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CCHU9088 We are Family:
Myths, Realities and the Future
of an Idea
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Notice
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“We’re likely living through the
most rapid change in family
structure in human history. The
causes are economic, cultural,
and institutional all at once.”
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In We are Family, we define the family as a
symbolic construct with a history and politics
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L01 Review
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A successful marriage
requires falling in love many
times, always with the same
person.
Mignon McLaughlin
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Marriage is a wonderful
institution, but who wants to
live in an institution?
Groucho Marx
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Marriage:
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Why marriage and family?
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01: Why get married? Marriage myths versus realities
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Marriage functions
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“[S]ince the dawn of civilization, getting in-laws
has been one of marriage’s most important
functions.”
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“Never before in history had societies thought that
such a set of high expectations about marriage was
either realistic or desirable. Although many Europeans
and Americans found tremendous joy in building their
relationships around these values, the adoption of
these unprecedented goals for marriage had
unanticipated and revolutionary consequences that
have since come to threaten the stability of the entire
institution.”
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In 2011, Stephanie Coontz
explained in PBS why
fewer Americans were
getting married
As discussed, marriage
rates could vary across
social classes and
educational levels
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“We expect more of marriage than ever before,
both as an emotional partnership and an
economic partnership.”
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So much is at stake in
marriage…
The commodification
of marriage (e.g. a
white, extravagant
wedding) How marriage might
amplify family
dynamics (e.g.
conventions,
tensions)
➡ The pressure to perform
marriage
➡ Marriage, like family, is a
social construct that can be
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Variants for marriage persist in performing
marriage…
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Nominal marriage (形式上的
結婚/ 形婚):
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Sham marriage/ fake marriage (假
結婚):
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Bride kidnapping (搶婚):
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Ghost marriage (冥婚):
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In 2016, police in north-west China
charged a man with murdering two
women, alleging that he wanted to
sell their corpses to be used in
“ghost weddings”
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Arranged marriage (包辦婚姻):
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Are Arranged Marriages
Outdated (2021) – a YouTube
debate on Middle Ground
India shows how divided the
Indian public is towards
arranged marriage
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Walking marriage (走婚):
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The historical and contemporary variants of marriage
show how many individuals are torn between
‘tradition’ and ‘progress’
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In 2016, Germaine Greer,
highly controversial Australian
feminist who wrote The
Female Eunuch (1970),
argued in the Oxford Union
Society debate that marriage
is not necessary for family
anymore
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Outcomes
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Debate
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CiC pre-
course survey
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