outcomes (Jenkins & Smith 1991; Cummings &
Davies, 2010).
The distressing nature of marital discord has been shown to have negative effects on
children that can last well into adulthood (Glenn & Kramer, 1986; Kaczynski, Lindahl, Malik, &
Laurenceau, 2006), with children exposed to conflict at increased risk for internalizing (i.e.,
anxiety and depression) and externalizing (i.e., conduct and behavioral) disorders (Emery 1982;
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Katz & Gottman, 1993; Davies & Cummings, 1998; Grych & Fincham, 1990). Moreover, marital
conflict has been shown to account for 9% to 25% of differences among children with
externalizing disorders (Cummings & Davies, 2010; Grych & Fincham, 1990). Above and beyond
risk for psychopathology, marital conflict negatively impacts children across several other
domains of children’s functioning, including the attachment relationship (Owen & Cox, 1997),
emotional regulatory processes and behavioral strategies (Koss et al, 2010), academic
performance (Forehand & Wierson, 1993), and sibling and peer relationships (Emery 1982;
Grych & Fincham, 1990; Katz & Gottman, 1993; Dunn & Davies, 2001).
way to consider the direct influence of the marital relationship on children’s adjustment (Wilson
& Gottman, 1995; Fincham, Grych, & Osborne, 1994; Fincham & Hall, 2005). Goodman et al.
(1999) found the way in which conflict was handled within the marriage to be a better predictor of
negative outcomes as compared to the frequency and intensity of these conflicts (McCoy et al.,
2008). In order to better understand the ways in which conflict impacts children, researchers have
investigated specific conflict tactics. This has been complicated by the construct of marital
conflict itself, which is complex and varied across both couples and contexts (Koss et al., 2011).
Goeke-Morey and colleagues (2003) classified conflict behaviors as either destructive (i.e.,
physical aggression, submission, verbal hostility, non-verbal anger) or constructive (i.e., affection,
problem-solving, support, humor, calm discussion, compromise), and found that conflict affected
children differently depending on the nature of the tactics used. This classification of interparental
tactics has been further supported by multiple subsequent studies linking parental hostility to child
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Morey, & Papp, 2003, 2004; Cummings, Goeke-Morey, Papp & Dukewich, 2002).
In a recent review, Zemp, Bodenmann, & Cummings (2016) categorized the impact of
interparental conflict on children, as reflected by findings in the family literature over the course
of the last several decades. These researchers found that decades of support have demonstrated
that interparental conflict is the single most predictive family risk factor for maladjustment,
surpassing past assumptions and common wisdom that inflated the influence of divorce (Zemp et
al., 2016). In fact, children experience twice the magnitude of risk related to interparental conflict
compared to that of divorce (Grych & Fincham, 2001; Zemp et al., 2016). These findings are
significant given that during the transition to parenthood, marital conflict increases by a factor of
9, and 40-70% of couples experience a dip in marital satisfaction upon becoming parents
(Gottman & Notarius, 2002). This is even more concerning considering that research has also
care, and behavior of children—are one of the most contentious and conflict-inducing discussions
between parents (Papp, Cummings, & Goeke-Morey, 2009). Children are particularly distressed
and threatened by the nature of marital conflict when arguments are centered around children and
child rearing (O’Leary & Vidair, 2002; Koss et al., 2011) The empirical evidence has also shown
that despite parental attempts to shield children from marital conflict, children are nevertheless
highly sensitive to interparental arguments (Goeke-Morey, Cummings, Harold & Shelton, 2003;
Goeke-Morey, Papp, & Cummings, 2013; Zemp et al., 2016). Papp and colleagues found that
efforts to hide the interparental conflict from children resulted in not only twice the amount of
conflict in the absence of children, but increasingly destructive, emotionally negative, and
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dysfunctional arguments when in the presence of children (Papp, Cummings & Goeke-Morey,
2002). Moreover, children are also vulnerable to more subtle tactics during conflict, such as
withdrawal and non-verbal signs of anger (Goeke-Morey et al., 2003). Interestingly, interparental
withdrawal has been found to serve as a more powerful predictor of poor child outcomes than
overt hostility (Sturge-Apple, Davies & Cummings, 2006; Zemp et al., 2016). Empirical support
has also demonstrated that when children become involved in conflict between their parents and
experience increased emotional reactivity, this puts them at risk for maladjustment (Davies, Coe,
Martin, & Sturge-Apple, 2015). Most importantly, children across gender and age do not become
inured to conflict over time (Goeke-Morey et al., 2013). This is best explained by evidence across
both cross-sectional and longitudinal studies providing support for the sensitization hypothesis,
indicating that children’s negative responses and reactivity to hostile conflict in fact intensifies
with recurrent exposure to conflict (Goeke-Morey et al., 2013; Davies, Myers, Cummings, &
Heindel, 1999; Cummings, Zahn-Waxler, & Radke-Yarrow, 1981; Zemp et al., 2013).
Advanced Theoretical Approaches Explaining Link between Marital Conflict and Children
Established conceptual frameworks, such as family system theory (Cox & Paley 1997,
2003; Minuchin, 1974) and social learning theory (Bandura, 1973), provide explanations for the
ways that dysfunctional behaviors are passed from the marital relationship to children. According
to social learning theory (Bandura, 1977), children learn specific maladaptive behaviors through
the process of observation and modeling of their parents. Family system theory has long
suggested the influence of marriage on children as it considers individual family members as part
of a series of interdependent and hierarchically structured subsystems (Cox & Paley, 1997).
However, the fact that a majority of children who are exposed to marital conflict do not go on to
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develop emotional or behavioral difficulties reveals the remarkable individual differences among
children and interparental relationships (Cummings & Davies, 2010). This also illustrates that is
not the conflict in and of itself that harms children, but how couples argue that is the key to
Consequently, researchers have been driven to address this gap by proposing sophisticated
empirical theories underscoring the mechanisms to better explain individual differences across
multiple levels within the family system (Grych & Fincham, 1990; Davies & Cummings, 1994).
The most influential of these conceptual models to better explain children’s responses to conflict
role children’s cognitive appraisals have on their behavioral and emotional responses to
interparental conflict (Grych & Fincham, 1990). This framework, which is rooted in social
utilizing their cognitive and affective subjective interpretations or appraisals of the conflict.
According to Grych and colleagues, this is a two-stage cognitive process consisting of primary
and secondary processes, which are both ultimately used to inform children’s coping behaviors
(Grych & Fincham, 1990; Gerard, Buehler, Franck & Anderson, 2005). Children initially engage
in primary processing—the initial affective reaction and awareness that interparental conflict has
occurred (Grych & Fincham, 1990). This initial stage of appraisal is influenced by contextual
clues regarding the degree of threat the conflict causes for the children’s own and familial well-
being, thus provoking the secondary processes (Gerard et al., 2005). This more involved stage of
appraisal is characterized by the child’s efforts to understand the conflict by extrapolating and
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making attributions. Frequently, these attributions are focused on imputing responsibility and
blame for the conflict, and are influenced by the child’s initial levels of affective arousal (Grych
& Fincham, 1990). Research has shown that children frequently blame themselves for the conflict
(Grych & Fincham, 1990). This triggers a cascade of difficulties modulating their affective
activation, as well as negative thought processes leading to poor self-efficacy and increased
distress over time as children learn to doubt their abilities to cope with the conflict (Grych &
security theory was developed to account for the how and why, and for whom and when marital
conflict is associated with poorer child outcomes (Davies & Cummings, 1994). According to the
emotional security theory, children’s sense of security within the family is undermined by
escalating anger (Davies & Cummings 1994; Cummings & Davies, 1996). Specifically, emotional
security theory purports that the experience of felt security is a goal of children, and that this is
threatened by destructive marital conflict (Davies & Cummings, 1994; Cummings, Schermerhorn,
Davies, Goeke-Morey & Cummings, 2006). Pivotal to this theory is the interplay between the
observable classes or component processes that help regulate, organize, and motivate children’s
responses to marital conflict: (a) affective reactions (e.g., negative emotional reactivity, such as
fear and vigilance), (b) internal cognitive representations (e.g., children evaluations of parental
conflict on his or her well-being) and (c) behavioral responses (i.e., regulation of attempts to
become either avoid conflict or to become involved) (Davies, Harold, Goeke-Morey &
Cummings, 2002; Goeke-Morey et al., 2013). During and following conflict, children regulate
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their emotional and behavioral responses, as well as their cognitive representations of their family
and marital relationship, in order to either preserve or recover their sense of emotional security
(Davies et al., 2002; Davies & Cummings, 1994). The broad scope of research on emotional
security theory has provided robust evidence demonstrating emotional security as the explanatory
mechanism in the link between interparental conflict and child maladjustment (Davies & Martin,
2014; Cummings et al. 2006; Davies et al., 2002). Specifically, longitudinal studies have shown
that above and beyond other mechanisms, children’s emotional insecurity mediates the pathway
between conflict and child maladjustment (Cummings et al. 2006; Davies et al., 2002; Davies &
Martin, 2014) with emotional reactivity serving as the primary mechanism (Davies et al., 2002).
In sum, over the course of the last several decades, there has been a substantial increase in
research efforts focused on exploring the influential role of the marital relationship, primarily by
way of marital conflict, and the impact this dynamic has on the development and well-being of
children. While considerable empirical evidence has supported several theoretical advancements,
the emotional security theory has emerged as the most significant contribution to the literature,
providing a process-orientated framework to explain the link between marital conflict and child
maladjustment. The next generation of this research should continue to explore transactional
effects of children’s maladjustment and insecurity on marital conflict and the marital relationship
(Davies, Martin, Coe & Cummings, 2016). The reciprocal nature and interdependence of these
relationships within family systems theory may inform future treatment. Moreover, continued
studies should address sample limitations evident in past work, expanding to more diverse
Marital Quality. A generation of work has shown a consistent and robust relationship
between marital quality and parent-child relationships (Cowan & Cowan, 2000; Shek,
1998;Cummings & Davies, 2010). Research focused on the complicated and entwined nature of
marital quality and parent-child relationships arose primarily from studies exploring the impact
that the transition to parenthood has on the marital relationship (Cowan & Cowan, 2000). This
was particularly relevant at the time, given studies showing the first five years following the birth
of a couple’s first child to be a particularly vulnerable window, with increased risk for divorce
(Bramlett & Mosher, 2001; Doss, Rhoades, Stanley & Markman, 2010). Next came work
exploring the dimensions of child development that were directly linked to the quality of a young
parent’s marital relationship, including parent-child attachment (DeWolf & Van Ijzdendoorn,
1997), language development (Horwitz et al. 2003), and children’s regulatory processes and
behavioral responding (Davies & Cummings, 1994). In the decades since, robust research has
established that parenting processes mediate the association between marital quality and child
outcomes (Fincham & Hall, 2005). Likewise, improved marital quality has been strongly linked
with sensitive and positive parenting and improved toddler functioning (Goldberg &
Easterbrooks, 1984; Fincham & Hall, 2005). This work has underlined the substantial influence of
In order to better explain the considerable variability in the link between the marital
relationships and parenting, research has highlighted various explanatory mechanisms (Cox,
Paley, & Harter, 2001; Repetti, 1987; Kouros et al., 2014; Sherrill, Lochman, DeCoster &
Stromeyer, 2017). The first of these mechanisms is the “spillover hypothesis,” conceptualized by
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Repetii (1987) as the transmission of behaviors, emotions, and mood across multiple settings.
