DISARM

AND DIVORCE SPIRITUAL SPOUSES IN 3 DAYS

Exposing, disarming and divorcing a spiritual husband or wife in just 3 days

By
©Pastor Hlompho Phamodi
Copyright 2015
hlomph@hotmail.com

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Dear Friend,

I want to thank you for downloading this e-book.

Spiritual spouses also known as spirit wife or husband subject is very personal
and deep spiritual matter that is hidden from many Christian today. God says in
His word in Isaiah 5:13-14

Therefore my people have gone into captivity, because they have no
knowledge. Their honorable men are famished, and the multitude dried up
with thirst. Therefore Sheol has enlarged itself and opened its mouth beyond
measure. Their glory and their multitude and their pomp. And he, who is
jubilant, shall descend into it.

This is what ignorance has cost so many, it has cost them their eternal life, and I
pray that you will not be one of them. God said of His own people, ‘they perish
for lack of knowledge’ (Hosea 4:6). That is not the heart of our Father to hide
knowledge from you and me. That’s why He has given us His word and His
Spirit. Refuse to be ignorant. Knowledge belongs to the seeker. You qualify for
knowledge if you seek for it. The bible teaches us to ask, seek and knock in
Matthew 7:7 you cannot get anyway by ignorance or sitting down. You have to
be a teachable person who is eager to learn and to know more. Proverbs 18:15
says Intelligent people are always ready to learn. Their ears are open for
knowledge (NLT). The devil cannot harvest Gods people, we need to stand up,
be equipped and be knowledgeable and use the weapons at our disposal for
victory. Jesus died for our freedom.
Declare this prayer out load;

Hell fire shall not harvest my life in Jesus name.

God promises in Isaiah 49: 25-26: Yes the captives will be taken from the
warriors, and plunder retrieved from the fierce; I will contend with those who
contend with you, and your children will I save.
I will feed those who oppress you with their own flesh, and they shall be drunk
with their own blood, as with sweet wine. All flesh shall know that I the Lord
am your savior, and your Redeemer the mighty one of Jacob.
Stand on this word, God will fight for you, He will deliver you.






























CONTENTS
ABOUT THE BOOK
ABOUT THE AUTHOR
DEDICATION & ACKNOWLEDGEMENT
FASTING AND PRAYER INSTRUCTIONS
CHAPTER 1
DAY 1
WHAT ARE SPIRITUAL SPOUSES?
DAY 1 CLEANSING & PREPARATION
EVINING PRAYER: TAKE COMMUNION
MIDNIGHT PRAYER POINTS DAY 1
CHAPTER 2
DAY 2
HOW THEY OPERATE?
THEIR ENTRY POINTS
SIGNS OF THEIR OPERATION IN YOUR LIFE
TYPES OF SPIRITUAL SPOUSES
RENUNCIATION PRAYERS DAY 2
MIDNIGHT PRAYER POINTS DAY 2
CHAPTER 3
DAY 3
CHARACTERISTIC OF SPIRIT WIFE/HUSBAND
MIDNIGHT PRAYER POINTS DAY 3










ABOUT THE BOOK

ARE YOU BORN AGAIN AND YET STILL EXPERIENCE THE
FOLLOWING:
1.
Sexual relationships in dreams

Swimming or seeing a river in the dream

Hatred of marriage or your husband/wife

Difficulty in getting married

Difficulty in having children

Menstrual cycle problems

Having a miscarriage after a sexual dreams

Impotence/ loss of sexual drive for man

Financial lack and failure at edge of breakthrough

Inability to maintain a holy lifestyle

Unexplainable problems, delays and failures in life

I am happy to announce to you that as of today your life will never be same
again. This is the day of your deliverance! Spiritual spouses are evil and have no
part in your life. The Lord has helped me to put together this powerful fasting
and prayer book to expose, disarm and divorce the power of the spiritual spouse
over your life. Contracts are binding in the spirit realm, but thanks to the blood
of Jesus they can be destroyed. This might have not been your fault but could
have been passed on to you through your parents or forefathers. You might be
saved and wondering why am’ I having such dreams? The Lord is going to
deliver you as you acquire knowledge and put the devil right where he belongs,
under your feet. Be blessed as you read, fast and pray.



 ABOUT THE AUTHOR

Pastor Hlompho Phamodi is a born again, chosen vessel of God, a general and a
commander in the Kingdom of God, an anointed man of God who is called to
proclaim and demonstrate the Word of God. He is called to pastor, coach and
equip the saints in the area of Deliverance, Healing and Spiritual warfare. His
preaching’s and writings are backed up with signs and wonders to deliver, to
heal and set free the captives. He is a man under submission to spiritual
authority; he serves under the apostolic covering of Apostle M Oliphant at His
Grace Family Church in Cape Town. He is a married to ‘Makarabo Phamodi and
lives in Cape Town South Africa.


















