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The 7 A’s

Building Relationships
That Transform
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A1
of TEENS consider their
parents . . .
their sexual role
models.”
University of Montreal Study A3
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REVEALED THAT 32% OF TEENS RELIED
ON THE GUIDANCE OF FRIENDS.

Only 15% cared


what celebrities
thought.

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A4
“PARENTS ARE THE MOST
IMPORTANT ROLE MODELS FOR
TEENS.”

Jean-Yves Frappier
Professor of Pediatrics at the University of Montreal and
President of Canadian Pediatric Society
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A5
“PARENTS need to stay involved in their
kid’s lives even if they
perceive their TEENS would prefer they
get lost.”

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- Jean-Yves Frappier A6
78% of PARENTS believe
their kids looked to
for guidance on
sexual behavior.
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Studies show that
of TEENS who look to
their PARENTS for
guidance
on sexual health…

… fewer are
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BOYS

TEENS consider
their parents as role models regarding sexual
activity.
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A9
BOYS

TEENS consider their parents as role


models regarding sexual activity.
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A9a
“The more
is discussed...

the less TEENS


are sexually active.”
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A13
Affirmation
“ Rejoice with those who
rejoice, weep with those who
weep.”
(Romans 12:15 ESV)
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A14
Affirmation
“When others are
happy, be happy
with them...”

(Romans 12:15 NLT)


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Affirmation
“...If they are
sad, share their
sorrow.”

(Romans 12:15 NLT)


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A16
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A17
Acceptance
“So accept each other
just as Christ has
accepted you; then
God will be glorified.”
(Romans 15:7 NLT) A19
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A20
Appreciation
“Significance is the feeling or
thought that you’ve
‘done’ or ‘said’
something worthwhile.”
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A20a
Appreciation
“And a voice from heaven said,
‘This is my beloved Son, and
I am fully pleased with him.”
(Matthew 3:17 NLT)

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Appreciation
“ I can live two
months on a
compliment.”

Mark Twain
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A22
Appreciation

“The sweetest
of all sounds is
praise.”
Xenophon A23
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A24
Availability
“Some parents brought their
children to Jesus so he could
lay His hands on them and
pray for them.
But the disciples scolded the
parents for bothering Him.”
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A25
Availability
…But Jesus said, ‘Let the children
come to me.
Don’t stop them!
For the Kingdom of Heaven belongs
to such as these.’
(Matthew 19:13-14 NLT)
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A25a
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A27
AFFECTION
“I COMMAND you to
LOVE each other
in the same
way that
I love you.”
(John 15:12 NLT)
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AFFECTION
express affection

2.Express

physical affection
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A29
THEIR WORLD

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A30
Approach
their world

“Love does not demand its own


way. Love is not irritable,
and it keeps no record
of when it has been wronged.”
(I Corinthians 13:5 NLT) A31
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A32
Accountability
“Yes, each of us will have
to give a personal
account to God.”
(Romans 14:12 NLT)

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if their parents scored high on
and
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3X More Drunk Teens

“So-called ‘ ’parents
– low on accountability &
high on warmth
– nearly TRIPLED the risk of their teens
participating in heavy drinking.”
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A37
3X More Drunk Teens

‘ parents’
– high on accountability & low on warmth
– more than DOUBLED their teen’s risk of
heavy drinking.”
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A38
“Without adult guidance,
their natural desire for
connectedness and an equally
natural interest in sex
will often lead to
bad decisions.”

(Bush ‘89)
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A39

whose parents set and
enforced were
LIKELY
TO WEAR
SEAT BELTS…
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And likely to:

GET IN
AND DRIVE
USE
WHILE DRIVING.”
Pediatrics September 2009
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A43
“…the most effective parents were
those researchers call
‘ .’

They set firm rules but explain and


enforce them in a warm,
supportive way.”
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A44
“…Parents who
set no rules
fail to enforce them
or rule with a
‘because I said so’
iron grip
are less effective.”
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A45
“…a strong connection
with parents and feeling
connected and successful
at school are the

that….
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A46
…protect the
of young teens who have not
had sexual intercourse
and who will delay
first sex until much later.”

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A47
“…it is impossible
for them to make
judgment decisions
until their

when their brains


are finally mature.”
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A48
“Adolescent brains can be
positively molded by
STRUCTURE,
GUIDANCE, and
DISCIPLINE
provided by CARING
PARENTS and other
adults.” A49
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“…majority of teens who
talked to their parents
about sex
rely on their parents rather
than peers
for information
about sex.”
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A50
“Until an individual reaches his
mid-twenties, he is not fully
equipped to make the most mature
behavioral decisions.”

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A51
“…studies clearly show that parental
involvement has a definite impact on a
young person’s behavior choices
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A52
“…studies show who
keep
make a huge difference.”
American Academy
of Pediatrics

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A55
“Teenagers enter unsafe situations
not because they are drawn to
dangerous or risky situations,
but rather because they aren’t informed
enough about the odds of he
consequences of their actions.”
Agnieszka Tumula, Ph.D.
New York University A56
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“ do a lot more
than make sure a child
has food and shelter.”

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A89a
“They play a CRITICAL ROLE
in brain development.”
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A89b

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