This hypothesis purports that negative emotionality, tension, or conflict within the marital
relationship will transfer over into other familial subsystems, including the parent-child
relationship (Erel & Burman, 1995; Cox et al., 2001; Engfer, 1998; Kouros et al., 2014). The
transfer occurs across the same valence of emotion—in other words, negativity within the marital
familial subsystems. Considerable cross-sectional and longitudinal evidence for the spillover
hypothesis has been established in the literature (Erel & Burman, 1995; Nelson, O’Brien,
Blankson, Calkins, & Keane, 2009; Sherrill et al., 2017). Within longitudinal designs, the quality
of the parent-child relationship, as well as certain parenting behavior, was positively predicted
two years following the measurement of marital quality (Shek, 1998; Sturge-Apple et al., 2006;
Kouros et al., 2014). Moreover, within a cross-sectional design, higher parental marital
dissatisfaction was associated with less supportive responses to children’s negative emotions
Gender differences have been found with regard to the spillover between marital quality
and parent-child relationships. Cummings, Goeke-Morey and Raymond (2004) found that fathers
were more susceptible to spillover than mothers, and they posit that the reason for father’s
vulnerability is that mothers actually adopt a more compartmentalized sense of the parental role,
and in turn possess a greater capacity to separate the roles of mother and of spouse. A second
wave of studies exploring the spillover hypothesis have primarily utilized daily diaries, which is a
more ecologically valid methodology, allowing for the examination of spillover relations that
occur either daily or within a short window of time (Sherrill et al., 2017; Kouros et al., 2014).
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Interestingly, Sherrill et al. (2017) found a bidirectional spillover, such that the instance of parent-
child conflict significantly predicted marital conflict one day later. Moreover, these researchers
found that constructive patterns of marital conflict, characterized by calm reasoning (e.g.,
discussing, problem-solving) and warmth (e.g., humor, physical or verbal aggression), predicted
similar patterns of constructive behaviors within the parent-child relationship (Sherrill et al.,
2017). Kouros et al. (2014) found not only a positive link between marital quality and same day
parent-child relationship quality, but revealed that parental depressive symptoms moderated the
link between marital quality and the other parent’s relationship with the child. While the majority
of research has focused on negative emotional spillover, this recent work has also focused on how
positive interactions within the marriage can spillover and serve to promote positive parent-child
relationships and children’s pro-social behaviors (Masten & Cicchetti, 2010; Goldberg &
Easterbrooks, 1984; McCoy, Cummings, & Davies, 2009). Likewise, Cowan and Cowan (2004)
found that following a constructive marital interaction, parents were more likely to use warm and
positive parenting methods, including consistent discipline and the display of positive emotions,
and this was associated with children’s development. These valuable findings have clinical
implications and ultimately suggest that parents who use cooperation as well as verbal and
physical affection during marital conflict are more likely to display parental warmth and engage
An opposing theoretical hypothesis suggests that rather than a positive correlation, there
is in fact a negative correlational relationship between marital quality and parenting (Goldberg &
Easterbrooks, 1984; Erel & Burman, 1995). The compensatory hypothesis purports that parents in
unhappy marriages overcompensate for this lack of affection by seeking relationship satisfaction
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within the parent-child relationship (Belsky, Youngblade, Rovine & Volling, 1991). Goldberg et
al., (1984) suggest that parents devote increased resources into the parent-child relationship as a
way to fulfill their need for support and love within the family unit. These researchers ultimately
purport that even in the face of marital conflict or discord, the parent-child relationship remains
positive and conflict may even buffer or increase this positive parent-child alliance (Erel &
Burman, 1995). Kouros et al. (2014) established evidence for this pattern when finding that
mothers’ low levels of marital quality were related to increases in mother-child relationship
quality. Notably, this negative correlational relationship also implies that when marital
satisfaction is high, parent-child relations will be poor—with the guiding explanation being that
children may be viewed as a burden on the marital relationship, thus creating strain within the
parent-child relationship (Erel & Burman, 1995). Overall, the compensatory hypothesis has
received less attention in the literature, although some evidence has pointed to its credibility.
In summary, there are several explanatory processes connecting marital quality and
parent-child relationships (Erel & Burman, 1995). Evidence ultimately demonstrates that the
compensatory and spillover hypotheses are not related to one another in a way that precludes the
other, but instead work to explain the relationship between marital quality and parent-child
relationship across different times, developmental stages, and contexts (Kouros et al., 2014). It is
notable that this work has been complicated by the construct of marital quality itself, which is
often operationalized as marital satisfaction and/or marital conflict. Researchers have purported
that marital satisfaction and marital dissatisfaction do not necessarily lie on the same continuum,
and it is probable that spouses feel both to varying degrees at once (Bradbury et al., 2000).
Therefore, it is proposed that a balance of both positive and negative dimensions of marital
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quality be measured as separate but equal features of overall marital quality (Fincham, Beach, &
Kemp-Fincham, 1997). Moving forward, future studies should conceptualize marital quality as a
bi-dimensional construct given that marital satisfaction and marital dissatisfaction are not
inversely related (Bradbury et al., 2000). Finally, Belsky’s (1984) process model of parenting
purports that parental stress negatively affects parenting behaviors, and a recent study provided
evidence that the ways in which parents cope as part of a dyad is related to child maladjustment as
well as prosocial behaviors (Zemp, Bodenmann, Backes, Sutter-Stickel, & Revenson, 2016).
Therefore, continued investigation into parental dyad coping may serve as a fruitful avenue for
future work, especially given that dyadic coping has recently emerged as a predictor of marital
quality (Bodenmann, Phihet, & Kayser, 2006; Herzberg, 2012; Papp & Witt, 2010).
been explored in order to better understand individual differences in the association between
marital quality or conflict and parent-child relationships. Specifically, research suggests that
processes and overall adjustment (Morris, Silk, Steinberg, Myers, & Robinson, 2007; Cummings,
Cheung & Davies, 2013; Gottman, Katz & Hooven, 1997; Carrère & Bowie, 2012). Results from
such studies are valuable as children have been found to be especially attuned to the “emotional
tone” of the marital relationship and particularly sensitive to parental negative emotionality in
marital conflict (Cummings et al., 2002). The majority of work exploring the influence of
emotionality in marriage on parenting grew from the conflict literature, given that emotional
communication within the family unit has been shown to account for individual differences in
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child adjustment and parenting methods (Katz & Gottman, 1993; Davies & Cummings, 1994).
One of the more dominant theories within the parenting literature is Gottman, Katz, and Hooven’s
(1997) meta-emotion philosophy. This theory purports that parents refer to an organized set of
emotional and cognitive repertories regarding their own emotions and the emotions of their
children, and this undoubtedly influences how individuals parent and respond to their children
(Gottman, Katz, & Hooven, 1997). Additional studies found that parents’ meta-emotions are
related to the emotional climate of the marriage, and parents who are more aware of their own
emotions have improved emotional expression during marital conflict discussions (Katz, Wilson,
Particular attention has been paid to the valance of emotional expression within marital
relationships, especially during conflict, as it has been associated with children’s well-being
(Cummings et al., 2002; Cummings et al., 2010; Zemp, Merrilees & Bodenmann, 2014). Zemp
and colleagues found that parental positivity buffered the impact of parental negativity with
regard to child outcomes, and based on these findings suggest that parental positivity should be
communicated at least twice as much as negative emotionality (Zemp et al., 2014). Providing
evidence for a family wide model of emotion, Cummings et al. (2010), found parental expressed
negative and positive emotionality during marital conflict to be linked not only to their partners’
emotion, but also to be predictive of children’s emotional security, such that increased parental
negative emotionality was related to increased emotional insecurity. This work has provided
empirical support for the influence of emotional qualities of the marital relationship on children’s
emotional reactivity, as well as their security within the parent-child relationship (Koss et al.,
or constructive. Hosokawa and Katsura (2017) found that in a sample of Japanese children,
affective and behavioral expression during destructive conflict indirectly led to lower cooperation,
self-control, and assertiveness in children by way of increasing negative parenting practices. This
not only provides support for the spillover hypothesis, but also underscores the implications of
specific types of emotional and behavioral communication during conflict on parenting practices
In sum, the surge of affective research has pointed to the predictive role of emotionality in
marriage and the role this plays on the parent-child relationship, and in turn on child outcomes. A
large portion of this work has examined either individual differences in parental emotional
expression (e.g., meta-emotion), or explored the valence of emotional expression during marital
conflict (Morris et al., 2007; Cummings et al., 2013; Gottman et al., 1997; Carrère & Bowie,
2012). For example, Davies and Cummings’ (1994) seminal work found that the expression of
both positive and negative emotions within the home had an impact on children. Additional work
is needed to explore parental emotion expression in marriage in order to use this evidence as a
vehicle to promote and optimize child outcomes through intervention. Future studies should
continue to focus on gaining a better understanding of the influence of the affective quality within
marital relationships on parent-child relationships and children directly. The marital literature has
focused much attention on the predictive power of affective variables on marital quality (Schulz
& Waldinger, 2010; Gottman, Coan, Carrere, Swanson, 1998; Rogge, Bradbury, Halweg, Engl,
Thurmaier, 2006). Given that we know about the influence of marital quality on parenting
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behaviors, future studies should borrow the advanced methodological techniques used in the
marital research world (e.g., ????) to capture the elusive nature of emotion and apply these
protocols to studies examining marital quality, parenting behaviors, and child outcomes.
Coparenting. Researchers across the family and child development literatures have
worked to explore and identify the specific mechanisms within the marital relationship that
predict parenting practices and influence the parent-child relationships (Fincham & Hall, 2005).
As a result, a select number of researchers exploring family dynamics have focused their efforts
on the integral role of the coparenting relationship (McHale, Kuersten-Hogan & Rao, 2004;
Margolin, Gordis, & John, 2001). Coparenting, as a construct, was initially used to better
understand and inform children’s responses following divorce, yet it eventually became an
apparatus to further disentangle marital quality, parenting, and child well-being (Aydingtug,
1995; Margolin et al., 2001). Recent studies have demonstrated the reciprocal bidirectional
relationship between the marital and coparenting relationships, underscoring the importance of
considering this construct when examining the link between the marital relationship and child
mothers and fathers work together within their functional role as parents (Gable, Crnic, & Belsky,
1994; Margolin et al., 2001). Specifically, this relationship is characterized as the alliance formed
between parents with the objective of either bolstering or undermining one another’s parenting
practices (Margolin et al., 2001). Gable and colleagues (1994) purport that coparenting is a unique
and distinct facet of the family system separate from the marital relationship. In particular, these
researchers posit that the primary distinction between the marital and coparenting relationships
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are the factors that motivate parent’s behavior (Gable et al., 1994). As such, the welfare of the
child serves as the catalyst within the coparenting relationship; the well-being of the relationship,
one’s partner, or one’s self motivated behaviors within the marital relationship (Gable et al., 1994;
Margolin et al., 2001). Other researchers have purported that the coparenting relationship is part
of the overall interparental relationship and leans closer to the parenting subsystem rather than the
marital relationship (Abiden & Brunner, 1995; Bonds & Gonoli, 2007). Cowan and McHale
(1996) purport that coparenting is distinct from the marital relationship as two parents can remain
parents revere each other and trust in one another’s ability to make the right decisions with regard
to the care for the child (Belsky, Woodworth, & Crnic, 1996; Feinberg, 2003; McHale, 1995;
Margolin et al., 2001; Bonds & Gonoli, 2007). McHale (1997) contributed to the literature by
identifying four specific dimensions of parental behaviors that can either contribute to or weaken
the coparenting alliance: family integrity (e.g. behaviors that attend to increasing the overall sense
of family), conflict (e.g. overt conflict between parents), disparagement (e.g., subversive
behaviors that undercut the other parent) and reprimand (e.g., over involvement in discipline).
