Our Dear Future Husband Prayer Target:

Day One: The Heart Of A Kingdom Man.

Target Scripture:

“and [I know that] you [who believe] are enduring patiently and are bearing up for My
name’s sake, and that you have not grown weary [of being faithful to the truth]. But I have
this [charge] against you, that you have left your first love [you have lost the depth of love
that you first had for Me].”
Revelation 2:3-4 AMP

Your Future Husband cannot properly love you without properly loving God.

Prayer:

Lord,

In the Name of Jesus, we pray for men everywhere to return back to You. Give them a
desire for the things of God. Purify their hearts. Draw them back to You. Lord, Fill them
with Your Love. Return the Heart of A Kingdom Man, one who will Love Men Like Your
Word says “Husbands, love your wives [seek the highest good for her and surround her with
a caring, unselfish love], just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself up for her,”
Ephesians 5:25 AMP. Fill Them a Love that covers, protects, and provides. The World has
shaped what relationships should be but I pray that You restore the Heart of The Kingdom
Man… in Jesus Christ Name….

Prayer Prompt:
Today I Pray For The Heart of A Kingdom Man for my future husband…..

Feel free to add your prayer below or take out a journal and write out your own prayer.

#PrayerChallenge 7/2021
Dear Future Husband Prayer Challenge
Day Two: His Salvation

Target Scripture:

“If you declare with your mouth, “Jesus is Lord,” and believe in your heart that God raised
him from the dead, you will be saved. For it is with your heart that you believe and is
justified, and it is with your mouth that you profess your faith and are saved.”
Romans 10:9-10 NIV

Salvation is a must for a man to be Kingdom.

Prayer:

Today I pray that God draws you close to Him. I pray that now that your heart is in a place to
receive, I pray that you carry the Confession of Faith in your mouth. I pray that you keep a
repented heart. I thank God that you are a saved, born-again believer. I pray that God
blesses you to boldly declare and share the Love of Christ as a disciple. I can't wait to do life
and ministry with you.

You are a kingdom representative. You are an example of redemption of His Grace. You are
a Man after God’s own heart. You have been justified through salvation. I praise God for
your life. In Jesus Christ Name, Amen.

Journal Prompt:
I praise God for your salvation because...

Feel Free to add or even create your own prayer over your future husband.

#PrayerChallenge 7/2021
Dear Future Husband Prayer
Day 3: Wholeness

Target Scripture:

“When Jesus saw him lie, and knew that he had been now a long time in that case, he saith
unto him, Wilt thou be made whole?”
John 5:6 KJV

Scripture Text: John 5:1-15

Wholeness is necessary for Kingdom Marriages.

Today's prayer is for You and Your Future Husband.

Lord,

Your Word shows us the importance of being Whole. Lord, We thank You for dying for us,
so that we may Live.

Lord, Today You are still asking, Will Thou Be Made Whole? Lord, we pray over the
childhood wounds. Lord, we pray over the hurt of past relationships. Lord, we pray for the
acknowledgment of the lack of wholeness. We pray for our husband to remove all excuses
and get the help that he needs. Lord, help him to boldly come to the Throne of Grace for
acceptance, love, and healing.

We rebuke the torment of his past and pray for peace in his heart, mind, and spirit for his
future. Lord, we pray that even there is not any residue of what 2020 brought to the World.
Lord, give him the courage to seek counseling, if needed. Give him the courage to Trust and
Go through the process of healing. Lord, Make Us Whole. In Jesus Name.

Declaration of Faith:
Today, I am made Whole through Christ Jesus.

Journal Prompt:
I am Whole because

Feel free to continue this prayer for yourself and your husband below or in your personal
journal.

#PrayerChallenge 7/2021
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Day 4: His Seek

Target Scripture: “But first and most importantly seek (aim at, strive after) His kingdom and
His righteousness [His way of doing and being right—the attitude and character of God], and
all these things will be given to you also.”
Matthew 6:33 AMP

Wait On God!

Lord, I pray for the seek of my future husband. Lord, I pray that his mind is placed on things
above. I pray that he seek You first in everything especially in his decision-making process
concerning his future. Lord, bless him to seek your counsel. Lord, place kingdom desires in
his heart. Often, men seek easy pleasure over righteousness. Lord, I pray that he no longer
seek the things of this world but look to You. Help him to find me in You. In Jesus Christ
Name.

Declaration of Faith:
Lord, Help Him to Find God, Find Himself in You, and then find me.

Journal Prompt:
I am Worth the wait because

Feel free to continue this prayer for yourself and your husband below or in your personal
journal.