DEDICATION & ACKNOWLEDGEMENT

Firstly I will love to dedicate this work to the Most Important Person on this
planet and in my life, the Holy Spirit Himself, without Him I can do nothing.
Without His fire in my life this are just mere words.

This book is nothing but proof that with God all things are possible. Since
accepting Jesus Christ there has been many great mentors and people that God
has used and I will love to thank God for every person who contributed to my
spiritual life. I am a product of their prayers and service.

To my precious wife ‘Makarabo Phamodi, your love and prayers continue to
inspire me to do more. I am grateful to the Lord for a suitable helper, may God
richly bless you.

I have been blessed to have a wonderful spiritual father Apostle Oliphant and
mother Mama Oliphant I want to give God all the glory for giving me such
parents. The apostolic covering upon my life through my spiritual father has
brought so much favor and blessings in my life. This book is an example of what
God can do when you meet your helpers of destiny.

To my amazing parents Mr. and Mrs. (Bishop). Phamodi (Senior), who continue
to pray for me I give God all the glory for keeping you faithful to end.

To my family in the Lord from His Grace family Church, and Fill the Gap
ministries back in Lesotho I bless the Lord for my parents Archbishop M
Kolisang and Mama Bishop Kolisang from Fill the Gap Ministries in Lesotho; I
am a product of their prayers and teachings.

To countless sons and daughters of the Most High God all over the world who
believe that Jesus has come to set the captives free. May your faith grow from
strength to strength.








FASTING AND PRAYER INSTRUCTIONS

Take note of the following before you start:
THIS IS A DANIEL FAST OF VEGETABLES/ FRUIT,
WATER AND JUICE FAST FOR THREE DAYS.

PRAYERS WILL BE DONE AT MIDNIGHT AS DESCRIBED
IN EACH CHAPTER.

PREPARE YOURSELF SPIRITUALY, EMOTIONALY AND
PHYSICALY BY EATING LESS FOOD AT LEAST TWO TO
THREE DAYS BEFORE THE FAST.

IF POSSIBLE MAKE SURE THAT YOUR PASTOR,
SPIRUTUAL LEADERS OR FAMILY AND PRAYER
PARTNERS ARE AWARE OF YOUR PLANS TO FAST.

FASTING IS A SPIRITUAL WARFARE AND THE DEVIL
WILL TRY TO STOP YOU, IF YOU FAIL ALONG THE
WAY,PLEASE DON’T QUIT JUST RESUME AND KEEP
PRAYING ALL THE WAY TO THREE DAYS.

BE LED BY THE HOLY SPIRIT AS YOU FAST (HE MIGHT
REQUIRE YOU TO DO MORE OR LESS BASED ON YOUR
CIRCUMSTANCES; SO BE FREE THIS IS ONLY A GUIDE).

DEMONS CAN COME OUT BY VOMITING; SO HAVE A
BUCKET READY AND IF YOU CAN, HAVE SOMEONE
AROUND.

PRAY AGGRESSIVELY.

Remember I am praying daily for you and the Lord is going to come through for
you. Never give up even if you experience a setback. I have heard people who
received deliverance and had a great attack afterwards, some almost gave up, but
remember the enemy is stubborn and you need to maintain your ground so keep
picking yourself up. The secret lies with a lifestyle of prayer, especially the
midnight prayer. As you pray cover your loved ones too and use this material to
pray for them too. Read your Bible daily and ask the Lord to give you a fresh
start.

If you are not born-again or you are born again but have fallen along the
way; please accept Jesus Christ as your Lord and savior now before you go
any further. Pray these words out loud; ‘Lord Jesus forgive me of my sins, I
confess with my mouth that Jesus Christ is Lord and believe in my heart that
God raised Him from the dead, I accept you Jesus, come and live in my heart. In
Jesus name I pray. Amen.’

If you are already born again, depart from any form of sin, live a holy life,
be in submission to God and spiritual authority and let God do the rest.

May you experience Him like never before. I am praying daily for you and I
believe God will always come through. Expect a breakthrough. Our email and
contacts are at the beginning of this book. Looking forward to hear from you.

At your service.

Pastor Hlompho Phamodi
His Grace Family Church, Cape Town October 2015








CHAPTER 1
DAY 1
WHAT ARE SPIRITUAL SPOUSES?