McHale then uses these four dimensions to catalogue five different sets of coparenting families:
and negativity). In a similar vein, Margolin and colleagues conceptualized the coparenting
alliance as being comprised of three distinct dimensions: a) conflict between parents focused on
parenting (e.g., child-related); b) cooperation and support; and c) triangulation between parents
including the child (Margolin et al., 2001). Given the conceptual overlap between child-related
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coparenting conflict and marital conflict centered around child-rearing, Margolin, Gordis, and
Johns (2001) clarified the construct to suggest that coparenting conflict is different from marital
conflict, in that it incorporates a spouse’s specific desire to weaken or undercut the other partner’s
parenting efforts. Recent work has expanded beyond these dimensions to also include parental-
based closeness, which is distinct in that it is conceptualized as the bond that forms when parents
work together as a team being able to share and celebrate in the development of their child
literature evidencing the role of coparenting on parenting, parent-child relationships, and the
socio-emotional outcomes of children (Feinberg & Kan, 2008; Bonds & Gonoli, 2007; Deal,
Halverson & Wampler, 1989). Specifically, studies have demonstrated a positive correlational
relationship between marital and coparenting relationships, and have identified coparenting as a
mediating mechanism in the association between marital relationships and parenting (McHale,
2007; Gonzales, Pitts, Hill, & Roosa, 2000) parent-child relationships (Belsky, Putnam & Crnic,
1996; Bonds & Gonoli, 2007; Margolin et al., 2001), as well as children’s outcomes (Baril,
Crouter, & McHale, 2007; Teubert & Pinquart, 2010). Specifically, poor coparenting has been
linked to children’s externalizing symptoms (Belsky et al., 1996; Schoppe, Mangelsdorf &
Frosch, 2001; Fincham & Hall, 2005), increased child anxiety, hostile and competitive
coparenting (McHale & Rasmussen, 1998), and negative peer behaviors (McHale, Johnson, &
Sinclair, 1999). Moreover, specific characteristics of the coparenting relationships have been
examined, elucidating gender differences across both children and parents (McHale, 1995; Morrill
et al., 2010). Interestingly, coparenting has been shown to bring about power imbalances and
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differences in egalitarian ideals between parents that may not have arisen within the context of a
marital relationship (Knudson-Martin & Mahoney, 2009; Morrill et al., 2010). Katz and
colleagues (1996) found evidence for gendered coparenting in the context of marital hostility.
Fathers’ coparenting processes, which included withdrawal from the child, were predicted
following marital hostility, and this in turn, was associated with decreased positivity within the
mother-child relationship (Katz & Gottman, 1996). With regard to children, McHale (1995) found
a link between marital conflict and increased hostility in coparenting, which influenced the
Significantly, a growing body of research has further elucidated the interwoven nature of
the marital relationship, coparenting, parenting, and child adjustment (Margolin et al., 2001).
McHale and colleagues (2004) examined the transition to coparenthood, finding that dimensions
that significantly influenced the coparenting relationship (McHale et al., 2004). Extending beyond
studies examining the positive link from marital quality to coparenting, researchers have revealed
a bidirectional influence with dimensions of coparenting (e.g., spousal social support) strongly
associated with marital health (Feinberg, 2002, 2003; Morrill et al., 2010). Several recent studies
have further revealed the mediating effect of coparenting evidenced by the weaker association
between marital quality to parenting with coparenting in the model (Bonds & Gonoli, 2007;
Morrill et al., 2010; McHale, 2007; Gonzales, Pitts, Hill, & Roosa, 2000; Margolin et al, 2001).
Most recently, Feinberg and colleagues purport that coparenting is in fact the central predictor
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within the family unit forecasting not only marital quality, but parenting practices and child
outcomes, even after controlling for marital quality (Feinberg, Kan, & Hetherington, 2007).
In sum, as family systems research has expanded, established research has underlined the
influential processes of coparenting. Over the last decade, a debate regarding the temporal
precedence of the marital relationship and the coparenting relationship has ensued. This has
resulted in a shift within the field, moving toward models that conceptualize coparenting as a
central predictor of family outcomes, rather than part of the indirect system between marital
health, parenting, and child’s outcomes (Feinberg et al., 2007). Morrill et al., (2010) posit that the
reason for these findings may be that throughout different time periods, contexts and development
stages couples are more focused either on the marriage or on their children. Ultimately, this work
alluded to the dynamic and influential role of coparenting within the family unit, and to the
This is especially relevant for family clinicians working with parents as part of a non-traditional
family unit.
Decades of research has been conducted in order to examine the factors that shape the
that the interparental relationship deeply shapes the lives of the child and family. While
longitudinal studies are imperative in establishing empirical and theoretical foundations, they do
not allow researchers to evaluate the direct, causal impact these relationships have on each other
or on the outcomes of children. Therefore, it is imperative that intervention studies are conducted
in order to tease out these causal relationships within the family. Moreover, current interventions
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should be broadened in their design and scope by targeting the marital or couple relationship first,
with the goal of preventing and remediating poor family functioning and ultimately, optimizing
child well-being (Heinrichs & Prinz, 2012; Zemp et al., 2016; Cowan & Cowan, 2014).
relationship by way of parenting practices (e.g., Positive Parenting Program) (Sanders, Kirby,
Tellegen, & Day, 2014) or on skill building and the improvement of communication patterns
between partners in order to improve overall marital quality (Halford, Markman & Stanley, 2008;
Cowan & Cowan, 2014; Halford, Markman, Kline, & Stanley, 2003). Beginning in the late
1980’s, a handful of early studies investigated the differential influence of targeting the
interparental relationship within the context of established parenting training, with mixed results
(Griest et al, 1982; Dadds, Schwartz, Sanders, 1987; Zemp et al., 2016). In the time since, there
has been a relative dearth of intervention or prevention programs aimed specifically at improving
child well-being by enhancing the marital relationship and communication, above and beyond the
parenting; however a tide has turned and several promising programs have been developed.
One of the most promising interventions was a randomized clinical trial completed in
intervention, or a control group (e.g., two brief consultations) in the year before their first child
entered kindergarten (Cowan, Cowan, Ablow & Measelle, 2005). The prevention study took place
over the course of 16 weeks, and the majority of the intervention was the same, barring either the
couple-focused or parent-focused material. After two years, Cowan and colleagues found that the
decreased amounts of conflict in front of the child compared to the control group (Cowan et al.,
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2005). Moreover, the researchers found increased positive child outcomes for the marriage-
focused intervention group, as children were less aggressive, less depressed, and had higher
academic achievement overall. Finally, a follow up study indicated a 10-year positive effect on
marital satisfaction and child outcomes (hyperactivity and aggression)(Cowan, Cowan & Barry,
2011).
In order to address a gap in the literature targeting the interparental relationship within
developed a brief prevention program made up of four consecutive two-hour group meetings. The
Happy Couples and Happy Kids program provided psychoeducation regarding the effects of
marital conflict, including the differences between constructive and destructive conflict, and the
role of avoiding child-related discussions in the presence of the child; it also included in-vivo
training sessions (Cummings et al., 2008; Faircloth, Schermerhorn, Mitchell, Cummings, &
Cummings, 2011). In order to determine the efficacy of this intervention, 90 couples with a child
between the ages of 4 and 9 were randomly assigned to one of three groups (e.g., parent-only
group, parent-child group, and a self-directed parent group). Outcomes reveal that treatment
conflict, and the importance of constructive conflict; in addition, mothers enhanced knowledge
was linked to positive parenting and improved child adjustment (Cummings et al., 2008). In a
two-year follow up, Faircloth et al. (2011) found a similar pattern of results for mothers, and
noted fathers improved knowledge was associated with positive parenting, although not with child
outcomes.
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implementing an intervention aimed at enhancing the positive emotional processes within the
marital relationship. As part of the Marriage Check-up—a randomized control intervention study
focused on improving relational acceptance—Morrill and colleagues found that both 2 weeks and
6 months following the intervention, mothers and fathers experienced significantly greater felt-
acceptance and positive parenting (Morrill et al., 2010). These results support the idea that
positivity within the marital relationship can cascade through the rest of the family system.
In conclusion, there has been significant progress within the fields of developmental and
family research when considering the influence that the marital relationship has—either directly,
children (Cox & Paley, 2003; Cummings, Cheung & Davies, 2013; Carrère & Bowie, 2012).
Most notably in the last decade, there has been a burgeoning emphasis on the development of
intervention programs that allow researchers to draw causal inferences about the relationships
between the marriage, parenting, coparenting, and utilize these findings to improve and optimize
child well-being. Additional work in this area should examine multiple levels of influence and
continue to untangle the direct and indirect effects (by way of parenting) of interventions on child
outcomes (Zemp et al., 2016). Looking to the future, it is vital that integration across the variety
of experts working with family systems adopt a reciprocal relationship between family
researchers and clinical intervention work, given that outcomes can ultimately inform policy.
Decades of developmental and family research have considered the influence the marital
relationship has—either directly or by way of parenting practices—on the overall adjustment and
well-being of children (Cox & Paley, 2003; Cummings, Cheung & Davies, 2013; Carrère &
Bowie, 2012). Specifically, a breadth of work has evidenced the strong link between marital
conflict and various elements of children’s maladjustment, including increased risk for
internalizing and externalizing disorders (Emery 1982; Grych & Fincham, 1990; Davies &
Cummings, 1998), poor academic outcomes (Forehand & Wierson, 1993), as well as difficulties
with social competence (Gottman & Katz, 1989; Paley, Conger & Harold, 2000), sibling, and peer
relationships (Emery 1982; Grych & Fincham, 1990; Katz & Gottman, 1993; Dunn & Davies,
2001). The emotional security theory, a process oriented approach, has demonstrated robust
support accounting for the how and why, and for whom and when marital conflict is associated
with poorer child outcomes (Davies & Cummings, 1994). Moreover, an ongoing body of
literature has placed an emphasis on the complexity of affective processes and emotional
expressiveness within the family in order to better understand individual differences across
Steinberg, Myers, & Robinson, 2007; Cummings, Cheung & Davies, 2013; Gottman, Katz &
Hooven, 1997; Carrère & Bowie, 2012). Concurrently, experts in the marital research sphere have
focused studies on the predictive role of emotion on the determinants of marital success (Schulz
& Waldinger, 2010). Despite these parallel advancements in understanding, less is known
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however about specific dimensions of emotionality within the marital relationship, and its
pathway to children’s emotional security. In order to advance and develop effective interventions
further illuminate the different contexts that place children at greater risk for emotional insecurity.
The current study explores the impact a parents’ ability to empathize, identify, manage, and
comfortably express his or her own emotion during marital conflict on a child’s emotional
security, with the goal of further advancing our understanding of the pathways to children’s
Underscoring the parent-child relationship, Bowlby’s (1973) attachment theory has long
suggested that a sense of safety and security within a child is met by both the physical availability
and emotional responsiveness of his or her attachment figure. Children’s appraisals of their sense
of emotional well-being—or felt security—provide both structure to and motivation for a child’s
reactions to marital conflict (Sroufe & Waters, 1977). However, over and above the parental
relationship, emotional security theory suggests that children also experience a set-goal of felt
security with regard to the family functioning as a whole and across other familial subsystems—
most notably the marital relationship (Davies & Cummings, 1994; Cummings & Davies, 1996).
