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Agustin Portillo
Psychology, SDSU
Kathleen Lang
When trying to convey and/or express some type of message or feeling to another person
there exist other ways than just verbal communication so the message can have a stronger
meaning and be more trustful. In order for this to happen it is important for the sender, or in other
terms, the person who starts the communication to have good nonverbal communication.
According to Riggio R. (2017), these other than verbal or even written messages are facial
expressions, appearance, eye contact, touch, voice tone, environment, space, territory, and
kinesics. Some people might say or think that they find it difficult to be able to express these
types of nonverbal messages because they don’t notice, they don’t pay attention, or they might
say that they just cannot control, convey, or express some of these such as facial expressions, eye
contact, or voice tone, but according to a study only 7% percent of all communication are only
words, 38% are vocal elements, and 55% are nonverbal elements (GoodTherapy, 2016).
Nonverbal communication codes are very important since they cover over half of the
human communication elements. Each of the nine codes oversees a specific factor. Appearance
covers everything that is linked to the way a person looks such as their clothing, jewelry, hats,
the perfume they might use, or if they don’t use at all, makeup, and tattoos, among many other
elements related to all these. Kinesics would be all types of body movements and postures of the
person. This is important so the receiver or person who is trying to decode what the sender is
trying to say or express such as if they are interested or not, and their attitudes. This could also be
seen as body language. Eye contact helps the sender to express honesty, safety, and trust so the
receiver can believe what they are hearing through their verbal communication and what they are
seeing through their nonverbal codes. When it comes to facial expressions, these express certain
emotions such as if the sender is angry, mad, sad, and happy, among many others. Touch is to
convey that there exists either some type of affection or rejection towards the receiver. Voice
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helps to communicate and express too certain emotions and if the message has a specific
meaning. Some factors influence the meaning such as pitch, volume, if the sender stutter, or if
they are secure in what they are saying, and rate. Environment would give either a better and
correct or wrong meaning to the message. Then there is space and territory. These two are similar
since when it comes to space it helps the sender to express and convey some type of status. On
the other hand, territory helps to provide the occupancy of space (Riggio R., 2017).
sender, I think that a few years ago they weren’t as expressive as they are now that I am older.
And when I am the receiver, I also think that I can identify them with more ease. When I am the
sender, I say that now that I have grown up more it is easier for me to express my nonverbal
communication codes, especially on my facial expressions because for many years many friends
and family members told me that I wasn’t so expressive and that I didn’t have any type of facial
expressions regardless of the situation unless I was very happy, very sad, or very angry. I felt
somehow sad because of those comments because I thought that I was doing too many facial
expressions. When I started to grow up more and when I started majoring in psychology and
learning that it is very important to share and express emotions in many ways possible, it was
then that I could finally start being more expressive and now people could notice and understand
better the message I was trying to convey. And when I am the receiver, I also think that now that
I have grown up more as mentioned, I can identify more nonverbal communication codes such as
facial expressions easily because have in mind that as a psychologist I must identify certain
aspects of behavior therefore, I pay more attention now to what people are trying to convey and I
can identify those nonverbal expressions more. Personally, think that everyone needs to be able
to express themselves with all of these codes/factors because most of the time the receivers
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cannot properly understand the message that the sender is trying to explain and or convey
therefore, there could be many problems with that message. Such as when it comes to a romantic
relationship. If those two people are in a situation where they might need to have a serious talk
for them to talk to clarify some things, they both are going to need to have a great ability to be
the sender and the receiver. This is so both persons can express their own emotions and thoughts
properly as well as so they both can hear and pay attention to the sender so they can properly
have a similar sight of the problem (Keiling H., 2023), understand the message, and solve the
References
https://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/psychpedia/nonverbal-
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Keiling H. (2023). 9 Types of nonverbal communication and how to understand them. Indeed.
https://www.indeed.com/career-advice/career-development/nonverbal-communication-
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