RELATIONSHIP TOOLS

WHAT WE SHARE

Our relationships give us an opportunity to grow with another person, share activities together, and develop deep
loving connections. There are times when we forget the things we have in common with a partner. These are
opportunities to remember our shared interests and qualities: common ground over which to bond. These are also
practical things we can do with a partner to enjoy ourselves. Relationships take work, including having fun together,
and learning about our shared interests and goals. These are opportunities to grow together.

Instructions. Complete this exercise with your partner(s) together to complete one worksheet. You may have to
come to an agreement on some of the topics, and this may take some discussion or probing.

MOVIES, MUSIC, OR BOOKS WE BOTH LIKE: PLACES WE WOULD LIKE TO VACATION TOGETHER:

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3. 3.

AS A COUPLE, WE’RE GOOD AT: AS A COUPLE, OUR WEAKNESSES ARE:

1. 1.

2. 2.

3. 3.

THINGS IN LIFE WHICH ARE IMPORTANT TO US: GOALS WE HAVE FOR OUR FUTURE:

1. 1.

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3. 3.

Created by Brian Konik, MSW, RSW | Therapist & Social Worker | 2016
http://www.briankonik.com