Destructive types of marital conflict, characterized by hostility, violence, and escalating anger,
undermine this essential sense of felt security in children (Goeke-Morey, Cummings, Harold &
Shelton, 2003) and this in turn puts children at increased risk for psychopathology (Davies &
Cummings, 1994; Cummings & Davies, 1996; Cummings, Schermerhorn, Davies, Goeke-Morey
Essential to this theory is the interplay of three related yet conceptually discrete processes
that help to regulate, organize, and motivate a child’s response to marital conflict: (a) emotional
reactivity (e.g., the child’s ability to regulate activation of negative emotions, such as fear and
vigilance, as well as feelings of sadness and happiness), (b) internal cognitive representations
(e.g., child’s evaluations of marital conflict on his or her well-being) and (c) behavioral responses
(i.e., regulation of attempts to either avoid conflict or to become involved in it) (Davies, Harold,
Goeke-Morey & Cummings, 2002; Goeke-Morey et al., 2013). Children learn to regulate their
emotional and behavioral responses, as well as their cognitive representations of their family and
parent’s marital relationships, during and following exposure to marital conflict. This occurs with
the goal of either preserving or recapturing their sense of emotional security, and eventually this
mediates the pathway between marital conflict and children’s adjustment (Davies et al., 2002;
Davies & Cummings, 1994; Kouros, Merrilees, & Cummings, 2008). For example, in the face of
marital conflict, a child may attempt to behaviorally regulate her affective arousal by withdrawing
or avoiding the conflict; alternatively, she may become overly entangled and attempt to mediate
the conflict between her parents. Initially, these responses are successful in mitigating a child’s
exposure to conflict, while regulating her sense of emotional security. However, in the long term,
these patterns of heightened vigilance develop into maladaptive patterns of response, which
decrease psychological and physical resources, ultimately resulting in persistent emotional and
behavioral dysregulation and increased risk for psychopathology (Cummings et al., 2006; Davies
et al., 2002). At its heart, emotional security can be conceptualized as an understanding and
expectation that relationships within a family are strong and, despite a range of stressors—
including marital conflict—these connections will endure and family members will remain
The broad scope of research on emotional security theory has provided robust evidence
demonstrating emotional security as the explanatory mechanism in the link between interparental
conflict and child maladjustment (Davies & Martin, 2014; Cummings et al. 2006; Davies et al.,
2002). Cross-sectional studies have shown that above and beyond other hypothesized mediators
(e.g., social learning, spill-over hypothesis) children’s emotional insecurity mediates the pathway
between marital conflict and child maladjustment (Cummings et al. 2006; Davies et al., 2002;
Davies & Martin, 2014) with emotional reactivity serving as the primary mechanism (Davies et
al., 2002). A second generation of research examining this theoretical model longitudinally
provided evidence that destructive marital conflict and negative perception of the quality of the
marital relationship was associated with increased emotional insecurity one year later across two
separate child and adolescent samples (Cummings et al., 2006). While contextual variables (e.g.,
moderators) have been explored within this process-orientated framework in order to identify
additional factors that may serve as risk mechanisms to emotional insecurity, gaps in the literature
remain.
Over the course of the last several decades, human emotionality, and expression, and
(Cole, Martin, & Dennis, 2004; Morris et al., 2007; Schulz & Waldinger, 2010). Within
dependent dynamic process that develops over time and across developmental stages—is a critical
feature in nurturing healthy and successful adjustment (Halberstadt, Denham & Dunsmore, 2001,
Kopp, 1992; Saarni, 1990; Denham, 1998; Morris et al., 2007; Thompson, 1994; Masten &
Cicchetii, 2010; Aldao, 2013; Cole et al., 2004; Beauchaine et al., 2016; Gross, 2015; Eisenberg
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& Fables, 1992). Developmental psychopathology has since expanded upon the role of emotion
such as sadness and anger—as a transdiagnostic factor linked to children’s internalizing and
externalizing problem behaviors (Beauchaine et al., 2016; Cicchetti, Ackerman & Izard, 1995;
Eisenberg, Guthrie, et al, 1997; Frick & Morris, 2004; Silk & Steinerg & Morris, 2003, Morris et
al., 2007). This research overlaps nicely with emotional security theory, which underscores
emotion regulation as the leading dynamic in the pathway between marital conflict and child
adjustment (Davies & Sturge-Apple, 2007; Davies, Sturge-Apple, Cicchetti, Manning, & Zale,
2009).
Furthermore, emotional expressiveness and the mutual influence of emotions within the
family has been highlighted as a way of better understanding individual differences across
children’s adjustment (Cummings, Goeke-Morey & Papp, 2010; Eisenburg et al., 2003) with a
particular focus on the role of parental psychopathology (Morris et al., 2007). Parental depressive
symptoms have been strongly associated with negative marital conflict expression, and are
directly related to children’s regulatory processes and emotional security (Kouros et al., 2008;
Cummings & Davies, 1992; Compas, Connor-Smith, Saltzman, Thomsen, & Wadsworth, 2001).
Additional evidence suggests that certain parental characteristics extending beyond parental
depression, including parental negative emotional expressiveness, and parents’ beliefs about
emotion, also affect a child’s regulatory processes and overall adjustment (Morris, et al., 2007;
Cummings, Cheung & Davies, 2013; Gottman, Katz & Hooven, 1997; Carrère & Bowie, 2012).
Specifically, a parent’s ability to manage and control his or her own emotional expression as well
as the parent’s own philosophies on emotion have been shown to directly influence the emotional
climate of the family, and in turn, impact the emotional regulation of children (Thompson, 1991;
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Gottman, Katz, & Hooven, 1997; Morris et al., 2007; Darling & Steinberg, 1993). Providing
evidence for a family wide model of emotion, Cummings et al. (2010), found parental expressed
negative and positive emotionality to be linked not only to their partners’ emotion, but also to be
predictive of children’s emotional insecurity, such that increased parental negative emotionality
was related to increased emotional insecurity. While studies such as these have established
is needed to examine the role a parent’s skillfulness in the expression of these emotional processes
Likewise, interest in emotionality has dominated the marital literature over the last several
decades, given that marriage is one of the primary contexts in which we enact our emotional
experiences as adults (Schulz & Waldinger, 2010; Mirgain & Cordova, 2007). Research on the
emotional processes within couple relationships has provided evidence demonstrating the link
between affective variables and the quality and stability of marital relationships (Gottman, Coan,
Carrere, Swanson, 1998; Rogge, Bradbury, Halweg, Engl, Thurmaier, 2006). Specifically,
relationship distress has been largely conceptualized within the extant literature as a set of
emotional repertoires expressed during vulnerable emotions that has become dysfunctional over
time (Gottman, 1994; Wachs & Cordova, 2007). Cordova et al. (2005) suggest that it is not
merely the experience of an emotion that matters, but indeed how one has learned to behave and
or emotion skills (essentially, how one “does” emotion), has been found to be an essential
component to the successful management and navigation of the heightened emotional nature of
intimacy (Gottman et al., 1997; Gottman & Levenson, 2002; Cordova, Warren & Gee, 2005).
Emotion skills are defined as one's capacity to identify and communicate emotional stimuli; to
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empathize, effectively manage, control, and comfortably express emotions. These skills, which
are a learned set of behavioral skills that develop over time in relational contexts, are critical to
the development and maintenance of healthy marital relationships (Cordova et al., 2005).
Previous studies have shown couples with higher levels of marital distress are in fact less skillful
in emotional expression (Cordova et al., 2005; Mirgain & Cordova, 2007). Other emotion-focused
marital work has demonstrated that partners’ positivity, sadness, anger and fear emotions
uniquely contribute to marital communication, highlighting the value of exploring the distinctive
impact of specific emotions experienced during marital conflict (Gottman & Notarius, 2000;
Greenberg & Goldman, 2008; Papp, Kouros & Cummings, 2010). Despite these advancements,
less is known about the influence on children’s emotional security of parents’ capacity to identify,
manage, and comfortably express their own emotions during marital conflict.
Chapter II: Present Study
the relationship between marital conflict and child adjustment. While previous studies have
identified some of the characteristics of parental emotion that are most likely to impact children,
to our knowledge, no study has explored the longitudinal role of mothers’ and fathers’ acuity in
navigating the heightened emotional nature of marital conflict on children’s emotional security. In
order to address this gap in the literature, the current study will examine parental skillfulness in
emotional expression during marital conflict as a moderator of the relationship between children’s
exposure to marital conflict and children’s emotional security two years later. A moderated
mediation model will be tested in which the mediation relationship between marital conflict,
emotional security, and children’s adjustment will be examined in the context of parental emotion
skills. We will test whether mothers’ and fathers’ global emotion skills moderate the relationship
hypothesize that marital conflict will be a stronger predictor of children’s emotional insecurity
when parents’ are less skilled at emotional expression overall. Additionally, given the unique
parental emotion skill during specific types of emotional experiences (e.g., positivity, anger, fear,
sadness) during conflict will be examined as a moderator within this model as an exploratory
probe. The present study will serve to integrate previous work on moderators and mediators in the
link between marital conflict and child adjustment, and will continue to bridge the gap between
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Chapter II: Method
Participants
The data for these analyses were drawn from a three-year longitudinal study examining
child development and family relationships. The first (Time 1) and third (Time 3) visits are used
in the current study. The sample includes 296 heterosexual couples that had been cohabiting for a
minimum of two years with a child (155 boys, 141 girls) between 8-16 years of age (M = 11.12
SD = 2.31) at Time 1. In the case where families had more than one child within the age range,
one child was selected to contribute to the study. Families were told the study was exploring
family relationships, children, and everyday marital differences. Families from this community-
based sample were originally recruited through newspaper, television, and radio advertisements,
flyers at community events, and through postcards sent to homes with children at local schools..
The majority of parents were married (95.3% n = 282) with an average marriage length of 12.7
years (SD = 8.27 years). On average, husbands ranged in age from 25 to 70 years, with a mean
age of 40.22 years (SD = 6.69 years) and wives ranged in age from 25 to 46 years, with a mean
age of 37.84 years (SD = 5.96 years). The sample was 87.8% Caucasian, 8.8% African-American,
and 2.4% Hispanic. Parents reported a median family income in the $40,001-$65,000 range with
5 families (1.7 %) reporting a yearly combined income of less than $10,000, 20 families (6.8 %)
reporting a yearly combined income between $10,001 and $25,000, 63 families (21.3 %)
reporting a yearly combined income of $25,001 and $40,000, 130 families (43.9%) reporting a
income of $65,001 and $80,000, and 37 families (12.5%) reporting a yearly combined income
above $80,000.
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Procedures
Families attended annual laboratory visits for three years and were compensated for
participation. The procedures in this study were approved by institutional review board and prior
to participation, parental consent and assent was obtained. Methodology described relates only to
the current study. Mothers and fathers completed several questionnaires about themselves, their
marriage, and their child. Mothers and fathers then engaged in several videotaped dyadic conflict
resolution tasks, including one constructive conflict task, in which a problem that was typically
handled comparatively well was discussed. A range of topics were discussed across the couples,
the most common of which were: Money, childrearing, and the struggle to find balance between
work and home life. Immediately following the task, mothers’ and fathers’ were asked to rate
their emotional experience during and at the end of the conflict task.