Spiritual spouses are; strategically designed by Satan to destroy, trouble and
scatter good and godly homes. They are assigned to destroy the institution
of marriage or to prevent it from even happening. They are demonic spirits
from the marine kingdom who marry and sexually bind people and
ultimately destroy them through sexual dreams.
John 10:10(a) is their assignment. To kill, steal and destroy. They use sex in the
dream to form soul and spiritual ties with their victims and once they sleep
with you, you are one with them unless you break that tie. The devil knows
scripture and understand that whoever sleeps with a harlot becomes one with
them (1Cor 6:16). They attack both Christians and unsaved. They are illegal
disembodied spirits that are not allowed to sleep with human beings; they
originated in the Old Testament, I will discuss this shortly. They are very
stubborn spirits to get rid of. But the name of Jesus has all power. Often people
who have spiritual spouses are ashamed to talk about it as it involves sexual
relations in their sleep.

They are also known as succubus (which means to lie under, Latin origin)
and incubus (which means nightmare, Latin origin)

Succubus/ spiritual wife: is a female demon believed to have sexual intercourse
with sleeping men.
Incubus / spiritual husband: is a male demon believed to have sexual
intercourse with sleeping women.

It is a believed however that this spirit is one spirit but can take different forms
to sleep with either male or female.

These demons are believed to be an offspring of Nephilim (which means rejects
or Fallen angels) From Gen 6: 4; There were giants (Nephilim) on the earth in
those days and also afterwards-when the sons of God went to the daughters of
men and had children by them. They were the heroes of old, men of renown.
This was an evil, illegal seed that God was not pleased with, Hence verse 6, the
saddest verse in the Bible ‘ And the Lord was sorry that he had made man on
the earth, and he was grieved in His heart.’ But Noah found grace in the eyes
of the Lord. God decided to destroy this evil seed and all evil men on the face of
the earth by a flood. So we all know the story the flood destroyed everything
except Noah and his family and all that was in the ark. But this spirits did not
die. They continued their mission by sleeping with human beings in their sleep
to promote their agenda. We hear of Nephilim later in the scriptures, when
Moses sent spies to spy on the land of Canaan they saw these giants, descendants
of Anak of which Goliath was one of them. So we can see that they did not cease
to exist. They kept on pushing their agenda until today; they are operating as
spiritual spouses. They sleep with man to collect their sperm and changes
into a woman to deposit the sperm into her as they sleep with her, as to
produce more of themselves.
We have heard reports of demonic pregnancies, peoples wombs tied or closed
and people who sleep with this spirits to be possessed by them. This spirits are
cruel and the Church needs to expose them.

Statistics have shown that 70% Christians are believed to have had a
spiritual spouse encounter in their life. So you can see that the devil is
targeting the Church. Due to the level of holiness that is so compromised in
this last days, this spirits have access and as much as we are the Bride of
Christ, but open doors give this spirits a right into a believer’s life.

I remember a story of a lady who was Christian who fantasist a lot about a
brother in the church. It didn’t take long she started to see the brother appear in
her dreams. She had invited the spiritual husband who took a face of a brother
in church. Not long. She found her life trapped, not being able to marry.

I know people who have been married and divorced because of these spirits,
once these demon owns you, it devourers you and make your life miserable.
Even your finances, possessions belongs to it. But you belong to God; you are
the temple of the Holy Spirit of the Living God and therefore do not entertain
these spirits. Get rid of them. During this Fast and prayer close every door as
the Spirit leads you. It’s time to have victory.



AND YOU SAY HOW CAN SPIRITS HAVE SEX WITH HUMANS AND
WHY ARE THEY CALLED HUSBAND OR WIFE?

The reason is simple; the devil is a copycat. Even as Christ was born by the
Holy Spirit who came upon Mary. The devil or these spirits can illegally
come upon and lie with humans in their sleep.
The agenda is to destroy the seed of the woman, whom the devil was told in
Genesis that her seed (woman) shall bruise his head (devil),
(Gen 3:15) So the devil has been trying since to corrupt the seed of a woman
through these evil spirits ever since.
A lot of people don’t want to believe that’s these spirits exist, since there is no
exact verse that clearly states them, but there are there. Spiritual spouses are in
the Bible and this is how they originated.
DAY 1 CLEANSING & PREPARATION

Before you start praying, confess and repent of all sin according to 1John 1:9; if
we confess our sins He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse
us from all unrighteousness.

Confession: Psalm 18:50 Great deliverance giveth He to His king and showeth
mercy to His anointed, to ……………………………… (put your name here), and
to my seed forevermore. (Emphasis added)
EVINING PRAYER: TAKE COMMUNION