#PrayerChallenge 7/2021
Dear Future Husband Prayer

Day 5: His Interest

Target Scripture: Finally, believers, whatever is true, whatever is honorable and worthy of
respect, whatever is right and confirmed by God’s word, whatever is pure and wholesome,
whatever is lovely and brings peace, whatever is admirable and of good repute; if there is
any excellence, if there is anything worthy of praise, think continually on these things
[center your mind on them, and implant them in your heart].”
Philippians 4:8 AMP

Lord,

Help my future husband to be spiritual and not carnal. Help him to adopt Kingdom
principles. Lord, let his thoughts remain on You.

Feel free to continue this prayer.

Dear Future Husband Prayer

Day 6: His Desire to be Married

Scripture Text:

“Delight yourself also in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.”
Psalms 37:4 NKJV

So many men feel the same way some of you feel, I don't think marriage is for me.

Lord,
We pray over every man today. We pray for his desire to be married. His desire to find a
wife. His desire to stay faithful to his wife and children. Lord, we pray over their desires...
Help them to delight in you so that his wife can be found.

Please feel free to continue this prayer.

Dear Future Husband,
Day 7: His Strength

Lord,

Lord, we come against every weakness and strengthen every area. Give my husband the
strength to walk away from anything that does not give you Glory. Lord, we declare
Strength to fight against the evil one. Lord, restore areas of depletion.

Scripture Reference:
“Fear not, for I am with you; Be not dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you, Yes, I
will help you, I will uphold you with My righteous right hand.’”

Isaiah 41:10 NKJV

Lord, when He is tired. Even now send Strength! Send Peace! Send Love! Send Joy which is
where His strength lies.

Scripture Reference:
“Then he said to them, “Go your way, eat the fat, drink the sweet, and send portions to
those for whom nothing is prepared; for this day is holy to our Lord. Do not sorrow, for the
joy of the LORD IS OUR STRENGTH.

Lord, give him the strength to pursue me.

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Feel Free to add or even create your prayer over your future husband’s own heart.
Dear Future Husband Prayers
Day 8: Communication

Lord,

Thank you for helping my husband (by faith) to be a good Communicator. Help him to know
how to express his feelings, his faith, and even his fears in a healthy way. Lord, help him to
allow me to have a space for intimate conversation. Lord, help him to stimulate my interest
and intellectual. Lord, help us to communicate even without words. Bless us to trust each
other with our most deepest secrets.

Help him to know how to comfort me with his words. Help him to know what to say when
I’m hurt and sad. Help him to sanctify and cleanse me with the washing of the water by the
Word.
Scripture Reference:

“Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;
That he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word,”
Ephesians 5:25-26 KJV

Lord,
I bind every word curse. I cover the word divorce from the vocabulary of our marriage
even now. I pray over verbal and emotional abuse. I pray over profanity may his words be
words of peace and not harm.

Scripture Reference:
“Let no corrupt communication proceed out of your mouth, but that which is good to the
use of edifying, that it may minister grace unto the hearers.”
Ephesians 4:29 KJV

Lord,
Cover the words that he hears. Let no other woman entice his ears. Cover the words of
those closest to him. Let no one talk him out of the destiny that he has with me. Silence the
voice of the enemy. Give him ears that know Your voice and follow.

Lord,

“Let the words of my mouth, and the meditation of my heart, be acceptable in thy sight, O
Lord, my strength, and my redeemer.”
Psalms 19:14 KJV

In Jesus Name, let every word be established!

Your Wife,

Feel Free to add or even create your own prayer over your future husband’s own heart.
Dear Future Wives,

Each day there will be a Prayer Target.

Use, Add to or come up with your own prayer for YOUR future husband. No one can pray
for him like you can. Even if you're already married, pray that God continues to bless him
and his future.

Psalms 91:1-16 NLT

“Those who live in the shelter of the Most High will find rest in the shadow of the Almighty.
This I declare about the Lord: He alone is my refuge, my place of safety; he is my God, and I
trust him. For he will rescue you from every trap and protect you from deadly disease. He
will cover you with his feathers. He will shelter you with his wings. His faithful promises are
your armor and protection. Do not be afraid of the terrors of the night, nor the arrow that
flies in the day. Do not dread the disease that stalks in darkness, nor the disaster that strikes
at midday. Though a thousand fall at your side, though ten thousand are dying around you,
these evils will not touch you. Just open your eyes, and see how the wicked are punished. If
you make the Lord your refuge, if you make the Most High your shelter, no evil will conquer
you; no plague will come near your home. For he will order his angels to protect you
wherever you go. They will hold you up with their hands so you won’t even hurt your foot
on a stone. You will trample upon lions and cobras; you will crush fierce lions and serpents
under your feet! The Lord says, “I will rescue those who love me. I will protect those who
trust in my name. When they call on me, I will answer; I will be with them in trouble. I will
rescue and honor them. I will reward them with a long life and give them my salvation.”