Measures
Marital Conflict. Marital conflict was assessed at Time 1 using the O’Leary-Porter Scale (OPS;
Porter & O’Leary, 1980), which is a 10-item single measure that captures the parent’s impression
of the amount of overt, hostile marital conflict that occurs in front of the child. On a scale of 0
(never) to 4 (very often) parents rated the frequency of verbal and physical conflict (e.g., how
often do you and/or your spouse display verbal hostility in front of your child?”), conflict
centered around discipline (e.g., how often do you and your spouse argue over discipline
problems in your child’s presence?”), and spouses’ personal habits (e.g., “how often do you
complain to your spouse about his/her personal habits in front of you child?”). Additionally, there
is one item that is reverse scored, that accounts for the frequency in which parents exhibit
affection toward each other (“How often do you and your spouse display affection for each other
in front of your child?). Items on the scale are summed to create a total conflict score with greater
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scores signifying more severe overt hostility and marital conflict. This item has demonstrated
sound internal consistency (alpha = .86) and test-retest reliability over a two-week period (r = .96;
Porter & O’Leary, 1980). Cronbach’s alphas for mothers’ and fathers’ report on the OPS within
this sample were .77 and .75. Paired sample t-tests revealed no significant difference in mothers’
(M = 18.73; SD = 5.27), and fathers’ (M = 18.82; SD = 4.76) ratings of marital conflict, therefore,
Parental Emotional Skillfulness. The Emotion Skills Coding System (ESCS; Cordova &
Mirgain, 2007) was used to code the videotaped dyadic conflict resolution task conducted at Time
1. The ESCS is composed of 12 codes that reflect skills in emotional control, empathy, comfort
with expressiveness, and identification and communication of emotions. The 12 codes include the
conflict, 4) positive affect elicited and 5) displayed during conflict, 6) expression of non-hostile
negative affect (e.g., sadness) during conflict, 7) emotional awareness, 8) perspective taking, 9)
empathy, 10) emotional inhibition, 11) defensiveness, and 12) vulnerable self-disclosure. Ratings
for each emotion code were recorded on a scale of 1 to 5. Three undergraduate and one graduate
rater, all blind to the study hypothesis, were trained under the supervision of the first author until
intra-class correlation (ICC) reliability scores of .70 or above were achieved for each individual
emotion skills code. Inter-rater reliability (ICC) for the global emotion skills composite was .83
and .82 for husbands and wives, respectively. Coders independently rated each conflict resolution
task, watching the tape twice and rating each partner separately. Once coding began, raters were
subject to weekly reliability checks. A global emotion skills composite score was then calculated
for mother and father separately by summing all of the individual codes. Defensiveness and
emotional inhibition were reverse coded, resulting in a high composite score that reflects high
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emotional skillfulness. The mean global emotion skill rating for wives was 40.30 (SD = 8.86). For
husbands, the mean global emotion skills rating was 38.36 (SD = 9.01).
Ratings of Parental Emotional Experience During Marital Conflict. At the completion of the
conflict task, mothers and fathers rated their own emotions of positivity, anger, sadness, and fear
experienced both during the task and following the task. Ratings were on a scale of 0 (not at all)
to 9 (a whole lot). The ratings of emotions experienced during the task were highly correlated
with the ratings for post-task for each emotion (within each parent): mothers’ positivity (.88),
anger (.73), sadness (.73) and fear (.70) and fathers’ positivity (.78), anger (.71), sadness (.74),
and fear (.65). Thus they were summed to create a total score for mothers’ and a total score for
father’s across each of the four emotions experienced overall throughout the marital interaction.
Parental Depression. Mothers and fathers completed the Center for Epidemiological Studies
Depression Scale (CES-D; Radloff, 1997) at each time period. This rating is comprised of 20
questions targeting depressive symptoms, and parents rated how frequently they experience these
symptoms in the past week on a scale of 0-3. Cronbach’s alpha for mothers (.91) and fathers (.87)
Emotional Security. The 37-item Security in the Interparental Subsystems Scale (SIMS-PR;
Davies, Forman, Rasi & Stevens, 2002) was completed by both parents as a measure of children’s
emotional security in the context of everyday marital conflict in the home. Two out of five
subscales were used in the current study: The Emotional Reactivity and Behavioral Dysregulation
“appears frightened”) and emotional dysregulation (e.g., “still seems upset after we argue”).
Cronbach’s alpha for mothers’ report of Emotional Reactivity on the SIMS at Time 3 was .84 and
father’s was .83. Behavioral Dysregulation is a 5-item subscale that reflects loss of behavioral
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control (e.g., “starts hitting, kicking, slapping, or throwing things at family members”).
Cronbach’s alphas for mothers’ and fathers’ reports on the Behavioral Dysregulation scale on the
SIMS at Time 3 ranged from .75 to .77, respectively. Utilizing a 3-point scale (yes, sometimes,
no), children rated their own Emotional Reactivity and Behavioral Dysregulation on the SIS-CR
detailing their possible responses to marital conflict. Cronbach’s alpha for child report of
The Child Behavior Checklist (CBCL; Achenbach, 1991) for ages 4-18 at Time 1 and Time 3.
Mother’s rated how often their child displayed externalizing problems (e.g., delinquent and
aggressive behaviors) on a 3-point likert scale ranging from 0 (not true) to 2 (very true). This
variable was created using the 13 items assessing delinquent behaviors, and the 20 items assessing
and father report of internalizing symptoms was made by summing scores on the
anxious/depressed (14 items), withdrawn (9 items), and somatic complaint (9 items) scales. Raw
scores of this measure were used for analyses. While standardized scores are often used in order
to compare children of the same age and gender, the use of raw scores in research settings has
been encouraged due to the truncation of standardized scores (Achenbach & Edelbrock, 1991).
Chapter II: Results
Preliminary Analyses
Table 1 presents descriptive statistics, including means, standard deviations, and ranges
across the primary study variables tested in the model. There was a two-year period between Time
1 and Time 3. Supporting the structural equation models, marital conflict variables were
significantly correlated with reports of emotional insecurity and indicators of parent and child
emotional insecurity was correlated with child internalizing and externalizing symptoms. In order
to prepare the data for analyses, the present study utilized Little’s MCAR Chi-Square in order to
identify any patterns in the missing data; this non-significant result χ2 (680) = 699.132, p= .297
confirmed there was no pattern to the missing data. In order to capture dynamic and complex
relationships, structural equation modeling analyses were conducted utilizing Analysis of Moment
Structure (AMOS 22.0; Arbuckle & Wothke, 1999). This modeling program allows models to
include latent constructs of interest, reduces violations of normality, and accounts for missing data
by employing full information maximum likelihood estimation (Bryne, 2001; Bollen, 1989;
Barron & Kenny, 1986). Several indices were used in order to assess evaluations of how well the
models fit the sample data. Given the sample size, the traditional χ2 discrepancy test statistic was
artificially inflated and found to be significant (Bentler & Bonett, 1980; Hu & Bentler, 1999).
Therefore, additional fit indices were reported. We used the relative χ2 index (χ2 /df) where values
below 3 are considered indicative of an acceptable fit (Bollen, 1989). The root mean square error
of approximation was used in which values less than, or equal to, .08 indicate a reasonable fit
(RMSEA; Brown & Cudeck, 1993). Lastly, the comparative fit index (CFI; Bentler, 1990), in
which values of at least .90 are consider an acceptable fit, was used. In order to reduce the
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artificial inflation of scores reported by the same observer, error terms for these measures were
allowed to correlate (e.g., error terms of child report of maladjustment at Time 1 correlated with
Parent Emotion Skills as the Moderator of the Indirect Effect of Marital Conflict on
In accordance with Baron and Kenny’s (1986) guidelines, the first step in testing for
mediation is to establish a direct relationship between child’s exposure to marital conflict at Time
1 and children’s externalizing problems at Time 3. Separate direct effects models were run
controlling first for maternal depression at Time 1, then for paternal depression at Time 1. The
maternal direct effects model was a good fit to the sample data, χ2 (9) = 24.82, p <.05; χ2/df= 2.76;
CFI = .98; RMSEA = .08. After controlling for Time 1 adjustment, maternal depressive
symptoms, and child’s gender, we found that children’s exposure to marital conflict at Time 1
was a significant predictor of children’s externalizing problems at Time 3, t (9) = 2.43, β = .11, p<
.01. Over this two year period, externalizing problems were found to be highly stable, β = .79, p<
.001. The paternal model was also found to be a good fit to the sample data, χ2 (9) = 27.33, p
<.05; χ2/df = 2.75; CFI = .98; RMSEA = .08. Furthermore, when controlling for paternal
depressive symptoms, child’s gender, and Time 1 externalizing symptoms, children’s exposure to
marital conflict at Time 1 was related to higher levels of externalizing symptoms, t (9) = 2.53, β =
.07, p< .05. These results were in accordance with numerous previous studies demonstrating the
link between marital conflict and children’s maladjustment (Davies & Cummings, 1998; Grych &
Fincham, 1990).
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The first model explored emotional insecurity as the intervening variable between
children’s exposure to marital conflict at Time 1 and children’s externalizing problems at Time 3
after controlling for children’s externalizing problems at Time 1, mother’s depressive symptoms,
and child’s gender. Results of this test indicated that the model was a good fit to the sample data,
χ2 (52) = 101.459, p <.001; χ2/df = 1.95; CFI = .95; RMSEA = .06. Children’s exposure to marital
conflict predicted greater emotional insecurity two years later, β = .33, p< .001, which was related
to increased levels of externalizing problems, β = .28, p< .01. The same model was run
Time 1 and children’s gender. This model was found to be a good fit χ2 (52) = 105.251, p <.001;
χ2/df = 2.02; CFI = .94; RMSEA = .06. Marital conflict was related to greater emotional insecurity
two years later β = .37, p< .001, which was related to increased levels of externalizing problems,
β = .25, p< .01. Importantly, the direct effect from marital conflict to children’s externalizing
problems was no longer significant when children’s emotional security was included in both
Next, parental emotion skillfulness was examined as a moderator of the mediation models.
Moderated mediation, also known as conditional indirect effects, explores whether the magnitude
or the direction of the mediation relationship changes depending on the value of the moderator
(e.g., parental emotion skills; Hayes, 2017; Preacher, Rucker & Hayes, 2007; James & Brett,
1984). In other words, this model examines if the association between marital conflict and
emotional insecurity in children differs depending on parental emotion skill level. Mother and
father emotion skills were first mean-centered and an interaction term between emotion skills and
problems. Results of this test indicated that the model was a good fit to the sample data (Model 1
in Table 2). The moderator, a centered interaction term between maternal emotion skills and
marital conflict, was found to have a significant effect on the relationship between children’s
exposure to marital conflict and emotional insecurity within the mediation model (Model 1 in
Table 3). While a significant interaction indicates that maternal emotion skills moderates the
relationship between marital conflict and emotional insecurity, additional post-hoc probing of
moderation effects were conducted in order to detail the specific conditions in which maternal
marital conflict (Aiken & West, 1991). Since both variables in the interaction term are
continuous—new interaction terms were created to represent maternal emotion skill levels one
standard deviation below (Model 1a: low levels of skillfulness) and one standard deviation above
(Model 1b: high levels of skillfulness) the mean. Fit indices for additional models are reported in
Table 2. Results indicate that marital conflict is a weaker predictor of emotional insecurity in the
context of a more emotionally skillful mother and marital conflict is a stronger predictor of
Figure 2 illustrates the significant moderated effect of father’s emotion skills on the
mediation model (Model 2 in Table 3). Results of this test indicated that the model was a good fit
to the sample data (Model 2 in Table 2). The same pattern of results emerged with paternal
emotion skills as did with maternal skills—marital conflict was found to be a weaker predictor of
emotional insecurity in the context of a more emotionally skillful father and a stronger predictor
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of emotional insecurity in the context of a less emotionally skilled father (Model 2, 2a, 2b in
Table 3). Neither paternal or maternal emotion skills moderated the mediating effect of emotional
Parent Emotion Skills as the Moderator of the Indirect Effect of Marital Conflict on
Separate direct effects models were run controlling first for maternal depression, then for
paternal depression. When controlling for mothers’ depressive symptoms, child’s gender, and
Time 1 internalizing symptoms, children’s exposure to marital conflict at Time 1 was related to
higher levels of internalizing symptoms, β = .18, p< .005. This model was found to be a good fit
to the sample data, χ2 (9) = 16.54, p <.06; χ2/df = 1.84; CFI = .98; RMSEA = .06. Next, after
controlling for Time 1 internalizing, fathers’ depressive symptoms, and child’s gender, we found
that children’s exposure to marital conflict at Time 1 was a significant predictor of children’s
internalizing problems at Time 3, β = .15, p< .05. Over this two year period, internalizing
problems were found to be highly stable, β = .73, p< .001. The paternal direct effects model was a
good fit to the sample data, χ2 (9) = 17.99, p <.05; χ2/df= 1.99; CFI = .98; RMSEA = .06.