Spend time in praise and worship before the Lord (5 to 10 minutes). If possible
take communion and declare your covenant rights as the child of God.
I immerse myself in the Blood of Jesus Christ: I saturate my spirit,
conscience, intuition and worship.
I saturate my soul; mind, will and emotions in the Blood of Jesus.
I saturate my five senses in the Blood of Jesus.
I saturate my physical body, brain, physical appetite and sexual organs
and womb in the Blood of Jesus.
I cover my doorposts and possessions with the Blood of Jesus Christ.
(Ex 12:130)
I sprinkle the blood of Jesus over my life and receive multiple grace
and peace.
(1 Peter 1:2)
I have boldness to enter the throne of grace through the blood of Jesus
Christ.
(Heb 10:19)
I have been redeemed through the blood of Jesus Christ and I am
redeemed from the power of evil. ( Eph 1:7) I rebuke and cast out all
spirits of torment and fear because I have peace through the Blood of
Jesus Christ. ( Col 1:20) I receive the benefits of the New Covenant
through the Blood of Jesus Christ.
(1Peter 2:24)
I receive healing and deliverance through the Blood of Jesus. ( Isa
54:4) The Blood of Jesus cleanses me from all sin. ( 1John 1:7) I
release the voice of the Blood of Jesus against demons and evil spirits
that would want to accuse me and condemn me, in the name of Jesus. (
Heb 12:24) Every evil handwriting against my life, be wiped away by
the Blood of Jesus.
(Col 2:14).
I cover my dreams and mind with the Blood of Jesus.
MIDNIGHT PRAYER POINTS DAY 1

MAKE THESE DECLARATIONS OUT LOAD AND PRAY THEM ONE
BY ONE
(1-5 MINUTES EACH PRAYER ITEM/REMEMBER TO PRAY
AGRESSIVELY) 1. Father Lord, l thank you for revealing this deep secret to
me, in Jesus name.
2. Blood of Jesus, Fire of God cover my life now in Jesus name.
3. Family evil spouses, release my destiny now by fire, in the name of Jesus.
4. Powers sleeping with me in the night, today crumble in Jesus name.
5. I now divorce every spiritual spouse now in Jesus name.
6. Today I break every power of evil marriages and dedications operating in
my life, in Jesus name.
7. Holy Ghost Fire, now consume and destroy every wedding ring, certificate,
garment, and children l had with spirit spouse, in Jesus name.
(Repeat this prayer several times until you sense a breakthrough)
8. Angels of deliverance fight for me today, in Jesus name.
9. Anything binding me with spirit wife/husband I command you, be destroyed
in Jesus name.
10. Spiritual wife/husband, troubling my marriage be buried alive now! in Jesus
name.
11. O God every open door in my life be closed now in Jesus name
(mention any doors open, renounce and repent now).
12. I declare my earthly spouse is delivered and these spirits have no access in
my family.
13. I recover every good thing stolen by the spiritual spouses, in Jesus name.
14. I give thanks and celebrate my deliverance in Jesus name.
CHAPTER 2
DAY 2
HOW THEY OPERATE?
In Matthew 13:25, the Bible says; "But while men slept, his enemy came and
sowed tares among the wheat, and went his way." The most dangerous part of
your day is when you lie down to sleep. That is when the enemy does the most
damage to the majority of people. A dream where you see yourself sleeping or
having sex with someone else is not from God. This someone can take a face
of anyone, in most cases it’s a face of someone you fantasy about, or admire it
can be anyone, your pastor or your neighbor. What is important to mention here
is that this dream when it comes you won’t see a demon saying here I am to
sleep with you, no! The enemy is too clever for that so he uses a face or human
body.
BUT WHAT GIVES THE DEVIL A RIGHT TO SLEEP WITH ME?
In some instances, I have found that these spirits have entered in through open
doors such as masturbation, generational curses, fantasy lust, demonic
manipulation etc. I will discuss this part more in details. What you need to
understand is that Christians cannot be possessed by demons, but they can
be attacked, oppressed or obsessed by demons, the more ignorant they are
the more the devil can take advantage of them. It’s true that one can have this
dream while born again and if they know who they are they can wake up pray
and destroy the attack. So that’s where we want to get you. To a place where you
can be free, even if the attacks come it has no power over you because you are
free and you know who you are. There is deliverance available for you, it’s your
responsibility to close every door that the enemy can use and I want you to pray
these prayers now:
Lord every open door that the enemy is using to molest my life, be
closed now in Jesus name.
Every fantasy lust, evil habits, generational curses that are a
doorway for demons to harass me I close them know with the blood of
Jesus.
I renounce every sin, iniquity from my parents that gives the devil a
right to torment me.
THEIR ENTRY POINTS

1. They can enter through sexual immorality; Sexual sin is one of the most
effective ways that the enemy is using to destroy lives, a sexually immoral
person is a big open door for demons to operate through. Do not allow the devil
to trick you in this area, seek deliverance today in Jesus name.