Pray for God's protection over your husband. We plead The Blood Of Jesus over him right
now. We pray that every foul spirit that comes up against has to flee seven ways. Pray for
God to assign angels to him and cover him everywhere he goes. Protect him from all hurt,
harm, and danger. Pray that wherever he goes, an angel of the Lord has already gone
before. Pray that when the enemy comes in like a flood that it is met by the standard lifted
by God. Pray that Grace and Mercy are following him all the days of his life. Noooooooo
weapon form against your husband shall prosper!!! In Jesus Name.

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Step 1.There are 14 payers for you to pray for your future as a wife for 14 days.

Step 2.We want you as the reader, to read it,

Step 3.Pray it, and

Step 4. Write/or pray it in your own words.

Step 5. Save them in a special box for after you are married and need to be reminded of
what you envisioned for your future as a wife.

DAY 1
Dear Lord, I know that I am your daughter. You are the prefect Father and I could not ask for
a better protector! I know that you have picked out the man that you want me to marry.
You know his name, what he looks like, how he acts, his personality, his past and future
flaws, and you are saving me for him. I know he will not be perfect and I know that I am not
perfect. But I know that you are molding me into the kind of woman that my future husband
needs.

Lord, I ask that you build in me the kind of characteristics that will support my husband and
his ambitions and dreams. Help me to learn how to come alongside of him with a servants
heart and with wisdom in how to be his right hand. I want to encourage bless, serve and
obey my future husband in all matters. Please prepare me and equip me for this task while I
am not yet married Jesus.

Thank you for training me Lord. Help me to accept any change that might take place while
you are creating me to be a future Help-Meet. I love you Lord, Amen.

DAY 2
Dear Lord, help me to cultivate an attitude of humility in my life. Don’t let me ever fall into a
mindset of entitlement. Please help everything I do to flow from a heart of gratitude. I ask
that you would show me how to put my future husband first.

Help me to be free from selfishness in all the relationships in my life, but especially in my
future marriage. Show me how to live with a love like you have. Help me to prepare to
purposefully search out ways to show my husband your sacrificial love. Amen.

DAY 3
Dear God, help me to put my trust in you and wait for you to bring my future husband to me
in your perfect timing. Help me not to be anxious or worried about when that time will be
but to rest and wait on you. Thank you that you have had this man picked out for me before
I was even born. Thank you for making him for me.

Keep my heart pure and safe in your care so that I will be ready to marry him whenever you
choose to bring him along. I love you Jesus. Thank you. Amen
DAY 4
Dear God, thank you so much for everything you’ve provided. Thank you for my family and
friends who have all been so supportive over the years. Thank you for my parents’ (and
future parents-in-laws’) wisdom and teaching.

I ask that you will build on this foundation of wisdom for generations to come. Please give
me wisdom in (together with my future husband) establishing our house.

Please grant me discernment and understanding for the many opportunities and challenges
ahead. Please help me to teach my children wisdom, not only through my words, but also
through my actions.Thank you so much for promising to give us wisdom when we seek it.
Amen.

DAY 5
Lord Jesus, sometimes I feel so inadequate and unready to be a bride. I think of marriage as
a vast and distant lifestyle that I’ve never before trod. I am scared of what might or might
not happen. Give me faith Jesus. Help me to trust that you will work all things together for
good. While I am single and waiting please train and prepare me for the challenges ahead.
Help me to learn in Wisdom and Love. Give me the strength that my husband will need from
me.

I know that marriage is a beautiful covenant between my future husband and You and I.
Please show me areas in which I can grow before I am married. Help me to learn submission
and honor, humility and grace, respect and admiration, love and selflessness. Gift me with
the amount of time needed to learn each of these qualities so that I will be ready to bless
my future beloved.

Thank you for your patient training Jesus. Thank you for the opportunity to fall in love with
the man you have chosen to be my husband. Bless our future together as man and wife. I
love you Lord! Amen.

DAY 6
Lord, please teach me to be an encourager. Let me always build up others and never tear
them down. Give me a desire to encourage my husband. Give me words of wisdom and
peace to build him up with. Help me to encourage his dreams and plans.

Let us work as a team to build great things for your kingdom. Teach me not to fall into the
pattern of criticism or negativity. Help my word to draw my future husband closer to you.
Help me to encourage him to walk in Your ways in all things. Amen!
DAY 7
Dear Jesus, please help me to be prepared to go with my future husband and to follow
without worry or questioning to wherever you may lead him and whatever you may have
him to do.

Whether he’s a rancher, a pastor, a soldier, a missionary or anything else you choose for him
to do, please prepare me to be a godly help-meet for him so that I can and encourage, and
bless him as he follows wherever you may lead him. Thank you Jesus, Amen.