The first set of models examined emotional insecurity as the mediating variable between
children’s exposure to marital conflict at Time 1 and children’s internalizing problems at Time 3,
after controlling for children’s internalizing problems at Time 1, mother’s depressive symptoms,
and child’s gender. Results of this test indicated that the model was a good fit to the sample data,
χ2 (52) = 137.569, p <.001; χ2/df = 2.65; CFI = .89; RMSEA = .07. Children’s exposure to marital
conflict predicted greater emotional insecurity two years later, β = .33, p< .001, which was related
to increased levels of internalizing problems, β = .28, p< .05. An additional model was run, this
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time controlling for fathers’ depressive symptoms, as well as children’s internalizing problems at
Time 1, and children’s gender. This model was found to be a good fit χ2 (52) = 154.281, p <.001;
χ2/df = 2.96; CFI = .86; RMSEA = .08. Marital conflict was related to greater levels of emotional
insecurity two years later β = .22, p< .001, which in turn was related to increased levels of
children’s internalizing problems β = .65, p< .05. Across both maternal (β = .16, p = .844) and
paternal (β = .16, p = .633) models, the direct effect from marital conflict to children’s
Mothers’ emotion skills moderated the mediation model (Figure 3). Fit indices are detailed
in Table 2 (Model 3). Marital conflict was found to be a weaker predictor of emotional insecurity
in the context of a more emotionally skillful mother, and marital conflict was a stronger predictor
of emotional security in the context of a less emotionally skilled mother (Model 3, 3a, 3b in Table
3).
Fathers’ emotion skills moderated the mediation model (Figure 4). Fit indices are detailed
in Table 2 (Model 4). Paternal emotion skills moderated the relation with the same pattern as the
internalizing model. Marital conflict was found to be a weaker predictor of emotional insecurity
in the context of a more emotionally skillful father (Model 4, 4a, 4b in Table 3). Neither paternal
or maternal emotion skills moderated the mediating effect of emotional insecurity with regard to
Supplementary Analyses
during positive and negative emotionality. These rudimentary analyses are conceptualized as
exploratory in nature and should be interpreted with caution. Several additional moderation tests
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of parental emotionality in marriage and children’s adjustment were examined. Specifically, four
separate interaction terms were created between mothers’ and fathers’ global emotion skill levels
and his or her perceived emotional experience (e.g., angry, fear, sadness, positivity) throughout
the marital conflict task; high and low probes of significant moderation effects were then
conducted. All models were found to be an acceptable fit (Table 6). Consistent with above
analyses, all models controlled for parental depression and child gender.
significantly moderated the mediation models. Results are detailed in Table 4. Despite a
significant moderation finding, the relationship between marital conflict and emotional insecurity
did not change in magnitude within the context of a more emotionally skilled father versus a less-
skilled father across all three emotions. Notably, the direction of father’s emotional skills during
positivity was positively associated with the relation between marital conflict and insecurity. The
association between emotional insecurity and children’s externalizing symptoms was no longer
significant when father’s emotion skills during anger, fear, and positivity were included in the
models.
internalizing mediation model (Table 5). However, a similar pattern emerged, as with father’s
results—there was no change in magnitude in the association between marital conflict and
emotional security depending on the context of a more or less emotionally skilled mother during
anger.
Chapter II: Discussion
In the present study, the relationship between marital conflict, emotional security, and
children’s adjustment was examined in the context of parental emotion skills. In particular, the
goal of this paper was to examine parental skillfulness with emotion expression during marital
conflict as a moderator of the relationship between children’s exposure to marital conflict and
children’s emotional security two years later. Important findings emerged. Consistent with past
studies, we found that child emotional security mediated the relationship between children’s
exposure to marital conflict and children’s internalizing and externalizing symptoms. This
provided the foundational structure for our models and continuing evidence for the emotional
security hypothesis (Davies & Cummings, 1994; Cummings & Davies, 1996).
In support of the hypothesis, we discovered that after controlling for parental depression
and gender, mothers’ and fathers’ emotional skillfulness significantly moderated the relation
between marital conflict and children’s emotional security two years later. Specifically, results
indicated that marital conflict is a weaker predictor of emotional insecurity in the context of an
emotionally skillful parent and is a stronger predictor of emotional insecurity in the context of a
less-skilled parent. For the first time in the context of longitudinal model testing, our data
demonstrates that parents’ capacity to identify and communicate emotional stimuli, to empathize,
and to effectively manage, control, and comfortably express emotions during marital conflict,
reduces the risk of this conflict having an adverse impact on children’s later emotional insecurity.
Our findings complement theories from previous studies that have indicated marital conflict is a
weaker predictor of emotional security when parents communicate in a constructive way (Davies
et al., 2002; Zemp, Bodenmann, Backes, Stutter-Stickel, Revenson, 2016). Given the results of
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the current study, we contend that it may be parents’ interpersonal skillfulness with emotion that
is the underlying mechanism responsible for their constructive communication in the face of
marital conflict. In other words, it is not simply the amount of constructive behaviors or positive
displays of emotion that are important in the development of a child’s emotion security, but each
parent’s ability to successfully communicate the feelings that underlie their actions, especially in
Additionally, our findings contribute to the scope of marital literature by underscoring the
role of emotion skills in facilitating the intimacy process (Cordova et al., 2005), as well as by
extending the influence of parental emotion skills to children’s emotion security and wellbeing.
Cordova and Scott (2001) suggest that intimacy is a process in which the expression of the
interpersonally vulnerable behavior of one partner increases over time if the other partner receives
it in a positive and supportive manner. When vulnerability in a relationship is met with empathy,
support, and understanding, it creates a virtuous cycle—partners more freely express their
vulnerability, are met with further understanding, and intimacy deepens. However, Cordova et al.
(2005) posit that this process requires partners to possess a certain degree of emotional
skillfulness in order to succeed—as partners experience deeper levels of intimacy, their risk of
hurting each other increases, and must be met with greater emotion skill. Perhaps this intimacy,
however, is not solely an aspect of the partner relationship—it may indeed serve to enhance the
intimacy and trust of the entire family. Witnessing a parent embody the emotion skills to express
vulnerability—especially during conflict—and seeing this vulnerability met with acceptance and
understanding, may indeed communicate to the child that the marital relationship is steadfast, and
within the interparental relationship that can be targeted in intervention—how parents “do”
emotion, including vulnerability, during conflict. This is valuable given that our findings
demonstrate that emotion skills reduce the effect of children’s exposure to marital conflict on
children’s emotional security. This finding dovetails nicely with work suggesting that conflict is a
naturally occurring part of a marriage, and that therefore, it is not the conflict per se that matters
to children’s emotional security, but rather how parents argue, that is important (Goodman,
Barfoot, Frye, & Belli, 1999; Cummings & Davies, 2002). Moreover, our findings can also be
interpreted in the context of past work demonstrating the link between constructive marital
conflict tactics and children’s neutral or positive emotionality (Cummings et al., 2003).
Supplementary analyses highlight gender differences and serve as avenues for potential
exploration. These were rough analyses; therefore future investigation is warranted with more
positive and negative emotions (e.g., anger, fear, sadness), we found that mothers’ emotion skills
significantly moderated the relationship between children’s exposure to conflict and emotional
insecurity, however presumably due to a lack of power, this relationship did not change in
magnitude within the context of a more or less emotionally skilled mother. The pattern was
consistent with father’s skillfulness during anger and fear, which also inversely moderated this
pathway within both internalizing and externalizing models. These findings can be conceptualized
in the context of past work exploring the function of specific parental emotions on children’s
emotional security (Cummings, Goeke-Morey, Papp, & Dukewich, 2002). Previous research has
shown that expressions of fear by either parent during conflict were related to greater emotion
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insecurity, and that children are particularly sensitive to father’s expression of anger in terms of
insecure responding (Cummings et al., 2002; Crockenberg & Langrock, 2001). Our simple
analyses shows that the ways fathers express fear and anger may matter more than other emotions
in terms of children’s sense of felt security. A possible reason for this finding is that fathers may
communicate anger in a more threatening manner; therefore, when they display increased acuity
in navigating that anger—in other words, communicating vulnerability—this would weaken the
Interestingly, our findings revealed that fathers’ skillfulness with positive emotions was
positively associated with the relation between marital conflict and insecurity. As with the
findings above, the lack of power did not allow for a deeper understanding of the directionality of
this relationship in the context of more or less paternal skillfulness. Despite the initial
confounding nature of this result, it is in fact consistent with the literature. Recent studies have
found fathers’ feelings of positivity during conflict to be related to children’s increased feelings of
their own fear (Cummings et al., 2002), and interparental feelings of positivity were shown to not
moderate the link between conflict and feelings of insecurity and threat (Davies, Martin &
Cicchetti, 2012).
These supplementary findings ultimately suggest that exploring parental emotion skills
during specific emotions may be a fruitful avenue for future work. This is important given that
past work has revealed inconsistencies in the influence of parent’s negative emotional expression
on children’s emotional development, and this could be perhaps due to the lack of clarification
and distinction across different types of negative emotions (Halberstadt, Crisp, & Eaton, 1999) or
complement a trend in the literature exploring the differential pathways between fathers’
emotionality within the marital relationship and child outcomes. This work has long-term
implications, particularly given studies demonstrating that how fathers parent their children—and
the quality of the father-child relationship—is strongly influenced by the emotional quality of the
marital relationship (Cummings, Goeke-Morey & Raymond, 2004; Kouros, Papp, Goeke-Morey
Our findings have significant clinical implications for intervention and prevention work.
Minuchin (1985) conceptualized the marital relationship as the “executive subsystem” within the
family. Given the temporal precedence of the marital relationship, our findings point to marriage
emotional security. Many interventions address children’s emotional and behavioral problems by
directing parenting behaviors (Kazdin, 2008; Hood & Eyberg, 2003; Shepard & Dickstein, 2009).