2. They can enter through pornography; the eye gate is effectively used by
the enemy to lure man into lust. Pornographic pictures are demonic and having
almost 60% of internet sites filled with porn it’s so easy to get these demons
through to men. Its time to guard your eye gate. Make a covenant today weather
man/woman not to look at lustfully at the opposite sex
3. Spirit wife/husband can be inherited; Generational spiritual spouse is a
spiritual spouse that owns the family. This spirit is popular amongst women who
cannot get married in the family. You find that every marriage in that family is
blocked or if at all someone gets married they don’t last. It’s a curse and demons
use curses and legal binding contracts to tie people and families. You can be
saved but as long as you don’t break or destroy the marriage certificate that your
grandmother/ grandfather had with a spiritual spouse, you will struggle and not
get a breakthrough. Take time if you are not married to pray this powerful
prayer: Lord every covenant or marriage certificates that bind my blood line
to a spiritual spouse I call down the fire of God to destroy them now in Jesus
name.( PRAY FERVENTLY)
4. They can enter through rape; the enemy can use rapists to deposit a
spiritual spouse. Any sexual encounter outside of marriage is sin and can be an
open door for the enemy to use. If you sleep with anyone you inherit all the
demons that are in them and those they have collected from sleeping around. So
deliverance and healing is needed for all victims of rape or sexual abuse.

5. They can enter through evil dedication; a new born or even mature adult
can be initiated into a spiritual marriage. Be careful of places you go, what you
listen to, friends that surround you. We hear stories of how people are recruited
into these relationships through receiving of gifts from strangers. I always advise
people to pray over everything that they do, places they go to and relationships
you they have. Most people are married ignorantly to spiritual spouses. I know
movies that are used by the devil to initiate people even children into spiritual
spouse’s dedications. Be watchful at all-time especially over your children.
6. Through tattooing and piercing; most tattoos are demonic and are used as
contact points, the devil will use anything even an earring on your tongue or
private part to bind you. Born again Children of God are not to have any of these
in their bodies.
SIGNS OF THEIR OPERATION IN YOUR LIFE

They cause late marriage or no marriage at all; the main agenda of
a spiritual spouse is to own you, so these spirits will make sure that you
struggle to get married. I know people who we have prayed for, who had
several engagements cancelled because they were married in the spirit.
Until we dealt with the spiritual marriage there was no breakthrough.

Rejection by opposite sex; is the opposite sex finding you unattractive
or you can’t seem to get their attention. The enemy can use an evil veil
on ones face that makes them unfavorable. If this veil is upon your life
you can’t progress because everywhere you go people dislike you and no
matter how beautiful you are, or handsome you can’t find anyone to
marry you.

Constant sex in the dream; this is one obvious sign that you are
being recruited into marriage, as I said this is not of God and must be
dealt with. Sometimes the enemy deletes this dream in the mind of the
victim. Whenever you seem to forget about your dreams and sometimes
wake up with a funny feeling as if you were compromised sexually, it’s
time to pray and God will expose the devil.

I was counselling a woman the other day, who seem to struggle with
remembering her dreams, the devil uses this method to keep his victims
bound, after we prayed she saw a clear dream of what had actually
happened in the past, she saw a man who was familiar face, well known
and rich man propose to her for marriage in the dream, she was amazed
by the proposal and attended a celebration where she was intended to be
married to this spirit disguised in a face of this well-known man. Thanks
be to God she managed to resist the sexual intercourse that this man
wanted, and she managed to speak her way out of the trap. All that you
need in a dream is consciousness of who you are in Christ, and today in
the name of Jesus I declare you will not be unconscious of the enemy, you
will stand up and rebuke the spirit in the dream in Jesus name.

Pray out Loud:
Lord I refuse to be a playground for spiritual spouses; today I
command them to be exposed and to not manipulate my mind in
 Jesus name.

Marital troubles and lack of sex in marriage; if you are married but
you can’t enjoy your spouse or you find yourself argue over nothing,
fight a lot and feel like you are trapped in your marriage, then that is a
sign of the spiritual spouse. Any displeasure to sleep with your husband
or wife can be a sign that there is a third member involved.

Miscarriages after sex in the dream; you were supposed to conceive
and suddenly you miscarry it can be medically explained, but these sprits
are after your womb, demons are homeless or disembodied spirits
looking for a habitation. And will do whatever it takes to occupy your
womb. Women have been reported to have carried snakes and had their
wombs tied by demons not to have children. Pray out loud:

Every spirit assigned to cause miscarriage in my life I
command judgment Fire upon it now in Jesus name.

Inability to make love to your wife; men who can’t get it up, they
simply can’t get an erection. It can be that, they are bewitched or the
spirit spouse can tie their male sex organs so that they can’t enjoy sex
with their wives. But when this spirit comes or another woman except
their wife they can have an erection and normal sex. Remember this
spirits promotes fornication and sex outside of marriage. A man can
enjoy sex elsewhere but when he is supposed to sleep with his wife,
he has no erection or interest in sex.

Serious pain when about to make love; for a married woman, if
you feel unbearable pain before or during intercourse with your
partner it can be not a good sign. Seek deliverance today.