DAY 8
Dear God, I pray that you will give me patience and an attitude of grace. Please help me
overlook offenses and respond graciously to conflict. Please help me to develop this pattern
now rather than later. When others are bothering me, when situations are bothering me,
and when I am even bothering myself, please remind me to take it all to you. Please remind
me to talk with you first before confronting things.

Grant me discernment and understanding for the situations I don’t know how to confront.
Thank you so much for the grace you’ve shown me, and for being the perfect model of
forgiveness and love. Please help me to keep my focus always on you. Amen.

DAY 9
Dear Lord, I want to unconditionally love my husband, with a full heart! I want to be his best
friend, his helpful assistant, his endearing wife, and his adoring fan. I wish that everyday
would be like spending a day in heaven on earth. I wish the honeymoon would last till we
were old and frail. And I wish that our love for one another would not age and shrivel as our
bodies do, but that it would stay young and passionate.

But Lord, I know that these are only wishes. I know that in marriage, just as in life, there will
be struggles to face, battles to overcome, and tests that will need to be passed. I pray that
you would strengthen my faith while I am young, Jesus. Equip me with the armor needed to
go to battle and to have victory! Bless me with patience and endurance, Lord. I know that
you will be by my side no matter what. When a trial comes to disrupt our marriage I pray
that you would give me the understanding and wisdom that it will take to bear through it.

Thank you for teaching me Lord. Give me a spirit of humility and teach-ability as I prepare
for a lifelong relationship with the husband you have chosen for me. I love you Lord! Amen.

DAY 10
Lord Jesus, I want to be a Titus 2 and Proverbs 31 homemaker for my future husband. I want
him to be able to walk in the door of our little home after a hard day of work and be blessed
and comforted by the simple pleasures that come from me being a keeper of the home!

Help me to learn how to budget our money wisely, to cook and clean well, to teach our
children and bring them up in the ways of the Lord, to garden, to bake, to manage the
household and support my husband and his business. Help me to learn and practice these
things at home, before I am married, so that I am prepared to bless and serve my husband
after my wedding. Thank you for your word and scriptures that lovingly guide me in the
ways to be a good help-meet. Amen.

DAY 11
Father, please help me to start developing healthy habits in every area of my life. Help me
to physically develop good eating, exercising, and grooming habits. Teach me how to create
time habits that will carry over to help my future husband. Help me to work when I should
work, but also generate good habits of rest and recreation.

Let me devote constant time to prayer and Bible study so that I can grow in your grace.
Show me the areas of my life that lack self-control, and then purge them from me. Let any
bad habits or selfish lifestyle patterns be removed from me.

Help me to learn how to help my future husband order our whole life to meet your priorities
and not the priorities of the world. Let me exhibit moderation and self control in every area
of my life so that I can best serve you and help my husband. Amen!

DAY 12
Lord Jesus, when I say “I do,” at my wedding I know that I am committing to a life of
reverence and respect for my husband. Help me to recognize my husband as the leading
role model in my life. Help me choose words that will only encourage him and enrich him in
his walk with you, Lord.

Help me not feel that I will be leading an independent lifestyle after I am married but that I
am to come under and a long side the leadership that you have given my husband as the
head of our family. Help me to love and honor him, Jesus. I pray that we would always find
time together as a couple, to read and pray. Let us be grounded in your Word as a married
couple ought.

Thank you for giving us a model of the marriage union in your Word that we can follow and
strive to exemplify. I love you, Lord! Amen.

DAY 13
Dear Jesus, please help me to love my future husband my whole life long unselfishly and
unconditionally. May I honor and respect, bless and encourage him, and be in love only with
him. May he always be my prince and my hero in my eyes.

Please help our marriage to be strong and for both of us to stay focused on worshiping and
loving you. Even when things get hard or difficult in life please don’t let me ever give up on
my marriage to him but to see it through and trust you. I love you Jesus. Amen.
DAY 14
Lord Jesus, I pray that you would bless my future marriage with strength. Make us strong
against the popular culture that has consumed the 21st century. Help my husband and I to
be strong enough to say “no” to the world and “yes” to eternity in heaven with You! I pray
that You would bless us with a wild love for one another so that we could face the world
together.

Help us be a model of the Ephesians 5 marriage. Help us be good examples to our children
so that they might want to do the same in their marriage and carry on the torch of un-
defiled marriage union into the future generation. Let us love you and no other, Jesus.

I pray that as a future wife, I would have a desire to love you more than anyone, Lord.
Ground me in Your Word of Truth and help me to fix my eyes on you. Give me a pure heart,
a devoted mind, and a quiet soul. Teach me how to honor and submit to my husband in all
areas of life. Thank you, Jesus! I love you. Amen.