However, the present study reveals the importance of addressing the emotional quality within the
parent’s marriage itself, and identifies a compelling point of entry for treatment in how parents
communicate emotion with one another during marital conflict. This is valuable, as established
research has shown that children learn how to communicate emotion by the direct observation of
parents, and in turn, by the emotional quality of the marital relationship (Morris et al., 2007;
Cummings et al., 2013; Gottman et al.,1997; Carrère & Bowie, 2012). Our exploratory findings
also suggest possible differential significance of fathers’ emotional skillfulness. This is relevant as
few parenting interventions single out fathers for treatment; indeed, our findings may point to the
future research. First, our sample was relatively homogenous, racially and socioeconomically. It
will be important to investigate samples that are more diverse, both ethnically and
socioeconomically, and varied in family structure. Our sample was comprised of intact,
heterosexual, two-parent family systems. Therefore, future projects should explore same-sex
couples and non-traditional family arrangements, including other types of primary caregivers,
such as grandparents and stepparents. In addition, a larger sample size would address issues of
power especially with regard to supplementary analyses. Further, the inclusion of internalizing
and externalizing symptoms, as well as both mother and father data within the same model, would
allow the model to consider the dyadic influence of both parents together. Moreover, internalizing
and externalizing symptom variables were derived from broadband parent report measures, which
have been shown to be susceptible to source bias (Grych & Fincham, 1990). Future studies should
symptoms—in order to obtain greater precision in symptomology. It is possible that the range of
emotion experienced during the constructive marital conflict task was restricted due to the
laboratory setting, and may not have allowed for certain types of emotion, such as sadness. While
dyadic interaction tasks are the gold standard in marital research, studies have shown that these
tasks can offer only snapshot of an individual’s range of emotion (Roberts, Tsai & Coan, 2007).
Moreover, participants in marital interaction tasks may have a tendency to sidestep more difficult
topics due to personal discomfort (Roberts et al., 2007). Additionally, we did not include parent-
child interactions or coparenting measures in this study, so we cannot rule out the influence of
parenting on our variables. This is important given that recent studies have demonstrated the
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reciprocal bidirectional relationship between the marital and coparenting relationships,
underscoring the importance of considering this construct when examining the link between the
marital relationship and child well-being (Morrill et al., 2010; Feinberg, 2002). Emotional
skillfulness has been conceptualized in the literature as a global composite score; however, it may
be useful to explore the different composites of this variable in order to gain specific insight
regarding the primary mechanisms of influence, especially vulnerability. Moreover, in the current
study, parental emotion skills were derived from observation of a marital conflict task that was
self-reported as constructive. This may have complicated our findings for a couple of reasons.
First, the conflict interaction may have resulted in a less negative interaction overall due to the
nature of the conflict task completed in the lab. Future studies should explore the role of parental
emotion skills during more destructive conflict tasks, as these interactions may incite more
negative emotionality. Secondly, there is some conceptual overlap between the construct of
emotional skillfulness and the construct of constructive marital conflict—both include problem
solving, humor, affection, and apology behaviors. Future studies should tease apart these
conceptual overlaps.
In sum, the results of the current study were consistent with our contention that parents’
conflict weakened the effect of marital conflict on children’s risk of emotional insecurity two
years later. Our study extends beyond work focusing on aspects of parental emotionality during
conflict that threaten children’s security by revealing that the more skillful parents are in their
emotional expression with one another during conflict reduces the risk of this conflict having an
adverse impact on children’s later emotional insecurity. Ultimately, the current study provides
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evidence to target interventions aimed at the emotional communication in the marriage in order to
Using a soft approach when outlining conflict issue or when communicating frustration to
one’s partner. How careful is this person being with his/her partner’s feelings? Is the
person trying to soften the impact of what he/she is saying? To what degree is the person
taking into account the partner’s feelings as they deliver the message? Soft behaviors may
involve expressing support and validation, sharing humor, showing caring and understanding,
showing trust and acceptance of the partner and offering reassurance. May also offer positive
feedback to partner before outlining conflict / frustration.
1= no soft approach at all; Shows no sign that s/he is being careful with partner’s feelings. issue is
described in total anger; uses only hard emotions. Strongly criticizes partner, high
frustration level.
2 = minimal soft approach; Mostly being careless with partner’s feeling, but may make one or
two vague attempts to soften the message..
3 = Moderate use of soft approach comments. A somewhat equal mix of carelessness and
carefulness.
4 = Considerable amount of soft approach. More careful than not, with some moments of
carelessness.
5 = Extensive soft approach. The conflict issue or frustration is expressed softly and in a non-
threatening manner. Expresses needs, desires and/or genuine hurt. Tries his/her best to be
understood without threatening partner.
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2. Benign Control in Receipt or “Sentiment Override”:
To what degree does the person stay engaged, open, and receptive to his/her partner’s
message? How open is this person to hearing his/her partner’s complaint? At its best, this
has a quality of leaning in rather than away (or attacking) and being open to being
influenced by the partner’s complaint/hurt feeling. Responding positively or neutrally to
expressions of frustration or criticism by your partner. Positive or neutral behaviors include
validation, apology, sympathy, support, and empathy, offers of reassurance, active/attentive
listening, showing caring and understanding, humor, showing trust and acceptance and clarifying
the situation. Note that almost all partners, even the best of them, start out being defensive. The
real distinction here appears to be between those that get stuck rejecting their partner’s message
and those that eventually open up and validate their partner’s point of view. The emotion skill
involved here is managing your negative reaction to being complained about in the service of
attending to your partner’s well-being.
1= Not willing to “hear out” partner, not accepting partner’s view / criticism, rejecting,
brushing off. Completely defensive or counter-complaining.
2 = Mostly unreceptive with maybe one or two vague attempts to stay receptive.
3 = Shows a mix of openness to hearing what the partner is saying and defensiveness/counter-
complaining.
4 = The bulk of the response is characterized by staying open and engaged with only a moderate
amount of defensiveness or counter-criticism. Sees other partner’s point of view; accepts
speaker’s right to have a criticism or be frustrated.
5 = Although maybe initially defensive and/or counter-criticizing, the overall arch of the
conversation is toward hearing the partner, taking his/her issue seriously and remaining
productively engaged.
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3. Aggression Control / Clean Anger:
Clean anger = mad, but not attacking, degrading, or swearing. In general, the anger is
directed at the partner’s behavior or events, and is not directed at who the partner is as a
person (i.e., I’m mad that you forgot our anniversary; versus you are an inconsiderate
selfish idiot). The emotion skill involved here is being able to express anger in a way that in
conducive to the long term health of the relationship. Aggression includes statements that put
down the partner, or that place blame on the partner. The comments may involve attributes or
character traits in general or may include negative judgments about the partner in the form of
global accusations, insults, charges as well as nasty personal remarks.
1 = speaker has no mercy for the partner; all hell breaks loose; maybe screaming, personal or
character attacks, extensive statements conveying that the partner is obviously wrong and
deserving of his/her punishment and criticism. Very poor or no aggression control. Dirty
anger.
2 = Mostly mean, personal, or hurtful expressions of anger, maybe one or two vague attempts to
express clean anger.
3 = an equal mix of attempts to express clean anger and more destructive expressions of anger.
4 = More often than not expresses his/her anger in constructive ways, with some slips into more
problematic anger displays.
5 = The bulk of the anger is displayed as clean anger. This still allows for some imperfection, but
the for the most part someone getting this code is very skillful with their expression of anger.
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4. Fostering We-ness or “Eliciting Positive Emotions”:
Both verbal and nonverbal efforts to maintain and sustain a sense of positive connection
with the partner. This can be summarized as ways of communicating that “even though
we’re talking about something difficult, we are still okay. Mostly this in done by smiling at
the partner a various points during the interaction or interspersing the conversation with
positive comments or comments intended to lighten the mood. Complimenting or showing
appreciation of the partner, being attentive, reinforcing a connection in the context of a negative
situation, complimenting the strengths of the relationship, making optimistic statements about the
stability of the relationship or using humor or other behaviors to elicit positive affect from the
other partner. Subtle checking-in; non-verbal gestures, such as eye contact, physical contact,
smiling, etc. *Function of this behavior is to foster and maintain positive connection
between the two partners and reestablish a sense of we-ness between them.* It is important
to separate fostering “true” we-ness from the overall interaction style. Do not give high
scores if the partners are just going through the motions and using we/us in statements.
You want to get the sense that they care about their partner.
1 = There is virtually no evidence that the partner is actively attending to the quality of the
emotional connection between them.
2 = One or two vague attempts to foster connection or may respond in vaguely positive way to the
other partner’s attempts to foster connection.
4 = The partner makes several attempts to foster we-ness and actively tend to the quality of the
emotional connection between them. Not as good as the best we’ve seen but close.
5 = People scored as a 5 should be examples of the best that we are likely to see in terms of
consistently and attentively tending to the quality of the emotional connection between partners.
This should be a realistically achievable standard, not an ideal.
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5. Displaying Positive Emotions:
Reflects the extent to which partners are speaking in a warm tone of voice, smiling; laughing with
each other; praising each other; showing affection and are having enthusiasm about what the other
partner is saying and general enjoyment of each other. Quality of the capacity to do positive
emotions; how comfortable is the partner in expressing positive emotions such as happiness,
love, affection, joy, contentment, etc?
1 = Not at all characteristic. The person shows virtually no positive emotions either because he or
she is only showing negative emotions or because he or she just generally seems uncomfortable
with positive emotional expression.
2 = Minimally characteristic. This rating should be given to partners who show infrequent or
weak signs of positive affect. The intensity and frequency of behavioral indicators of positive
affect are both low.
3 = Moderately characteristic. This rating should be given to partners who show moderate signs
of positive affect.
4 = Moderately high characteristic. This rating should be given to partners who show a good deal
of positive affect. Displays of positive affect are genuine and the partners clearly seem to
enjoy one another. However, there is less of a relaxed quality than for the couples who score
as a 5.
5 = Very characteristic. This rating should be given to partners who are easily and naturally
positive, in terms of facial and vocal expressiveness and behavior. Affect is positive and
spontaneous. The partners are clearly enjoying being together and discussing the area of
disagreement. The partners are relaxed and comfortable with each other.
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6. Displaying Soft Negative Emotions:
Reflects the extent to which partners are clear in communicating soft negative emotions,
vulnerable-making emotions. The negative affect displayed includes sadness, anxiety, despair
and fear. Not anger, but hurt. This is a measure of how comfortable the person is being with
and communicating soft emotions.
1 = Not at all characteristic. This rating should be given if the partner displays only hostile or
angry affect or virtually no affect at all. Virtually no expressions of affect that call for a caring
and compassionate response.
2 = Minimally characteristic. This rating should be given if the partners display minimal
amounts of soft negative emotions (e.g. sadness, anxiety, fear). Partners are either
disengaged or uninvolved, or the interaction is characterized by overt hostility/anger.
3 = Moderately characteristic. This rating should be given to partners who moderately display
clear communication of soft negative affect (e.g., sadness, anxiety, fear). Partners may express
some overtly hostile negative affect. Negative, angry facial expressions or a harsh tone of voice
may be present but not more so than expressions of soft emotions.
4 = Moderately high characteristic. This rating should be given if the partners appears fairly
comfortable with soft emotional expression. There may be one or two slips harder emotional
expressions, but they are clearly in the minority.
5 = Highly characteristic. This rating should be given to partners who are clearly quite
comfortable expressing SOFT negative emotions (e.g., sadness, fear) and do not mask those
emotions with hard emotions or emotional disengagement.