All decision to stay single; any strong desire not get married is not
natural, no matter your past, seek healing and deliverance in this area.
Marriage is a blessing from God, and yes we not all supposed to get
married but if it’s your desire or has been your desire to get married,
it’s probably from God. Do not quit, God can still sent you the right
partner. Make sure you pray about it and get completely free should
there be a presence of a spiritual spouse.

 Missing your menstrual period in the dream; menstrual cycle is
very important for women, should you notice any signs of
abnormality or dreams of missing your cycle, don’t dismiss the sign.

Having prolonged pregnancy; witches are popular for fighting
pregnancies or the unborn babies. This can lead to many serious
medical conditions.

Physical disappearance of marriage ring; have you lost your
ring for no reason, rings are a symbol of a covenant you have with
your spouse, it however provokes and annoys this spirits, if they have
access in your life they will try anything to frustrate you.

When one is pregnant in the dream; you perhaps see yourself
with a baby in a dream or literally pregnant, yet you are single that
can be a sign of these spirits.

Inability to conceive; no matter how you try you can’t have
babies. Your womb is closed and occupied by this spirit.

Fake pregnancies; you have been to the doctor and they can’t
confirm that you are pregnant, they scan your womb and see nothing,
but you have all the symptoms of a pregnant person, sometimes even
the stomach looks bigger. This is due to a spiritual spouse deposit in
the womb. I personally heard of a case where a sister in Christ had
children before marriage, but as soon as she got married and was
ready to have children then she had this case. Its demonic must be
dealt with.

Having evil or bad body odor; demons are nasty and if left
unchecked can make your life a living hell, a bad odor is demonic and
should not be accepted.

Constant wet dreams; you keep seeing yourself having wet
dreams over and over.

Wedding in the dream; you see literally a ceremony where you
get married in the dream.

 Inability to maintain holy life; your life is filled with lustful
thoughts, you constantly thinking about sex and often aroused.

Feeling tired every morning; you wake up feeling like you have
been somewhere.

There is so many other ways the devil can be exposed, these signs are not the
alpha and omega but are a guidelines, remember a dream from God carries with
it peace and Gods presence, while a dream from the devil is evil and unpleasant.
So watch your dreams pray over them, no matter how insignificant they can be.
Ask God to rule in your dreams.

TYPES OF SPIRITUAL SPOUSES

1. Hidden spiritual spouse; This are people who don’t know they have
a spouse in the spirit, as soon as they finish dreaming the demon
deletes the dream in their minds. Have you ever dreamed and you
woke up having forgotten what you dreamed; pray about it, it is not
normal. This is a very dangerous place to be because you are not
sure what’s going on, but in the name of Jesus every hidden dream
will be exposed tonight in Jesus name.

2. Camouflaged spirit spouse; this is a spirit spouse that uses
someone’s face to trick you into sex in a dream. This person can be
innocent and know nothing about your experience. The realm of
fantasy is demonic and can often lead into these kind of dream, so
it’s important to not entertain fantasy thoughts, even if you are
engaged to be married to someone, you are not permitted to fantasy
about having sex with them until you are married. Your mind
controls your world. You are in control of your mind so use it for the
glory of God.

3. Manifest spirit spouse; this spouse is literally a man or a woman. A
woman once visited a pastor for counselling and immediately started
to have dreams about this pastor. She reports as seeing the pastor
appearing in her dreams to sleep with her and telling her that he
swims inside of her every night. It didn’t take long the lady actually
started an affair with the same pastor, she was married and her
marriage collapsed suddenly. She ended up bound to this ungodly
man day and night, only to find out that he wasn’t really a pastor but
was a Satanist. So people can have real human beings spirit spouses.
Satanist can astral project and sleep with people in their dreams. In
Africa there are stories of ‘tokoloshe’ (a dwarf-like water spirit
manifest as a man) is known to rape and molest woman. This spirit
also acts as a spouse.

4. Generational spirit spouse; through parents these spirits can be
passed on to the next generation. In most African countries these
spirits are acknowledged and worshiped, they are the gods over
families and own those families; no matter who gets born they are
 initiated and married to this demon from birth.

5. Territorial Spirit spouse; places have been reported of being owned
by these strongman, every woman in that village is married to this
one spirit spouse and in most cases this women are very immoral or
filled with prostitution.
RENUNCIATION PRAYERS DAY 2

I resign my involvement in any way from spiritual spouse altars. I
withdraw any part of my body and blood deposited on these altars in
Jesus name.
I withdraw my pictures, images and inner man from the altars in the
sea and covens of evil association in Jesus name.
I purge myself of all evil sperm in my system from evil associations.
I break all inherited covenants with marine spirits.
I renounce and divorce a spiritual husband/wife, I declare I am no
longer yours, I belong to Christ and I break my covenant with you now in
Jesus name.
I break any soul ties with marine friends or associations.
I claim back from Satan and all the marine kingdom, my earthly
belongings in the custody of the spirit husband/wife.
MIDNIGHT PRAYER POINTS DAY 2

MAKE THESE DECLARATIONS OUT LOAD AND PRAY THEM ONE
BY ONE
(1-5 MINUTES EACH PRAYER ITEM/REMEMBER TO PRAY
AGRESSIVELY)

1. Spirit husband/ wife today I command you, let me LOOSE BY
FIRE, in the name of Jesus.
2. Spirit husband/wife, I DIVORSE you now by the POWER OF THE
BLOOD OF JESUS.
3. Every spirit wife/ husband I command you to DIE AND NEVER
RISE AGAIN, in the name of Jesus.
4. EVERYTHING you have deposited in my life, today let it come out
now by fire, in the name of Jesus.
5. Every ASSEMBLY that is working against my marriage, now be
destroyed, in the name of Jesus.
6. I divorce and renounce my marriage with the spirit husband or wife,
today in the name of Jesus.
7. I break all covenants today entered into by MYSELF OR FAMILY
with the spirit husband or wife, in the name of Jesus.
8. Fire of God now to burn to ashes THE WEDDING GOWN, RING,
PHOTOGRAPHS AND ALL OTHER MATERIALS USED
FOR MY MARRIAGE with spirit spouse, in Jesus’ name.
9. Fire of God to burn to ashes now! EVERY MARRIAGE
CERTIFICATE, in the name of Jesus.
10. I DESTROY now every BLOOD AND SOUL-TIE with
the spirit husband/ wife, in the name of Jesus.
11. Fire of God now burn to ashes the CHILDREN
BORN TO THIS MARRIAGE,THEY ARE ILLEGAL in Jesus’
name.
12. I WITHDRAW NOW MY BLOOD, SPERM OR ANY
OTHER PART OF MY BODY deposited on the altar of the spirit
husband or wife, in Jesus name.
13. You spirit husband/ wife harassing my life I BIND YOU
IN JESUS NAME AND CAST YOU OUT OF MY LIFE INTO
THE DEEP PIT OF HELL, and I command you not to ever come
into my life again, in the name of Jesus.
 14. I return now to you, EVERY PROPERTY OF YOURS
IN MY POSSESSION in the spirit world, including the dowry and
whatsoever was used for the marriage and covenants, in the name of
Jesus.
15. I NOW DRAIN/ FLUSH MYSELF WITH THE BLOOD
OF JESUS of all evil materials deposited in my body as a result of
our sexual relation, in Jesus’ name.
16. Lord, NOW SEND HOLY GHOST FIRE INTO MY
ROOT AND BURN OUT ALL UNCLEAN THINGS deposited in it
by the spirit husband or wife, in the name of Jesus.
17. I BREAK AND CRUSH every head of the snake,
deposited into my body by the spirit husband /wife to do me harm,
and command it to come out, in the name of Jesus.
18. I FLUSH OUT NOW, WITH THE BLOOD OF JESUS,
EVERY EVIL MATERIAL/ POISON/ SNAKE deposited in my
womb to prevent me from having children on earth.
19. Lord, PLEASE REPAIR AND RESTORE EVERY
DAMAGE done to any part of my body and my earthly marriage by
the spirit husband /wife, in the name of Jesus.
20. I NOW REJECT AND CANCEL EVERY
GENERATIONAL CURSE, EVIL PRONOUNCEMENT AND
INCANTATION place upon me by the spirit husband or wife, in the
name of Jesus.
21. I GIVE THANKS for my Deliverance in Jesus name.












CHAPTER 3
DAY 3
CHARACTERISTIC OF SPIRIT WIFE/HUSBAND

In conclusion today you are going to level the ground; every spirit that has laid
claim over you will depart forever. It was never your spirit spouse in the first
place, so begin to change even your language. I thank God who gives us triumph
in Christ Jesus. Let’s speak a little about the character and nature of these
spirits.

They are very stubborn demons to get rid of; as you might
have noticed this is one area where you really have to fight hard.
Sexual ties are powerful and its only persistent prayers that will
help. It is neither by might, nor by power but it’s by the Spirit of
the Lord. With man it is impossible, but with God all things are
possible.

They are enemies of Gods people; spirit spouses amongst
many things hates Gods children and seems to target them the
most, they know that’s the only gate they can use if given
permission by their victim to destroy godly marriages, or prevent
marriage because the devil hates marriage, joy and peace in
relationships.

They are no respecter of person; it doesn’t matter your race,
color, age or position you have they are after you. They are not
spirits for certain peoples group they are all over the world.