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7. Awareness of Feeling States:
Look for all speech contributions, emotion language, which mention a positive or negative
feeling, and directly reveals the past, present or future affective experience of the speaker. (do
not include manners of speech, such as “I feel like….”). This code is mostly focused on the
use of emotion words. This rating is conceptualized as the partner’s skillfulness at
identifying and communicating their emotions. Feeling statements are coded when the speaker
describes the feeling being communicated, the situation in which the feeling occurs, or the
problem to which the feeling refers. The feeling may be expressed by using a feeling word or by
describing the feeling. This category also includes conditional feelings and negation of feelings.
Purely physical sensations and stable affective personality traits (e.g. a jovial person) are not
included, nor, in general, are preferences, wants or needs. To what extent can the partner use
emotion words? If the person can only talk about his/her partners emotions and not his/her own
emotions, then the score should be lower.
2 = Partner will occasionally make reference to his/her own emotions in response to an event or
issue. Generally presents as having poor emotion awareness, and as being unskilled at
communicating feelings to partner.
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8. Perspective Taking:
The code is more cognitive (thinking) than emotional and measures the degree to which the
partner can place him or herself in the partner’s shoes. The cognitive ability to see things from the
other partner’s point of view, or “putting oneself in the other partner’s shoes;” not mind reading.
This includes a statement which validates and demonstrates understanding of past, present or
future feelings, attitudes, beliefs, sensations, and/or motives of the partner. It may also include a
summary statement of the other partner’s perspective, either past or present. Understands
partner’s perspective, and expresses interest in clarifying the situations by listening to
where partner is “coming from.” It is NOT a matter of simply agreeing (‘yes-ing’) with
partner, need to see ability to adopt partner’s view (or at least try it on for size).
1 = no perspective taking behaviors, partner never indicates that he / she acknowledges the other
partner’s view during the interaction.
2 = 1 or 2 perspective taking behaviors, partner only indicates that he / she is able to see the other
partner’s point of view once or twice during the interaction.
4 = considerable perspective-taking behavior, partner sees the other partner’s point of view
more often than not.
5 = partner consistently sees the other partner’s point of view throughout the interaction. Give a 5
to those partners that realistically represent the best that we are likely to see.
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9. Empathic Concern:
This is a more emotional code than perspective taking and characterized by indicators that the
person is resonating emotionally with the partner’s emotional experience. The tendency to
experience feelings of sympathy and compassion for one’s partner. This code measures partners’
ability to listen to their partner and communicate that they are listening in an empathic, non-
judgmental way.
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10. Emotional Inhibition:
This rating reflects the extent to which partners appear emotionally uninvolved or disengaged and
unaware of their emotional experiences and each other’s needs; a conscious effort to suppress
emotional feelings. Partners may exhibit behaviors of emotional avoidance, withdrawal,
stuffing of their emotional experience or emotional constipation. Emotionally flat or over-
controlled. Consistently displaying flat affect or blocking emotional expression while discussing
a distressing topic. Partners who interact with their spouse consistently but in a perfunctory or
indifferent manner; with little or no emotional involvement, or with flat affect would be rated as
high on emotional inhibition.
1 = Absence of emotional inhibition. This rating should be given to partners who display clear
expression of their emotional experience and indicate no signs of detachment or indifference.
Their interactions show clear involvement with each other and lack behaviors of emotional
avoidance, withdrawal, stuffing or constipation.
2 = Minimal emotional inhibition. This rating should be given to partners who display for the
majority of their problem-solving interaction clear expression of their emotions with almost no
signs of detachment or under-involvement. The majority of their conversation consists of clear
interactions with their partner, and they only rarely exhibit behaviors of emotional avoidance,
withdrawal, stuffing or constipation. This rating should be given to partners who display minimal
detachment from their emotional experience.
3. = Moderate emotional inhibition. This rating should be given to partners who display moderate
detachment from their emotional experience. These partners are sometimes emotionally
uninvolved or occasionally display over regulation of their affect and are also sometime
emotionally involved and display clear expressions of their emotional experience.
4. = Considerable emotional inhibition. This rating should be given to partners who are
predominately detached from or overly regulating their emotional experience. The partners are
predominately avoiding their affective experience, but there may be some few displays of genuine
emotion.
5. = Extensive emotional inhibition. This rating should be given to partners who are so detached
from their affect or overly regulating their emotional experience that it is worrisome. When the
partner does interact during the conversation, the behavior appears mechanical and perfunctory.
The partners are clearly not emotionally involved with each other and appear to be “just going
through the motions” (or extremely withdrawn). Partners are consistently exhibiting behaviors
of emotional avoidance, withdrawal, stuffing of their emotional experience or emotional
constipation.
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11. Defensiveness in Response to Partner’s Issue:
A defensive response to partner’s criticism consists of one in which the speaker avoids
acknowledging and accepting responsibility for causing a past or present problem, accepting
criticism of behavior or making an apologetic statement. Defensive behavior may consist of
justification of one’s own actions with regard to certain incidents to show that s/he has behaved
properly. In other words, the partner thinks his/her behavior is all right and then attempts to
justify it. Defensiveness may also involve denying personal responsibility for the entire problem
or for specific parts, placing it on the other person, or explicitly using society as an excuse for not
being responsible. Defensiveness may consist of an intellectual response to partner’s criticism
that involves deviating from the topic at hand, changing the subject, or going off on a tangent.
Intellectualization may also consist of offering a statement of qualified agreement or apology that
provides a rationale or explanation without any expression of affect. Lastly, partners may offer a
brief verbal response to criticism that consists of the partner withdrawing emotionally or
disengaging emotionally, such as offering a statement expressing the desire not to talk about a
specific issue at that time. Rate “sneaky defensiveness” = seemingly tolerant, but sneaks out
“I’m sorry BUT I don’t agree” higher on the scale when it characterizes most of response.
5 = There is extensive defensiveness. Partner is consistently not putting up with the criticism;
may refuse to make an apology or repair the interaction after the spouse’s criticism. Partner
continually insists that s/he is right, gives reasons for why s/he is right about what s/he said or did;
partner insists on his/her point of view or may counter criticize his/her spouse.
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12. Vulnerable Self-Disclosure:
Vulnerable self-disclosure is defined as verbal behavior that risks punishment by the other
partner. A partner can be vulnerable through self-disclosure of feelings or information that his
partner may punish him/her for revealing. Behaviors identified as vulnerable include self-
disclosure, confiding, nervous humor, putting one’s self down, expressing hurt, sadness, love,
pain disappointment, grief, loneliness, insecurity, shame or fear. These behaviors are soft
expressions that reveal the partner’s vulnerability in the relationship and run the risk of being
suppressed or punished. When one partner expresses his/her hurt in an angry, hostile, or
accusatory way, then s/he is much less vulnerable than a partner who expresses his/her hurt in a
soft and genuinely vulnerable way. The reason that angry expressions of hurt are less vulnerable
than soft emotions is because the angry speaker hides his vulnerability and is already putting up
defenses.
2 = some vulnerability. May be expressing area of disagreement in angry way, but is talking
about the disagreement; opening up somewhat to partner, but not much; nervous humor; may
be expressing disagreement in a neutral way (or choose a trivial non-threatening issue), just
doing the exercise without much effort or use of soft emotions, not much risk of punishment.
3 = Starting to use soft emotions, moderate risk of punishment. Showing hurt, disappointment;
feels sad about being disagreement; showing insight into what bothered him/her. Several
comments that indicate speaker’s vulnerability.
5 = Extensive vulnerability. Very emotionally open, open to being vulnerable, may involve
crying or close to it. Introspective, talking about underlying hopes/dreams, genuine hurt. Greater
intimacy. “I love you” is a vulnerable comment.
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APPENDIX B: Figures
Note: Standardized path coefficients reported. Non-significant paths indicated by dotted line. *p < .05, ** p <.01
Fit Indices: χ2 (77) = 131.140 p <.001; χ2 = 1.70; CFI = .95; RMSEA = .05
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FIGURE 2. RESULTS OF FATHERS EMOTION SKILLS AS THE MODERATOR OF THE
INDIRECT EFFECT OF MARITAL CONFLICT ON CHILDREN’S EXTERNALIZING
PROBLEMS THROUGH EMOTIONAL SECURITY
Note: Standardized path coefficients reported. Non-significant paths indicated by dotted line. *p < .05, ** p <.01
Fit Indices: χ2 (77) = 150.074 p <.001; χ2 = 1.95; CFI = .92; RMSEA = .06
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FIGURE 3. RESULTS OF MOTHER EMOTION SKILLS AS THE MODERATOR OF THE
INDIRECT EFFECT OF MARITAL CONFLICT ON CHILDREN’S INTERNALIZING
PROBLEMS THROUGH EMOTIONAL SECURITY
Note: Standardized path coefficients reported. Non-significant paths indicated by dotted line. *p < .05, ** p <.01
Fit Indices: χ2 (77) = 173.600 p <.001; χ2 = 2.26; CFI = .88; RMSEA = .07
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FIGURE 4. RESULTS OF FATHER EMOTION SKILLS AS THE MODERATOR OF THE
INDIRECT EFFECT OF MARITAL CONFLICT ON CHILDREN’S INTERNALIZING
PROBLEMS THROUGH EMOTIONAL SECURITY
Note: Standardized path coefficients reported. Non-significant paths indicated by dotted line. *p < .05, ** p <.01
Fit Indices: χ2 (77) = 196.908 p <.001; χ2 = 2.56; CFI = .84; RMSEA = .07
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APPENDIX C: Tables
Measure M SD Range
Time 1
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Time 3
Note: M=Mother-report; F=Father report; C= Child report. OPS= O’Leary Porter Scale; CES-D = Center for
Epidemiological Studies Depression Scale; SIMS/SIS = Security in the Interparental Subsystems Scale; CBCL= Child
Behavior Checklist.
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TABLE 2: FIT INDICES FOR MODERATED MEDIATION MODELS
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TABLE 3: RESULTS OF MODERATED MEDIATION MODELS
Emotional
Marital Conflict
Moderation Insecurity à
Model à Emotional
Effect Child
Insecurity
Adjustment
β β β
Model 1: Moderated Mediation Mother
-.18* .32** .24**
Emotion Skills on Child Externalizing
Model 1a: Low Moderated Mediation -.22** .44** .28**
Model 1b: High Moderated Mediation -.18* .25* .24*
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TABLE 4: SUPPLEMENTARY ANAYLSES: RESULTS OF FATHER EMOTION
MODERATED MEDIATION MODELS
Emotional
Marital Conflict
Moderation Insecurity à
Model à Emotional
Effect Child
Insecurity
Adjustment
β β β
Model 6: Moderated Mediation Father
Emotion Skills during Anger on Child -.44* .32** .14
Externalizing
Model 6a: Low Moderated Mediation -.29** .32** .17*
Model 6b: High Moderated Mediation -.18* .32* .15
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TABLE 5: SUPPLEMENTARY ANALYSES: RESULTS OF MOTHER EMOTION
MODERATED MEDIATION MODELS
Emotional
Marital Conflict
Moderation Insecurity à
Model à Emotional
Effect Child
Insecurity
Adjustment
β β β
Model 12: Moderated Mediation Mother
Emotion Skills during Anger in Child -.28* .32** .41**
Internalizing Model
Model 12a: Low Moderated Mediation -.41** .32** .40**
Model 12b: High Moderated Mediation -.02 .38* .55*
NOTE: * p<.05, ** p< .01
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TABLE 6: FIT INDICES FOR SUPPLEMENTARY ANALYSES
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