They can win you with physical gifts; be careful of gifts that
come your way, many strong men of God have been destroyed
because of this. Pray over everything, develop a habit of
depending on God and not man.

Hardly do they miss their target; due to their careful study
and understanding of their victim they can strike and win if you
are not aware of them. Sex is a human need and involves two
people that are married to be in unity and agreement. So if you are
married know each other well, especially sexually, don’t deprive
each other. Understand your spouse’s strengths and weaknesses
 and don’t allow the enemy in between you. Don’t give the devil
room in your sexuality.

They may disguise by a familiar face; in most cases they will
use the face of the person you know. As I already mentioned be
careful of fantasy lust, any man or woman that you are not
married to have no business occupying your mind.

They empower lust and immorality; they are behind all the
pornography and lustful culture that is promoted on our T.V’s and
internet. They are behind the media, together with the marine
kingdom they control fashion and entertainment and pollute
society with lust.

They use sex or prostitutes to get their targets; he who
sleeps with a harlot is one with the harlot. Most prostitutes are
from the kingdom of darkness and are used a lot to destroy lives.

Their main channel is through dreams; but they can also
enter through the mind and other open doors such as ears, eyes,
mouth, sexual organs.

They are very jealous; they hate to be shared that’s why they
will try to separate you with your earthy spouse or make sure you
don’t get married.

They can cause disaster on the day of your wedding; if left
unchecked they will cause disaster on your weeding day, things
will just go out of hand. Everyone planning to get married needs
deliverance and counselling in this area.

MIDNIGHT PRAYER POINTS DAY 3

MAKE THESE DECLARATIONS OUT LOAD AND PRAY THEM ONE
BY ONE
(1-5 MINUTES EACH PRAYER ITEM/REMEMBER TO PRAY
AGGRESSIVELY)

THIS IS YOUR NIGHT OF TOTALLY DISARMING AND DIVORSING
THIS SPIRIT. PRAY WITH ALL YOUR HEART.

1. Everything, programmed into the sun, moon and stars against me
today, be dismantled, in Jesus name.
2. Every evil thing programmed into my LOINS (SEXUAL ORGANS)
now I command you be blotted out by the blood of Jesus.
3. O Lord, NOW REMOVE Seasons of failure from my life.
4. I overthrow every SPIRITUAL SPOUSE NOW, working against my
life, in the name of Jesus.
5. I DECLARE a new season IN MY LIFE in Jesus’ name.
6. I speak destruction now unto the MARINE KINDOM, the queen of
the coast and of the rivers, in Jesus’ name.
7. I speak destruction and shame unto the headquarters of the
spirit of LUST and DESTROY their altars, in the name of Jesus.
8. Today I speak DEATH unto the altars, speaking against the purpose
of God for my life, in Jesus’ name.
9. I declare myself a SPIRITUALVIRGIN right now for the Lord, in
Jesus’ name.
10. Let every evil veil upon my life/ UPON MY FACE now
I command you be torn open, in Jesus’ name.
11. Every WALL AND EVIL SPIRIT NOW between me
and the visitation of God be broken, in the name of Jesus.
12. Let the WORD of God prosper in my life, in the name of
Jesus.
13. I destroy now the power of any DEMONIC
SEED/DEPOSIT in my life from the womb, in the name of Jesus.
14. I speak unto my UMBILICAL DOOR now I command
you to over throw all negative parental spirits, in the name of Jesus.
15. I BREAK, DISARM AND DIVORSE the spirit,
having access to my reproductive gates, in the name of Jesus.
 16. O Lord, let your time of refreshing come upon me.
17. I DISARM AND BRING FIRE NOW from the altar of
the Lord upon every evil marriage, in the name of Jesus.
18. I redeem myself by the blood of Jesus from every
SPIRIT SPOUSE TRAP, in the name of Jesus.
19. I ERASE MY NAME Today on any evil marriage
record, in the name of Jesus.
20. I REJECT AND DIVORSE every evil spiritual marriage,
in the name of Jesus.
21. I confess that Jesus is my ONLY HUSBAND NOW and
is jealous over me.
22. I issue TODAY a DOCUMENT OF DIVORSEMENT
NOW AND FOREVER AGAINST spirit wife/husband, in the
name of Jesus.
23. I AM FREE FROM TODAY AND FORVERMORE.
24. I OPEN THE DOOR FOR MY MARRIGE TO BE
BLESSED AND FOR ME TO ENJOY MY LIFE.

May the Holy Ghost uphold you as you stand your ground no matter what, the
Word of God will always win, never give up on God, He will never give up on
you! Now that you are free go and free others.

May the grace of our Lord Jesus, the love of God and the fellowship of the Holy
Spirit be with you now and always in Christ our Lord and Savior name I pray
Amen.







©Pastor Hlompho Phamodi
First Published 2015


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